FabSwingers.com forum: Guys...Why wouldn’t you write a veri’?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Second time this has happened...

We have a good time! Harder for men to fake that... evidence and all

you want more...have more... and again.

With the first guy we met on a few occasions. I verify him, I ask for the same in return and he doesn’t do it? Says he’s going to, but never does.

This time, different guy, cums X3.. and after we’ve parted company he’s full of compliments ...messaging me hours later. Posts his verification from me, but doesn’t write one in return?!

What’s the possible reason?

I know I shouldn’t overthink it... but isn’t it a little rude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it is a bit. If I get left one I'll leave one in return but usually check if someone wants one first.

Maybe he wants to keep you to himself?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

"Second time this has happened...

We have a good time! Harder for men to fake that... evidence and all

you want more...have more... and again.

With the first guy we met on a few occasions. I verify him, I ask for the same in return and he doesn’t do it? Says he’s going to, but never does.

This time, different guy, cums X3.. and after we’ve parted company he’s full of compliments ...messaging me hours later. Posts his verification from me, but doesn’t write one in return?!

What’s the possible reason?

I know I shouldn’t overthink it... but isn’t it a little rude?

I tend to feel the same ... that it's a bit ill mannered. I wrote one some time ago which was published by the person concerned, but it was never reciprocated. Arguably, if there's an advantage to showing veris, then they benefit but you don't. It smacks of laziness to be honest - and presumably isn't anything to do with being dissatisfied by the encounter or else you'd think they wouldn't want to publicly associate themselves with you by showing the veri you gave.

Admittedly some people aren't bothered by veris at all but if that's the reason for not writing you one then it's hypocritical to show any they get.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Your verifications might read like that woman from that film.. that one involving a pan.. some fur and some water. She had blonde hair I think? Can't remember the title

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah it is a bit. If I get left one I'll leave one in return but usually check if someone wants one first.

Maybe he wants to keep you to himself?"

Like you, I always return the favour. The gentleman has the choice to display it or not.

It’s kinda put me off meeting him again. If that’s the potential reason then why sign up for N.S.A?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this loads of times. I rarely verify first now.

I understand if we didn't click but it is rude.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your verifications might read like that woman from that film.. that one involving a pan.. some fur and some water. She had blonde hair I think? Can't remember the title

Don’t know what you’re referring to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are kidding now...Come on, most men don't bother reading profiles before messaging you ladies, so how come you expecting us to write a veri.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Probably means you are attracted to guys who like to fuck a girl and leave and then brag about fucking her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's simple really, most guys can't be bothered to string a few sentences together ... I'm sure you are amazing, he is probably just lazy

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Most guys are perfectly capable of writing a veri.

Just shes attracted to the type that don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just find it rude not to send one back I couldn't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this with all genders. I now ask if they want to swap verifications and if they say no, that's fine by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had this too OP

I don't display veris anymore- they're trouble!

I like a veri for my personal pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had that happen to us on our last two meets, I wasn't rude about them but wasn't overly complimentary. But I do think it's rude if you haven't already agreed that you don't want one x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most guys are perfectly capable of writing a veri.

Just shes attracted to the type that don't."

I’ve never considered that part of an attraction?!

both guys were actually attentive, gentlemanly, good sense of humour? We were laughing, having good conversation in between.... having seconds and thirds...

That’s why I didn’t get it! Nothing went wrong?!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Ive had this too OP

I don't display veris anymore- they're trouble!

I like a veri for my personal pleasure

Do people get a second meet depending on how pleasing their veris are to you too..?

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By *kmanMan
over a year ago

Letterkenny

"Second time this has happened...

We have a good time! Harder for men to fake that... evidence and all

you want more...have more... and again.

With the first guy we met on a few occasions. I verify him, I ask for the same in return and he doesn’t do it? Says he’s going to, but never does.

