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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant give you profile advice as you havent asked

but all i will say. is you make the effort and it will show

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By *offee and Cream 2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Loughborough

No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't know what the point is to be honest.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? "

I have no idea why that would be, as if you were local to me I would at least send a wink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! "
cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Was just thinking "Don't tell me, let me guess, the shop window is empty...". Yep, pretty much.

Effort in = more chance of better results.

There are loads of posts asking for help. They have loads of good advice on them regarding the things you can do using the tools available to you to make yourself stand out more. It may be worth you searching and trying a few out...

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By *addys_Little_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

London


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics "

But you expect them to accommodate you????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And before you all say make an effort in your profile i have tried it makes no diff all i get is gays offering me blow jobs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

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a hotel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? "
Maybe sort out your profile do a search on profile advice tbh i would pass you buy with your lack of profile although love the body show it off more xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point?

I have no idea why that would be, as if you were local to me I would at least send a wink "
then see a face pic and block me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to sell yourself. (Not literally) your profile needs to say why ladies should pick you out of tbe thousands of others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics "

The swingers use this and go to events.

Because of the best quantity of penis wankers you are just 1 penis in a sea of penis

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By *addys_Little_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

London


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

a hotel?"

Would that not class as providing accommodation......?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again as above can’t give advice on profile without you asking for it but remember it’s your advertisement, if I was meeting I would skip as it tells me nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? Maybe sort out your profile do a search on profile advice tbh i would pass you buy with your lack of profile although love the body show it off more xx"
it just attacts the attention if morr gay men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!"
wondering why myself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block males from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yah....

Sell yourself in everything about you...

Except sex and penis...

They want to know what makes you different.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? Maybe sort out your profile do a search on profile advice tbh i would pass you buy with your lack of profile although love the body show it off more xx it just attacts the attention if morr gay men"

You can block single guys from messaging you. Then you can "sell" yourself as someone worth meeting to women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

a hotel?"
lol Sorry you got the profile bit in as I was replying x you don't have to let anyone into your home but least let them know you can accomadate when get to know if you were closer i woukd love reg meets with you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yah....

Sell yourself in everything about you...

Except sex and penis...

They want to know what makes you different.

"
im a weirdo

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"And before you all say make an effort in your profile i have tried it makes no diff all i get is gays offering me blow jobs"

Well then block men!

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By *KMaxMan
over a year ago

Bristol


" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here! wondering why myself?"

Well you have your answer right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis....

Acommodate

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis....

Acommodate"

Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Firstly block men from messaging you, that will solve that problem.

It must be frustrating I can understand that. This is meant to be fun and if you can't see the point you might need to step back for a bit or rethink your approach. Have you tried organised socials or clubs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Firstly block men from messaging you, that will solve that problem.

It must be frustrating I can understand that. This is meant to be fun and if you can't see the point you might need to step back for a bit or rethink your approach. Have you tried organised socials or clubs?

"
yea i need to actually talk to someone to arrange that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like swinging. I'm even wierder than that.

We are all wierdos with penises^^^

Some even have 6 packs and biceps...

You have to sell yourself as being more than a penis...

Also go on normal dates like you would genraly

^^^not "oi bitch arse hear now! Blowjob at your house. 1 hour...hurt up"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!"

I am forced here cause i just cant stop checking out all u sexy fuckers on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is crap for the vast majority of us men. Ive lowered my expectations to nothing in an attempt to limit the inevitable disappointment....

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 12/11/17 09:43:03]

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!"

I know, some act like it's mandatory, so why make an effort. After all, where all waiting legs akimbo awaiting all comers...or should that be cummers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Acommodate

Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!"

Well i can't accomodate so you miss out really.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

People look at profiles op

Maybe re work yours a bit

Or try a club/social

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? "
if you don't want attention from men tv/ts then use ur filters

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! "

No info = no meet

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton

I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston


"

They want to know what makes you different.

im a weirdo "

Yeah, we're all weirdos though.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Firstly block men from messaging you, that will solve that problem.

