FabSwingers.com forum: Are ugly.people welcome in the forums

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here.

ptu xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totaly cringe when i see those post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been on here for four years and not been kicked out yet, so they must be...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes the forum is for everyone

Beauty is in the beholder so I've been told

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I've not been kicked out yet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm here.

ptu xxx"

Well I would kiss you all over.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes the forum is for everyone

Beauty is in the beholder so I've been told "

Or as my ex used to say the beerholder.

xxx

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By *erseus1968Man
over a year ago

Rochdale

"Yes the forum is for everyone

Beauty is in the beholder so I've been told "

Ooo er Mrs

I'm no oil painting but the forums have been good fun since I joined

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I wouldn't say you were ugly op. Those threads you often find people will skip the last poster to "fuck" someone they fancy who posted earlier, don't take it too seriously

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I wouldn't say you were ugly op. Those threads you often find people will skip the last poster to "fuck" someone they fancy who posted earlier, don't take it too seriously "

Nobody will skip you though hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been here nearly 6 years. I'm ugly, obese and disabled, but don't give a toss what others think. Fat shame me, by all means, but disability shaming and I'll kick off and get a ban.

One guy told me on the forum that I should be shot in the head by the Taliban....guess who got a fucking ban? ME.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, they let me in...so, yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck xx..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)"

I’m with you in manly brotherhood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear what you are saying OP. It's a bit like high school sometimes with people who try to make themselves popular at the expense of those less fortunate than themselves. It's a great filter!

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"Well, they let me in...so, yeah

You are defo not ugly bold girl, not by a long way x x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm still posting.

Don't worry op everyone gets missed on threads at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)"

From a fellas point of view you’re not an ugly bloke, on the forums you’ve listed if a few people comment at a time so yours may be missed.

Either way I don’t know if ugly people aren’t welcome but I’m here and haven’t been kicked out yet so who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, they let me in...so, yeah

Stunning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes the forum is for everyone

Beauty is in the beholder so I've been told

Or as my ex used to say the beerholder.

xxx"

Looking good from here. No beer drank

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Everyone gets skipped on those posts at times, even the women

If you are enjoying the forum, keep joining in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say you were ugly op. Those threads you often find people will skip the last poster to "fuck" someone they fancy who posted earlier, don't take it too seriously "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two kinds of swingers. One kind who are here for sex and another kind who need to be seen.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

"There are two kinds of swingers. One kind who are here for sex and another kind who need to be seen."

I don’t agree, but then I’m not sure I’m a swinger

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

One guy told me on the forum that I should be shot in the head by the Taliban....guess who got a fucking ban? ME.

That is disgusting!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus, I hate the word ugly ........ no one is that. Some people might not float each other's boat but to say ugly says more about the person who would say it ..... if that's makes sense?

I'm not well this week and have taken a lot of meds lol

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

The forums are for anyone and everyone. Those threads are just a bit of silliness and nonsense really and I don’t take any of it seriously.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Just thinking it like school where the popular girls hung out with the popular boys, even the ones who profess not to be popular ARE the popular ones on those threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All jokes aside op we are all here to try n get noticed whever that's by the masses or the few. I don't go on those threads cos I get ignored too. We all get ignored from time to time.

Xxx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)"

Aw...how could anyone ignore you!

But no...ugly people are welcome too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I am impressed.. so many pleasant comments and not a signal one saying

"If you don't like the forum's, you know what you can do"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am impressed.. so many pleasant comments and not a signal one saying

"If you don't like the forum's, you know what you can do"

Well as you mention it....

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All jokes aside op we are all here to try n get noticed whever that's by the masses or the few. I don't go on those threads cos I get ignored too. We all get ignored from time to time.

Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One guy told me on the forum that I should be shot in the head by the Taliban....guess who got a fucking ban? ME.

That is disgusting!!!!

It seems that some people are "fair game" for rude and insensitive comments. At the end of the day it boils down to nothing more than cyberbullying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forum works for some better than others. I’ve found if I contribute in the way I want, make a few positive contributions amongst the drivel and bollocks I post, and do my best not to antagonise anyone, I enjoy myself on here.

In the four years I’ve frequented the forum I’ve experienced them as less welcoming than currently, but on the whole it can be a fun place to hangout.