This time, different guy, cums X3.. and after we’ve parted company he’s full of compliments ...messaging me hours later. Posts his verification from me, but doesn’t write one in return?!

What’s the possible reason?

I know I shouldn’t overthink it... but isn’t it a little rude?

Admittedly some people aren't bothered by veris at all but if that's the reason for not writing you one then it's hypocritical to show any they get."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A second meet depends on how much I enjoyed the first meet!

A man leaving a nice verification is not a reason to meet him a second time. Trust!

It’s more the case, that I won’t be verifying anyone who doesn’t verify me first.

I think the not reciprocating is rude/lazy/selfish... I don’t know but I just get the ump about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this a fair bit too. It really gets me down and makes me feel like I'm not worth a few sentences. Probably over reacting but can't help the way I feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I’d saved my profile rather than left - have lost my previous veris and it’s difficult to start over with none

If you meet, veri is the least people can do, I empathise with Op x

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Block them both and get your veris back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Block them both and get your veris back

Wow?! Really! I didn’t know that!

Seems a bit vindictive... but the truth is it would give me a little satisfaction!

I thought you only lost a verification if someone left the site?

Learn something new every day!

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

"Probably means you are attracted to guys who like to fuck a girl and leave and then brag about fucking her."

hit the nail on the head. love you were just a quick shag, once he shot his load it was done for him and back to his wife. Just the way it goes. Just enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably means you are attracted to guys who like to fuck a girl and leave and then brag about fucking her.

hit the nail on the head. love you were just a quick shag, once he shot his load it was done for him and back to his wife. Just the way it goes. Just enjoy it."

I doubt either of them were married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait to see if they mention It in the meet and then for them to verify first. I then do one in return if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block them both and get your veris back

Wow?! Really! I didn’t know that!

Seems a bit vindictive... but the truth is it would give me a little satisfaction!

I thought you only lost a verification if someone left the site?

Learn something new every day!

It just means they can't display them if you block them. Which is still a petty get back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it is a bit. If I get left one I'll leave one in return but usually check if someone wants one first.

Maybe he wants to keep you to himself?

Like you, I always return the favour. The gentleman has the choice to display it or not.

It’s kinda put me off meeting him again. If that’s the potential reason then why sign up for N.S.A?

I had the same issue with someone id been seeing for a while...thought it was time to write another veri...they thanked me but wouldn't reciprocate...i asked why...their answer was why you need one you've plenty. I reminded them id just written one for them, there reply was ...I didn't ask for one one. I was taken back a bit, so i just said OK. I left it at that, they tried to arrange another couple meets bothof which I said ssorry i couldn't make them. They then asked dontbyou want to meet any more... i said no thank you. Had a fury of strong worded messages etc etc etc. I then politely said sorry but no longer interested and blocked them. They lost my 3 well worded veris which they were displaying. Moral, take control but do it with dignity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve taken to asking if someone wants a veri after meeting. sometimes men get grief if they meet an older woman. If I don’t get an answer, they don’t get a veri. No harm done then. If they say yes, I wait to get one myself first. I’ll add I’m not fussed either way, it just saves me faff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped showing verifications because there were those who wanted to make life difficult for people I met. Now I’d just agree not to verify each other if I met someone else. I feel the verification system is like Trip Advisor reviews or Amazon reviews and people can get viewed like commodities. I feel that what I do with any person I meet is between us. I take people as I find them not based on what others have written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't really got my head round the veri system yet and whether it's for me. I'm quite happy to leave them, but not too bothered about receiving them or putting them on display either.

It's seems a bit to personal perhaps, you wouldn't just tell random strangers details of your bedroom antics at any other time

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Second time this has happened...

We have a good time! Harder for men to fake that... evidence and all

you want more...have more... and again.

With the first guy we met on a few occasions. I verify him, I ask for the same in return and he doesn’t do it? Says he’s going to, but never does.