It must be frustrating I can understand that. This is meant to be fun and if you can't see the point you might need to step back for a bit or rethink your approach. Have you tried organised socials or clubs?

yea i need to actually talk to someone to arrange that lol"

You're just making excuses now though aren't you. What do you mean you need to actually talk to someone to arrange that,yes of course you do the person who is arranging the organised social or the club owner,both should be pretty easy to talk to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !"
go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites "

Well if this site is so bad and you can't be bothered to use the tools the site gives you, why should any woman bother contacting you?

At the moment it would appear that you think so much of yourself that a couple of pictures of your body are enough to get women dropping their knickers for you, it really isn't that easy.

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Yah....

Sell yourself in everything about you...

Except sex and penis...

They want to know what makes you different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites "

Hypocrites because it's supposed to be a site where people have sex yet no one is having sex with you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Acommodate

Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!

Well i can't accomodate so you miss out really."

nope. i dont accommodate till i get to know someone here and i have never have issues

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis....

Acommodate

Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!"

This!

99% of my meets were at home. In bed with one regular playmate I said we'd have to meet at his next time as my daughter was coming home from uni. He was aghast and said he didn't let people he'd met off the net into his home.

I kicked him out of my house and never spoke to him again. After that I changed my meet criteria. I only meet those that accommodate in their homes too: not hotel.

I assume I'm not worthy of entering your home, fine...you're not entering mine.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Acommodate

Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!

Well i can't accomodate so you miss out really."

I'm gutted . However I did say if someone "won't" not can't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites "

And this attitude is why are you not meeting anyone

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis....

Acommodate

Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!

This!

99% of my meets were at home. In bed with one regular playmate I said we'd have to meet at his next time as my daughter was coming home from uni. He was aghast and said he didn't let people he'd met off the net into his home.

I kicked him out of my house and never spoke to him again. After that I changed my meet criteria. I only meet those that accommodate in their homes too: not hotel.

I assume I'm not worthy of entering your home, fine...you're not entering mine."

My sentiments exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Click account

Click delete account

Follow instructions

Job done, no more problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didnt expect to be inundated with messages but expected some interest from the opposite sex. You lot are goin on like i think the site owes me something. Im dissapointed

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Are you sending out messages or hoping they will come to you? It's a decent message that attracts my attention, couldn't care less if you have a one liner profile. Pics are good, maybe add some more and block men as several people have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites "

A social might work well for you. People are often different in real life- more friendly as they can see your face and body language.

If the site is making you feel crap it's not worth it. I think dating sites are worse.

Sorry I can't help... just wanted to say I understand. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's 90% easier if you provide a place to use your penis....

Acommodate

Yep,if someone won't accommodate me I sure as heck am not accommodating them!

This!

99% of my meets were at home. In bed with one regular playmate I said we'd have to meet at his next time as my daughter was coming home from uni. He was aghast and said he didn't let people he'd met off the net into his home.

I kicked him out of my house and never spoke to him again. After that I changed my meet criteria. I only meet those that accommodate in their homes too: not hotel.

I assume I'm not worthy of entering your home, fine...you're not entering mine."
dont be silly. Letting a stranger into you home is asking for trouble

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird "

You're too scared aren't you

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites "

Yet you expect to get stark bollocks naked with said strangers...yep...see what you mean about hypocrites.

You couldn't make this shit up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put your best picture as your profile picture because when you send messages, that's the first picture they'll see and if they get a lot of messages women can just delete the message based on the first picture without even looking at your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sending out messages or hoping they will come to you? It's a decent message that attracts my attention, couldn't care less if you have a one liner profile. Pics are good, maybe add some more and block men as several people have said"
rarely send messages as they either dont get read or just get deleted. See im getting hate mail now sad individuals

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird

You're too scared aren't you "
probably but come on you have to agree its desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Firstly block men from messaging you, that will solve that problem.

It must be frustrating I can understand that. This is meant to be fun and if you can't see the point you might need to step back for a bit or rethink your approach. Have you tried organised socials or clubs?

yea i need to actually talk to someone to arrange that lol

You're just making excuses now though aren't you. What do you mean you need to actually talk to someone to arrange that,yes of course you do the person who is arranging the organised social or the club owner,both should be pretty easy to talk to."

