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"Many of us ladies have reasons for not wanting to meet younger people one being we have children of that age or older.. " You beat us too it. Considering men the same age as our kids would just feel wrong. | |||
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"Many of us ladies have reasons for not wanting to meet younger people one being we have children of that age or older.. " That's fine, I understand that. Perhaps this post is more directed at the women who don't have "kids" in their mid twenties and may have a higher age preference due to thinking young men are time wasters or not genuine etc. etc. etc. | |||
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"Filters Off Friday? It's got a ring to it..." Haha Yes. You sir, are onto something there!  | |||
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"Everyone has their preferences OP, whether that be about age, body shape, sexuality etc - so what would be the point in changing those preferences for a day, or even a few hours just to get messages from outside of their preferred age range? Especially as the ones you can't message are those that set the age preference to "only" - so are fairly rigid about that preference I would imagine. Am sure if someone saw a profile that was just outside of their age range, hut met all their other requirements,that they are capable of deciding to message it themselves if they want to. " Perfectly good reasoning but you missed my point about there being people out there who have raised age preference for reasons such as non-genuine young males etc. Also fair point on them being able to message a person a year or two younger if they so choose but they may never know of that persons existence even though it could be a perfect match, which brought me to my question of even doing it once a month for an hour or two.  | |||
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"Or the alternative is don't waste your time lusting after people who you are outside their preferences and filters, filters are there for a reason, filtering. "Well yes there's that too
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"I've occasionally taken my filters off, e.g. for a forum game, and the increase in silly and/or offensive messages I've had a result - from the age group(s) I usually avoid - has been quite marked, and more so than I'd expected it to be. Not everyone of course, but enough to be noticeable and really, I just don't want to expose myself to even more shite above and beyond the 'usual'. I now therefore feel rather reluctant to adjust my filters .... and would only consider doing so if I wasn't getting what I wanted from Fab with them on. I definitely wouldn't take them off to do someone a 'favour' - I'm not running a charity! "Typical case of some men ruining it for the rest! 
I'm not asking any favours and certainly don't think you're running a charity.
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"Or the alternative is don't waste your time lusting after people who you are outside their preferences and filters, filters are there for a reason, filtering. "This is also true. We all have to realise when to give up, when the desire just isn't mutual and you're wasting your time. It's something I've experienced a lot on here... | |||
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"Everyone has their preferences OP, whether that be about age, body shape, sexuality etc - so what would be the point in changing those preferences for a day, or even a few hours just to get messages from outside of their preferred age range? Especially as the ones you can't message are those that set the age preference to "only" - so are fairly rigid about that preference I would imagine. Am sure if someone saw a profile that was just outside of their age range, hut met all their other requirements,that they are capable of deciding to message it themselves if they want to. Perfectly good reasoning but you missed my point about there being people out there who have raised age preference for reasons such as non-genuine young males etc. Also fair point on them being able to message a person a year or two younger if they so choose but they may never know of that persons existence even though it could be a perfect match, which brought me to my question of even doing it once a month for an hour or two. "At the end of the day, individual users have set their preferences and filters for a reason though - so expecting them to drop them every now and then would surely be asking them to go against those reasons - even if only for a couple of hours? Perhaps, as someone else suggested, you would be better off worrying about those that you can contact, and just accept the preferences of those that you can't? | |||
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"Was wondering what the consensus would be on a thought I had. There are a lot of young males out here in the world of fab. I'm sure I speak for many of us here when I say it's such a sickener when you see a woman that jumps out at you and you read her profile and it sounds like you'd get on like a house on fire only to see your a year or two or sometimes more below their age preference and no contact can be made. Would it be a good idea if once a week or fuck it even once a month, the ladies lowered their age preference to see what happens?. Might be a lot of silly messages but there might be a few young men here that could be what you're after and you just never knew about it? Perhaps a post I'm the forum asking who's "in" or whatever. Would love to hear your thoughts! "OK NO I have age preferences for a reason and when i have talked to someone who maybe was higher or lower my age limit i was proved right. some younger men arent mature and use text speak on messages or assume its a instant sex site and some older men think you want an affair or naughty fun or i just dont connect with them so thanks but im happy with working my profile how i see fit and what works for me! | |||
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"Was wondering what the consensus would be on a thought I had. There are a lot of young males out here in the world of fab. I'm sure I speak for many of us here when I say it's such a sickener when you see a woman that jumps out at you and you read her profile and it sounds like you'd get on like a house on fire only to see your a year or two or sometimes more below their age preference and no contact can be made. Would it be a good idea if once a week or fuck it even once a month, the ladies lowered their age preference to see what happens?. Might be a lot of silly messages but there might be a few young men here that could be what you're after and you just never knew about it? Perhaps a post I'm the forum asking who's "in" or whatever. Would love to hear your thoughts!
