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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So top shop have gone gender neutral on changing rooms...but you still have your onwards private cubicle. Only difference is there is no left or right ends for men and women.

It's made the news but I fail to see a problem with this.

Your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see a problem if everyone's in a cubicle anyway

C

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

No, no problem for me as long as I have a cubicle (I was never a fan of communal fitting rooms)

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't see what the big deal is. Many smaller clothing retailers don't have space for seperate gender fitting rooms and have one for all with individual cubicles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't see a problem if everyone's in a cubicle anyway

C"

I think they do it more for the headlines as when you look into it there is no issue I can see

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, no problem for me as long as I have a cubicle (I was never a fan of communal fitting rooms)"

Now communal is a different matter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't see what the big deal is. Many smaller clothing retailers don't have space for seperate gender fitting rooms and have one for all with individual cubicles. "

Newspapers trying to sell bloody papers

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By *aul1973HullMan
over a year ago

East Hull

Will their 'sister' company 'Top Man' follow suit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Will their 'sister' company 'Top Man' follow suit? "

Feck all in there for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't care. We have mixed changing rooms at our swimming pool. Can't see the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will their 'sister' company 'Top Man' follow suit? "

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Op, I'm into all this equality thing we're trying to do lately, I hope it does have a positive impact on the views of people in the future. Time will tell.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I need to ask my fairly young teenager see what she thinks about that. I'll report back later if I remember.

I don't have any problem with it,I'm just thinking about the younger girls.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Will their 'sister' company 'Top Man' follow suit?

.

Op, I'm into all this equality thing we're trying to do lately, I hope it does have a positive impact on the views of people in the future. Time will tell. "

To be honest...all my female clothes centre via tinternet

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I don't know any men who have been clothes shopping since the internet and wives / mothers were invented so i don't think it'll make much practical difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends if it's the type of changing room with gaps top and bottom, you may get perving men following girls in sticking their phone under. If they are totally enclosed then I have no problem, they have locks on the doors.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"I don't know any men who have been clothes shopping since the internet and wives / mothers were invented so i don't think it'll make much practical difference. "

I was never that kind of wife, I hate shopping, he could waste his own time on that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't like this idea. I don't really want to see a guy when I'm asking my friends opinion on a dress I'm trying on or him over hear me asking if my boobs are sitting right x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know any men who have been clothes shopping since the internet and wives / mothers were invented so i don't think it'll make much practical difference.

I was never that kind of wife, I hate shopping, he could waste his own time on that!

"

Ah but did he buy your clothes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recent events have shown that far too many men are predatory.

I'm not sure this is a good thing.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"No I don't like this idea. I don't really want to see a guy when I'm asking my friends opinion on a dress I'm trying on or him over hear me asking if my boobs are sitting right x"

You have a point there actually,especially when I'm in there with my daughters.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

You'll all say something different if god forbid someone's daughter or son has something happen to them. Change is not always a good thing and things that have been the same for centuries are there for a reason but of course most on here know best.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I don't know any men who have been clothes shopping since the internet and wives / mothers were invented so i don't think it'll make much practical difference.

I was never that kind of wife, I hate shopping, he could waste his own time on that!

"

That's where the internet comes in then, fortunately my wife dresses me

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"No I don't like this idea. I don't really want to see a guy when I'm asking my friends opinion on a dress I'm trying on or him over hear me asking if my boobs are sitting right x

You have a point there actually,especially when I'm in there with my daughters."

They'll be no popping into each other's cubicle half dressed,when they're only tiny cubicles that is otherwise we share.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll all say something different if god forbid someone's daughter or son has something happen to them. Change is not always a good thing and things that have been the same for centuries are there for a reason but of course most on here know best. "

Change happens as we change.

It's also good to have varying reasons..I may not agree with them but I respect the person voicing them has a right to do so

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"No I don't like this idea. I don't really want to see a guy when I'm asking my friends opinion on a dress I'm trying on or him over hear me asking if my boobs are sitting right x

You have a point there actually,especially when I'm in there with my daughters."

I was going to say this is no big deal and a marketing ploy to get media attention. Lota of bars and clubs have gender neutral toilets so why not changing rooms.

But you have a valid point.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Recent events have shown that far too many men are predatory.

I'm not sure this is a good thing."

No they haven't, get some perspective

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop. "

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not keen on it to be honest despite it being seperate cubicles. If im there with my daughter and want to ask her opinion on something iv tried on id prefer it to be just other females there and im sure she would feel the same.

My teenage stepdaughter has enough issues with other females seeing her showing me what shes tried on so she wouldnt want mixed changing rooms even with cubicles. She doesnt even like looking at and discussing clothes on a rail in the shop if theres guys around except her dad !

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!"

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Recent events have shown that far too many men are predatory.

I'm not sure this is a good thing.

No they haven't, get some perspective "

What perspective would you put on it then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice. "

But have you really thought about it clem? Or are you just trying too hard to be controversial again

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice.

But have you really thought about it clem? Or are you just trying too hard to be controversial again "

No I've never had the idea..... wtf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember buying a young lady a bikini. The shop refused to let me go in with her so whenever she tried a new one on she was forced to walk onto the shop floor wearing a bikini. Fantastic logic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice.