Hmmm...still struggling to understand why the op is struggling...give me a minute...

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites

Yet you expect to get stark bollocks naked with said strangers...yep...see what you mean about hypocrites.

You couldn't make this shit up! "

I'm thinking this thread is nothing but attention seeking...

Well, good luck to him, I hope the minimal effort approach works for him... well, eventually starts working for him

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield


"Yah....

Sell yourself in everything about you...

Except sex and penis...

They want to know what makes you different.

"

I think the profile advice may have some merit however a good profile will never change your life.I have said before on similiar threads that what you need is good friends and contacts who are genuine swingers,the only way you can do this is by visiting right socials and clubs and speaking to people,that way you eliminate the time wasters who make up the majority on here.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird

You're too scared aren't you probably but come on you have to agree its desperate. "
It's not creepy or weird, lots of guys do it and successfully. Perhaps you should try it before you make assumptions. You never know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sending out messages or hoping they will come to you? It's a decent message that attracts my attention, couldn't care less if you have a one liner profile. Pics are good, maybe add some more and block men as several people have saidrarely send messages as they either dont get read or just get deleted. See im getting hate mail now sad individuals"

If you get abusive mail report it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love this shit, keeps me entertained for many minutes.

Person comes with problem...other people offer solution to problem...person shouts down solutions to problem...person comes back in a few weeks with same problem.

The circle of fab life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back "
i really am though

Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


" If you don't see the point of it all then why are you here? I don't understand these threads. Anyone would think you were forced to be here!"

This exactly, but my guess is it's an attempt to get a woman to pm him saying I'll meet you.

Good luck if it works though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you sending out messages or hoping they will come to you? It's a decent message that attracts my attention, couldn't care less if you have a one liner profile. Pics are good, maybe add some more and block men as several people have saidrarely send messages as they either dont get read or just get deleted. See im getting hate mail now sad individuals

If you get abusive mail report it."
no point

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Btw do you all think in 10 months i havent tried filling my profile out?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird

You're too scared aren't you probably but come on you have to agree its desperate. "

No it's not,this thread is desperate. At least they're getting out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asks for advice, gets it, does nothing about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Asks for advice, gets it, does nothing about it "
didnt ask for advice to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Btw do you all think in 10 months i havent tried filling my profile out? "

Have you tried changing your postcode on your profile? That area has weird boundaries on Fab searches. If you try changing it to a few miles away it can make a big difference on searches.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Btw do you all think in 10 months i havent tried filling my profile out? "

Yes or else it would be filled out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? "

It's not that easy for all the women in here either believe me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses."
i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back i really am though

Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet?"

Your profile is not written well and it doesn't say anything about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Asks for advice, gets it, does nothing about it didnt ask for advice to be fair "

Fair enough, stay for the forums then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll directly answer you question. What's the point?

There's is no point, go UNLOS if it's bugging you that much that you need to start threads about it.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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If improving your profile, changing your pictures and sending messages out isn't working group socials and clubs is your next option, If you're not prepared to go to them there isn't much you can do but play the waiting game

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return"

Some of us make an effort not excuses, realise it's not Instashag, and get plenty in return that's why we are here, for us that is the point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back i really am though

Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet?

Your profile is not written well and it doesn't say anything about you "
what though? Personal info? My job? My hobbies? What? I dont know why people cant see a pic decide if they fancy the person then chat see if there's a spark and so on. Selling yourself is cringy and weird imo

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return"

There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return

There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved."
paid my silver membership ao ill use it up first. Might get lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Write more on your profile it looks like your too laid back i really am though

Im a nice guy who has manners and respect. What more could a girl want from a meet?