This time, different guy, cums X3.. and after we’ve parted company he’s full of compliments ...messaging me hours later. Posts his verification from me, but doesn’t write one in return?!

What’s the possible reason?

I know I shouldn’t overthink it... but isn’t it a little rude?

Yes it is.

I think your meeting the rong men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah it is a bit. If I get left one I'll leave one in return but usually check if someone wants one first.

Maybe he wants to keep you to himself?

Like you, I always return the favour. The gentleman has the choice to display it or not.

It’s kinda put me off meeting him again. If that’s the potential reason then why sign up for N.S.A?

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

I too feel it’s rude to display a veri sent and not return one back. Bad etiquette or just plain lazy. The veri provides feedback I guess on the meet. I find I avoid meeting again if they cannot be bothered - in the back of my mind no veri means they are not keen to meet again and I was not for them. So onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could find a million reasons why I wouldn't. That they ask me to write one, for example, not good style.

Even that I think they are too good, I don't want to help them advertise, I just want to have more of them, all for me, not sharing.

Laziness counts too.

And a million other reasons, or for no reason at all.

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By *rLucky777Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I haven’t written a veri because we have met yet! I’d write you the bible if it meant I got to see you naked!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I only write veris if I feel there is something more to write than "met in club, had sex" so I'm pissed off that 2 men I've left veris for recently haven't reciprocated. One hasn't even acknowledged that I did one, even though we chatted plenty before hand and thought we got on. Plus he has loads of his displayed but not mine. Fuck it, back to only verifying once I receive one

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By *eanontiWoman
over a year ago

Limerick

"Yeah it is a bit. If I get left one I'll leave one in return but usually check if someone wants one first.

Maybe he wants to keep you to himself?

Like you, I always return the favour. The gentleman has the choice to display it or not.

It’s kinda put me off meeting him again. If that’s the potential reason then why sign up for N.S.A?

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"Block them both and get your veris back

Wow?! Really! I didn’t know that!

Seems a bit vindictive... but the truth is it would give me a little satisfaction!

I thought you only lost a verification if someone left the site?

Learn something new every day!

It just means they can't display them if you block them. Which is still a petty get back. "

Yeh just as petty as them not doing the veri. It’s annoying and selfish they obviously think very little of her so why should she be wanting to see them again? So what if it’s petty. I’ve blocked people for less and I’m pretty sure you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a lot of men don't want to share women , even on here. This is the most likely explanation for the men not verifying you. They want you to be their sexual friend only,so don't want to recommend you to other men, hence no verification given. They are being territorial and possessive. They want to keep you for themselves. XXX

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By *orny Him N Saucy HerCouple
over a year ago

between Oldham and Manchester

I feel exactly the same... weve had the similar experiences ... i know you shouldnt over think it but you do you stsrt thinking they haven't had a nice time x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I find a lot of men don't want to share women , even on here. This is the most likely explanation for the men not verifying you. They want you to be their sexual friend only,so don't want to recommend you to other men, hence no verification given. They are being territorial and possessive. They want to keep you for themselves. XXX"

It's exactly this xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op have you thought they might not have written a veri because they didn't want someone else they want to meet knowing you fucked them ,it happens that some people won't meet you if you played with a certain someone else ,petty I know but it happens and that could be the reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block them both and get your veris back

Wow?! Really! I didn’t know that!

Seems a bit vindictive... but the truth is it would give me a little satisfaction!

I thought you only lost a verification if someone left the site?

Learn something new every day!

It just means they can't display them if you block them. Which is still a petty get back.

I meant it as a good thing! It's blooming annoying when they don't verify. Sets the brain to worrying. So a petty get back is a great thing. Amuses me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno. Have you ask them why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is rude. I always verify people after a meet. And always compliment them. The only reason I would not verify if it was a really bad meet. Don't over think it. Just learn from it xx

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

We always consider veris as the post play admin to be done the morning after and done to thank the guys without whom we wouldn't have had so much fun.