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I have age preferences for a reason and when i have talked to someone who maybe was higher or lower my age limit i was proved right.
some younger men arent mature and use text speak on messages or assume its a instant sex site
and some older men think you want an affair or naughty fun
or i just dont connect with them
so thanks but im happy with working my profile how i see fit and what works for me!
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"I'm not trying to be cheeky or imply I'm not getting attention. I'm not trying to cause anger or anything here. A question that came to mind is all this is. You may not like the idea but others might and that's the beauty of opinion. I'd have no problem whatsoever raising my age preference. You may be my parents age but you're not my parents so why tie the two up? "It doesn't matter what you are not intending to do, on here. People will make it into an argument and try to put you in a bad light, for making a reasonable suggestion. Don't rise to it. | |||
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"I change mine all the time. I've met some lovely men by changing my age preferences. " That's good to hear that someone has gained from such endeavours. Less stress more suck'n'sex! | |||
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"I'm not trying to be cheeky or imply I'm not getting attention. I'm not trying to cause anger or anything here. A question that came to mind is all this is. You may not like the idea but others might and that's the beauty of opinion. I'd have no problem whatsoever raising my age preference. You may be my parents age but you're not my parents so why tie the two up?
It doesn't matter what you are not intending to do, on here. People will make it into an argument and try to put you in a bad light, for making a reasonable suggestion. Don't rise to it. "I don't intend to. Thanks for the advice. Wouldn't be much of a Drama Laamba myself! | |||
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"They could do a monthly search themselves if they were interested ant it would save the influx of un wanted messages. Much simpler with the same outcome. " or if they fancy them just "send bloody message" | |||
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"They could do a monthly search themselves if they were interested ant it would save the influx of un wanted messages. Much simpler with the same outcome. " Christos! You are a man much wiser than I! Should have thought that myself as a logical conclusion to my own question. Fair play! | |||
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"Just removed my filters out of curiosity! brave woman " Very brave. I wouldn't remove the lot; that's asking for trouble. I move my age ranges about now and then. If I lower one end, I lower the other. | |||
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"They could do a monthly search themselves if they were interested ant it would save the influx of un wanted messages. Much simpler with the same outcome. Christos! You are a man much wiser than I! Should have thought that myself as a logical conclusion to my own question. Fair play! "I never do my own searching. It's a nightmare scrolling through hundreds of local profiles and then sifting through profiles with nothing on them. It gives me a headache. | |||
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"I'm not trying to be cheeky or imply I'm not getting attention. I'm not trying to cause anger or anything here. A question that came to mind is all this is. You may not like the idea but others might and that's the beauty of opinion. I'd have no problem whatsoever raising my age preference. You may be my parents age but you're not my parents so why tie the two up? "You did imply that it would be to your benefit though. Nobody's angry but most of us have considered our age filters and have them set from experience of those out with them. Many argue that you don't bask for ages in clubs which is true or that people lie which is also true but you can only do so much. Thinking about your idea though it might appeal to some who hadn't considered it before, maybe you'll start a trend | |||
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"I'm not trying to be cheeky or imply I'm not getting attention. I'm not trying to cause anger or anything here. A question that came to mind is all this is. You may not like the idea but others might and that's the beauty of opinion. I'd have no problem whatsoever raising my age preference. You may be my parents age but you're not my parents so why tie the two up?
You did imply that it would be to your benefit though.
Nobody's angry but most of us have considered our age filters and have them set from experience of those out with them.
Many argue that you don't bask for ages in clubs which is true or that people lie which is also true but you can only do so much.
