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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is aimed at all really, but I've been wondering how many messages do people recive on a daily or hourly rate.l can only imagine that it's going to be of the scales.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less than one every 3 months

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I thought that said 'Record number of sausages' haha, now that would be my kind of thread!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Less than one every 3 months"

That's better them me mate

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Very few from anyone not on my Friends' List

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought that said 'Record number of sausages' haha, now that would be my kind of thread! "

Haha dare I ask...errrrrrm .....

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"This is aimed at all really, but I've been wondering how many messages do people recive on a daily or hourly rate.l can only imagine that it's going to be of the scales."
updated profile and let down filters about ooh two hours ago..had already about 12 messages, 6 havent read my profile, which is the title of my profile Thats fab for you

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I've had 2 today. Last before that was 5 two weeks ago and then another 2 four weeks ago.

Average is 2 per week. Most are prompted by forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is aimed at all really, but I've been wondering how many messages do people recive on a daily or hourly rate.l can only imagine that it's going to be of the scales."

We are exceptionally light on messages compared to what single women and some couples reportedly get. I think the maximum we've had unread is about 7 and that might have included more than one from the same person.

Ginger

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I thought that said 'Record number of sausages' haha, now that would be my kind of thread!

Haha dare I ask...errrrrrm ....."

I like a nice sausage....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is aimed at all really, but I've been wondering how many messages do people recive on a daily or hourly rate.l can only imagine that it's going to be of the scales."

After a few days around 3 per day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well until recently next to none but yesterday alone I had over 100 views and 20 messages... happened all week but prior to that maybe one message every 6 weeks. I think everyone’s on heat or everyone’s selflessly offering to share their bed to keep warm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked a friend of mine how many messages she would get on a daily basis, on a normal day upwards of 50, a new photo will double that and a meet request can run into hundreds.

Pretty much the same as for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it look's like couple's don't get that many messages then,l would of thought they would be high in demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other day I logged in and had 3 waiting for me! Usually though, I might get one or two every few days. Usually just chit chat stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get bombarded by messages. Using filters helps - it doesn't matter how clear you are on your profile what you want as most men can't/won't read it anyway. I maybe get 50 messages a day if I'm just loitering online, more if I put up a new photo or meet request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most for me was 4 didn't know what do with myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woke up to 247 messages

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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"Less than one every 3 months"

You're not the only one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've scared off most so I don't get many at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woke up to 247 messages "

I only sent 246, who else you seeing.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

At one point I was getting upwards of five a day it was insane!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woke up to 247 messages

I only sent 246, who else you seeing. "

Actually spat my tea out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean messages out the blue or replys to messages sent. In both cases maybe 2 a week

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Messages about meeting. Over 1 year 0

Messages about Sumthing in the forum.

On average 5 a month

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Never 0 because i send myself a message everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2/3 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to employ a secretary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I woke up to 247 messages

I only sent 246, who else you seeing. "

Bravo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well until recently next to none but yesterday alone I had over 100 views and 20 messages... happened all week but prior to that maybe one message every 6 weeks. I think everyone’s on heat or everyone’s selflessly offering to share their bed to keep warm "

Jebus that's some good going fella

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Varies - but on average, I'd say around 5-10 per week. That's not counting messages from friends.

If we've uploaded new pics, then our messages can increase by alot for a day or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough I must be doing something wrong lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around 20 to 30 a day

Friend of mine set up single girl profile and she had 570 messages in 1 day. And then men come on here winging that women don’t reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Around 20 to 30 a day

Friend of mine set up single girl profile and she had 570 messages in 1 day. And then men come on here winging that women don’t reply!

"

Wowzers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had 8

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

Daily is anything from 8-20. On a good day that is.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have very few filters, if I'm not online much maybe 2-3, when I'm online it's more and also if I put a half decent pic up. However I have never received the 100s that a lot of people say they receive, guess I'm not popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit loads from fellas, a decent amount from couples and not enough from women *Hint hint*

The last time we were on cam we couldnt even reply to chat messages as they kept popping up over the one we were trying to reply to. It was manic.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I've never kept a full day's count but on weekend nights, especially when I've forgotten to log out, I can easily wake up to well over a 100

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I've never kept a full day's count but on weekend nights, especially when I've forgotten to log out, I can easily wake up to well over a 100 "

Sorry x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"I've never kept a full day's count but on weekend nights, especially when I've forgotten to log out, I can easily wake up to well over a 100

Sorry x"

Haha

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

Not many at all I'm pleased to say

. Ranges from 0-5 on average.

I did change my postcode on Saturday for a few hours. Lots of messages but 95% of them hadn't read my profile

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends very much on what we are doing but it is roughly about 10-20 emails a week. Not many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t get many messages at all and only have age filters on, however I think some of my pictures and veris put others off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get many messages at all and only have age filters on, however I think some of my pictures and veris put others off. "

It’s literally only the filters being the reason. I know this because I’ve wanted to message a few times just because of the pic with your lips on. Everyone has their preferences, best to have few of the right people than heaps of the wrong ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends a lot on what we have been doing ie if we have been on cam, been active on the forums, been fabbing pics.

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t get many messages at all and only have age filters on, however I think some of my pictures and veris put others off.

It’s literally only the filters being the reason. I know this because I’ve wanted to message a few times just because of the pic with your lips on. Everyone has their preferences, best to have few of the right people than heaps of the wrong ones."

Oh thanks however I totally agree about having a few of the right people

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