We are not sure if veris help us as a couple but we imagine to the guys wanting to stand out from the crowd they are quite important.

We don't take offense if one isn't returned but find it strange when they message you to thank you for it and then don't return the compliment?

S and C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave a really complimentary verification last week who had joined that day. Our meet, years ago, had been awesome.

He sent me a message to thank me for my verification. Nothing back.

Hmmm, not that I need a verification or boost my ego, but you'd think he have reciprocated or offered at least.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

We have on occasion asked a couple of meets not to verify us but only because we thought we might be getting too many veris in too short a time. Though we were happy to write one for them.

Our approach has since changed. We are who we are and we do what we do. Most people here accept that. So now any veris left for us are displayed. We don't hide any of them. We always reciprocate unless asked not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this problem a few times, annoying as it takes me a while to write one I'm satisfied with, to get nothing in return. Had one person basically hold me to ransom to write a verification, then I got nothing in return except the empty promise of one.

I never complain because I don't know how to word it.

Not as annoying as turning up early to an open mic to perform last night, waiting around for a couple of hours watching them get the speakers out. Then getting told it's not happening because not enough people were there.

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By *lue NarwhalMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

There may be many reasons, I do think you are overtaking this a little too much though..

Deep down, all men are bone idle, just look at most guys profiles (forumites excluded, they tend to like writing), the one line wonder of the Fab males profile... Be thankful they even could be bothered to turn up in the first place..the only reason they did was they were thinking with their little head..

And as for expressing feelings, get real! Have you seen men trying to express their feelings to one another?

With women, they are forthright, telling their friends how much they love and appreciate each other. With men, it usually involves an embarrassed grunt and an unsaid agreement never to mention it again..

So when it come to writing about an act of intimacy, most men are at a total loss and after a few minutes of trying to think what to write, their attention span has expired and the little head takes over control of the body once again.

So don't take it to heart, getting a verification off a guy is definitely an exception..

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By *layfulcoupleCouple
over a year ago

a kinky mood

Same happened with us. Have to say it's only been one guys ( the rest have been great). But we asked him to veri. Took him over a week, sent him messages on kik , which he read but nothing. So we ended up blocking him, and then he came back and asked us why we done that. His reason for him not verifying was that he's been busy. We explained he was very rude. Kept him blocked and moved on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same happened with us. Have to say it's only been one guys ( the rest have been great). But we asked him to veri. Took him over a week, sent him messages on kik , which he read but nothing. So we ended up blocking him, and then he came back and asked us why we done that. His reason for him not verifying was that he's been busy. We explained he was very rude. Kept him blocked and moved on"

Wow, blocked and he carried on trying to talk to you.

I think verifications could be a useful tool to gauge if someone will turn up, be on time and be respectful. So if a person isn't, then they shouldn't expect a verification even if they have given one. Don't think this happens though.

I see a few verifications with what appears to be real names as opposed to profile names. Would anyone not verify back, because they had received a verification with their real names on and been upset by this.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Second time this has happened...

We have a good time! Harder for men to fake that... evidence and all

you want more...have more... and again.

With the first guy we met on a few occasions. I verify him, I ask for the same in return and he doesn’t do it? Says he’s going to, but never does.

This time, different guy, cums X3.. and after we’ve parted company he’s full of compliments ...messaging me hours later. Posts his verification from me, but doesn’t write one in return?!

What’s the possible reason?

I know I shouldn’t overthink it... but isn’t it a little rude?

No!

Well not for me as I neither give or accept verifications. I use the site to meet and have sex. I do it for me not to advertise to others...my playmates are the same.

However, I appreciate others have differing views and seek validation and be miffed if it wasn't forthcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block them both and get your veris back

Wow?! Really! I didn’t know that!

Seems a bit vindictive... but the truth is it would give me a little satisfaction!

I thought you only lost a verification if someone left the site?

Learn something new every day!