Your profile is not written well and it doesn't say anything about you what though? Personal info? My job? My hobbies? What? I dont know why people cant see a pic decide if they fancy the person then chat see if there's a spark and so on. Selling yourself is cringy and weird imo"

Lol that is not what I ment .but good luck

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

This is a windup!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return

There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved.paid my silver membership ao ill use it up first. Might get lucky"

Well yeah you don't want to be wasting any of that fiver do you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return

There's no point whatsoever,so if it's not working for you then simply delete. Problem solved.paid my silver membership ao ill use it up first. Might get lucky

Well yeah you don't want to be wasting any of that fiver do you "
20 quid i paid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? "

You have no interests checked, and your about me is five or six words long. I think your problem starts there

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Btw do you all think in 10 months i havent tried filling my profile out? "

well then if the last profile attempt didn't work... how about actually sitting down, pen and pad, and thinking about what you want to get across before typing it in.....

its all about helping yourself "help yourself!"...

the site gives you the tools to help yourself, for example, you complain about getting mail for guys and gay people... well the site gives you the oppotunity to block those people if you want!.... so why are you not using them?

the site isn't just the be all and end all, it is part of a bigger jigsaw that you can use to stand out... so are you using them?

you can be as defeatist as you want.... for suggestion after suggestion i am seeing excuse after excuse...

you get one great chance to make a great first impression.... at the moment you are not screaming " fun, fun,fun!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a windup! "

Got to be as he thinks his profile is good

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point?

It's not that easy for all the women in here either believe me "

Or couples x storm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Threads like this draw out the nasty people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

im a weirdo "

I'm weirder, but in all the best ways

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

Well I wouldn't waste a fiver being from Yorkshire that's the only reason I'm still on here

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

None as blind as those that can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sundays are great in the forum. Everyone is hungover and grumpy and ready to rip the shit out of someone. They love a good rant-fest. Better than a bacon butty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people "

Where? Nasty? Are we reading the same stuff?

People are being brutally honest, rather than nasty. If you don't want to help yourself to improve your chances then go. That's brutal honesty not nastiness.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

I'm actually giving up giving advice as most don't actually want it many of them are more a look at me post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People aren't nasty they're actually trying to help but as you didn't ask for help and advice and just want to know if there's any point being here, all people can say is no, cos based on what you got on your profile with regards to the pictures and texts, you're not going to get meets from that so unless you want to stay just for the forums then there isn't any point being here.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people "

And highlight those who can't be arsed but expect so much.

The little green arrow next to your name is a link to all your forum posts and comments. I don't think, no, scrap that, I know your attitude on this one is also not going to help your chances of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sundays are great in the forum. Everyone is hungover and grumpy and ready to rip the shit out of someone. They love a good rant-fest. Better than a bacon butty. "

That's just what I was thinking, everyone has a sore head

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Sundays are great in the forum. Everyone is hungover and grumpy and ready to rip the shit out of someone. They love a good rant-fest. Better than a bacon butty. "

Now I want a bacon butty, but I have no bacon!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people "

no... threads like bring out people who will either sugarcoat and say there there there.... or will be brutally honest and tell it like it is!!

you so far have poo-poo'd every single suggestion people have put forward so far, and since you said you are not asking for advice.... then i would ask why are you here as well....

no one is holding a gun to your head making if stay if you truely feel that way.....

again it comes back to helping yourself help yourself.... if you are not prepared to listen, why should others invest their time trying...

sorry to rain on your pity party.....

oh and please don't paint yourself as a victim.... people persecuted around the world are victims, people robbed are victims..... you are not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooo someone mention bacon?

Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Ooooo someone mention bacon?

Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops. "

I couldn't be arsed to get out of bed, but I think I'm going to have to now to go and do the same!

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By *ungmagic10Man
over a year ago

Northampton


"I hear that, it's hard out here for single men. But you should definitely hit a club and try your luck there !go to a club on my own? Is just straight up creepy and weird "

Nope, a lot of people go by themselves. Not gonna lie, my first time I did go with a friend but what eased my nerves most was how nice people were. Very easy to talk to -except the occasional odd ones- but It was a fab night. And I did have fun with a few... and for my first ever club meet I was thinking 'that wasn't bad at all' lol and after that it was like chain reaction, couples in my town started noticing the veri's and within few days after I had a local meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Triggered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooooo someone mention bacon?

Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops.

I couldn't be arsed to get out of bed, but I think I'm going to have to now to go and do the same! "

There's no thinking to be done, get on it. I'm out the door. My pregnant, hormonal wife say go and buy bacon. Only an insane person would argue with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

"

Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?

Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?

Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Ooooo someone mention bacon?

Dammit, it's like subliminal messaging, now I'm definitely gonna buy bacon at the shops.

I couldn't be arsed to get out of bed, but I think I'm going to have to now to go and do the same!

There's no thinking to be done, get on it. I'm out the door. My pregnant, hormonal wife say go and buy bacon. Only an insane person would argue with her. "

Why are you still on here?! Go! Go! Go! Hahaha! I'm up, I'm up!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

You have been given some very good advice Op but have only made excuses and put up barriers to everything. Whole attitude and even post is coming across as very negative to me . As part of the target group you are trying to attract can assure you that's only going to put me off and get you precisely where you are now .

Now you can blame everything else and continue saying you've already tried everything or take on board some of the valid pointers from those who had meets . Plenty of single guys get meets so step back and ask your self what they are doing different to you .

If this is too much bother or effort to you then just go ..no need to make a song and dance over it . If you stay and just continue way you are the only time you are wasting is your own . Your journey on the site is only dictated by you and you alone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Triggered "

And therein lies the real purpose of this thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have been given some very good advice Op but have only made excuses and put up barriers to everything. Whole attitude and even post is coming across as very negative to me . As part of the target group you are trying to attract can assure you that's only going to put me off and get you precisely where you are now .

Now you can blame everything else and continue saying you've already tried everything or take on board some of the valid pointers from those who had meets . Plenty of single guys get meets so step back and ask your self what they are doing different to you .

If this is too much bother or effort to you then just go ..no need to make a song and dance over it . If you stay and just continue way you are the only time you are wasting is your own . Your journey on the site is only dictated by you and you alone .

"
they good looking haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol yes same here the men like me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?

Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?

Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me"
full of hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don’t have the sympathy for someone who just seems to be making excuses.i dont want sympathy. I asked what is the point in being here if you get nothing in return"

There is no point in you being here really..

Shut the door on the way out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch"

That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months.

I just go on the pictures and the height.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people "

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?

Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?

Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me"

Because women are delicate flowers, and should not have to to have a reason as to why she can't accommodate..it's her right not to have strangers at there home if she so chooses and either way..she doesn't have to explain why..it's her call and hers alone..modern independent woman and all that (quite right too)

Blokes though are dribbling sex pests and obviously have a wife if they can't accommodate and have to explain themselves thoroughly and give good account of how come they can't...bastards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch

That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months.

I just go on the pictures and the height. "
this

Do you agree its weird to write loads of bollocks abpot yourself?

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch"

I agree with you to a point, Physical attraction usually triggers that first message, Maybe they do look but your pictures are not enough for them to send a message, Having more then a couple of words on your profile might improve that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people."
im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch"

Some people do understand that there's a person behind every profile.

Some people are only attracted to bright objects- lots of pics and words describing sexual acts. Seems robotic to me though, like they're looking for a sex object to fulfill their fantasy and not a real person.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Sundays are great in the forum. Everyone is hungover and grumpy and ready to rip the shit out of someone. They love a good rant-fest. Better than a bacon butty. "

Nothing is better than a bacon butty surely!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch

I agree with you to a point, Physical attraction usually triggers that first message, Maybe they do look but your pictures are not enough for them to send a message, Having more then a couple of words on your profile might improve that"
theres a pic of.my.body and a pic to prove im who im.posting pics of. Womem dont like cock pics and im not putting my face public. So i cant see what else i can poat other than me in different poses which is pointless

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself "

Still ain't got any meets though eh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself

Still ain't got any meets though eh! "
no but my life.is going well aside of fab

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?

Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?

Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me"

Maybe because some women have had guys turn up d*unk or with out any prior arrangement because they had the horn and thought they'd be garented a shag.

A lot of women for safety prefer not to accommodate or have children at home .Or they prefer to keep swinging totally separate. Some due to fact they don't want hubby walking in .

What ever their reason that's up to them just same for a guy . Just more guys happy to meet women who don't accom, less women will be inclined to do that . Not double standard just fact .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself

Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab "

Yayyyy there's your reason to stay! You need yin and yang.

