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By *hiana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hereford

What would you say to a man who says most of the women here are sluts? But not you....

They don't even know me yet? I've ranted back to this person, but what would you say if someone said this to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd tell him to go fuck himself and block him!

Any guy who thinks that sexually liberated women are sluts is definitely not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are on a sex website for crying out loud, we are all sluts men, women, couples, TGs all of the above if you disagree then you’re either here for the social aspect or you’re just plain on the wrong site, personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being slutty or a slut in general if you like sex then what’s to be ashamed of

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By *hiana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hereford


"We are on a sex website for crying out loud, we are all sluts men, women, couples, TGs all of the above if you disagree then you’re either here for the social aspect or you’re just plain on the wrong site, personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being slutty or a slut in general if you like sex then what’s to be ashamed of "

He was using it as a derogitory..excuse spelling.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I'd tell him to go fuck himself and block him!

Any guy who thinks that sexually liberated women are sluts is definitely not for me."

The term slut often refers to women who are, well I can tell you as a man they are bloody hard to even get a meet lol, so far no way easy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are you narked because he doesnt class you as a slut and you think you are one?

slut has two meanings;

a woman who has a lot of casual sex with different people or an unhygenic woman.

a lot of women on here pitch themselves as sluts tho curiously,ive yet to see one pitch herself as a slag.

slut is the 'acceptable' word i take it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are on a sex website for crying out loud, we are all sluts men, women, couples, TGs all of the above if you disagree then you’re either here for the social aspect or you’re just plain on the wrong site, personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being slutty or a slut in general if you like sex then what’s to be ashamed of

He was using it as a derogitory..excuse spelling. "

I understand that, I was just making a light hearted statement that we all enjoy sex and it’s not a word to be chewed over

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By *hiana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hereford


"are you narked because he doesnt class you as a slut and you think you are one?

slut has two meanings;

a woman who has a lot of casual sex with different people or an unhygenic woman.

a lot of women on here pitch themselves as sluts tho curiously,ive yet to see one pitch herself as a slag.

slut is the 'acceptable' word i take it."

No, I just took offence for others. Why would like it when someone being shallow enough and used it in secretary manner.

Anyway question is, what would you say if he said this to you?. Xx

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By *hiana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hereford

Sorry kindle altered my text again. Not secretary. derogatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefered secretary.

Nobody on here means enough to me to raise any negative emotion.

Unless they said I was from Derbyshire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say "and what are you dude a frickken Saint?!"... He's definitely confused or at the very least a hypocrite... But maybe I'm casting aspersions and he's here to de-sexify us all?!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you say to a man who says most of the women here are sluts? But not you....

They don't even know me yet? I've ranted back to this person, but what would you say if someone said this to you?"

"Yeah? And? Why is that a bad thing? Sounds more like someone is jealous and upset than anything else. Being a slut isn't a bad thing"

Or something to that effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

slut noun · derogatory a woman who has many casual sexual partners.a woman with low standards of cleanliness.or more to the point. slut. a woman with the morals of a man.

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By *hiana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hereford


"We are on a sex website for crying out loud, we are all sluts men, women, couples, TGs all of the above if you disagree then you’re either here for the social aspect or you’re just plain on the wrong site, personally I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being slutty or a slut in general if you like sex then what’s to be ashamed of

He was using it as a derogitory..excuse spelling.

I understand that, I was just making a light hearted statement that we all enjoy sex and it’s not a word to be chewed over"

Ahh..got ya. Okay.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

People quite often insult a whole group in an attempt to compliment one person or group.

I would have pointed out that if he knows all the other women on the site well enough to make that statement he's been a busy boy himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you say to a man who says most of the women here are sluts? But not you....

They don't even know me yet? I've ranted back to this person, but what would you say if someone said this to you?"

I'm sure many women have had this said to them. Men know how competitive women can be and telling you that you're not a slut but the rest of us are sets you up as 'better'. And I'm sure it works many times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd tell him to go fuck himself and block him!

Any guy who thinks that sexually liberated women are sluts is definitely not for me."