But have you really thought about it clem? Or are you just trying too hard to be controversial again

No I've never had the idea..... wtf."

Wtf is there has been some valid reasons why people might have issues with this.

Then you throw a dick wipe no issue in. Imo

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I can foresee a new thread popping up.....

I just had a wank in the changing room as I was so horny surrounded by all these girls

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Is it really big news ..what is it with all this gender neutral stuff ...places have been doing it for years ..it was called unisex/communal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can foresee a new thread popping up.....

I just had a wank in the changing room as I was so horny surrounded by all these girls "

That was LAST week posted by a lesbian woman

The solution is for short armed and deep pocketed clothing retailers to provide a reasonable level of privacy. Not to impose draconian rules that belonged in the last century. Yes some people are sick. But not everyone is sick.

Most of the clubs I have been to have gender neutral change rooms and I have never seen anyone reduced to uncontrollable masterbation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can foresee a new thread popping up.....

I just had a wank in the changing room as I was so horny surrounded by all these girls

That was LAST week posted by a lesbian woman

The solution is for short armed and deep pocketed clothing retailers to provide a reasonable level of privacy. Not to impose draconian rules that belonged in the last century. Yes some people are sick. But not everyone is sick.

Most of the clubs I have been to have gender neutral change rooms and I have never seen anyone reduced to uncontrollable masterbation."

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice. "

You don't know what a Toyshop is?! Fucking hell have you been walking around with your eyes closed for thirty odd year's! and don't patronise me thankyou of course I fucking don't.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice.

But have you really thought about it clem? Or are you just trying too hard to be controversial again "

Course he is,it gets dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can foresee a new thread popping up.....

I just had a wank in the changing room as I was so horny surrounded by all these girls

That was LAST week posted by a lesbian woman

The solution is for short armed and deep pocketed clothing retailers to provide a reasonable level of privacy. Not to impose draconian rules that belonged in the last century. Yes some people are sick. But not everyone is sick.

Most of the clubs I have been to have gender neutral change rooms and I have never seen anyone reduced to uncontrollable masterbation."

Are you talking sex clubs or night clubs?

We are also talking about changing areas in Topshop which attracts a younger clientele. Of course, there's never been any cases of certain types of men trying to get a peek at young girls......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can foresee a new thread popping up.....

I just had a wank in the changing room as I was so horny surrounded by all these girls

That was LAST week posted by a lesbian woman

The solution is for short armed and deep pocketed clothing retailers to provide a reasonable level of privacy. Not to impose draconian rules that belonged in the last century. Yes some people are sick. But not everyone is sick.

Most of the clubs I have been to have gender neutral change rooms and I have never seen anyone reduced to uncontrollable masterbation.

Are you talking sex clubs or night clubs?

We are also talking about changing areas in Topshop which attracts a younger clientele. Of course, there's never been any cases of certain types of men trying to get a peek at young girls......"

Would it not be better all round...if we are having any segregation, that it is a children area for changing rooms?

Just throwing it in to see your views

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can foresee a new thread popping up.....

I just had a wank in the changing room as I was so horny surrounded by all these girls

That was LAST week posted by a lesbian woman

The solution is for short armed and deep pocketed clothing retailers to provide a reasonable level of privacy. Not to impose draconian rules that belonged in the last century. Yes some people are sick. But not everyone is sick.

Most of the clubs I have been to have gender neutral change rooms and I have never seen anyone reduced to uncontrollable masterbation.

Are you talking sex clubs or night clubs?

We are also talking about changing areas in Topshop which attracts a younger clientele. Of course, there's never been any cases of certain types of men trying to get a peek at young girls......

Would it not be better all round...if we are having any segregation, that it is a children area for changing rooms?

Just throwing it in to see your views "

Possibly. Although I wonder if changing rooms (and not cubicles) that are big enough to get a friend or two in and have proper doors.

To be honest, I'm not sure what the answer is but I do think as a society we need to be looking at how we tackle sex pests. We need to create a climate where misogyny is viewed on a par with racism. I think that's the root of the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can foresee a new thread popping up.....

I just had a wank in the changing room as I was so horny surrounded by all these girls

That was LAST week posted by a lesbian woman

The solution is for short armed and deep pocketed clothing retailers to provide a reasonable level of privacy. Not to impose draconian rules that belonged in the last century. Yes some people are sick. But not everyone is sick.

Most of the clubs I have been to have gender neutral change rooms and I have never seen anyone reduced to uncontrollable masterbation.

Are you talking sex clubs or night clubs?

We are also talking about changing areas in Topshop which attracts a younger clientele. Of course, there's never been any cases of certain types of men trying to get a peek at young girls......"

What's a night club? I'm a card carrying pervert! I wouldn't be seen dead in a club where orgies aren't allowed on the dancefloor.

So let's say I'm a single dad who wants to take his daughter clothes shopping....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate to be in a position to be laughed at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations. "

Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I rarely use changing rooms (no, I don't get my kit off on the shop floor either) and even more rarely use Top Shop. However I have noticed that most of them have someone on checking what you take in so that might put a stop to any "antics".

