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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a very difficult post for me and one that will always mean alot to me.

I am wanting to do something to remember my rainbow baby, this is something that I am having to deal with on my own as the father didn't want me to have the baby anyway.

Am struggling greatly with the guilty and hurt but I want something positive to come from it.

If any body has any ideas I would love to hear them.

Thanks x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Sorry for your loss.

Big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help except to say I understand what is like to lose a baby and am sending you hugs x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Sending you the biggest of hugs OP XX

I planted trees, in a local arboretum to remember all of mine.

It's nice to be able to see them grow, in a way my children never will xx

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By *atsnTitsCouple
over a year ago

Land Of Naughtiness

Sorry for your loss

Don’t know how far on you were but if past 12 weeks and you have ultrasound you can get the pic copied onto a necklace to have it close.

Tits xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, just feeling so alone right now. But having to brave face on for my other children and hubby when inside I am breaking

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I am so sorry to read of your loss.

My thoughts are with you.

Might you perhaps plant a tree that will stand as a living memory to them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry for your loss, I feel your pain, it's such a hard thing it go through.

Not sure what your thinking about in ways of remembering, but in the past I've purchased a helium balloon and released it outside to float away and spent time watching it and remembering my loss whist believing one way or another it will find them and it's my little gift for them.

Big hugs.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a tree in my garden to remember mine. Every morning I can look out my window and see it and it brings me comfort knowing I remember him/her in a small way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bought a decorative robin jewellery holder because I named both of my rainbow babies Robin/Robyn and it stays by my bed always and I still say goodnight every night despite it being 30 and 12 years ago.

Be extra loving to the ones you have and be extra grateful that you have them, sadly both of my babies are rainbows and I didn't get to meet either of them

That will be the first and last time you will hear that story/side of me on here.

I just hope it's not too much and if it is, please feel free to report and get it removed xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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I just hope it's not too much and if it is, please feel free to report and get it removed xx"

Dont worry, theres no reason why it should be reported and no reason why it would be removed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I just hope it's not too much and if it is, please feel free to report and get it removed xx

Dont worry, theres no reason why it should be reported and no reason why it would be removed x"

Thank you x

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I commemorate my angel babies by participating in the wave of light organised by the miscarriage association, I do blessings on sacred dates and have a special ornament on the Christmas tree for them.

It is a very tough thing to go through. Would heartily recommend miscarriage association for support.

It doesn't get easier - you get stronger and better at coping with it but don't let anyone tell you how or how long you may grieve for, everyone is different.

So sorry for your loss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone. I think planting a tree is a great idea now just have to find somewhere to plant it x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I donated to SANDS and NSPCC for 27 years.

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