That really is good to know

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Most guys are perfectly capable of writing a veri.

Just shes attracted to the type that don't.

I’ve never considered that part of an attraction?!

both guys were actually attentive, gentlemanly, good sense of humour? We were laughing, having good conversation in between.... having seconds and thirds...

That’s why I didn’t get it! Nothing went wrong?!

You sound a little needy.

You met for sex, a good time was had by all...why get hung up on the minutiae?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe we should have a verifications system that is optionally only for mutual veris, unless one user leaves the site? Any one of the 2 verifications would only be able to be published once the reciprocal veri has been written and sent.

For some people admin such as messaging and veris are a real chore unless having a wank simultaneously - they just want the shags. It's part of the same problem of why people - often women - hear nothing from a date until he wants something. Least possible effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a P.S. On my profile about the etiquette of returning a verification. If my verification is not reciprocated, then to me it means that person/people are not interested in meeting with me again. So I simply block and move on, then my verification disappears off his profile. It does irritate me that a guy would display my glowing reference, then not bother to even acknowledge he met me.

I don't buy the bollocks that guys can't string a sentence together or they are too lazy, have been busy for a week or even forgot! Rude!!,

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Yeah it is a bit. If I get left one I'll leave one in return but usually check if someone wants one first.

Maybe he wants to keep you to himself?

Like you, I always return the favour. The gentleman has the choice to display it or not.

It’s kinda put me off meeting him again. If that’s the potential reason then why sign up for N.S.A?

Jesus H Christ!

You met, verified on three occasions and got your panties in a twist because they didn't reciprocate with a forth? Didn't it cross your mind that some people view multiple verifications from the same person as territory marking and needy...as you demonstrated.

Good Lord!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I stopped showing verifications because there were those who wanted to make life difficult for people I met. Now I’d just agree not to verify each other if I met someone else. I feel the verification system is like Trip Advisor reviews or Amazon reviews and people can get viewed like commodities. I feel that what I do with any person I meet is between us. I take people as I find them not based on what others have written."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah it is a bit. If I get left one I'll leave one in return but usually check if someone wants one first.

Maybe he wants to keep you to himself?

Like you, I always return the favour. The gentleman has the choice to display it or not.

It’s kinda put me off meeting him again. If that’s the potential reason then why sign up for N.S.A?

Jesus H Christ!

Good Lord!

This is exactly why I won’t play the verification game...it’s a bloody minefield and treats people like possessions and commodities.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Most guys are perfectly capable of writing a veri.

Just shes attracted to the type that don't.

I’ve never considered that part of an attraction?!

both guys were actually attentive, gentlemanly, good sense of humour? We were laughing, having good conversation in between.... having seconds and thirds...

That’s why I didn’t get it! Nothing went wrong?!

You sound a little needy.

You met for sex, a good time was had by all...why get hung up on the minutiae?"

Because some of us ladies like playmates to tell others that we bang like a shit house door in the wind

I know why you don’t play the veri game Miss - it’s because you’re saving all your feedback for a blockbuster book and you don’t want any sneak previews. Could you write an eye watering sordid book of memoirs Miss?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've actually verid one person on here three times and not had one back but I don't want one because he did ALL the work and effort ... it is someone who does CFNM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll only leave one if asked or will ask if someone wants one.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Most guys are perfectly capable of writing a veri.

Just shes attracted to the type that don't.

I’ve never considered that part of an attraction?!

both guys were actually attentive, gentlemanly, good sense of humour? We were laughing, having good conversation in between.... having seconds and thirds...

That’s why I didn’t get it! Nothing went wrong?!

You sound a little needy.

You met for sex, a good time was had by all...why get hung up on the minutiae?

Because some of us ladies like playmates to tell others that we bang like a shit house door in the wind

...it would be viewed as fiction. Other half said if he'd passed me in the street he'd think I was going to church.