I wouldn't be happy with gender neutral changing rooms though. I can't articulate exactly why I just don't like the idea and wouldn't use them.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations.

Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

"

Yes paedophiles are a statistically insignificant proportion of men. I could easily point to crimes that are disproportionately female and extrapolate them into a weak arguement of why women can't ne trusted for x, y or z.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations.

Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Yes paedophiles are a statistically insignificant proportion of men. I could easily point to crimes that are disproportionately female and extrapolate them into a weak arguement of why women can't ne trusted for x, y or z. "

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By *icoleAndLisaTransCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

"

Is that 98% figure from a reliable source, or did you just make it up?

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/female-sex-offenders-more-common-gender-bias-statistics-rape-abuse-a7839361.html

The entire 'safe spaces' argument is flawed anyway. The spaces become unsafe if a male predator enters them, precisely because he is only likely to find females in there. Lots would think twice if there's a chance of encountering a bloke built like a brick shit house while they're trying to perv under cubicle doors.

And anyone using a camera to film other changing room occupants in a state of undress should be prosecuted for voyeurism. Regardless of what's in their pants.

As someone who is essentially a gay male who likes to wear dresses, I'm tired of d*unken young women feeling entitled to grab my tits or slap my arse on a night out. If the roles were reversed, I'd be leaving in the back of a police car. The need to improve behaviour isn't gender specific, though the attitudes to sexual assault when it happens, are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations.

Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Yes paedophiles are a statistically insignificant proportion of men. I could easily point to crimes that are disproportionately female and extrapolate them into a weak arguement of why women can't ne trusted for x, y or z. "

Such as?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Is that 98% figure from a reliable source, or did you just make it up?

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/female-sex-offenders-more-common-gender-bias-statistics-rape-abuse-a7839361.html

The entire 'safe spaces' argument is flawed anyway. The spaces become unsafe if a male predator enters them, precisely because he is only likely to find females in there. Lots would think twice if there's a chance of encountering a bloke built like a brick shit house while they're trying to perv under cubicle doors.

And anyone using a camera to film other changing room occupants in a state of undress should be prosecuted for voyeurism. Regardless of what's in their pants.

As someone who is essentially a gay male who likes to wear dresses, I'm tired of d*unken young women feeling entitled to grab my tits or slap my arse on a night out. If the roles were reversed, I'd be leaving in the back of a police car. The need to improve behaviour isn't gender specific, though the attitudes to sexual assault when it happens, are."

I couldn't agree with your last paragraph more. Well said.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Is that 98% figure from a reliable source, or did you just make it up?

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/female-sex-offenders-more-common-gender-bias-statistics-rape-abuse-a7839361.html

The entire 'safe spaces' argument is flawed anyway. The spaces become unsafe if a male predator enters them, precisely because he is only likely to find females in there. Lots would think twice if there's a chance of encountering a bloke built like a brick shit house while they're trying to perv under cubicle doors.

And anyone using a camera to film other changing room occupants in a state of undress should be prosecuted for voyeurism. Regardless of what's in their pants.

As someone who is essentially a gay male who likes to wear dresses, I'm tired of d*unken young women feeling entitled to grab my tits or slap my arse on a night out. If the roles were reversed, I'd be leaving in the back of a police car. The need to improve behaviour isn't gender specific, though the attitudes to sexual assault when it happens, are."

Paedophiles are overwhelmingly male, as are murderers by the way. The logical error is treating a small sample as the basis for a broader rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem whatsoever, as aside was at Hull University last week and the student union have toilets which have communal washing facilities, seemed a little strange at first but soon don't think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Is that 98% figure from a reliable source, or did you just make it up?

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/female-sex-offenders-more-common-gender-bias-statistics-rape-abuse-a7839361.html

The entire 'safe spaces' argument is flawed anyway. The spaces become unsafe if a male predator enters them, precisely because he is only likely to find females in there. Lots would think twice if there's a chance of encountering a bloke built like a brick shit house while they're trying to perv under cubicle doors.

And anyone using a camera to film other changing room occupants in a state of undress should be prosecuted for voyeurism. Regardless of what's in their pants.

As someone who is essentially a gay male who likes to wear dresses, I'm tired of d*unken young women feeling entitled to grab my tits or slap my arse on a night out. If the roles were reversed, I'd be leaving in the back of a police car. The need to improve behaviour isn't gender specific, though the attitudes to sexual assault when it happens, are."

Ministry of Justice figures from 2013.

Lets put it more simply. How many female sex offender wings are there in jails? Whereas we have whole jails made over to male sex offenders.

If you've been sexually assaulted, report it. Its widely believed that most females don't report sexual assaults either. I think Westminster ably shows that?

Why is it though, that where there is obviously a problem we can't seem to acknowledge it? As men, we tend to think, hell, I'm not the sex pest so its not my problem? It is our problem, because we all have wives, mothers, sisters, daughters that are all vulnerable.

This isn't a subject we should be looking to dismiss, minimise or say what about. We should be standing up and being bloody angry about it.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations.

Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Yes paedophiles are a statistically insignificant proportion of men. I could easily point to crimes that are disproportionately female and extrapolate them into a weak arguement of why women can't ne trusted for x, y or z.

Such as?"

Women are more likely to make up a false allegation of r***. That's from a study conducted for the home office before you dispute it. They are also more likley to coach a child into making up a false allegation of assault and a higher proportion of women are in prison for fraud or robbery than men. It's idiotic to try and extrapolate these facts about small samples into wider principles because they are the exceptions not the rule.

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations.

Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Yes paedophiles are a statistically insignificant proportion of men. I could easily point to crimes that are disproportionately female and extrapolate them into a weak arguement of why women can't ne trusted for x, y or z.

"

Whenever this kind of conversation comes up everyone jumps straight to paedophiles and OH MY GOD WON'T SOMEONE THINK OF THE CHILDREN. Aside from the fact that virtually all abuse is perpetrated by a family member or somebody close to the child and not some dirty-anorak in a public toilet I don't PERSONALLY know anybody that was abused as a child, while just about every single woman I know has been subjected to some sort of sexual harassment or assault as an adult (be it catcalling/being followed home, smacked on the arse/groped in public, or a more serious physical attack)

With the best will in the world, we're never going to move past this divisive, paranoid outlook OR properly address the realities of misogyny and sexual attacks on women OR men if we keep jumping to the most extreme and shocking scare-mongering conclusions and shooting down every small attempt to break the gender divide.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"I don't know any men who have been clothes shopping since the internet and wives / mothers were invented so i don't think it'll make much practical difference.

I was never that kind of wife, I hate shopping, he could waste his own time on that!

Ah but did he buy your clothes? "

Only lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marketing eh?

The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about...

Especially if it can be turned into a gender war threaf about all men being abusers and all women victims...

Before the inevitable war starts abusers of both genders are a very small minority of the population...

And usually carry out such abuse where it is unlikely to be seen not in a crowded shop on a Saturday afternoon.

Guess as a single guy I'd better stick to internet shopping...

It's a marketing ploy...does everything have to be a fight...

Perspective anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Topshop and TopMan attire is made for the younger generation; including teens. I would feel happier if my granddaughter didn't have to be changing in a cubicle next to a man who could be in his 30's. Knowing that people -and it's usually men- do aim cameras under toilet doors to take photos, I'm expecting these cubicles to be more secure.

As an older woman I don't feel intimidated by changing near a man -we do it at our swimming pool, and their cubicles have no roofs on them. The chances of someone having a quick peek is slim, but it can happen.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think its a good idea.

People seem to be complaining about nothing.

If ya wanna know if ya arse looks fat or ya tits look shit at least theyd tell the truth instead of pretending ya look mint like women do.

And people talking about children... every man is paedo now aswell?

No mention of women being a problem in these situations.

Males account for about 98% of offenders.

And of course not every male is a paedophile, but are you saying the numbers are insignificant?

Yes paedophiles are a statistically insignificant proportion of men. I could easily point to crimes that are disproportionately female and extrapolate them into a weak arguement of why women can't ne trusted for x, y or z.

Whenever this kind of conversation comes up everyone jumps straight to paedophiles and OH MY GOD WON'T SOMEONE THINK OF THE CHILDREN. Aside from the fact that virtually all abuse is perpetrated by a family member or somebody close to the child and not some dirty-anorak in a public toilet I don't PERSONALLY know anybody that was abused as a child, while just about every single woman I know has been subjected to some sort of sexual harassment or assault as an adult (be it catcalling/being followed home, smacked on the arse/groped in public, or a more serious physical attack)

With the best will in the world, we're never going to move past this divisive, paranoid outlook OR properly address the realities of misogyny and sexual attacks on women OR men if we keep jumping to the most extreme and shocking scare-mongering conclusions and shooting down every small attempt to break the gender divide."

Humans are inherently awful at probability since over-reaction to danger was generally a better strategy than under-reaction throughout our evolutionary period thus far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marketing eh?

The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about...

Especially if it can be turned into a gender war threaf about all men being abusers and all women victims...

Before the inevitable war starts abusers of both genders are a very small minority of the population...

And usually carry out such abuse where it is unlikely to be seen not in a crowded shop on a Saturday afternoon.

Guess as a single guy I'd better stick to internet shopping...

It's a marketing ploy...does everything have to be a fight...

Perspective anyone? "

A changing cubicle isn't a crowded shop though. You're right, the chances of someone spying on you is slim isn't it. Who looks through cracks in curtains to see the person in there, after all. I know I wouldn't.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Topshop and TopMan attire is made for the younger generation; including teens. I would feel happier if my granddaughter didn't have to be changing in a cubicle next to a man who could be in his 30's. Knowing that people -and it's usually men- do aim cameras under toilet doors to take photos, I'm expecting these cubicles to be more secure.

