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"No it amuses me sometimes. I particularly enjoy doing it in chat so others can see their demise. " 
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked? "You have to pass the time between forum replies somehow 
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked?
You have to pass the time between forum replies somehow
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"I thought you liked my cock pics  "Yours include cheesecake, so we're good x | |||
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"I thought you liked my cock pics
Yours include cheesecake, so we're good x" | |||
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"yeah yeah I do it all the time .." Glad it's not just me  x | |||
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked?
You have to pass the time between forum replies somehow
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Haha Twiddling my thumbs got boring x"I know that Kitten quite enjoys "being a bitch", as she puts it, when someone sends a particularly stupid or annoying message | |||
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"I was doing that exact thing earlier this evening. And yes when I have the head space and tolerance for it I do enjoy it. Otherwise block block block block block. And while I'm on that I wish the mobile version of fab had delete and block as one action not block backspace delete. I know it's only two more clicks but with the amount of idiots it just adds unnecessary time. " Totally agree, was having the same problem earlier, the extra time really adds up  x | |||
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"I can just about read text speak never mind type it "dangerous words x | |||
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked?
You have to pass the time between forum replies somehow
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Haha Twiddling my thumbs got boring x
I know that Kitten quite enjoys "being a bitch", as she puts it, when someone sends a particularly stupid or annoying message "Haha I always think of it as going into bitch mode too But sometimes I just feel like people are asking for it.... | |||
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"I think of it as an eduction process "Love it! x | |||
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"I think of it as an eduction process
Love it! x "I can spell education in real life  | |||
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"I think of it as an eduction process
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I can spell education in real life "Haha hadn't even noticed that!! x | |||
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked? "What do you mean you roast them? What do you say? | |||
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"I am torn on this issue, whilst incinerating morons may solve both the fuel crisis and the over population issue. I am unsure about the carbon foot print of such action. "HA!! x | |||
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"The only time I ever 'roasted' someone is when they've sent me a random rude message saying I'm stuck up my own arse for example. Trouble is they've usually sent & blocked denying me the right of reply... "Urgh that is the worst! Literally had that exact thing earlier  x | |||
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"I always feel bad that it turns me off when someone you fancy messages you in text speak, and can’t spell properly... But then I think, ‘It is their first, and most likely, only language... So...’ If they can’t get that right... then there’s little chance with anything else... is there? I feel bad writing this... If a friend from Europe or Asia can’t write for shit, it’s totally cute though x"Well this my main issue with people who can't even master their own language.... They want me to kneel at their feet and trust them to tie and 'use' me....I kinda need them to show at least some basic competency.... | |||
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked?
What do you mean you roast them? What do you say?"Depends on how moronic they're being
For instance, one such soul called me stupid amongst other things, but in sentences that didn't even make sense..
I merely pointed out the irony. Quite bluntly
Only one example, I've been known to partake in a number of roastings when the mood takes x | |||
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"I'd struggle being more than a few moments with them in real life, so I move on quickly when I get inbox trash - if you trod in excrement, you'd clean your shoe and progress " That's totally fair x Most of the time I would totally take that approach. I just cant resist the urge (however juvenile) to indulge my inner bitch sometimes
But yours is definitely a much more mature approach x | |||
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"I always feel bad that it turns me off when someone you fancy messages you in text speak, and can’t spell properly... But then I think, ‘It is their first, and most likely, only language... So...’ If they can’t get that right... then there’s little chance with anything else... is there? I feel bad writing this... If a friend from Europe or Asia can’t write for shit, it’s totally cute though x
Well this my main issue with people who can't even master their own language....
They want me to kneel at their feet and trust them to tie and 'use' me....I kinda need them to show at least some basic competency.... "Very true... Thinking about it, it works on every level... In my opinion, by being turned off by them, we are only obeying the law of ‘Natural Selection’
So we are doing the world a favour... :D
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"I always feel bad that it turns me off when someone you fancy messages you in text speak, and can’t spell properly... But then I think, ‘It is their first, and most likely, only language... So...’ If they can’t get that right... then there’s little chance with anything else... is there? I feel bad writing this... If a friend from Europe or Asia can’t write for shit, it’s totally cute though x
Well this my main issue with people who can't even master their own language....
They want me to kneel at their feet and trust them to tie and 'use' me....I kinda need them to show at least some basic competency....
Very true...
Thinking about it, it works on every level...
In my opinion, by being turned off by them, we are only obeying the law of ‘Natural Selection’
So we are doing the world a favour... :D
Especially for the next generation x" Yep it's a service to humanity.....honest x | |||
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked?