I have the opposite problem. I cannot find a woman who is slutty enough.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

There are women who have "slut" as part of their username.

There are some men that think all women on site are sluts but wouldn't voice it.

There are some men who think being derogatory about certain women to impress another set is the way to go. Look at any bbw/small breast etc thread!

There's always someone offensive, trick is to expect to receive moronic messages. Think how chuffed you'll be when a message worth reading lands in your inbox!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horrible term to use

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd roll my eyes then move on to the next message. I don't have the time or inclination to engage with morons.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I wouldn't believe him and know he doesn't know everyone, have much chance with them, nor me. It's potentially a deranged way to tell you that he likes you - but being honest and direct would be a lot better.

Men do this outside of fab too and is a giveaway that you are potentially his princess in waiting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell him to go be a silly little boy, somewhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OED defines a slut as 1) a woman who has many casual sexual partners and 2) a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

To the first definition I would answer, define 'many', define 'casual' and why only women?

To the second I would say, I have a wash at least once a week whether I need it or not and I scrub behind my ears and brush all three of my teeth,even the black ones....don't you call me no slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd tell him to go fuck himself and block him!

Any guy who thinks that sexually liberated women are sluts is definitely not for me.

I have the opposite problem. I cannot find a woman who is slutty enough. "

They are out there, but they take some finding.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"What would you say to a man who says most of the women here are sluts? But not you....

They don't even know me yet? I've ranted back to this person, but what would you say if someone said this to you?"

I’d tell him I disagree. I’d tell him I am a slut but I don’t believe all the other women on Fab are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd roll my eyes then move on to the next message. I don't have the time or inclination to engage with morons. "

Haha

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'd tell him "fuck yeah I am a slut, but not slut enough to fuck you, now fuck off!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have said ‘thanks, I do love a compliment’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another charm school dropout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you say to a man who says most of the women here are sluts? But not you....

They don't even know me yet? I've ranted back to this person, but what would you say if someone said this to you?

I'm sure many women have had this said to them. Men know how competitive women can be and telling you that you're not a slut but the rest of us are sets you up as 'better'. And I'm sure it works many times."

This pretty much sums it up.

There are definitely some women that fall for it, I've seen their forum posts relaying that men have told them they're too nice to be on a site like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what was it that pissed you off. Telling you your not a slut, or saying 'most women are sluts' ?

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I would only use that word if the lady asked me to as she liked it. As it is a offensive word to most women just to used off the cuff like that.

Respect is very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let him know that you see right through his sycophantic statement then, PRESS THE INCINERATOR BUTTON! Then I'd carry on as if nothing had happened.

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By *hiana OP   Woman
over a year ago

Hereford


"I would only use that word if the lady asked me to as she liked it. As it is a offensive word to most women just to used off the cuff like that.

Respect is very important. "

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

He probably thinks it's a big compliment, and no doubt said the same thing to the last 50 women he messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let him know that you see right through his sycophantic statement then, PRESS THE INCINERATOR BUTTON! Then I'd carry on as if nothing had happened."

I did not know about the INCINERATOR BUTTON, why did nobody tell me, it must be most useful. XXX

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I'd say I may be a slut but I'm never gonna be your slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't say anything other than no thank you. I don't have the patience to go into details with people on here.

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By *ids_NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Slut a good thing

Slag a bad thing.

If he’d posted that to me I’d be upset that he thinks I’m boring, not fun, not sexy and not naughty, and all the other women are, so id have taken it has an insult.

Slut is a complimentary term if you someone that is into swinging and having good sexy fun. It only be an insult if I was some pure and innocent and never had a rude thought!

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By *ongue twistedMan
over a year ago

Holyhead

Sounds to me like a failed chat up line. There’s nothing wrong with being slutty. There are far too many men that still live by the more women they sleep with the bigger a man they are whereas if a woman does the same she’s a slut. Narrow minded boys that need to grow up in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that I’m not interested in someone who thinks that I would find their intention to insult and disrespect other people in a message to me acceptable, or engaging. Nor someone that attempts to answer me back about my choice to say no to them.

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