As an older woman I don't feel intimidated by changing near a man -we do it at our swimming pool, and their cubicles have no roofs on them. The chances of someone having a quick peek is slim, but it can happen. "

At the end of the day, if you want to take the logic that men are predators or women can't but be victims, to it's logical extreme, then you end up with saudi arabia. Let's cover the women entirely so men won't be tempted by them and for goodness sake don't let them go out without a male relative to fight off all the pervs with a shitty stick. Alternatively we could just... you know... not attack women and lock up the 0.13% of people that commit these crimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't be any worse than the changing room in my local sports direct shop. Changing room door is not very suitable with gaps at the top and bottom. Anyone over 5'7 in height could see straight over it as I discovered recently as I popped my head through a top to see a guy in the queue looking directly at me!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Marketing eh?

The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about...

Especially if it can be turned into a gender war threaf about all men being abusers and all women victims...

Before the inevitable war starts abusers of both genders are a very small minority of the population...

And usually carry out such abuse where it is unlikely to be seen not in a crowded shop on a Saturday afternoon.

Guess as a single guy I'd better stick to internet shopping...

It's a marketing ploy...does everything have to be a fight...

Perspective anyone? "

Internet shopping for half of me...the other half couldn't give a feck in pep&co

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Topshop and TopMan attire is made for the younger generation; including teens. I would feel happier if my granddaughter didn't have to be changing in a cubicle next to a man who could be in his 30's. Knowing that people -and it's usually men- do aim cameras under toilet doors to take photos, I'm expecting these cubicles to be more secure.

As an older woman I don't feel intimidated by changing near a man -we do it at our swimming pool, and their cubicles have no roofs on them. The chances of someone having a quick peek is slim, but it can happen. "

But you've just said yourself it's made for the younger generation. Why would there suddenly be some old cunt in the next cubicle?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"No, no problem for me as long as I have a cubicle (I was never a fan of communal fitting rooms)

Now communal is a different matter"

indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know any men who have been clothes shopping since the internet and wives / mothers were invented so i don't think it'll make much practical difference.

I was never that kind of wife, I hate shopping, he could waste his own time on that!

Ah but did he buy your clothes?

Only lingerie "

Hitchin up with me girl...I have a good eye for clothes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cubicles should have doors instead of curtains. Maybe cubicle walls should go all the way down to the floor. Maybe people should solve the ACTUAL problem and not look for lazy quick solutions that create as many problems as they solve.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

In the end if it proves unpopular with customers they'll revert to single sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the end if it proves unpopular with customers they'll revert to single sex.

"

Well they do say the customer is always right

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"In the end if it proves unpopular with customers they'll revert to single sex.

Well they do say the customer is always right"

They say that, but they're wrong. The customer, by and large is an idiot.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In the end if it proves unpopular with customers they'll revert to single sex.

Well they do say the customer is always right

They say that, but they're wrong. The customer, by and large is an idiot. "

Would you work in retail by any chance?

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By *atcherwankerMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"In the end if it proves unpopular with customers they'll revert to single sex.

Well they do say the customer is always right

They say that, but they're wrong. The customer, by and large is an idiot.

Would you work in retail by any chance? "

Licensed trade/catering. Imagine having to deal with the arseholes kicking up a stink in a shop, except that they're also d*unk and spoiling for a fight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely use changing rooms (no, I don't get my kit off on the shop floor either) and even more rarely use Top Shop. However I have noticed that most of them have someone on checking what you take in so that might put a stop to any "antics".

I wouldn't be happy with gender neutral changing rooms though. I can't articulate exactly why I just don't like the idea and wouldn't use them."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really. "

The ratio of boys to girls in top shop is probably like the ratio of men to women on here...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really. "

I kind off get what your saying. ..but my daughter often shouts for me to come to her cubicle to look at something she has tried on.

There has never been a issue with me doing so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really. "

I agree. My thoughts are mainly that my adult daughter and teenage step daughter wouldnt feel comfortable to come out to show me the outfit. I wasnt thinking as such about pervy guys but more about a modest, shy, teenager, young adult who prefer to have females around. The 16 year old would be bright red and squirming with embaresment to be honest.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

I agree. My thoughts are mainly that my adult daughter and teenage step daughter wouldnt feel comfortable to come out to show me the outfit. I wasnt thinking as such about pervy guys but more about a modest, shy, teenager, young adult who prefer to have females around. The 16 year old would be bright red and squirming with embaresment to be honest. "

That is exactly how she feels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they've still got badly fitting curtains that leave a good gap for me to perv thru I'm not bothered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as they've still got badly fitting curtains that leave a good gap for me to perv thru I'm not bothered "

Always one to lower the tone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to ask my fairly young teenager see what she thinks about that. I'll report back later if I remember.

I don't have any problem with it,I'm just thinking about the younger girls."

Thinking what in particular?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

I agree. My thoughts are mainly that my adult daughter and teenage step daughter wouldnt feel comfortable to come out to show me the outfit. I wasnt thinking as such about pervy guys but more about a modest, shy, teenager, young adult who prefer to have females around. The 16 year old would be bright red and squirming with embaresment to be honest.

That is exactly how she feels. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

The ratio of boys to girls in top shop is probably like the ratio of men to women on here..."

They have merged in store with TopMan. You'll get plenty of men in there as well as women.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice.

You don't know what a Toyshop is?! Fucking hell have you been walking around with your eyes closed for thirty odd year's! and don't patronise me thankyou of course I fucking don't."