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"I daresay it works both ways. I'm amazed at the moronic messages I get when in discussion with females or Couples who ask me questions, the answers to which they'd have known if they'd read my Profile at all!?!? But I patiently advise them once more! Only when it reaches the umpteenth question do I loose my cool and suggest they read first then ask! Some people are just beyond belief!!!!" Sir, that is incorrect. It's only men who are unable to read profiles. If you are receiving illegible mail from females asking questions that are already answered on your profile, then quite clearly those individuals are actually men pretending to be women. The same goes for the couple's. XXX | |||
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"I never put anyone down in a forum, no matter how much of an ass they have made of themselves, it is so easy to put yourself in an even worse light by belittling them.. However, I have found a very good way of dealing with annoying personal messages, mark them as unread and delete them, it really does make some people quite angry.. " I tend to reserve incineration for people who have messaged me directly. Haha ahh yes I've done that a few times and it does definitely make people mad x | |||
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"Shooting fish in a barrel. Yep, I enjoy it most when on my period oddly enough. I confuse the crap outta them "Haha Well period rage has to be put to use somewhere x | |||
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"I daresay it works both ways. I'm amazed at the moronic messages I get when in discussion with females or Couples who ask me questions, the answers to which they'd have known if they'd read my Profile at all!?!? But I patiently advise them once more! Only when it reaches the umpteenth question do I loose my cool and suggest they read first then ask! Some people are just beyond belief!!!! Sir, that is incorrect. It's only men who are unable to read profiles. If you are receiving illegible mail from females asking questions that are already answered on your profile, then quite clearly those individuals are actually men pretending to be women. The same goes for the couple's. XXX" Or male from real couple stil falling into bad single male habits I tell Mr k off if i notice he has sent a message and not read there profile | |||
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"I think it's pretty clear why some women and couples get rude messages and some don't. Like attracts like. " One of my fave sayings especially on here. However and I speak for myself only, nowhere along the line did I do anything to attract the likes of... 'you're a stuck up c*nt'...kind of message that very occasionally appears in my inbox. | |||
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"Don't get enough, okay hardly any, to alienate someone!  "Honestly I'd prefer nearly no messages, to lots that are just not relevant | |||
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"I think it is fair game, in a way. If I get an idiotic question, I reply like for like. But we should try to treat each person how you expect we ought to be treated ,we'd all do quite well then.
*spelling corrected. "Is it fair game or does is just perpetuate the Fabs message circle that is moaned about on a weekly basis by both genders? | |||
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"Now and again I like to wind up and be ridicously sarcastic to some of the “straight” men that message me asking if I’m bi or fancy having my Cock sucked by them . I can’t believe how stupid they are sometimes! "Haha oh wow! I don't blame You! x | |||
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"Absolutely totaly guilty of this, on occasions. Some messages are just too tempting, to not reply to! " Hehe x | |||
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"I am torn on this issue, whilst incinerating morons may solve both the fuel crisis and the over population issue. I am unsure about the carbon foot print of such action. "In the long run, incineration may help to solve the fuel crisis but, the short term effects could mean an increase in usage causing fuel prices to rise well above the levels of inflation. Having an incineration button might be a good idea. Just don't put it next to the teleport button! | |||
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"It's one of my favouritemail hobbies love pointing out the error of their way and making sure that I think they are a total dick lol " Haha well I'm glad I'm not alone x | |||
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"I daresay it works both ways. I'm amazed at the moronic messages I get when in discussion with females or Couples who ask me questions, the answers to which they'd have known if they'd read my Profile at all!?!? But I patiently advise them once more! Only when it reaches the umpteenth question do I loose my cool and suggest they read first then ask! Some people are just beyond belief!!!!" Without a doubt! I don't think this is purely a guy thing, but I can only base my opinions on the messages I recieve, which are mostly from men. But I have absolutely no doubt that women can be just as bad x | |||
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"I have gained enjoyment on several occasions winding men up by telling them they are too far away, knowing they will reply "I can come to you" then me messaging them to say "sorry I don't host" When it would be much kinder not to reply in the first place. But then again to not reply is considered rude by some. XXX" Well exactly, more often than not an instant delete is met with abuse x | |||
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"Is it fair game or does is just perpetuate the Fabs message circle that is moaned about on a weekly basis by both genders? " Agreed with the latter part. I don't want to be a mood hoover but apart from a fleeting sense of something or other, I don't see how anything good can come from it. I just tend to delete the odd ones I get (most are off forum posts much like this one!). | |||
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"I think it's pretty clear why some women and couples get rude messages and some don't. Like attracts like. " I'd argue against that. I don't send rude messages to people who haven't contacted me first. I'm never rude to someone who hasn't earned it and generally like to treat people as I like to be treated. But when someone sends a really disrespectful message, and I personally find a message with 'fancy a fuck' and a cock pic quite disrespectful, I don't see why they deserve courtesy back... But in all fairness I should rise above it and it is probably wrong to find pleasure in it x | |||
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"I think it is fair game, in a way. If I get an idiotic question, I reply like for like. But we should try to treat each person how you expect we ought to be treated ,we'd all do quite well then.
