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"In a lot of cases it's not just a days pay. Some companies scare you into work by threats of disciplinary procedures for taking sick days. " This is very true.Its why I joined a Union as I find them very helpful in these circumstances. | |||
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"In a lot of cases it's not just a days pay. Some companies scare you into work by threats of disciplinary procedures for taking sick days. " In my place of work you’re expected to go in unless you’re physically incapable of standing upright. It’s the same in many minimum wage jobs. X | |||
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"Many companies have very strict rules with regards to sickness absences with trigger points which lead to disciplinary hearings that then stay on the employees record for a certain timescale. The winter will see us all catch colds etc and although the idea of staying off work to recover is good, the lack of pay combined with company policies will often mean that ill people are coming into work when they should be at home." True.Ive seen this at a certain well known supermarket.A cashier shaking with flu like symptoms and another using a walking stick whilst wandering the aisles checking produce.Its a sorry state of affairs when people are too scared to take a day off. | |||
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"In a lot of cases it's not just a days pay. Some companies scare you into work by threats of disciplinary procedures for taking sick days. This is very true.Its why I joined a Union as I find them very helpful in these circumstances." Many years ago I was working for a university who decided to take me down the disciplinary route for absences due to recurrent miscarriages. My union didn’t want to know, they were a complete waste of time! I attended the meeting alone. There were 4 managers from the university there, one of whom was the head of HR. I reminded them that taking any kind of disciplinary action against a female for having time off sick for pregnancy related issues is illegal and requested that they remove it from my employment records immediately. I was asked to wait outside for five minutes and when I was called back in I received an apology for all the stress that had been caused. When I got home I phoned my union and cancelled my membership, taking great pleasure in telling them what a bunch of twunts they were. | |||
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"It's not illigal to have a day off. Just take a day off, or even two. I'd rather someone want to be in work at 100 percent than them feel like they 'have to be there'. " Oh can I come and work for you? ![]() | |||
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"When Mrs N gets hit with a migraine attack, she has to be physically ![]() You have my sympathies.Ive woken up with a migraine on occasion and they are debilitating.Stress (ie feeling obliged to go into work)will make the situation worse! | |||
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"I work with food and one general manager told me i was expected in even tho i had been sick the night before. Took 72 hours off then handed in my notice in. I guess working with the elderly or children would mean even having a cold is gonna be a risk. I work 12 hour shifts with the elderly.I work 3 in a row and sometimes only get one day off before I do another 2 or 3.If I feel ill I will take a day off as to do my job you need to be at least 90% fit and healthy! " | |||
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"I do understand that people are concerned about forfeiting a days pay (a lot of Companies only pay SSP),but going into work when you are coughing and sneezing and even having upset stomachs is surely inconsiderate of others especially if you work in the Care Sector looking after the vulnerable or in a small office?Not only contaminating others with your germs but doing a dying swan act to evoke sympathy and not actually doing any work!!Opinions please!" I'm a minimum wage pleb, at a factory no less, and I can't afford days off due to illness. If I don't turn up at work, I really am ill | |||
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"In a lot of cases it's not just a days pay. Some companies scare you into work by threats of disciplinary procedures for taking sick days. " Exactly. Mine is one of them. If anyone has three days sick in any twelve month period, for whatever reason, it triggers a disciplinary process. | |||
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"I do understand that people are concerned about forfeiting a days pay (a lot of Companies only pay SSP),but going into work when you are coughing and sneezing and even having upset stomachs is surely inconsiderate of others especially if you work in the Care Sector looking after the vulnerable or in a small office?Not only contaminating others with your germs but doing a dying swan act to evoke sympathy and not actually doing any work!!Opinions please!" Yes does my head in. When I'm ill, I'm home. Don't come in with your germs. | |||
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"Where I work you get no pay for the 1st 4 days then SSP of £89 a week! I'd have to be dying to be off work sadly. I can't afford not me unless I'm told to go home. " I think mine is similar to that, I've known people not receiving a penny after having two or three days off in a row. So, not only are these companies not recognising that we're not all androids and we do occasionally fall ill, they're actively encouraging us to attend work ill. Idiots ![]() | |||