Did you mean Top shop dear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Topshop and TopMan attire is made for the younger generation; including teens. I would feel happier if my granddaughter didn't have to be changing in a cubicle next to a man who could be in his 30's. Knowing that people -and it's usually men- do aim cameras under toilet doors to take photos, I'm expecting these cubicles to be more secure.

As an older woman I don't feel intimidated by changing near a man -we do it at our swimming pool, and their cubicles have no roofs on them. The chances of someone having a quick peek is slim, but it can happen.

But you've just said yourself it's made for the younger generation. Why would there suddenly be some old cunt in the next cubicle? "

Cunts don't have to be old.

Also, if a man did anything untoward to me I would punch his cunt of a face off. My granddaughter wouldn't. We'll, one of them might; she's a bit of a cunt herself.

It is better than having women screaming that there's a man in the changing room, when a TV goes in to try something on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Topshop and TopMan attire is made for the younger generation; including teens. I would feel happier if my granddaughter didn't have to be changing in a cubicle next to a man who could be in his 30's. Knowing that people -and it's usually men- do aim cameras under toilet doors to take photos, I'm expecting these cubicles to be more secure.

As an older woman I don't feel intimidated by changing near a man -we do it at our swimming pool, and their cubicles have no roofs on them. The chances of someone having a quick peek is slim, but it can happen.

But you've just said yourself it's made for the younger generation. Why would there suddenly be some old cunt in the next cubicle?

Cunts don't have to be old.

Also, if a man did anything untoward to me I would punch his cunt of a face off. My granddaughter wouldn't. We'll, one of them might; she's a bit of a cunt herself.

It is better than having women screaming that there's a man in the changing room, when a TV goes in to try something on.

"

Your safe with this tv....only shop on tinternet...t'other half who's the old cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as they've still got badly fitting curtains that leave a good gap for me to perv thru I'm not bothered

Always one to lower the tone "

.

It's a dirty job but somebody has to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But,but,but,,,,,how on earth are we supposed to concentrate on what we are doing (trying to squeeze a size 14 butt into a pair of size 10 jeans in my case) when there could be someone in the next cubicle (completely shut away from view) who has a different shaped body to mine but is completely uninterested in me? I'm going to write an anguished letter to the Daily Mail about this,,,,political correctness gone mad.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I can't remember the last time i was in a changing room, and didn't wipe my dick on the curtain? But if that's what people want, I'm not going to stop.

Curtain?! It has been a long time hasn't it!

To be honest, i dont know what a "Topshop" is, but if I've thought about wiping my dick around a changing room, then someone HAS done it. And you want your daughter to use the same room..... nice.

You don't know what a Toyshop is?! Fucking hell have you been walking around with your eyes closed for thirty odd year's! and don't patronise me thankyou of course I fucking don't.

Did you mean Top shop dear? "

Yes of course I did dear,I can't hear myself think when someone pisses me off

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"I need to ask my fairly young teenager see what she thinks about that. I'll report back later if I remember.

I don't have any problem with it,I'm just thinking about the younger girls.

Thinking what in particular? "

I asked her,got a brief reply as we were on the way out. She's not digging the idea,she's not keen on a guy being in the cubicle next to her. I didn't have time to go into it more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as they've still got badly fitting curtains that leave a good gap for me to perv thru I'm not bothered

Always one to lower the tone .

It's a dirty job but somebody has to do it "

And you do it so well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still not inclusive enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

I agree. My thoughts are mainly that my adult daughter and teenage step daughter wouldnt feel comfortable to come out to show me the outfit. I wasnt thinking as such about pervy guys but more about a modest, shy, teenager, young adult who prefer to have females around. The 16 year old would be bright red and squirming with embaresment to be honest. "

Agree. I think it's a terrible idea. I also hate the mixed changing rooms in swimming pools.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Get the gloryholes between the cubicles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

I agree. My thoughts are mainly that my adult daughter and teenage step daughter wouldnt feel comfortable to come out to show me the outfit. I wasnt thinking as such about pervy guys but more about a modest, shy, teenager, young adult who prefer to have females around. The 16 year old would be bright red and squirming with embaresment to be honest.

Agree. I think it's a terrible idea. I also hate the mixed changing rooms in swimming pools. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

I agree. My thoughts are mainly that my adult daughter and teenage step daughter wouldnt feel comfortable to come out to show me the outfit. I wasnt thinking as such about pervy guys but more about a modest, shy, teenager, young adult who prefer to have females around. The 16 year old would be bright red and squirming with embaresment to be honest.

Agree. I think it's a terrible idea. I also hate the mixed changing rooms in swimming pools. "

Me too, but you can fart and blame a man

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I seen a girl in a bra in a changing room before. She opened the door thinking her friends would be there for advice and i was stood there.

I felt like running out of the whole store, and buyring myself forever.

Anything that avoids that is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But,but,but,,,,,how on earth are we supposed to concentrate on what we are doing (trying to squeeze a size 14 butt into a pair of size 10 jeans in my case) when there could be someone in the next cubicle (completely shut away from view) who has a different shaped body to mine but is completely uninterested in me? I'm going to write an anguished letter to the Daily Mail about this,,,,political correctness gone mad."

