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By *milersi OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Genuine question..

Is being honest (about your situation) and generally being polite the best policy on here?

Recently found out a couple of the “single” ladies I was chatting with are actually married. Doesn’t bother me due to being in a relationship myself but they clearly are having more fun and meets as a “single”

Wondered what people’s opinions were on it.

Happy fabbing

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Im honest and expect honesty in return. Simple as that.

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

I think being honest is the best option. Nothing worse then chatting to someone for ages to only then realise that they are not what or who they made out to me. Just be honest. Your not going to be everyone's cup of tea anyway. At least give them the option to decide weather that want to stay chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty every time!

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By *milersi OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Oh I agree fully and my profile is honest as anyone can see.

Also I’d prefer to know the truth and make my own decisions ok it again as you say.

Just seems to be more hypocrites tbh on here than genuine swingers. X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Im honest and expect honesty in return. Simple as that."
well said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer honesty on here then lies cos with honesty I can make my own dissision. Doesn't mean that it will be a no.

ptu xxx

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By *milersi OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Im honest and expect honesty in return. Simple as that."

Agreed 100% x

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By *milersi OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think being honest is the best option. Nothing worse then chatting to someone for ages to only then realise that they are not what or who they made out to me. Just be honest. Your not going to be everyone's cup of tea anyway. At least give them the option to decide weather that want to stay chatting "

Exactly xx

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

I think so.

If you’re attached then say so on your profile so that people can make an informed decision whether to meet you.

When I was here as a single lady I was still married to my ex husband. He had consented to me doing what I wanted, as long as he didn’t know about it. So, I put this on my profile.

There was one man I met for a social, got on well with and I agreed to meet him at his house one afternoon for the play meet. When I arrived the wedding photos were all over the walls of the lounge. The meet ended right there and then! He was playing behind his wife’s back, in their family home and didn’t have the decency to tell people.

There were other men that I met who were honest about their relationship status and we had some great meets.

The only thing that I find really off putting about people who are in a relationship but using single profiles is when they are disrespectful about their partner in the forums, their status or their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many people who don't want to meet us cheaters, so I'm open about it. No likey, no lighty, neeeext!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Quite happy to chat but I personally don't want to meet anyone attached and cheating

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Honesty (whatever that is) about marital status is expected from men but not so much from women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest is the best policy

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By *milersi OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I think so.

If you’re attached then say so on your profile so that people can make an informed decision whether to meet you.

When I was here as a single lady I was still married to my ex husband. He had consented to me doing what I wanted, as long as he didn’t know about it. So, I put this on my profile.

There was one man I met for a social, got on well with and I agreed to meet him at his house one afternoon for the play meet. When I arrived the wedding photos were all over the walls of the lounge. The meet ended right there and then! He was playing behind his wife’s back, in their family home and didn’t have the decency to tell people.

There were other men that I met who were honest about their relationship status and we had some great meets.

The only thing that I find really off putting about people who are in a relationship but using single profiles is when they are disrespectful about their partner in the forums, their status or their profile"

Spot on and my profile does clearly state my situation. X

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By *milersi OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"There are so many people who don't want to meet us cheaters, so I'm open about it. No likey, no lighty, neeeext!"
ha ha so true x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Me, I can't trust without honesty.

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By *milersi OP   Man
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Honesty (whatever that is) about marital status is expected from men but not so much from women."
absolutely spot on and it should be expected, it’s a big community at the end of the day all after the same thing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honesty (whatever that is) about marital status is expected from men but not so much from women. absolutely spot on and it should be expected, it’s a big community at the end of the day all after the same thing. X"

Can't abide liars. What's the point??

You will get found out eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest and expect honesty in return. Simple as that.

Agreed 100% x"

So do I. Honestly I do.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Are people really that naive in expecting honesty from someone simply seeking to scratch an itch?!!

Seriously?!!

Some are not even honest with themselves!

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By *ublinjonnMan
over a year ago

dublin

Always,best to be honest.....

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Be honest, doesn't always get you the prize, but better than lying.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I hate liars,so always best to be honest.

If i find out anyone has lied ,especially about being single its an immediate block .

Miss

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Be honest, I despise dishonesty, nothing more likely to enrage me, and the truth always comes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im honest and expect honesty in return. Simple as that."

this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're not honest. Our location and actual date of birth aren't 100% accurate, we won't answer every question a meet asks us with the absolute truth.

How much truth do people want? Does that truth have to be factual or opinion i.e. the difference between "I am married" and "I think your bum does look big in that"

I like people to be honest in their intent, I'm not keen on being misled and I'd much rather a married person just stated that. On the whole though I don't expect or generally even want complete honesty from the people we meet on fab.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Honesty, always.

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