FabSwingers.com forum: A Confidante

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have anyone you talk to about your swinging exploits? How detailed do you go?

I'm guessing it's a bit different for couples as you have each other but do you tell friends too? Just for a different perspective or to share experiences?

I realised recently I seem to have become a listener. I hear a lot of naughty secrets and know some people's sex lives quite intimately!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

My housemate and swinging friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a best friend on here who was one of the corrupters into my journey and a guy friend I met on here who I can talk to. I love it I love how I can talk about anything at all sexual or emotional and not be judged

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By *exymidscouple2017Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Do you have anyone you talk to about your swinging exploits? How detailed do you go?

I'm guessing it's a bit different for couples as you have each other but do you tell friends too? Just for a different perspective or to share experiences?

I realised recently I seem to have become a listener. I hear a lot of naughty secrets and know some people's sex lives quite intimately! "

No one in our vanilla world knows about this side of us. I don't think they'll approve or be able to handle it.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Think i've just lost mine from fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have one but would like one if there are any volunteers out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of our friends know about this. Sometimes it would be nice to talk to other people about things but at least we have each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I talk to my priest during confession!

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

I have a friend at work who knows what I get up to. Her brother, who she is very close to, is on the scene but more into fet stuff so she likes that she can talk to me about him and I don’t judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rs C and Mr CCouple
over a year ago

North East

No-one who knows us would ever imagine that we would be doing this... sweet, innocent, nice, prim & proper Mrs C... if only they knew!

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By *-Little-Mz-Minx-xWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I have a very close group of friends on here that I have known for 6 years... I have experienced a lot with them...at clubs and so forth.... and a few that I have known for a year....I trust them implicitly.... and tell them everything

... well almost lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly not, only my hubby and people I talk to and have met on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no secrets from anyone.I tell everyone everything,so much so that they probably wish I would just shut up and go away sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The priest at my church.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't talk about my CD side a lot but have had 2 decades of swinging in many scenes with ex-wife and g/f's so pretty much it's easy to know they guess I dip my 'toe' into XD... and am not bothered really if they find out as what they ganna do !

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes, a very good friend of mine who I met on here. We don't go in to the ins and outs but we do talk about some things safety wise (and really really really good/disappointing meets!).

My partner and I speak about things (who we are interested in etc) but not what goes on in our meets - I found it a bit

when I was single and meeting people so wouldn't want to do it to others.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" I found it a bit

when I was single and meeting people so wouldn't want to do it to others. "

I think that's what was going through my head a bit too. I wonder if people talk about meeting me?!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

" I found it a bit

when I was single and meeting people so wouldn't want to do it to others.

I think that's what was going through my head a bit too. I wonder if people talk about meeting me?! "

Hopefully not/possibly/probably!

It just depends on the person and their circumstances. It's a minefield at times.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

No. Nobody knows, my personal life is my own and nobody else's business.

Anyway it would probably just cause problems if anyone did.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Everyone knows in my life - even my mum. I’d purely hate for anyone to catch me out with a partner and assume I was cheating on my other half.

To actually talk about...only a couple of friends. Amazingly my colleagues don’t want to hear all the gory details about who I did last night. Sorry, what I did last night...

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I have a late night kik buddy who's lovely. We can say anything, offload, share, help, bitch all without judgement. She's ace!

I also have 2 female buddies and we have a 3 way chat. Wider than swinging, we can share anything and they'll always be there for me.

I'm very lucky to have such great friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really talk to anyone about anything these days. Best way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a listener not a talker

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Nope .._unkie nae mates ..well apart from Mrs _unkie

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Nope .._unkie nae mates ..well apart from Mrs _unkie

Plus I wouldn't discuss my meets with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Daryl

but apart from that, no one knows

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Nah I don't tell anyone I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell my best friend. I also tell her where i go etc for safety. Her and her partner are kinky as fuck ( non swingers) so i get no judgment xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have someone outside my family that I have confided in a lot over the last year. I don't find it easy to discuss things face to face with people so it's nice to have an anonymous 'friend' to unburden on.(we've never met) I'm a good listener so I do reciprocate too. I don't think I'd discuss swinging details though, unless it was with the person I'd met, as I don't think I'd really like to be discussed either

"Oh I remember her yes, she's a crap shag etc"

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I'll tell anyone who asks. I'm not into anything super strange.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised sometimes at the things people tell me but perhaps it because they know they can trust me never to repeat it.