Thinking about your idea though it might appeal to some who hadn't considered it before, maybe you'll start a trend "I wouldn't directly benefit from it there would have to be mutual attraction on the other end for any form of benefit go arise. I completely respect that most have their age preference and that's that. The thought on the club part is very true! Imagine walking around the club with one of those "Hello mg name is" stickers on your chest bit also states your age your sexuality and what ages you'd like to take home!
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"I don't actually see the point, so they change their filters on here, you message, they tell yo to bog off because they won't have changed their preferences, just the message filter on here. It'd be like us unblocking single guys to get the one nice message in a hundred, to do what with it? We still are not meeting single guys... S" Haha, extremely valid point there! Though again some people may have over 27 because they had a bad experience with a 25 year old and not because they don't like that age bug because they might associate that age group with that one bad experience. | |||
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"I'm not trying to be cheeky or imply I'm not getting attention. I'm not trying to cause anger or anything here. A question that came to mind is all this is. You may not like the idea but others might and that's the beauty of opinion. I'd have no problem whatsoever raising my age preference. You may be my parents age but you're not my parents so why tie the two up?
It doesn't matter what you are not intending to do, on here. People will make it into an argument and try to put you in a bad light, for making a reasonable suggestion. Don't rise to it.
I don't intend to. Thanks for the advice. Wouldn't be much of a Drama Laamba myself! "People will have different opinions to you on the matter. Just as lowering one's age limit might generate hundreds of bad messages but just one good one, posting on a forum will generate lots of responses that differ in their opinions to yours and possibly one or two that agree. | |||
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"I'm not trying to be cheeky or imply I'm not getting attention. I'm not trying to cause anger or anything here. A question that came to mind is all this is. You may not like the idea but others might and that's the beauty of opinion. I'd have no problem whatsoever raising my age preference. You may be my parents age but you're not my parents so why tie the two up?
It doesn't matter what you are not intending to do, on here. People will make it into an argument and try to put you in a bad light, for making a reasonable suggestion. Don't rise to it.
I don't intend to. Thanks for the advice. Wouldn't be much of a Drama Laamba myself!
People will have different opinions to you on the matter. Just as lowering one's age limit might generate hundreds of bad messages but just one good one, posting on a forum will generate lots of responses that differ in their opinions to yours and possibly one or two that agree."I don't expect total agreement. If I didn't even get one person who agrees that's perfectly okay. It was opinions I was looking for, not total acceptance of what I had to say. I appreciate everyones input | |||
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"I'm not trying to be cheeky or imply I'm not getting attention. I'm not trying to cause anger or anything here. A question that came to mind is all this is. You may not like the idea but others might and that's the beauty of opinion. I'd have no problem whatsoever raising my age preference. You may be my parents age but you're not my parents so why tie the two up?
You did imply that it would be to your benefit though.
Nobody's angry but most of us have considered our age filters and have them set from experience of those out with them.
Many argue that you don't bask for ages in clubs which is true or that people lie which is also true but you can only do so much.
Thinking about your idea though it might appeal to some who hadn't considered it before, maybe you'll start a trend
I wouldn't directly benefit from it there would have to be mutual attraction on the other end for any form of benefit go arise.
I completely respect that most have their age preference and that's that.
The thought on the club part is very true! Imagine walking around the club with one of those "Hello mg name is" stickers on your chest bit also states your age your sexuality and what ages you'd like to take home!
