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Are you a flirter?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or clearly straight up and to the point?

If your clearly interested in someone on Fab, is it standard for a woman to play the flirting game? Should men play it more cool?

I'd like to meet a few ladies on Fab, they know who they are

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Flirting is fun.

Never underestimate the value of a good bit of flirtatious behaviour.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I’m not a flirter and I’m not clear and to the point. I’ve no idea what I am

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

I just can't flirt I'm too straight to the point for that

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No, sadly not. I just think on here it reads really poor and daft on here when I read back my 'flirting' compared to others. I guess I'm more straight to the point with a healthy dose of realism so tend not to bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not a flirter and I’m not clear and to the point. I’ve no idea what I am "

I don't know, you look quite upfront to me

Oh I'm a flirter btw

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Oh you gotta flirt. I'm a big time flirter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not a flirter and I’m not clear and to the point. I’ve no idea what I am "

Your a Taurus? . (I'm guessing)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like a bit of mutual inbox flirting that verges on cyber sex

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I’m not a flirter and I’m not clear and to the point. I’ve no idea what I am

I don't know, you look quite upfront to me

Oh I'm a flirter btw "

thank goodness for fluttering eyelashes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm a bit of both. Certainly not backwards in coming forwards and a bit flirty too..... I use this a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or clearly straight up and to the point?

If your clearly interested in someone on Fab, is it standard for a woman to play the flirting game? Should men play it more cool?

I'd like to meet a few ladies on Fab, they know who they are

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i was told recently at work, i flirt 99.9% of the time and most people know its just me and never take me serious as if i want something ill get it

on here ill flirt but if i want someone i will ask x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never thought I was but according to many, on and off fab I'm a massive flirt.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I'm a shameless flirt... just can't help myself

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I'm a crap flirt lol,Jack flirts with some of the lovely ladies...

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm a huge flirt always got into trouble at school/collage

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By *eplicant JoWoman
over a year ago

Sussex countryside

I am a bit of both I think. Although my flirting skills are a bit poor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I'm definitely a flirt, I'm not very good at asking for what I want outright though. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me never

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Well i love to flirt , shows my cheeky side ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i love to flirt , shows my cheeky side , "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here I take flirting as just that, flirting with no intention of meeting. It's fun and passes the time away on the forums nothing serious in it.

If interested in meeting then it's chat to get to know someone better with intention of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On here I take flirting as just that, flirting with no intention of meeting. It's fun and passes the time away on the forums nothing serious in it.

If interested in meeting then it's chat to get to know someone better with intention of meeting."

So you see flirting in the forums as nothing more of a game?

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

I very very rarely feel confident enough to flirt. Mind you, I rarely feel confident enough to be straight and to the point either because I'm inhibited by fears of saying the wrong thing or misinterpreting what someone says to me. How I've ever got anything off the ground here is more to do with luck than judgement and compared to the ease and quick wit with which I see so many others flirting I often feel rather inadequate ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I very very rarely feel confident enough to flirt. Mind you, I rarely feel confident enough to be straight and to the point either because I'm inhibited by fears of saying the wrong thing or misinterpreting what someone says to me. How I've ever got anything off the ground here is more to do with luck than judgement and compared to the ease and quick wit with which I see so many others flirting I often feel rather inadequate ... "

Don't feel inadequate...you could feel something else if you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On here straight to the point l.g.b.n.a.f

Face to face I love good flirt it makes you feel good

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Well i love to flirt , shows my cheeky side ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On here I take flirting as just that, flirting with no intention of meeting. It's fun and passes the time away on the forums nothing serious in it.

If interested in meeting then it's chat to get to know someone better with intention of meeting.

So you see flirting in the forums as nothing more of a game? "

That's been my experience of it yes.....for me nothing has ever come out of flirting here. All my meets except one have been ones I've directly contacted and express my interest. The other she contacted me directly.

I find most ladies who flirt do it with loads if guys. ..its natural for some so not sure they're interested in meeting all those guts they flirt with. Some don't know how to flirt or don't realise their being flirted with either.

Others obviously have different experience. Maybe it's down to different types of characters too that were attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to flirt, come a flirt with me ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I very very rarely feel confident enough to flirt. Mind you, I rarely feel confident enough to be straight and to the point either because I'm inhibited by fears of saying the wrong thing or misinterpreting what someone says to me. How I've ever got anything off the ground here is more to do with luck than judgement and compared to the ease and quick wit with which I see so many others flirting I often feel rather inadequate ...

Don't feel inadequate...you could feel something else if you want. "

That's a flirt V...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like a bit of flirting every now and then but I'm also a realist so don't tend to flirt massively with people I'm unlikely to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been known to be a little flirty in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a naturally flirty person and I often don't realise Im doing it. Especially in chat, I get told I "lead people on" where I think Im just bent friendly.

Conversely when I am actually into someone on here Im quite forward about it.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Im too to flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt alot its just me can't help it but im a charmer aswell they sort of go hand in hand i think.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I flirt with the idea of flirting (see what I did there) but more often than not fail miserably - neither am I very up front and blatant and have a tendency to blather on inanely.

I'm also not great at reading signals unless they're so overt even I couldn't miss them, and even then I usually think they're intended for someone else if declared publically or not to be taken entirely seriously if done privately.

Basically I'm a hapless hopeless case in the flirt stakes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just sit quietly in a corner and wait for the flirt to come to me...

Still waiting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do a bit of flirting, I can be straight to the point but also be coy. It depends on my mood. If I wanted to arrange a meet I’d probably be fairly direct., but depending on who it was would modify my approach accordingly

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I wish I was a flirter I’m really bad at it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just sit quietly in a corner and wait for the flirt to come to me...

Still waiting...

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Well I find that hard to believe,not many women can resist a sexy Irish guy

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm a terrible flirt IRL. Gets me into some awkward situations...

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I’m not a flirter and I’m not clear and to the point. I’ve no idea what I am "

You’re too nice that’s what you are xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's well known I'm flirty mcflirtyson, I'm also pretty direct with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an incorrigible flirt...when I can be bothered, the rest of the time I'm just a ginger dickhead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm an incorrigible flirt...when I can be bothered, the rest of the time I'm just a ginger dickhead "

A hot ginger dickhead though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a very jolly hockey sticks kind of chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attempt to flirt. And i'm terrible at picking up on whether i'm being flirted with. It's easy on here, you just throw in a lot of and a bit of .

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'll indulge on occasion.

I'm pretty crap at it, so it rarely gets me very far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton

I loveflirting but can also be straight to the point of I see someone I want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs is always happy to flirt and can be very to the point depending on how keen she is... mr always a flirt and will be more forward to start than mrs when it comes to first contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently I'm a terrible flirt I can't help it, at work I'm known as the teeth licker, but my flirting does increase sales...

Hey Bee Your jeans look mighty tight, let me loosen them up for you...

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a huge flirt apparently. I dont even realise I do it half the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good flirt, gotta keep the skills up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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clearly not working here

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


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clearly not working here "

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By *ogerNesszonesMan
over a year ago

Northern England


"I’m not a flirter and I’m not clear and to the point. I’ve no idea what I am "

...Hmmmm. How does "enigmatic" sit with you then?

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