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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just noticed that when posting a meet you get however many views and fabs winks messages etc.

But for once i thought okay will be more honest and post a meet that we will meet have chat drinks etc maybe more if everyone clicks but also put that never garauntee any play as wouldn't know that until we have met chatted etc.

And then noticed how the winks etc have been a lot fewer so this leads me to believe that in majority of instances(not saying everyone) they look at people as a piece of meat nothing more and expect you to just get naked and open your legs which for us is a no as we prefer more of a connection if that makes sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done both but by far those that are best for us are where nothing feels 'guaranteed' and when you meet and flirt a desire is genuinely there.

Pity you're a bit of a trek away but after the new year maybe get together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many (most?) just want a fuck. Some want a connection.

Neither are wrong, do what makes *you* happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many (most?) just want a fuck. Some want a connection.

Neither are wrong, do what makes *you* happy. "

Most are not looking for a long term friend

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Many (most?) just want a fuck. Some want a connection.

Neither are wrong, do what makes *you* happy.

Most are not looking for a long term friend "

And that's directed at both sexes

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

We always meet socially first so that we can see if there is s connection between us all.

Mr2

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have posted a 'social only' meet before, I had loads of looks etc but no takers, so yes, sex has to be guaranteed which I would never do if I have never met them before, as I need a form of connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just noticed that when posting a meet you get however many views and fabs winks messages etc.

But for once i thought okay will be more honest and post a meet that we will meet have chat drinks etc maybe more if everyone clicks but also put that never garauntee any play as wouldn't know that until we have met chatted etc.

And then noticed how the winks etc have been a lot fewer so this leads me to believe that in majority of instances(not saying everyone) they look at people as a piece of meat nothing more and expect you to just get naked and open your legs which for us is a no as we prefer more of a connection if that makes sense lol"

i find people dont read meet listings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have posted social only meets and it made no difference whatsoever to my views winks or messages.

But then, I'm a bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men do think like that, that’s what pisses me off about this site and then I get told I’m not a swinger or I’m highly strung!

Bloody annoying - apologies rant over

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

That's the type of meet we like as we don't want any pressure but we find that posting a meet rarely gets genuine responses anyway. Emailing those we wish to meet works better.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Makes no difference what type of meet we put up we never get responses .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many (most?) just want a fuck. Some want a connection.

Neither are wrong, do what makes *you* happy.

Most are not looking for a long term friend

And that's directed at both sexes "

Most definitely!

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Makes no difference what type of meet we put up we never get responses ."

Yeah right ha. That's a liev

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

OP. Does your profile need updating. It seems out of date compared to your veries and veri summary.

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