He had just seen my play room!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"Most guys are perfectly capable of writing a veri.

Just shes attracted to the type that don't.

I’ve never considered that part of an attraction?!

both guys were actually attentive, gentlemanly, good sense of humour? We were laughing, having good conversation in between.... having seconds and thirds...

That’s why I didn’t get it! Nothing went wrong?!

You sound a little needy.

You met for sex, a good time was had by all...why get hung up on the minutiae?

Because some of us ladies like playmates to tell others that we bang like a shit house door in the wind

...it would be viewed as fiction. Other half said if he'd passed me in the street he'd think I was going to church.

He had just seen my play room!

I’d believe it all

. I can see you now ahead of release date on Loose Women and the Graham Norton show. He’d probably request a practical example. I can see it now, you there leathering Tom Cruise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive had this too OP

I don't display veris anymore- they're trouble!

I like a veri for my personal pleasure

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some men are fucking loads of women and they don't want too upset women as some will think they are the only ones they are being fucked by him .So he doesnt want women bitching about him .That's my opinion on veries with some men .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as much as its lovely to have a verification (never show mine)

but i dont thrive off it. you met you had a good time does a piece of writing matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because some men are fucking loads of women and they don't want too upset women as some will think they are the only ones they are being fucked by him .So he doesnt want women bitching about him .That's my opinion on veries with some men .

Believe me. You don’t even have to fuck them for the bitching to start

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Second time this has happened...

We have a good time! Harder for men to fake that... evidence and all

you want more...have more... and again.

With the first guy we met on a few occasions. I verify him, I ask for the same in return and he doesn’t do it? Says he’s going to, but never does.

This time, different guy, cums X3.. and after we’ve parted company he’s full of compliments ...messaging me hours later. Posts his verification from me, but doesn’t write one in return?!

What’s the possible reason?

I know I shouldn’t overthink it... but isn’t it a little rude?

Frankly, this makes no sense to me. If you clicked, had great chemistry and an amazing night, common sense would dictate that a verification would be written, especially of you went out of your way to write one yourself.

It's a matter of decency and consideration. If the person can't be bothered to take 5 mins to write a veri, then they're not worth another 5 mins of your time. This applies especially for the first meet, as repeated veris are construed by many as marking territory. I would do as has been suggested, just block and move on.

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By *ringles0510Woman
over a year ago

Central Borders

"Probably means you are attracted to guys who like to fuck a girl and leave and then brag about fucking her."

Think that's actually spot on. And they make us (well, me anyway) feel pretty worthless. They do end up on my blocked list, so my veri is useless to them. After it's happened a few times I don't verify first anymore. If they leave me one, no matter if I put it on my profile or not, they'll get one back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me. You don’t even have to fuck them for the bitching to start

Yep can understand that with some .Thank the Lord not all of women are the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me. You don’t even have to fuck them for the bitching to start

Yep can understand that with some .Thank the Lord not all of women are the same .

Hallelujah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Believe me. You don’t even have to fuck them for the bitching to start

Yep can understand that with some .Thank the Lord not all of women are the same .

Hallelujah

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Most guys are perfectly capable of writing a veri.

Just shes attracted to the type that don't.

I’ve never considered that part of an attraction?!

both guys were actually attentive, gentlemanly, good sense of humour? We were laughing, having good conversation in between.... having seconds and thirds...

That’s why I didn’t get it! Nothing went wrong?!

You sound a little needy.

You met for sex, a good time was had by all...why get hung up on the minutiae?

Because some of us ladies like playmates to tell others that we bang like a shit house door in the wind

...it would be viewed as fiction. Other half said if he'd passed me in the street he'd think I was going to church.

He had just seen my play room!

I’d believe it all

. I can see you now ahead of release date on Loose Women and the Graham Norton show. He’d probably request a practical example. I can see it now, you there leathering Tom Cruise

Tom Cruise too short. Dwayne Johnson, Steve Austin on the other hand...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've several people who haven't verified me (I've listed this on my profile) and it is frustrating.

