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"Suffering from it myself it has really affected my confidence, and as most ladies prefer hair its a real big deal for me, I just wanted to know what advice anyone can give about it" Shave it all off and wear your baldness with pride...I do! And if any fems have a problem with it, then that's exactly what it is - their problem and not yours. There's plenty out there that love a baldy, ignore the shallow brigade. | |||
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"I feel for you fella, but more because I can't see being bald suiting me. I'm more worried about what I see in the mirror than what others see But we can't stop it happening, it's just working out when to just bite the bullet and shave it all off " Yeah I just can't stand the sight of myself in the mirror, my hair used to be my only physical feature I liked now that's gone its real hard to take | |||
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"With receding hair, I'd recommend a buzz cut. Looks better. I do mine myself. Saves me a fortune going to the barber and the cost of getting there and back. Zero maintenance and no need to buy any hair product. Sorted. " On a separate note....yum | |||
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"Rock it! Like everyone’s said females like the personality more than counting how many hair follicles you have on your head! " how about the ones on your face | |||
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"With receding hair, I'd recommend a buzz cut. Looks better. I do mine myself. Saves me a fortune going to the barber and the cost of getting there and back. Zero maintenance and no need to buy any hair product. Sorted. " Amen. Paid for some clippers about 15 years or more ago and that's it...20quid probably for over 15 years of hair cuts and maintenance | |||
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"With receding hair, I'd recommend a buzz cut. Looks better. I do mine myself. Saves me a fortune going to the barber and the cost of getting there and back. Zero maintenance and no need to buy any hair product. Sorted. On a separate note....yum " | |||
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"Suffering from it myself it has really affected my confidence, and as most ladies prefer hair its a real big deal for me, I just wanted to know what advice anyone can give about it" Stop worrying about it, can't stop ya balls going saggy either, it's just nature. | |||
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"With receding hair, I'd recommend a buzz cut. Looks better. I do mine myself. Saves me a fortune going to the barber and the cost of getting there and back. Zero maintenance and no need to buy any hair product. Sorted. On a separate note....yum " Sorry...didn't mean to make you blush... (Not really sorry ) | |||
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"I feel for you fella, but more because I can't see being bald suiting me. I'm more worried about what I see in the mirror than what others see But we can't stop it happening, it's just working out when to just bite the bullet and shave it all off Yeah I just can't stand the sight of myself in the mirror, my hair used to be my only physical feature I liked now that's gone its real hard to take " I hate that mine is thinning weirdly. My hair line at the front is receding but not evenly, so I'm getting left with a "badger tail" in the middle. The badger tail is thinning throughout itself but slower, but the rest of my hair is still quite thick, so shaving it off is going to be a ball ache as most of my hair is there and fine, but if I don't shave it off it looks like I'm trying to do a comb over I don't want to lose it but I guess in the end we get used to it or we just ignore that we no longer have it. I think next time I get a hair cut I will talk to the guy about going a lot shorter than normal, gives me time to get used to it. I know people say to just deal with it, there's nothing that can be done, but there's a big difference between knowing it's coming and then having to deal with the reality of the stranger that stares back at you from the mirror. I know I can't help, but if it's any consolation you're not alone. | |||
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"Rock it! Like everyone’s said females like the personality more than counting how many hair follicles you have on your head! how about the ones on your face " Must admit. I’m not 100% one for facial hair. X | |||
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"Rock it! Like everyone’s said females like the personality more than counting how many hair follicles you have on your head! how about the ones on your face Must admit. I’m not 100% one for facial hair. X " I could change you mind about has special powers hahaha | |||
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"Rock it! Like everyone’s said females like the personality more than counting how many hair follicles you have on your head! " This news is devastating to me. | |||
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"Yeah its really hard to just deal with it, as iam losing mine due to depression and the stress that goes with it, thanks though some real nice positive comments here! " Embrace the aging process and grow old disgracefully. I was 17 when I started going bald, grey at 14. I wish I’d shaved it off earlier because for a little while i looked like Count Duckula the cartoon character. Now I’m not sure what I’d do with hair and it has saved me about £250 per year on haircuts and products for 20 years | |||