He'll have watched you go in, hear your grunts from trying to squeeze your size 14 arse into the size 10's and will be wanking away furiously

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

It's not a problem for me at all. You won't see me in Top Shop. I'm not supporting that tax dodger.

He's the biggest benefits cheat of them all.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I don't care to be honest, I walk into a cubical, I close the door or curtain, I try on the clothes, I get back into my own clothes, I walk out. I have no interest in who else is in there (the changing room that is, I may be miffed if they were in the cubical with me! ), I barely notice they are there. I'm concentrating on what I'm doing and trying to decide on whether to buy the clothes or not, isn't that what others are concentrating on too?

My local River Island had unisex changing rooms for years, never had an issue with them, we all just got on with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t like shopping and I never try things on. The changing rooms smell, the curtains never fit and the mirrors scare the life out of me but have just been chatting with my teenage girlie about it. She says Top Shop have doors from floor to ceiling that lock so feels ‘safe’ enough but she wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing a space. Mostly because she feels that it would be uncomfortable to step out of your cublicle to show me or friends how she looks and asking opinions if men/boys were around. I can understand that.

I’m not really sure why it’s so bad to want a bit of privacy really.

I agree. My thoughts are mainly that my adult daughter and teenage step daughter wouldnt feel comfortable to come out to show me the outfit. I wasnt thinking as such about pervy guys but more about a modest, shy, teenager, young adult who prefer to have females around. The 16 year old would be bright red and squirming with embaresment to be honest.

Agree. I think it's a terrible idea. I also hate the mixed changing rooms in swimming pools.

Me too, but you can fart and blame a man

"

Baitch

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"No I don't like this idea. I don't really want to see a guy when I'm asking my friends opinion on a dress I'm trying on or him over hear me asking if my boobs are sitting right x"

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over a year ago


"I don't care to be honest, I walk into a cubical, I close the door or curtain, I try on the clothes, I get back into my own clothes, I walk out. I have no interest in who else is in there (the changing room that is, I may be miffed if they were in the cubical with me! ), I barely notice they are there. I'm concentrating on what I'm doing and trying to decide on whether to buy the clothes or not, isn't that what others are concentrating on too?

My local River Island had unisex changing rooms for years, never had an issue with them, we all just got on with it "

My thoughts too

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I have no problem with it at all.

Despite being very body conscious, my daughter was never bothered about trying on clothes in changing rooms at places like Asda or Tesco. Supermarkets don't tend to have separate male/female changing areas.

As long as there are staff on hand, I think it unlikely there will be issues.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unity of sex, colour and creed is our wish for mankind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't like this idea. I don't really want to see a guy when I'm asking my friends opinion on a dress I'm trying on or him over hear me asking if my boobs are sitting right x

"

That must be very traumatic

I don't feel comfortable going to the chemist and asking for haemorroid cream. I think they should clear the shop out first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I don't like this idea. I don't really want to see a guy when I'm asking my friends opinion on a dress I'm trying on or him over hear me asking if my boobs are sitting right x

That must be very traumatic

I don't feel comfortable going to the chemist and asking for haemorroid cream. I think they should clear the shop out first "

What a pile of shite

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

No definitely separate changing rooms, too many pervs around!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No definitely separate changing rooms, too many pervs around! "

Only that fecker that fitted your windows... imagine meeting him in a changing room

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

I'm gonna set up a glory hole this weekend

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"No definitely separate changing rooms, too many pervs around!

Only that fecker that fitted your windows... imagine meeting him in a changing room "

Hahaha, I know, just realized, he nicked the f****** frock!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No definitely separate changing rooms, too many pervs around!

Only that fecker that fitted your windows... imagine meeting him in a changing room

Hahaha, I know, just realized, he nicked the f****** frock! "

Oh bugger...that's curtains on that deal then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a shite idea.

I like to be able discuss tit, arse, belly position in clothes, pop between friends in cubicles half dressed and I don't want men to be there.

I know my teenage daughter would be uncomfortable body wise in a communal changing area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a shite idea.

I like to be able discuss tit, arse, belly position in clothes, pop between friends in cubicles half dressed and I don't want men to be there.

I know my teenage daughter would be uncomfortable body wise in a communal changing area."

Watching the language young lady

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"No definitely separate changing rooms, too many pervs around!

Only that fecker that fitted your windows... imagine meeting him in a changing room

Hahaha, I know, just realized, he nicked the f****** frock!

Oh bugger...that's curtains on that deal then "

Fraid so

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead "

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's a shite idea.

I like to be able discuss tit, arse, belly position in clothes, pop between friends in cubicles half dressed and I don't want men to be there.

I know my teenage daughter would be uncomfortable body wise in a communal changing area.

Watching the language young lady "

Soz

Feeling fiesty!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on "

Ah that's why my male half only shops in pep&co

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a shite idea.

I like to be able discuss tit, arse, belly position in clothes, pop between friends in cubicles half dressed and I don't want men to be there.

I know my teenage daughter would be uncomfortable body wise in a communal changing area.

Watching the language young lady

Soz

Feeling fiesty!"

