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By *.justme OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Is it just me who’s hopeless with women. I don’t think I’m boring in fact most people want to know me cause I’m fun and a bit of a dare devil. I don’t think I’m ugly cause I’ve been in relationships with some beautiful women. What can it be just seem to be getting nowhere in general not just on here. Anyone help

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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If messaging people on here isn't working for you try attending socials or clubs, There was a fab Birmingham social a few months ago and more then one club in your area, The more you get your face noticed the more chance of getting meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your less interesting than you think? Happened to me a while back..thought I was all interesting and that..apparently not though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hurrah another £1 for me

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By *.justme OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

I will have to try a social. I know I’m not very intrsting I have strange hobby’s. It’s just you hear throughout social media I want a man who’s got his own house got his own money not boring. Well I have all of that and all payed for and still no interest

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I've just read your profile (marshmallow proves that)

It doesn't mention your hobbies, yet I'd be well interested to know what they are.

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By *.justme OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I've just read your profile (marshmallow proves that)

It doesn't mention your hobbies, yet I'd be well interested to know what they are."

Thank you

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile. "

Doesn't seem to bother anyone (barring in the forums..they always say it's a no no for some reason)

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Your smoking may not help.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

To me, and this is my world, if you less focus on sex and more on the person, one will follow the other.

Then say, ‘fuck it’ and go to a club anyway.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile. "

Yeah that may put some women off as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile. "

This Instant turn off for me.

Yes we know we all have sex with others but no need to advertise the fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

Yeah that may put some women off as well."

But it attracts others...checks and balances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 cock pics!!

No thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the hobbies?...

Hope it's not taxidermy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of your pictures show you hanging out of a bird. You're not part of a couple and I assume you're looking to attract single females.

Speaking as a single female the number one thing that puts me off guys pictures is seeing them hanging out of a woman. I and most other women will not be turned on by seeing action shots.

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By *.justme OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Taking in a lot of your advice will make some changes to my profile. For sure

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote


"Your smoking may not help."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me, and this is my world, if you less focus on sex and more on the person, one will follow the other.

Then say, ‘fuck it’ and go to a club anyway."

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

Yeah that may put some women off as well.

But it attracts others...checks and balances "

Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's

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By *.justme OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

Yeah that may put some women off as well.

But it attracts others...checks and balances

Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's "

I’ve removed all the pictures now probably a stupid move on my behalf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reads better andbetter pics x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I'd get rid of the boring life header as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

Yeah that may put some women off as well.

But it attracts others...checks and balances

Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's "

I'm not jealous I just don't like bragging by photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

Yeah that may put some women off as well.

But it attracts others...checks and balances

Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's "

I find some do like it, i guess some don't because I just won't have heard from those people who look and don't like my profile but I like to take pictures, I like people seeing them so it makes that known and acts as it's own sort of filter in a way..I feel I'm more likely to get on with folk who like my profile...those are my thoughts anyhow

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

Yeah that may put some women off as well.

But it attracts others...checks and balances

Very true,I have a +1 on one of mine,it may be different for guy's though. We're allowed to show ourselves having sex with men,but you men can't do it because we're jealous soul's

I'm not jealous I just don't like bragging by photos "

I'm only messing,but I bet there is a bit of truth in there. Well not jealous that's probably the wrong word actually,just more that someone may not live up to the people they've previously shagged,I know I can be like that a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your helmet also looks like you've been masturbating with sandpaper, I'd stop that if I were you

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

After reading all of the supposed help, maybe death by wanking with sandpaper oh am taking nob shots off, oh and giving up your lifestyle of smoking and then just maybe then, a tv will get incontact and ask why your not gay. Just be you and no one else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t sweat it too much pal, just be yourself.

Obviously haven’t met the right girl yet.

Oh, and just for your own personal view of yourself.... the vast majority of the people on here chatting shit aren’t very interesting, hence they’re on here instead of interacting in the real world !

(Us included)

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

It's not easy

Even with a killer profile and stunning pictures I'm still only smashing 5 or 6 a week.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"After reading all of the supposed help, maybe death by wanking with sandpaper oh am taking nob shots off, oh and giving up your lifestyle of smoking and then just maybe then, a tv will get incontact and ask why your not gay. Just be you and no one else!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are already ahead of most guys when you identify boring as a problem.

I think most ladies are here for fun. They say "fun". We read "sex". But when they say fun they really mean fun.

If you can demonstrate that you can be fun the first time you contact them then it always helps.

I think you got good advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your less interesting than you think? Happened to me a while back..thought I was all interesting and that..apparently not though "

I think that's a good point. We've got loads of tales and interests, but only those who like those things are going to want to know about them. We're all a little boring to someone, and attractive to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I would never put pictures of me with a +1 on a single profile.

Yeah that may put some women off as well.

But it attracts others...checks and balances "

It depends on the others you are trying to attract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of your pictures show you hanging out of a bird. You're not part of a couple and I assume you're looking to attract single females.

Speaking as a single female the number one thing that puts me off guys pictures is seeing them hanging out of a woman. I and most other women will not be turned on by seeing action shots. "

Completely agree

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