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"Yeah its really hard to just deal with it, as iam losing mine due to depression and the stress that goes with it, thanks though some real nice positive comments here! Embrace the aging process and grow old disgracefully. I was 17 when I started going bald, grey at 14. I wish I’d shaved it off earlier because for a little while i looked like Count Duckula the cartoon character. Now I’m not sure what I’d do with hair and it has saved me about £250 per year on haircuts and products for 20 years " Same. Buy a set of clippers and take it all off. You might find you suit it. Save a fortune on haircuts and cut out one more worry thats adding to your depression. I've been shaving mine since before any hair loss. Although i do wonder what I'd look like with a full on afro. Him. Obviously. | |||
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"Suffering from it myself it has really affected my confidence, and as most ladies prefer hair its a real big deal for me, I just wanted to know what advice anyone can give about it" I’ve been a baldy locks since I was 18 , whipped the rest off and never looked back ! Hated doing my hair anyway , for all those that don’t like it , others do , embrace the shiny dome because self confidence is far more attractive than a full barnet | |||
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"Suffering from it myself it has really affected my confidence, and as most ladies prefer hair its a real big deal for me, I just wanted to know what advice anyone can give about it" Where do you get the idea that most women prefer hair? Even if they do, do you think you would be avoided JUST because you're going thin on top? Stop listening to the medias idea of what they think we are supposed to believe. | |||
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"Yeah its really hard to just deal with it, as iam losing mine due to depression and the stress that goes with it, thanks though some real nice positive comments here! " Ah so chances are it will come back in time then if you can sort your depression and stress out, so for the time being, shave it off, that's one less thing to worry about. Talk to your gp about your feelings and hopefully you'll get sorted and your hair will come back! Best wishes. | |||
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"Suffering from it myself it has really affected my confidence, and as most ladies prefer hair its a real big deal for me, I just wanted to know what advice anyone can give about it" Don't do that thing of always wearing a baseball cap or similar, embrace the most masculine thing you can ever do. I started receding about the same age as you, and now sport a full-on 'sunroof' lol! I used to worry about it at first, hated going for a shower as I could literally see every hair going down the plughole, but there's nothing you can do about it. Anyone who mentioned my hair loss, I would always reply "It stops it going grey" | |||
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"I love bald men. It’s sexy. Or skin heads. Go with it. It can’t be nice at first. There are lots of women like me who love bald men. They have more testosterone " Good evening x | |||
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"One post to actually help the OP, the rest just saying "shave it off! It's fine" OP. Hair loss is caused by a a build up of a hormone called DHT in the hair follicles there's a few ways to reduce this. dutasteride is a prescription med but available if you look around. Used to treat alopecia. Something like Rogain as mentioned, "reboots" the hair follicles but will likely make it worse before it gets better. A shampoo containing Nizoral works by inhibiting DHT in the scalp, preventing things from getting worse. There's also a load of anecdotal evidence on certain food supplements that can help. " That is help...that's how a lot of folk move on, whip it off and start a fresh look..look how many people on this thread have said how good they are with it..is that not help? Better than clinging to the last vestiges of hair with whatever lotions and potions there are out there. Go with head high, embrace the bald! Have pride, don't hide | |||
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"REGAINE for men, available in pharmacists. Been around for years. Topical lotiion which can re-boot recently closed down hair follicles, and can stop hair falling out. It has to be used continously, if you stop, the follicles continue to shut down." Works for me | |||
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"One post to actually help the OP, the rest just saying "shave it off! It's fine" OP. Hair loss is caused by a a build up of a hormone called DHT in the hair follicles there's a few ways to reduce this. dutasteride is a prescription med but available if you look around. Used to treat alopecia. Something like Rogain as mentioned, "reboots" the hair follicles but will likely make it worse before it gets better. A shampoo containing Nizoral works by inhibiting DHT in the scalp, preventing things from getting worse. There's also a load of anecdotal evidence on certain food supplements that can help. That is help...that's how a lot of folk move on, whip it off and start a fresh look..look how many people on this thread have said how good they are with it..is that not help? Better than clinging to the last vestiges of hair with whatever lotions and potions there are out there. Go with head high, embrace the bald! Have pride, don't hide " Not really though is it? It's like saying "I've lost my house keys" and everyone replying "well, just live on the streets, some of my best mates are homeless" He doesn't want to sleep under the stars, he wants his bed, and while there's options to do that then why not discuss them? | |||
