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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve had more people look at me since making all my photos private

what’s that about?! Thought it would put guys off

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. Ask the guys that look why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*looks*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No idea. Ask the guys that look why? "

Im just making conversation. I’m not that bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allure

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

It's probably people who have hotlisted you etc, then they notice the profile pic is gone so have a wee nosey to see if anything else has changed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*looks*

Haha perv! Although there’s nothibg to perv at

I’ll pm you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's probably people who have hotlisted you etc, then they notice the profile pic is gone so have a wee nosey to see if anything else has changed "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea. Ask the guys that look why?

Im just making conversation. I’m not that bothered"

I wasn't suggesting you were.

My only guess is that if they see from an avatar that they might not be attracted to you then they look no further. If they see a silhouette, they're more inclined to 'do a little digging' to see if you'd be the kind of person they're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Allure"

Surely it’s just boring now

I guess they might think how does someone with no pics have so many veris (#socialwhore!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve had more people look at me since making all my photos private

what’s that about?! Thought it would put guys off

Thoughts? "

Did you have a profile picture too?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's probably people who have hotlisted you etc, then they notice the profile pic is gone so have a wee nosey to see if anything else has changed "

I didn’t think of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because there's every chance that you are stunning. They can't tell one way or the other. People's imaginations are very powerful. You can be whatever they want you to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ve had more people look at me since making all my photos private

what’s that about?! Thought it would put guys off

Thoughts?

Did you have a profile picture too?"

Yeah but made that private too so just black now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Allure"

For men.

Calvin Klein.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*looks*

Haha perv! Although there’s nothibg to perv at

I’ll pm you

Sometimes the imagination fills in the missing gape heehee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No idea. Ask the guys that look why?

Im just making conversation. I’m not that bothered

I wasn't suggesting you were.

Ooooohhhhh I guess yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Allure

For men.

Calvin Klein."

Chanel darling it’s gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*looks*

Haha perv! Although there’s nothibg to perv at

I’ll pm you

Sometimes the imagination fills in the missing gape heehee

Ok I won’t bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*looks*

Haha perv! Although there’s nothibg to perv at

I’ll pm you

Sometimes the imagination fills in the missing gape heehee

Ok I won’t bother

Did I just talk myself out of pictures? Dagnabbit _

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because there's every chance that you are stunning. They can't tell one way or the other. People's imaginations are very powerful. You can be whatever they want you to be.

This I reckon.

I get more attention when my profile is really bare.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*looks*

Haha perv! Although there’s nothibg to perv at

I’ll pm you

Sometimes the imagination fills in the missing gape heehee

Ok I won’t bother

Did I just talk myself out of pictures? Dagnabbit _"

Yep! Although like you said the imagination is better!

Who’s your celebrity crush and I’ll say I look like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because there's every chance that you are stunning. They can't tell one way or the other. People's imaginations are very powerful. You can be whatever they want you to be.

This I reckon.

I get more attention when my profile is really bare."

Ahh ok

I love you profile pic

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d never thought of this - what a curiously strange social experiment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*looks*

Haha perv! Although there’s nothibg to perv at

I’ll pm you

Sometimes the imagination fills in the missing gape heehee

Ok I won’t bother

Did I just talk myself out of pictures? Dagnabbit _

Yep! Although like you said the imagination is better!

Who’s your celebrity crush and I’ll say I look like that

Hmmm...my celebrity crush is probably Isla Fisher.

The celebrity I'd like to see crushed is Piers Morgan though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d never thought of this - what a curiously strange social experiment!"

I genuinely didn’t want any attention for a while but thought I’ll leave the text as no one reads that anyway rather than hide completely but yeah opposite had happened

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*looks*

Haha perv! Although there’s nothibg to perv at

I’ll pm you

Sometimes the imagination fills in the missing gape heehee

Ok I won’t bother

Did I just talk myself out of pictures? Dagnabbit _

Yep! Although like you said the imagination is better!

Who’s your celebrity crush and I’ll say I look like that

Hmmm...my celebrity crush is probably Isla Fisher.