Shite on Fab means real life will be brilliant.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch

I agree with you to a point, Physical attraction usually triggers that first message, Maybe they do look but your pictures are not enough for them to send a message, Having more then a couple of words on your profile might improve thattheres a pic of.my.body and a pic to prove im who im.posting pics of. Womem dont like cock pics and im not putting my face public. So i cant see what else i can poat other than me in different poses which is pointless"

Well if I was looking at a woman's profile that looked like your one I wouldn't send a message,

If what you're doing isn't working change your approach to the site, People have given you loads of ways how to do that, If you don't want to change like I said before play the waiting game,

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"You have been given some very good advice Op but have only made excuses and put up barriers to everything. Whole attitude and even post is coming across as very negative to me . As part of the target group you are trying to attract can assure you that's only going to put me off and get you precisely where you are now .

Now you can blame everything else and continue saying you've already tried everything or take on board some of the valid pointers from those who had meets . Plenty of single guys get meets so step back and ask your self what they are doing different to you .

If this is too much bother or effort to you then just go ..no need to make a song and dance over it . If you stay and just continue way you are the only time you are wasting is your own . Your journey on the site is only dictated by you and you alone .

they good looking haha"

That response makes no sense op.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself

Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab "

I'm so glad to hear it,so why don't you have any meets from here that we can see? How can someone do well in 'real' life,do so badly here?

Oh I know the answer actually there's too many men isn't there. Thank heaven's I'm a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women love a defeatist

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself

Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab

Yayyyy there's your reason to stay! You need yin and yang.

Shite on Fab means real life will be brilliant. "

Does that work the other way around? I fear it does

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Women love a defeatist "

Yeah we love to trample them under our feet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself

Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab

I'm so glad to hear it,so why don't you have any meets from here that we can see? How can someone do well in 'real' life,do so badly here?

Oh I know the answer actually there's too many men isn't there. Thank heaven's I'm a woman "
see youre assuming again like as if you know me. I mean my life in general is good as in ive had a promotion and passed my driving test amd im doing a course to start a totally new career. But yea its all about sex

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I didn’t realise Fab was full of gay men

Ignorance alive in 2017

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain. I have so many lovely ladies I would love to meet I don't have enough time. If I arranged to meet them all it would take me into the new year.

Calling bullshit on all of these preunlos threads.

Profiles DO work. Fab works like a dream!

Women DO reply. Women DO meet.

If you aren't having the time of your life on fab then YOU are doing something wrong

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By *addys_Little_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

London


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?

Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?

Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me"

I'm not here complaining about fab being pointless in order to get attention....

I'm not here looking for hookups, so the accommodation thing is a moot point with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women love a defeatist

Yeah we love to trample them under our feet "

Like a herd of...something

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Women love a defeatist "

its not really defeatist.... its trolling!!

well he may as well go out in a blaze of glory and the green arrow will always be his memory of this occasion forever....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch

That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months.

I just go on the pictures and the height. this

Do you agree its weird to write loads of bollocks abpot yourself?"

It's not weird but profile text isn't what influences my decision to meet someone either.

I go off pictures and then have further conversations with them.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

You're right. There is no hope for single guys here. Those we have met from the site were pure figments of our imagination...

On the other hand maybe they went about things differently from many guys here. Maybe they didn't see their body/cock as being their most important or attractive attribute. Maybe they read our profile, liked what it said and chatted to us about normal things just like people do in real life. Maybe instead of being pushy, they created a rapport with us, became friends and got to the point where we met socially. Maybe they felt it important to actually get to know and trust potential partners before taking the next step and adding a physical dimension. Maybe they weren't just expecting to mailshot a couple of messages/cock shots and get a flood of offers from sexy, accommodating, females and/or couples.