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Is it fair game or does is just perpetuate the Fabs message circle that is moaned about on a weekly basis by both genders?
"I don't have a problem getting too much mail, so I'm not afraid of causing another reply. I just hope it gets better as the conversation goes along. But, you already said above, like attracts like, if someone talks to me in a certain way, it's hard to not treat them the same. | |||
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"I think it's pretty clear why some women and couples get rude messages and some don't. Like attracts like. One of my fave sayings especially on here. However and I speak for myself only, nowhere along the line did I do anything to attract the likes of... 'you're a stuck up c*nt'...kind of message that very occasionally appears in my inbox. " Exactly this x | |||
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Wouldn't even know where to start with a clever retort!
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked? "Oh, I totally get where you're coming from. It's so so tempting to pull apart those rude, abusive, idiotic type of messages and reduce their author to size. However .... two things .... firstly, although my immediate knee jerk reaction is to want to wipe the floor with them, I'd really rather spend my limited free time doing something I enjoy, and secondly, I'm convinced that at least *some* of the more extreme messages are sent in the deliberate hope they'll get chastised and I'm damned if I'm going to collude with them getting a kick out of that! So ... I report the truly vile, and delete/block the rest. | |||
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"I think alot of people on here have experienced these sorts of messages. The almost illegible, text speak, haven't read your profile at all type. As much a fact of the wonderful world of fab as the proportion of women vs men and the inevitable remote control cock pics. My question Is does anyone else here get a tiny, but undeniable thrill from once in a while roasting these poor unfortunate souls... or am I just a bit wicked?
Oh, I totally get where you're coming from. It's so so tempting to pull apart those rude, abusive, idiotic type of messages and reduce their author to size. However .... two things .... firstly, although my immediate knee jerk reaction is to want to wipe the floor with them, I'd really rather spend my limited free time doing something I enjoy, and secondly, I'm convinced that at least *some* of the more extreme messages are sent in the deliberate hope they'll get chastised and I'm damned if I'm going to collude with them getting a kick out of that! So ... I report the truly vile, and delete/block the rest."That's fair, I see it as kinda a guilty pleasure sometimes. But in all fairness I should be using the time more productively I just can't help myself x | |||
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"I used to enjoy the occasional roast (back when I actually replied to unsolicited mail), but I usually restricted to the following scenario: 1) receive idiotic barely intelligible message 2) reply and politely decline 3) get follow up message thanking me for replying and asking why I'm declining 4) tactfully outline reasons (text speak/cock pic/lazy profile/veri from someone to be avoided/doesn't match preferences.. etc.) 5) receive abusive reply telling me to perform explicit acts of humiliation on myself (but in words of one syllable) 6) if they haven't blocked me directly after step 5)... let the roasting begin... "You're definitely alot fairer than I am I could learn a bit more patience on that front | |||
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"If I'm a it bored and get a txt spk message I will sometimes write a reply in a jumbled up version of Spanish and German. Then convert a few words into Arabic just to confuse them a bit further. Oh the other pet hate is when they use the word yuze, or yous, or whatever other spelling they think of to try and make a plural out of you. "Hahaha!! I love this x | |||
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"I got one last night.... Heyy Ba Dc That was it. Wouldn't even know where to start with a clever retort!
Is this some swingers code I am unaware of? "Wow, I literally have no idea what that means either x | |||
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"I think it's pretty clear why some women and couples get rude messages and some don't. Like attracts like. I'd argue against that. I don't send rude messages to people who haven't contacted me first. I'm never rude to someone who hasn't earned it and generally like to treat people as I like to be treated. But when someone sends a really disrespectful message, and I personally find a message with 'fancy a fuck' and a cock pic quite disrespectful, I don't see why they deserve courtesy back... But in all fairness I should rise above it and it is probably wrong to find pleasure in it x" It's a site of explicit genital pics and 'reviews' of sex meets (veri's). I'm never surprised when I get a cock pic or fancy a fuck message. I'm just not what they're looking for so no need for me to be abusive at them. | |||
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"I think it's pretty clear why some women and couples get rude messages and some don't. Like attracts like. I'd argue against that. I don't send rude messages to people who haven't contacted me first. I'm never rude to someone who hasn't earned it and generally like to treat people as I like to be treated. But when someone sends a really disrespectful message, and I personally find a message with 'fancy a fuck' and a cock pic quite disrespectful, I don't see why they deserve courtesy back... But in all fairness I should rise above it and it is probably wrong to find pleasure in it x It's a site of explicit genital pics and 'reviews' of sex meets (veri's). I'm never surprised when I get a cock pic or fancy a fuck message. I'm just not what they're looking for so no need for me to be abusive at them. "
Surely it's easier to ignore and block? Find some other way to get ones pleasure. Some one that's abusive to anyone doesn't deserve anything back. Returning the abuse just perpetuates the cycle. Rising above it and stepping off the circle is the better choice and makes you the bigger person. | |||
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