The celebrity I'd like to see crushed is Piers Morgan though

Yeah I could crush Piers Morgan with my big bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because there's every chance that you are stunning. They can't tell one way or the other. People's imaginations are very powerful. You can be whatever they want you to be.

This I reckon.

I get more attention when my profile is really bare.

Ahh ok

I love you profile pic

Thank you.

Delete 'men' off your looking for list. It takes you off the searches. Reduces mail loads but you'll still appear on who's online searches. And via forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d never thought of this - what a curiously strange social experiment!

I genuinely didn’t want any attention for a while but thought I’ll leave the text as no one reads that anyway rather than hide completely but yeah opposite had happened "

Remove all your interests and what your looking for. If you genuinely don't want any attention.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because there's every chance that you are stunning. They can't tell one way or the other. People's imaginations are very powerful. You can be whatever they want you to be.

This I reckon.

I get more attention when my profile is really bare.

Ahh ok

I love you profile pic

Thank you.

Delete 'men' off your looking for list. It takes you off the searches. Reduces mail loads but you'll still appear on who's online searches. And via forum posts. "

I love men though haha

Surely there has to be just 1 who gets me?! I logged on this morning at 5am and 7,000 people on here, clicked on women online 178!!! I knew the ratios were high but not that high.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d never thought of this - what a curiously strange social experiment!

I genuinely didn’t want any attention for a while but thought I’ll leave the text as no one reads that anyway rather than hide completely but yeah opposite had happened

Remove all your interests and what your looking for. If you genuinely don't want any attention. "

Thank you. I think I’m over the no attention at all but happy to keep pics hidden as I’m not getting the “fancy a fuck messages”

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So update.... I’m sure you don’t card but I’ll let you know anyway

The amount of friends requests have been reduced. I don’t get random ones now

People are having to read my profile and I’ve made some genuine contacts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*looks again just because*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have most of my filters set

But still getting alot of messages (more than I usually get)

Lots look .....some I see and think it would be nice if they'd message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think that was anything to do with your post lol

sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have most of my filters set

But still getting alot of messages (more than I usually get)

Lots look .....some I see and think it would be nice if they'd message

Yeah I get that too, I guess because they can’t see what I look like they choose not to message or they don’t like what’s in my profile. I’ve winked a couple and messaged it’s funny some reply and say they’ve never had a message of a girl first only replies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*looks again just because*

Haha. What are you hoping to see?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"I’ve had more people look at me since making all my photos private

what’s that about?! Thought it would put guys off

Thoughts? "

There must be a lot of people with a silhouette fetish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*looks again just because*

Haha. What are you hoping to see?

Nothing in particular, just bumping up the view count

In all seriousness though, I get your point about removing pictures also removing the men who just want to perv - I think with my penis at times (well, of course being a bloke) so it's refreshing to read a profile rather than just perv on pictures. Well, I perv on pictures as well as reading the profile, but you know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*looks again just because*

Haha. What are you hoping to see?

Nothing in particular, just bumping up the view count

Well it definitely puts those unworthy off haha

I remember now we established you like tiny red heads I’m the complete opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*looks again just because*

Haha. What are you hoping to see?

Nothing in particular, just bumping up the view count

Well it definitely puts those unworthy off haha

I remember now we established you like tiny red heads I’m the complete opposite"

Well, a tiny redhead would be my ultimate dream woman, but that doesn't mean that's all I look for! I mean, beggars can't be choosers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"*looks again just because*

Haha. What are you hoping to see?

Nothing in particular, just bumping up the view count

Well it definitely puts those unworthy off haha

I remember now we established you like tiny red heads I’m the complete opposite

Well, a tiny redhead would be my ultimate dream woman, but that doesn't mean that's all I look for! I mean, beggars can't be choosers

And I've just realised how bad that sounds, and now I'm paranoid...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*looks again just because*

Haha. What are you hoping to see?

Nothing in particular, just bumping up the view count

Well it definitely puts those unworthy off haha

I remember now we established you like tiny red heads I’m the complete opposite

Well, a tiny redhead would be my ultimate dream woman, but that doesn't mean that's all I look for! I mean, beggars can't be choosers

And I've just realised how bad that sounds, and now I'm paranoid...

Haha yep it does sound very bad lol

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