If what you're doing hasn't worked either change it as advised above or give up as you're suggesting you will. Do accept though that there are far more single guys here than anyone else so yes it is tough but those guys who've been successful prove it can be done with the right approach.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Women love a defeatist

Yeah we love to trample them under our feet

Like a herd of...something "

Cow's

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Threads like this draw out the nasty people

and the "I'm feeling sorry for myself" people. im so happy with myself at the moment no one could make me feel sorry for myself

Still ain't got any meets though eh! no but my life.is going well aside of fab

I'm so glad to hear it,so why don't you have any meets from here that we can see? How can someone do well in 'real' life,do so badly here?

Oh I know the answer actually there's too many men isn't there. Thank heaven's I'm a woman see youre assuming again like as if you know me. I mean my life in general is good as in ive had a promotion and passed my driving test amd im doing a course to start a totally new career. But yea its all about sex "

Nope I haven't a clue who you are,well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This doesn't sound like youv'e given up on anything.

Have you had replies from pm's/or the forums. If you have, that's kind of what the site is for, to get you to interact.

The rest is up to you.

Why not try a club?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch

That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months.

I just go on the pictures and the height. this

Do you agree its weird to write loads of bollocks abpot yourself?

It's not weird but profile text isn't what influences my decision to meet someone either.

I go off pictures and then have further conversations with them. "

and that might work for you.. (or actually may not bearing in mind what you have posted in the past under other names...)

but the point is that not everyone uses the site the same way.... and that is the bit the OP seems to not understand...

see... the dictionary definition of "insanity" is doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different result!

so if he is doing the same thing... and the same result is happening again and again... you don't go blaming the result!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just give up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why cant someone look at a profile decide whether they fancy the person then message to see if theres a spark and take it from there? You're all going on like im a total cunt for not writing paragraphs about myself. And i have had abuse in my inbox not that i care as im not a little bitch

That's what people do! I don't give a shit what people write in their profile. Most the guys I've met and slept with have full stops on their profile text or "will fill in later" when they've been here months.

I just go on the pictures and the height. this

Do you agree its weird to write loads of bollocks abpot yourself?

It's not weird but profile text isn't what influences my decision to meet someone either.

I go off pictures and then have further conversations with them.

and that might work for you.. (or actually may not bearing in mind what you have posted in the past under other names...)

but the point is that not everyone uses the site the same way.... and that is the bit the OP seems to not understand...

see... the dictionary definition of "insanity" is doing the same thing again and again and expecting a different result!

so if he is doing the same thing... and the same result is happening again and again... you don't go blaming the result!....

"

It's always worked for me, I have no problems getting meets... I just struggle making a husband out of any of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women love a defeatist

Yeah we love to trample them under our feet

Like a herd of...something

Cow's "

I was going to say locusts. Good thing I held back!

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? "

Having read the advice offered and the reactions to them, I’m not sure there can actually *be* a point?

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By *addys_Little_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

London


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?

Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?

Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me

Because women are delicate flowers, and should not have to to have a reason as to why she can't accommodate..it's her right not to have strangers at there home if she so chooses and either way..she doesn't have to explain why..it's her call and hers alone..modern independent woman and all that (quite right too)

Blokes though are dribbling sex pests and obviously have a wife if they can't accommodate and have to explain themselves thoroughly and give good account of how come they can't...bastards "

Funny how the delicate flowers seem to be having more luck than the dribbling sex pests though....

At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site.

Some men learn that early on and make the effort to stand out. Some whinge and moan. I wonder which ones have more luck....

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point? "

I no how you fill op.

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By *dventrousmukTV/TS
over a year ago

hartlepool


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites

And this attitude is why are you not meeting anyone"

Lol apply cold water here

Just cos you've done some crunches doesn't mean you're going to get women throwing themselves at your feet. TBH you've been lucky to get guys offering fun. And it's a swinging site... Can you really get offended by same sex offers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of us in that situation OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel your pain. I have so many lovely ladies I would love to meet I don't have enough time. If I arranged to meet them all it would take me into the new year.

Calling bullshit on all of these preunlos threads.

Profiles DO work. Fab works like a dream!

Women DO reply. Women DO meet.

If you aren't having the time of your life on fab then YOU are doing something wrong

"

OP - take a note from this. The profile and his 25 verifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site.

"

You mean men outnumber the women massively on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been here ages and never had a meet. But had plenty of offers from men and tvs. Whats the point?