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"And "mutual attraction" is the key phrase. " Of course! You have my total backing on that one | |||
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"Been on here 5 years. Think I pretty much have the place sussed and know what suits me. Therefore a big fat NO from me - why should I? It works well enough for me as is. I get enough daft/minimal messages as it is I don't need more to deal with! " Thats enough time to know what you like. Can't argue with that. Maybe next year haha | |||
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"Not sure why asking someone to remove their personal preferences would help anyone." certainly won't help the person who removes them! | |||
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"Would you like to be receiving messages from 56 year olds or 60 year olds? Probably not because they are not your preference and you wouldn't want to waste their time? I love younger guys but often their immaturity goes against them. It's just one of those things Op that you will have to accept. x " Acceptance is a virtue of mine | |||
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"I don’t have kids; however I have little in common with younger people and, no matter how outstandingly amazing they apparently are, with no intellectual connection my knickers weld themselves firmly closed. " Of course, I agree completely without a connection on a deeper or an intellectual level I wouldn't be meeting someone either. | |||
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"I lowered my age range not that long ago, the messages I got were mostly appalling so I put them up again. From that experience I can say that a lot of the younger guys are more into a quick shag or they want to shag an older woman, both things I don't find appealing." I understand that, I did sag I reckoned that there would be many who have upped the age because of appalling or time wasting messages from younger men, I know what we can be like. I can assure you I'm after more than a quick shag and not just after an older woman, I said in the OP that its a sickener when there's a woman who you feel you'd get on very well with only to see youre outside the preffered age. Again it was only a thought and the majority have had their say. | |||
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"I lowered my age range not that long ago, the messages I got were mostly appalling so I put them up again. From that experience I can say that a lot of the younger guys are more into a quick shag or they want to shag an older woman, both things I don't find appealing." I've had the same with older men, added to that a lot are married. I do open my age ranges to older than myself occasionally though; just in case. | |||
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"Was wondering what the consensus would be on a thought I had. There are a lot of young males out here in the world of fab. I'm sure I speak for many of us here when I say it's such a sickener when you see a woman that jumps out at you and you read her profile and it sounds like you'd get on like a house on fire only to see your a year or two or sometimes more below their age preference and no contact can be made. Would it be a good idea if once a week or fuck it even once a month, the ladies lowered their age preference to see what happens?. Might be a lot of silly messages but there might be a few young men here that could be what you're after and you just never knew about it? Perhaps a post I'm the forum asking who's "in" or whatever. Would love to hear your thoughts! "The amount of silly mail and unwanted mail they'd get would easily outweigh the potential for a good one. Think they get enough already from what i hear. More work for them I'd feel. Nice idea though lol | |||
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"The amount of silly mail and unwanted mail they'd get would easily outweigh the potential for a good one. Think they get enough already from what i hear. More work for them I'd feel. Nice idea though lol" Yeah it's a little like communism. Great in theory. Disastrous in action! | |||
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"The amount of silly mail and unwanted mail they'd get would easily outweigh the potential for a good one. Think they get enough already from what i hear. More work for them I'd feel. Nice idea though lol Yeah it's a little like communism. Great in theory. Disastrous in action! "Haha. Yeah actually,now you mention it. It's just like that. I may tell lexi to do it as an experiment and see what happens | |||
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"I have restrictions in place because ultimately the younger men on here seem to expect sex just because they have seen my profile, they lack respect and experience (not just in the bedroom). They seem to think that women owe them something just because they are young and have nice bodies... They have a total disregard for the needs and wants of a lady most of the time and are too selfish. Men who are older have learn't a lot of lessons and seem to know how to treat a lady. " Hmmmm. Maybe. | |||
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"I understand that and its a shame that many can be that way. I'm not cocky in any way or trying to blow my own trumpet but I'm very respectful, well mannered and don't feel I'm owed anything from anyone. Life experience leads to maturity and experience. Some people can live 80 years and not experience many things life has to offer. It's a pity some young men have given a bad rep to all young men especially the kind and courteous "It also doesn't help that men younger than me look REALLY young!!! I mean baby faces, baby bodies ect! | |||
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"I understand that and its a shame that many can be that way. I'm not cocky in any way or trying to blow my own trumpet but I'm very respectful, well mannered and don't feel I'm owed anything from anyone. Life experience leads to maturity and experience. Some people can live 80 years and not experience many things life has to offer. It's a pity some young men have given a bad rep to all young men especially the kind and courteous
It also doesn't help that men younger than me look REALLY young!!! I mean baby faces, baby bodies ect!
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"I've recently changed my age filters - raised them by 5yrs. As was finding the vast majority of messages I was receiving from younger men were, well tbh - quite repulsive. I appreciate there maybe some that aren't, but I've not got the time or inclination to sift through the dozens I was getting to find out " That's more than fair. Why go through 100's of mails to find maybe 1 or 2 that are actually appealing | |||
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"Hi obi ..this is a super respectful guy who behaves in a polite and respectful manner on the forums. I have my age range set higher because I got a lot of hassle off younger men. Continuous messaging, not accepting no for an answer and getting rude when I wouldn't back down. It was after a few incidences like this I decided to up the age range. I know not all 20 somethings are like this but enough are to make me want to keep my filters where they're at. "Sally you're too kind to me!