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"Where I work you get no pay for the 1st 4 days then SSP of £89 a week! I'd have to be dying to be off work sadly. I can't afford not me unless I'm told to go home. I think mine is similar to that, I've known people not receiving a penny after having two or three days off in a row. So, not only are these companies not recognising that we're not all androids and we do occasionally fall ill, they're actively encouraging us to attend work ill. Idiots ![]() I've used holiday in the past rather than lose money. Now my previous employer was amazing full pay from day 1 and full sickness paid for a whole year. | |||
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"Most people don't go to work ill through choice. I work for a supermarket and they have a very strict absence policy. If you have three periods of absence through illness in a rolling 12 months you are subject to disciplinary proceedings. The only reason I've not had a disciplinary is because out of my 3 periods of absence 2 were caused by a long term health condition that I made them aware of before I got the job. I am covered under the equality act as a disabled person so they cannot take any absence caused by my condition into account. " Do you get SSP or does your employer still pay your salary if you are off? | |||
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"Most people don't go to work ill through choice. I work for a supermarket and they have a very strict absence policy. If you have three periods of absence through illness in a rolling 12 months you are subject to disciplinary proceedings. The only reason I've not had a disciplinary is because out of my 3 periods of absence 2 were caused by a long term health condition that I made them aware of before I got the job. I am covered under the equality act as a disabled person so they cannot take any absence caused by my condition into account. Do you get SSP or does your employer still pay your salary if you are off?" You don't get paid for the first 3 days. Then you get full pay for 6 months if you are off that long. I am not entitled to SSP because I don't earn enough. I only work 12 hours a week because I'm a full time carer for my mum. I go to work for a rest! | |||
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"Most people don't go to work ill through choice. I work for a supermarket and they have a very strict absence policy. If you have three periods of absence through illness in a rolling 12 months you are subject to disciplinary proceedings. The only reason I've not had a disciplinary is because out of my 3 periods of absence 2 were caused by a long term health condition that I made them aware of before I got the job. I am covered under the equality act as a disabled person so they cannot take any absence caused by my condition into account. Do you get SSP or does your employer still pay your salary if you are off? You don't get paid for the first 3 days. Then you get full pay for 6 months if you are off that long. I am not entitled to SSP because I don't earn enough. I only work 12 hours a week because I'm a full time carer for my mum. I go to work for a rest!" Oh bless you.My employers just pay SSP.I used to work for a Company that paid full wages but it was literally sat under a light bulb interrogation techniques if you had any time off! | |||
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"Many companies have very strict rules with regards to sickness absences with trigger points which lead to disciplinary hearings that then stay on the employees record for a certain timescale. The winter will see us all catch colds etc and although the idea of staying off work to recover is good, the lack of pay combined with company policies will often mean that ill people are coming into work when they should be at home." This is true im a supervisor but it may trigger disaplinaries but that does not mean any action will be taken its procedures we have to follow i have often gave no action in disciplinary when they have shown they were ill and did everything they could to get better because I'm a nice supervisor lol and like to look after my workers x | |||
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"My son is currently quite unwell with flu, his boss expects him to come into work no matter what. He has gone to work, he doesn't want to be fired. " Its awful that people are feeling/treated like this in this day and age.We are going back to a Victorian Workhouse mentality. | |||
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"My son is currently quite unwell with flu, his boss expects him to come into work no matter what. He has gone to work, he doesn't want to be fired. " A lot of it is companies hire extra staff to cope with the high demand and they are always pulling sickies ive had people go home with headache and you can tell its clearly not true it cost companies a lot of money to train them I had 12 ppl off in 1 shift it crucified us and made it harder for other workers having to cover for ppl off who arnt really poorly | |||
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"My son is currently quite unwell with flu, his boss expects him to come into work no matter what. He has gone to work, he doesn't want to be fired. A lot of it is companies hire extra staff to cope with the high demand and they are always pulling sickies ive had people go home with headache and you can tell its clearly not true it cost companies a lot of money to train them I had 12 ppl off in 1 shift it crucified us and made it harder for other workers having to cover for ppl off who arnt really poorly " A catch 22 situation.Short staffing is par for the course were I work especially at the weekends.The staff who turn in spend 12 hour shifts running themselves ragged and then become ill themselves! | |||