I have no expectations of anyone on here and therefore don’t feel disappointed. On the whole I find I’m welcome, but rarely if ever got a kiss or fuck on a kiss, fuck avoid thread. I have avoided them, except for the odd giggle and ironic post, for most of those four years. They are the least interesting part of the forum for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am impressed.. so many pleasant comments and not a signal one saying

"If you don't like the forum's, you know what you can do"

That is despite you leading with your chin

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The forum works for some better than others. I’ve found if I contribute in the way I want, make a few positive contributions amongst the drivel and bollocks I post, and do my best not to antagonise anyone, I enjoy myself on here.

In the four years I’ve frequented the forum I’ve experienced them as less welcoming than currently, but on the whole it can be a fun place to hangout.

Fair point, well made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just because those sort of threads move so fast everyone gets skipped at some point. Same with the word association ones etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am impressed.. so many pleasant comments and not a signal one saying

"If you don't like the forum's, you know what you can do"

The people I think you mean have yet to comment on here but as you say I too see what you mean on those other threads.

I never pander to anyone based on their looks. If they love themselves then great, I refuse to help inflate anyone's ego.

Op, I wouldn't call you ugly. Keep being you!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)"

I get ignored on those threads pretty much every time OP so I wouldn't worry about it; I don't think it has anything to do with looks since I don't think I'm especially ugly (not that anyone can tell that without seeing a face pic but I happen to think that and I know what I look like). I only post on those threads rarely and it's usually out of a sense of mischief to try and beat the forum lurkers to comment under a hot girl. Then they delete their comment when they realised I slipped in first, just in case I take their compliment as meant for me, which makes me laugh. My record was 8 'removed by poster' comments on the trot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh this place never changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't got a clue what most of the forum contributors look like, but I certainly warm to some based on their mindset.

As for the kiss avoid type threads, very few show their faces anyway and it's nothing more than a gap filler whilst waiting for an interesting thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you ask that?

. You’re not ugly in the slightest. Totally my type except you’re married so that would put me off

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)

Oh I like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are two kinds of swingers. One kind who are here for sex and another kind who need to be seen.

I don’t agree, but then I’m not sure I’m a swinger

Never seen this... girl fits exactly what the media expects of her body and looks wise. Goes to a swingers club. Spends half her time looking at herself in the mirror and and only looks at others to see who is looking at her. Never gets her kit off even if she goes in the hot tub. If she does play it's only with her Ken boyfriend in the corner and still never gets her kit off.

I don't mind them. I think they are funny. But when they need to feel better about themselves by belittling others I take exception.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Everyone is welcome OP, as you know well by now. Maybe you'll not get the attention in those threads

but everyone gets 'missed out' at some point in those threads.

Heck, even I've been missed out before on a 'Snog, fuck, avoid' thread. After a long time of crying and questioning and self worth and posting about it on the forum, I got over it. Hopefully you do too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that feeling sometimes because I've posted on the forums and no one replied to my comments and just be ignored - apart from one to say I wasn't the best looking person they'd seen!

Kinda the reason why I have no main display picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God I'm still here a year on so yes everyone is welcome. But in all seriousness we may not be everyone's cup of tea but you will be someone's. Don't take the forums too seriously those kiss, fuck, avoid threads are just fun x

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)"

I dont think your ugly

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"I've not been kicked out yet...

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neither have I lol

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

"I totaly cringe when i see those post."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought being ugly was the reason we all come here?

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)

I dont think your ugly"

But married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of late I have spent a lot of time reading and posting around the various forums and generally my contribution has been acknowledged.

This is until you get to the ones titled "Pay someone a compliment" "Kiss, Fuck, Avoid" "Fab a photo" you get the idea, with these type of thread I find I am ignored despite playing along...

So my question is:

Are ugly people welcome, or are the forum's just a play for the beautiful people to further inflate their egos?

(Fully prepared for the haters to attack)

Devious lady..

Like your style

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I'm beautiful, yet I'm always overlooked on the threads you mention. It's nothing to do with being ugly.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Im a handsome bassa and i get overlooked in alot of those threads so its got nothing to do with being ugly

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

People with ugly personalities can piss off. My opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How can you ask that?

. You’re not ugly in the slightest. Totally my type except you’re married so that would put me off "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are two kinds of swingers. One kind who are here for sex and another kind who need to be seen.

I don’t agree, but then I’m not sure I’m a swinger

I don't mind them. I think they are funny. But when they need to feel better about themselves by belittling others I take exception. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people (for single guys that's nearly all) are using the forums to scope out potential meets. Consequently they will often focus there posts on those they are pursuing, doesn't mean you are ugly they just aren't pursuing you at the time. Hang around long enough and you will gain a few "followers" who will focus there attentions on you in those kind of threads. Or just use the forums like I do and don't give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

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