Aw go on then...I love young and feisty ladies

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on

Ah that's why my male half only shops in pep&co "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on

Ah that's why my male half only shops in pep&co

"

Two fecking cubical together and just a curtain between my naked body and the whole shop

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on

Ah that's why my male half only shops in pep&co

Two fecking cubical together and just a curtain between my naked body and the whole shop "

Did the whole show mind though?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on

Ah that's why my male half only shops in pep&co

Two fecking cubical together and just a curtain between my naked body and the whole shop

Did the whole show mind though? "

*shop*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood how people get bent out of shape about unisex changing rooms or bathrooms. As long as there is a private cubicle what's the problem?

Are all perverts straight? Or is it only an issue if they try to get an eyeful of the opposite sex? Men checking out boys who's mothers have to wait outside because it's a single sex changing room don't count?

I wouldn't have a conversation in a changing room that I wouldn't happily have in a queue at the till with all genders and ages around listening, it's as much about being respectful to others having to hear you as it is your privacy being compromised.

How does having one sex behind the curtains on the left and one sex behind the curtains on the right actually make you safer?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on

Ah that's why my male half only shops in pep&co

Two fecking cubical together and just a curtain between my naked body and the whole shop

Did the whole show mind though?

*shop* "

Ah I thought you where getting mixed up with some shite show on bbc1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood how people get bent out of shape about unisex changing rooms or bathrooms. As long as there is a private cubicle what's the problem?

Are all perverts straight? Or is it only an issue if they try to get an eyeful of the opposite sex? Men checking out boys who's mothers have to wait outside because it's a single sex changing room don't count?

I wouldn't have a conversation in a changing room that I wouldn't happily have in a queue at the till with all genders and ages around listening, it's as much about being respectful to others having to hear you as it is your privacy being compromised.

How does having one sex behind the curtains on the left and one sex behind the curtains on the right actually make you safer?"

For my daughters its not about safety but its about privacy and modesty and feeling comfortable about popping out the cubicle to show their female parent/step mum/friend what they are wearing. The 16 year old is already (has been for years) very body concious as she is extremley shy, much taller and bigger than other 16 year old girls and is shy in front of unknown females let alone unknown males. Nothing to do with safety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really like the idea, but that’s just me.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"This is interesting. Not so many years ago, I was trying something on in DP's, and hubby stood near the doorway so he could see how gorgeous I looked in the frock, and this little upstart had a real go at him for being there,...knob'ead

Also Primarni, hubby trying jeans on and she wouldn't let me go and have a look. The more posher shops always allow it and even have a chair for your partner to sit on

Ah that's why my male half only shops in pep&co

Two fecking cubical together and just a curtain between my naked body and the whole shop

Did the whole show mind though?

*shop*

Ah I thought you where getting mixed up with some shite show on bbc1 "

Oi ! Cats bum!

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some of the comments have made me think a little -

When I used to present as female I could go into the women's changing rooms and help advise Mum on the clothes she was trying on. When I no longer looked feminine enough she had to start coming outside of the changing room to get my opinion, I wonder if having to come out in public when she had no idea if what she was wearing looked good on her ended up giving her more confidence in the end...

If we ever chat about something like that I must remember to ask her, I'm quite curious now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never understood how people get bent out of shape about unisex changing rooms or bathrooms. As long as there is a private cubicle what's the problem?

Are all perverts straight? Or is it only an issue if they try to get an eyeful of the opposite sex? Men checking out boys who's mothers have to wait outside because it's a single sex changing room don't count?

I wouldn't have a conversation in a changing room that I wouldn't happily have in a queue at the till with all genders and ages around listening, it's as much about being respectful to others having to hear you as it is your privacy being compromised.

How does having one sex behind the curtains on the left and one sex behind the curtains on the right actually make you safer?

For my daughters its not about safety but its about privacy and modesty and feeling comfortable about popping out the cubicle to show their female parent/step mum/friend what they are wearing. The 16 year old is already (has been for years) very body concious as she is extremley shy, much taller and bigger than other 16 year old girls and is shy in front of unknown females let alone unknown males. Nothing to do with safety."

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might walk from one cubicle to the next stark naked.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I might walk from one cubicle to the next stark naked. "

Oh the horror! The HORROR! A naked body! A human being! The HORROR! Nipples! NIPPLES! Will no one think of the children!!

hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might walk from one cubicle to the next stark naked.

Oh the horror! The HORROR! A naked body! A human being! The HORROR! Nipples! NIPPLES! Will no one think of the children!!

hehehe"

If you saw me naked you would be thinking something out of a horror film

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might walk from one cubicle to the next stark naked. "

I just had a mental image of going into the cubicle,fully clothed and coming out naked,handing all my clothes to the assistant and saying 'no,none of those suit me thanks' and just walking away.

They could put mirrors in the cubicles to prevent the need for anything like that.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I might walk from one cubicle to the next stark naked.

Oh the horror! The HORROR! A naked body! A human being! The HORROR! Nipples! NIPPLES! Will no one think of the children!!

hehehe

If you saw me naked you would be thinking something out of a horror film "

Haha surely not! But I'll get my cushion ready to hide behind just in case

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