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"Hi obi ..this is a super respectful guy who behaves in a polite and respectful manner on the forums." Should see how he behaves in the bedroom! | |||
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"Hi obi ..this is a super respectful guy who behaves in a polite and respectful manner on the forums. Should see how he behaves in the bedroom! "Not as polite I hope | |||
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"We have our filters set at quite a few yearsabove and below the age range we are ideally looking for for that very reason that someone special may stand out to us. I'm pretty sure a lot of people do this as well so we are filtering out people that we would never consider so no point in changing the age range. " Exactly this, I already turn down most 40 year olds. | |||
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"Was wondering what the consensus would be on a thought I had. There are a lot of young males out here in the world of fab. I'm sure I speak for many of us here when I say it's such a sickener when you see a woman that jumps out at you and you read her profile and it sounds like you'd get on like a house on fire only to see your a year or two or sometimes more below their age preference and no contact can be made. Would it be a good idea if once a week or fuck it even once a month, the ladies lowered their age preference to see what happens?. Might be a lot of silly messages but there might be a few young men here that could be what you're after and you just never knew about it? Perhaps a post I'm the forum asking who's "in" or whatever. Would love to hear your thoughts! "For the right guy I would! | |||
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"For the right guy I would! " How would you know its the right guy?
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"For the right guy I would! How would you know its the right guy?
If he's below or above your preference he won't be able to win your heart in a message ha "To be honest I get messages from all ages they come through. But if it was a lovely thought out message and we got chatting who knows. Never say never. | |||
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"I understand that and its a shame that many can be that way. I'm not cocky in any way or trying to blow my own trumpet but I'm very respectful, well mannered and don't feel I'm owed anything from anyone. Life experience leads to maturity and experience. Some people can live 80 years and not experience many things life has to offer. It's a pity some young men have given a bad rep to all young men especially the kind and courteous
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Do I have a babies body? "You actually don't have a babies body HAHA. | |||
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You actually don't have a babies body HAHA. "Glad to hear it ha! Wonder about the face though!!? | |||
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"I had mmf with my FWB and a 19 year old a couple of weeks ago. I am old enough to be his granny but it did not feel wrong. He was very polite asked if I would like him to put a condom on and fucked me pretty good. Sex between consenting adults is not wrong. He was a better meet than a lot of the older men I,'ve met XXX" Woohoo one for the young guys!! Delighted to hear he was respectful and fucked you good!! Thats 1 good young man story to 100,456 bad | |||
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" Do I have a babies body?
You actually don't have a babies body HAHA.
Glad to hear it ha! Wonder about the face though!!? "Couldn't see that lol | |||
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You actually don't have a babies body HAHA.
Glad to hear it ha! Wonder about the face though!!?
Couldn't see that lol"I'd show you but, well. You know the story! | |||
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"OP if a woman sees you on the forum and likes your profile, what you post, the way you come across, she’d probably message you anyway and override her filters. I have a number off female friends on here who have done that, despite me being outside their age range. If they like they will come. In the meantime don’t worry about those you can’t message because of filters, just get on with presenting yourself the way you sit to be perceived at every opportunity." Great advice thanks very much man | |||
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"Was wondering what the consensus would be on a thought I had. There are a lot of young males out here in the world of fab. I'm sure I speak for many of us here when I say it's such a sickener when you see a woman that jumps out at you and you read her profile and it sounds like you'd get on like a house on fire only to see your a year or two or sometimes more below their age preference and no contact can be made. Would it be a good idea if once a week or fuck it even once a month, the ladies lowered their age preference to see what happens?. Might be a lot of silly messages but there might be a few young men here that could be what you're after and you just never knew about it? Perhaps a post I'm the forum asking who's "in" or whatever. Would love to hear your thoughts! "This is sad! This is exactly my argument but people will have their ways. They're clearly cutting themselves short of what could be incredible times! | |||
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