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"We need improved employment rights for all, including the cover for sickness. It is antisocial for organizations to provide a framework that encourages staff to be present when they are unwell and especially so if they have an infection that other people can catch. I encounter lots of shop staff who have colds etc who are constantly touching items that other staff and customers touch, for example. Employers should be thoroughly ashamed for creating an environment where people are pressured financially or otherwise into attendance when rest would be the socially responsible approach for the affected individuals." I couldn't have put it better myself! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"My son is currently quite unwell with flu, his boss expects him to come into work no matter what. He has gone to work, he doesn't want to be fired. A lot of it is companies hire extra staff to cope with the high demand and they are always pulling sickies ive had people go home with headache and you can tell its clearly not true it cost companies a lot of money to train them I had 12 ppl off in 1 shift it crucified us and made it harder for other workers having to cover for ppl off who arnt really poorly A catch 22 situation.Short staffing is par for the course were I work especially at the weekends.The staff who turn in spend 12 hour shifts running themselves ragged and then become ill themselves!" Exactly and Xmas is a busy time of year and cold hence why i try to be sympathetic towards my workers and firm on the ones I know are lying x | |||
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"I know some abusers have given the sick day a bad name, but my son's company sent him home refused to let him work then gave him a disciplinary warning for excess sick days... It's time that companies were forced into honouring illness and if you have to go in there should be quarantine areas to work in ![]() As ive said previously we are back in a Victorian Workhouse mentality.Surely its easy to see that happy healthy staff create a more productive workplace! | |||
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"I know some abusers have given the sick day a bad name, but my son's company sent him home refused to let him work then gave him a disciplinary warning for excess sick days... It's time that companies were forced into honouring illness and if you have to go in there should be quarantine areas to work in ![]() he should argue that if they gave him warning on file when they sent him home x | |||
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"I know some abusers have given the sick day a bad name, but my son's company sent him home refused to let him work then gave him a disciplinary warning for excess sick days... It's time that companies were forced into honouring illness and if you have to go in there should be quarantine areas to work in ![]() He did, no union, no workers rights anymore ![]() | |||
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"My work place encourages staff and children to go in when ill, hence spreading their germs. Which i then catch causing me to keep getting chest infections and needing several courses of antibiotics, several courses of steriod tablets plus increased inhalers (im asthmatic) etc and emergency doc appointments and nebilisers, lots of time of work very ill and struggling to breathe. Then disciplined for time off. It would improve if people stayed off plus the workplace had tissues (for the children) hot water and soap plus antibac gel to use after blowing noses etc. I frequently provide tissues, soap and hand gel (i cant provide hot water) to try to kill the germs off. I eat well and try my best to avoid being off. Its no fun struggling to breathe and feeling so crap ![]() I'm presuming its a school?No hot water? | |||
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"My work place encourages staff and children to go in when ill, hence spreading their germs. Which i then catch causing me to keep getting chest infections and needing several courses of antibiotics, several courses of steriod tablets plus increased inhalers (im asthmatic) etc and emergency doc appointments and nebilisers, lots of time of work very ill and struggling to breathe. Then disciplined for time off. It would improve if people stayed off plus the workplace had tissues (for the children) hot water and soap plus antibac gel to use after blowing noses etc. I frequently provide tissues, soap and hand gel (i cant provide hot water) to try to kill the germs off. I eat well and try my best to avoid being off. Its no fun struggling to breathe and feeling so crap ![]() Nursery and various clubs. No hot water to wash hands in in the main area. It should be controlled temp water. Its cold. The soap is often watered down. Often no tissues or paper towels. Nor antibac hand gel. | |||
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"My personal rule is if I can drive, I can work. I just dose myself up with tablets, crack on and enjoy the fact that most people avoid my office like it’s a plague house until I feel better. " Sadly for me that doesnt work. I would end up in hospital as an emergency if i tried to work. Breathing is fairly important ![]() | |||
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