I no how you fill op."

When I started here I got no replies. Got no meets.

Today I am inundated. Why? Because I took the time and effort to learn what I was doing wrong and evolved as a single male.

Its like deciding to learn to play a sport and without doing any training expecting to win tournaments. This is a learning process like any other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site.

You mean men outnumber the women massively on here! "

No. Males totally outnumber the females.

Women totally outnumber the men

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

.

In the tips and getting started bit on fab they should show some sample profiles, Show some sample messages pictures etc

It might help people new to the site

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

I'd have to agree with a sport comparison

Do you're training and learn your trade and then your laughing really isn't that difficult on here

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Patience is the key lol"

A good attitude helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have started a number of threads on this forum with "things to try" to help guys get ahead on the learning curve. I am called arrogant, conceited and patronising. Nonetheless I am still willing to share what I have learned in my travels anyone willing to get the same joy out of fab that I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd have to agree with a sport comparison

Do you're training and learn your trade and then your laughing really isn't that difficult on here"

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By *addys_Little_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

London


"

At the end of the day, rightly or wrongly women outnumber the men massively on fab. So we naturally have more to choose from and get the luxury of being picky. It's not some massive plot to make men feel bad, it's just the reality of the site.

You mean men outnumber the women massively on here!

No. Males totally outnumber the females.

Women totally outnumber the men

"

Haha yes that

Damn, I am not on roasting form this morning

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Women love a defeatist

Yeah we love to trample them under our feet

Like a herd of...something

Cow's

I was going to say locusts. Good thing I held back!"

No no definitely cow's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

"

I do. But that's up to them. I know I'm not a psycho bitch who will stalk someone or turn up at their door after they tell me they don't want to see me any more. I don't know if the men I meet are the same. I can't risk someone knocking on my door to be met by my son, who wouldn't take kindly to someone stalking his mummy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. Most people bullshit anyway. Cant work out this site its full of hypocrites

And this attitude is why are you not meeting anyone

Lol apply cold water here

Just cos you've done some crunches doesn't mean you're going to get women throwing themselves at your feet. TBH you've been lucky to get guys offering fun. And it's a swinging site... Can you really get offended by same sex offers?"
just because ive dome some crunches dont do crunches actually dont even work on my abs but haters gona hate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and closing point because it was mentioned earlier.

Women apparently don't like seeing cock pictures on profiles well this woman does.

EVERY MAN SHOULD HAVE PUBLIC PENIS PICTURES

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Personally i think it weird writing paragraphs about yourself to strangers. "

But you don't think it's weird to fuck a stranger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No face pic = no meet.

Cannot accommodate = no meet.

Simple really! cant accomodate because im.not letting strangers come round my house until i know them and yes i have face pics

But you expect them to accommodate you????

Well you cant accommodate either...so you expect all your meets to acommodate you?

Why is it ok for woman expect men to always accommodate, but if a guy cant he may as well give up?

Pretty pointless and dumb double standard if you ask me

Maybe because some women have had guys turn up d*unk or with out any prior arrangement because they had the horn and thought they'd be garented a shag.

A lot of women for safety prefer not to accommodate or have children at home .Or they prefer to keep swinging totally separate. Some due to fact they don't want hubby walking in .

What ever their reason that's up to them just same for a guy . Just more guys happy to meet women who don't accom, less women will be inclined to do that . Not double standard just fact . "

Well before anyone knew HIS reason for not being able to accommodate one of the first comments that loads of people jumped on was the "cannot accommodate = no meet"

Another part of this you brilliantly brought up for me, its ok for woman to say cannot accommodate because im cheating...but its not ok for a guy, good luck justifying that one

I use to get properly abusive messages off some woman when i was on here a few years ago as i lived at home with my parents accusing me of being a cheater, but woman can flaunt their infidelity with no fear of judgement

What if your a single dad and have kids at home? Does "cannot accommodate = no meet" still apply?

What if a guy just doesnt want some woman off a swingers site to know where he lives and he is protecting himself and or his privicy?

Does it apply then?

Just because something is "just the way it is" doesnt mean its not a double standard

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