I've always been a little self contained though and never talk to anyone about this part of my life or many other things that maybe I should. But then I wonder if burdening others with my problems is a good thing or indeed if I could trust another person enough to tell them my innermost me.

Maybe it's something I need to change, maybe it's something that just evolves. I don't really know which it may be but the idea of that level of trust with another person...who knows one day I may find it or it may find me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my best friend. He knows everything about me (without the full details!) he has access to my phones, my house, safe, bank accounts. In the event that I’m involved in an accident or such things he is responsible for ensuring everything remains private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady friend. We don't go into the gory details but talk about our experiences occasionally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!

Good to have you back Rubi

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm most definitely a listener and gatherer of chatter but also very very open about our lifestyle and choices! My family have their ideas but haven't asked and most of my friends know either through me talking or them guessing! Apparently they wouldn't expect anything else haha!

Good to have you back Rubi

Peach x"

Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!

I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Odd, I always ask for a safe place for others, a confidant, me I have none.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Three of my closest friends know, and two of them I let them know details of where I’m going and check in with them. But I don’t discuss the finer details, they ask if I’ve had a good time and we leave it there.

Oh and I have a fab friend who I discussed an issue with, that I had on a recent meet. So that’s probably the most detail I’ve ever gone in to about a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to have you back Rubi

Peach x

Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!

I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well

Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to have you back Rubi

Peach x

Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!

I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well

Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...

Peach x

I wonder why x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to have you back Rubi

Peach x

Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!

I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well

Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...

Peach x

I wonder why x

Cheeky

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to have you back Rubi

Peach x

Thank you. I missed your naughty ways!

I think if I told anyone in my "real life" they wouldn't believe me. I think I play innocent too well

Nobody ever believes I'm innocent...

Peach x

I wonder why x

Cheeky

Peach x"

You look innocent, you act innocent. People really must get the wrong end of the stick.

I'd like to give you the wrong end of the stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I don't trust anybody off this site anymore to talk about anything to do with my meets. Too many Chinese whispers and fakes.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

My bestie knows everything! There's a lass at work egos starting to get to know more.

XY wishes he had a bloke friend he could talk to about this.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"My bestie knows everything! There's a lass at work egos starting to get to know more.

XY wishes he had a bloke friend he could talk to about this. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best male friend on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a chum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but would love one

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By *atsun xxxMan
over a year ago

Nr LOUTH Lincolnshire

Unfortunately not

But I am a very good listener

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm a very private person. I don't feel the need to discuss my sex life with others in any detail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my friend Tam I met at a party and MrDoublehunbon has me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody outside of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. I wouldn't give someone that power over me.

It's all fine and dandy when things are going great when everyone is getting on. But, as i've seen on Fab, things can go tits up quite quickly and i don't want my Fab life used against me by some malicious twit with an axe to grind.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have one she’s my best friend. She’s the only person that knows. She’s also on here so I love to hear here stories of woe too.

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

i am extremly picky with my friends- so the ones I do have are real friends and know about what I am up to. as much as they want to- if they ask for details they get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few ladies discuss their experiences and exploits with me on here. We have quite a laugh and reflect on the human condition.

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By *ewbie1972Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

"Do you have anyone you talk to about your swinging exploits? How detailed do you go?

I'm guessing it's a bit different for couples as you have each other but do you tell friends too? Just for a different perspective or to share experiences?

I realised recently I seem to have become a listener. I hear a lot of naughty secrets and know some people's sex lives quite intimately! "

Yes I think that it’s good that people do ..... I think that I have and thankful too - they know who they are xxx

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"My housemate and swinging friends."

You

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