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"One post to actually help the OP, the rest just saying "shave it off! It's fine" OP. Hair loss is caused by a a build up of a hormone called DHT in the hair follicles there's a few ways to reduce this. dutasteride is a prescription med but available if you look around. Used to treat alopecia. Something like Rogain as mentioned, "reboots" the hair follicles but will likely make it worse before it gets better. A shampoo containing Nizoral works by inhibiting DHT in the scalp, preventing things from getting worse. There's also a load of anecdotal evidence on certain food supplements that can help. That is help...that's how a lot of folk move on, whip it off and start a fresh look..look how many people on this thread have said how good they are with it..is that not help? Better than clinging to the last vestiges of hair with whatever lotions and potions there are out there. Go with head high, embrace the bald! Have pride, don't hide Not really though is it? It's like saying "I've lost my house keys" and everyone replying "well, just live on the streets, some of my best mates are homeless" He doesn't want to sleep under the stars, he wants his bed, and while there's options to do that then why not discuss them? " What a crap comparison...house keys? I still disagree, it smacks of desperation. | |||
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"Cheers everyone! Feeling much better about it now, I think it's affected me so badly due to an ex once telling me she would dump me if I ever went bald so that really knocked my confidence big time" There will be someone who likes it for every one who doesn't..your ex had a preference for hair it seems, some people do. Some don't mind and some love no hair, you won't please everyone. The important person to please is you, if that means cutting it or trying to halt the hair loss with shampoos or lotions..don't pick a course of action based on what we here have said is best, pick one that your happiest with and if your happy, that will do more for you than any hair style ever will | |||
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"Cheers everyone! Feeling much better about it now, I think it's affected me so badly due to an ex once telling me she would dump me if I ever went bald so that really knocked my confidence big time There will be someone who likes it for every one who doesn't..your ex had a preference for hair it seems, some people do. Some don't mind and some love no hair, you won't please everyone.the important person to please is you, if that means cutting it or trying to halt the hair loss with shampoos or lotions..don't pick a course of action based on what we here have said is best, pick one that your happiest with and if your happy, that will do more for you than any hair style ever will " Thanks pal, I myself will not suit a bald look, but its not gonna be long until I have too just bite the bullet and go for it, not looking forward to it as I have a long thin head which won't suit me at all but that's just it really, got the shit genes so its going no matter what | |||
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"Suffering from it myself it has really affected my confidence, and as most ladies prefer hair its a real big deal for me, I just wanted to know what advice anyone can give about it" I have a brilliant, beautiful, splendid bald head. I never had any concern with it and if I ever did not attracted any particular woman because of that, surely that woman did not deserve me. Adrian | |||
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"Cheers everyone! Feeling much better about it now, I think it's affected me so badly due to an ex once telling me she would dump me if I ever went bald so that really knocked my confidence big time There will be someone who likes it for every one who doesn't..your ex had a preference for hair it seems, some people do. Some don't mind and some love no hair, you won't please everyone.the important person to please is you, if that means cutting it or trying to halt the hair loss with shampoos or lotions..don't pick a course of action based on what we here have said is best, pick one that your happiest with and if your happy, that will do more for you than any hair style ever will Thanks pal, I myself will not suit a bald look, but its not gonna be long until I have too just bite the bullet and go for it, not looking forward to it as I have a long thin head which won't suit me at all but that's just it really, got the shit genes so its going no matter what" I thought exactly the same thing, and when I cut it it looked weird to me for a bit but it grew on me pretty quick.. I'd bet if you asked anyone with a buzz cut that they had the same fear and that they felt odd at first. I felt like a low browed squat headed thug the first day! Honestly, I felt like people would be looking at me...they never did and it passed You WILL feel dead odd... I bet you don't look at skin head dudes and think they look weird..nobody will with you fella | |||
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"If you're going bald you might as well do steroids and work out, women get wet for bald muscley men." Brilliant | |||
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"Suffering from it myself it has really affected my confidence, and as most ladies prefer hair its a real big deal for me, I just wanted to know what advice anyone can give about it I have a brilliant, beautiful, splendid bald head. I never had any concern with it and if I ever did not attracted any particular woman because of that, surely that woman did not deserve me. Adrian" Totally agree mate; when I read a profile in here which states ‘No bald men’ I just instantly block and move on | |||
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"Op use nizarol shampoo every second day.rub it in and leave it as long as you can. I leave it overnite and rinse out in morning. Only available here in pharmacy. It stops hair loss and helps regrowth and it's cheap as chips Regaine is expensive and has side effects. Breaks down callogen in your skin and makes you look very old quick Ive abused steroids in the past and am currently on testosterone and because of nizarol I have a full head of hair" Great information, u have a full head of hair still- great to hear if it starts to go some solutions are effective x | |||
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