Two examples are (1) she isn't currently meeting anyone so won't add a verification, and (2) our meet was a social so doesn't warrant a veri.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Simple solution... Don't be first to veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've several people who haven't verified me (I've listed this on my profile) and it is frustrating.

Two examples are (1) she isn't currently meeting anyone so won't add a verification, and (2) our meet was a social so doesn't warrant a veri."

That is frustrating if you aren’t yet meet verified, but once you are they’re more trouble than they are worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That just rude, it only takes a couple of minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask do you want a verification? Nearly always it's a yes .it's a nice way to thank the other person/people..takes 5 mins max

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always ask do you want a verification? Nearly always it's a yes .it's a nice way to thank the other person/people..takes 5 mins max"

Yep, I agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your over thinking this . Maybe he don't like others here too see what he is up too.... Also maybe he wish too keep you too himself . Don't give feedback first next time ...? I don't give a lot now as had this woman mailing everyone I had meet saying she new me ... I know they have a place here but if you had a lovely time that's all that matters.

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By *hysoseriouslyMan
over a year ago

Kent

I think it’s part of the process. But I understand some people don’t get hung up on them although I generally ask at the time. I think it’s a really good compliment if someone writes one for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think your over thinking this . Maybe he don't like others here too see what he is up too.... Also maybe he wish too keep you too himself . Don't give feedback first next time ...? I don't give a lot now as had this woman mailing everyone I had meet saying she new me ... I know they have a place here but if you had a lovely time that's all that matters."

I did have a nice time. Not that fussed, just thought it was poor manners.

There are other nice times to be had!

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By *iss GalitzineWoman
over a year ago

Near Bath

"I haven’t written a veri because we have met yet! I’d write you the bible if it meant I got to see you naked!

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, veris can be a funny thing..... my recent feedback on my veris is woman don’t want to meet me because I have veris! Meaning , some people would rather not know wher you have been. Also, have you noticed so many profiles on here that have been members for over a year and have no veris on public display? Anyways, this is Fab after all... as wonderful as it can be it can sometimes be difficult to fathom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did have a nice time. Not that fussed, just thought it was poor manners.

There are other nice times to be had!

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Yes you think positive as I bet its nothing nasty . I am not doing it too be nasty not giving feedbacks just keeping things too myself I was meeting same people too .. Just you can get stokers on here looking at everything you say and do. X

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

You are owed NOTHING on the site .

If verifications or lack there of in return are a cause of such angst then simply don't leave them . It's YOUR choice to leave a verification or not ,the other person has same choice . They don't need to explain their reasoning to you .

Easy way to avoid any dramas as said ,up to you op if you want to do logical thing or if you just wish to continue your dramatics .In the whole scheme of things what difference does it make you not getting a verification returned except to your pride and ego ? Years down the line do you honestly think youd even give it a second thought ?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

After my first vrri or so, I largely stopped thinking about them, unless I knew that someone needed one to substantiate their true to life matching with their profile. As I've been here for almost a decade with the same username I sometimes get old meets returning to fab with new usernames asking for a very - I generally don't, as they may have changed a lot physically or in their behavior - it then seems sensible to meet again to reevaluate them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's exactly this xx"

I can assure other a this isn't just a male thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always ask do you want a verification? Nearly always it's a yes .it's a nice way to thank the other person/people..takes 5 mins max

Yep, I agree!"

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By *ophieLouiseTV/TS
over a year ago

yorks

Currently going through the same issue, met 2 different people, left them verifications and nothing returned.. obviously its not a given that the veri has to be returned but if You ask me to leave a verification in exchange for a verification back i atleast expect the deal to be done.. i take time to read people's verifications to see what type of person they are so mine are important to me! X

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Well I’ve not had the chance yet

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You are owed NOTHING on the site .

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