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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... as you've grown older? In my teens/20s I lay there and let 'him' do everything because I figured he knew what he was doing. Where as now I'm fully involved, often take the lead and have a better time all round.

Love sex more now than ever before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ermmmm, I'm screwed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought my best years were behind me, but it's only gotten better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex gets better as the day goes on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol more of a morning bunk up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely much better now!

Less hang ups. More communication.

Satisfaction of both sides.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Yes and kinkier

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"Yes and kinkier "

Totally agree

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nope. Had great sex with my first love and still having it now!

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes - in my 20's and early 30's was with my ex who was very erm - sex by numbers?

1st do a, then do b, then do c (cum roll over fall asleep whether I'd cum or not )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't answer this... it's too depressing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope my best sex was at Uni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was in a relationship for nearly 20 years. This is what I thought I knew :

* Men don't last long

* They dont want to please you

* They certainly don't want to go down on you, ever!!

And now I've learned... surprisingly its the total opposite.

I've recently (on here) met some really lovely gorgeous sexy men to restore my faith in the human race and they've made me feel like a woman again!!

So defo agree it gets better as you get older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for years I always wondered if that was it all was made out to be. Then I met mr and it's definitely everything I always thought it could be x

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Yes I’m more laid back about it and don’t feel pressure to be perfect. If something goes a bit wrong I can have a laugh and carry on. If something isn’t working I say or move or take action to make it work without just waiting for him to get off me. Sex is definetly more ‘fun’ and enjoyable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

When it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I had my first orgasm at 31 and my first multiple at 35, having lost my virginity many years before.... sex for me has definitely got better with age and continues to fascinate and excite me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really. We've always been quite kinky. When we were young we had to be much more imaginative as we didn't have our own private spaces which led to some interesting locations and situations.

Since then we seem to go through cycles of trying out different things, settling into a routine and then trying something new again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has for me. I am a lot more confident and aware of what I want than I was in my 20s

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Definitely much better now!

Less hang ups. More communication.

Satisfaction of both sides."

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Well I had my first orgasm at 31 and my first multiple at 35, having lost my virginity many years before.... sex for me has definitely got better with age and continues to fascinate and excite me!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has for me. I was useless up until I was in my forties and became single again. It was a very adept 23 yr old who got me to come right out of my shell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, my first partner it was crap and I was too young.

But my second was great we were together 4 years and explored our sexual youth together, nothing too kinky but we did try anal and toys.

The next partner (husband)it was crap he wouldn’t do oral but expected it all the time, he had a tight foreskin and I never cum.

Then after him I had a fuck buddy and I was sexually awakened however I was still only early 20s- he was a lot older than me and so kinky- he was bi and I got to have some great sexual exploration with him. I’ve had good and bad since so I don’t think age is a factor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesss!!! I cum so much easier now whereas when I was younger orgasms seemed like an urban legend, lol.

And I'm way more body confident than I was 10 years ago which has helped massively

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex? What's sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely yes. I'm much more likely to say if I like/want to do something or more importantly if I don't

My sex drive keeps increasing over the yrs too . Give me ALL the sex please

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Without

A

Doubt

Scherwiiiiiiing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck knows. Had sex twice.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Oh yes

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Yesss!!! I cum so much easier now whereas when I was younger orgasms seemed like an urban legend, lol.

And I'm way more body confident than I was 10 years ago which has helped massively "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky

Hot

Morsome

Yes

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

No cos I've still not had any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I had my first orgasm at 31 and my first multiple at 35, having lost my virginity many years before.... sex for me has definitely got better with age and continues to fascinate and excite me!"

I've always loved sex and been very liberated about it.

However, at 32 something physical happened, biochemical, I suppose. It was as if someone had flicked a switch and it just kept getting better, and better.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

For me sex got better after meeting the right person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely...the older I've got the more I learn and the more relaxed I am about what I like and what I like doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better, but far less frequent. I think I preferred worse and often......

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