FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons that they aren't arsed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on...

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on..."

Single word replies, E.G. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on...

Single word replies, E.G. Lol"

Even worse, 1 letter answers! ‘K’.....

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

what i find funny is you mail but get blunt replies always. if someone wants to chat they'll continue the convo with a question. for eg you ask did you have a nice weekend. they answer "yep".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on..."

When you're straight and tell them you're not interested and they still continue to message regardless...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

When they casually say " get back to me when you're free "

Err if you're that interested you'd ask when I'm free and sort a date etc

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

When you offer them your custard creams & they say sorry, Bourbons or nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the answer to an important question is

`it is what it is`.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on...

Single word replies, E.G. Lol

Even worse, 1 letter answers! ‘K’.....

in the text world K means fuck you (just saying)

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

When there is total incongruence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on...

Single word replies, E.G. Lol

Even worse, 1 letter answers! ‘K’.....

in the text world K means fuck you (just saying)

I did not know that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deleted/unread or worse...they read it.

Only ever reply with just a smiley.

Never ever reply to a post on the forum.

They say things like NO or GO AWAY.

I can't view their page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't remember stuff you talked about.

Talks incessantly about other people they want to fuck.

Doesn't "like" that new pic you uploaded with the new lingerie you bought with them in mind.

Always "very busy" and up to their eye's.

Makes plans but they don't include you.

Oh the devastation

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

I will only message on here, no phonecalls or messaging apps and i will only send a face pic when we have arranged to meet.

Well this is flowing effortlessly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deleted/unread or worse...they read it.

Only ever reply with just a smiley.

Never ever reply to a post on the forum.

They say things like NO or GO AWAY.

I can't view their page.

To be fair, at least you know where you stand with

GO AWAY!

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

No text, just emojis.

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

When they cancel your meet and then get another veri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There all clues, as for reasons? Generally they just aren't that into you

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"When there is total incongruence. "

I had to look that up!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"what i find funny is you mail but get blunt replies always. if someone wants to chat they'll continue the convo with a question. for eg you ask did you have a nice weekend. they answer "yep". "

You're assuming that they are reasonably socially literate.

Another one - they'll cover anything but what you have asked about .

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"When there is total incongruence.

I had to look that up! "

Me too. And the explanation wasn't that straight forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so i have to make conversation to get to meet people for swinging and sex

fuck i thought i could just lady wank in the chat room

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Is this going to work as a helpful tips section for some?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you get willy pic and a ?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

They don't reply for ages ,unless they are bored/cant get another meet.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on..."

Definitely this. Nightmare trying to meet a cpl,expected to chase etc.sp cba lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you offer them your custard creams & they say sorry, Bourbons or nothing. "

To be fair I always confirm they have tetley teabags and not something like pg tips......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deleted/unread or worse...they read it.

Only ever reply with just a smiley.

Never ever reply to a post on the forum.

They say things like NO or GO AWAY.

I can't view their page.

To be fair, at least you know where you stand with

GO AWAY! "

Probably. But I think the NO is still not clear enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you tell them you can host all week and they reply 4 months later XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you've met them before and had a great time, but they ignore most of your messages now. But when you say to them "it's fine if you want me to stop messaging you" they just make up some excuse like they were busy and didn't see your messages...

Just be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they spell where they live wrong.

ptu xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you've met them before and had a great time, but they ignore most of your messages now. But when you say to them "it's fine if you want me to stop messaging you" they just make up some excuse like they were busy and didn't see your messages...

Just be honest!"

This rankles us too. Have a gent round for hours of fun,he demonstrably has a great time etc. Then no verification, no response and blocked

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

When they hide your veri as they don't want to upset other women they meet

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

When they only speak when you delete them as a friend.

Miss

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"When you offer them your custard creams & they say sorry, Bourbons or nothing.

To be fair I always confirm they have tetley teabags and not something like pg tips......"

I have loose leaf tea, Tetley is available too though

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"When they only speak when you delete them as a friend.

Miss"

Had this one a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest!

This rankles us too. Have a gent round for hours of fun,he demonstrably has a great time etc. Then no verification, no response and blocked "

That's terrible! Just say you've changed your mind, we're all adults here, we can take it!

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on..."

Maybe some people dont have that high a sex drive

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By *lackalansugarMan
over a year ago

london

Women do this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you see they've read your message about a date to meet then they mark it as unread. Even though they agreed to meet you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they only speak when you delete them as a friend.

Miss

Had this one a few times

Ooh. Had this a few times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be honest!

This rankles us too. Have a gent round for hours of fun,he demonstrably has a great time etc. Then no verification, no response and blocked

That's terrible! Just say you've changed your mind, we're all adults here, we can take it!"

Precisely x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he talks to you about other girls.

When they constantly say "we should meet" but never makes moves to make it happen.

When you only hear from them when theyre horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive deleted a few 'freinds' just lately because they wont chat. Cba, leave em and move on..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you just get that feeling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'll go first

When you always initiate messages not them.

Carry on...

Single word replies, E.G. Lol

Even worse, 1 letter answers! ‘K’.....

in the text world K means fuck you (just saying)

I did not know that!

Me neither. Thought it was just someone to lazy to type OK

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"When there is total incongruence.

I had to look that up! "

Give us a clue it'll save me looking it up!

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens

"When you just get that feeling. "

Gut instinct is a great tool.

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By *oggoneMan
over a year ago

Derry

"When there is total incongruence.

I had to look that up!

Give us a clue it'll save me looking it up!

The antonym of congruence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deleted/unread or worse...they read it.

Only ever reply with just a smiley.

Never ever reply to a post on the forum.

They say things like NO or GO AWAY.

I can't view their page.

To be fair, at least you know where you stand with

GO AWAY! "

But if your a single guy...doesn’t GO AWAY mean I’m really wanting to fcuk your brains out...please continue to flood my inbox with further pointless messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they hide your veri as they don't want to upset other women they meet

Hopefully that’s the reason...not that they’re embarrassed to have met?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Deleted/unread or worse...they read it.

Only ever reply with just a smiley.

Never ever reply to a post on the forum.

They say things like NO or GO AWAY.

I can't view their page.

Yeah I've had a

as a response to a message that had a few sentences in it!

This is why I hate speaking to people 1 on 1. Prefer to just chat and meet socially quite quickly. Once we've met in the flesh it's ge over for them then cos they'll want a bit.

It's just the leading up, this period where you can pull out at any minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you don't send a message, and neither do they.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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When they only get in contact when they clearly have nothing better to do

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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When they aren't living their 'perfect real life'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you offer them your custard creams & they say sorry, Bourbons or nothing.

To be fair I always confirm they have tetley teabags and not something like pg tips......

I have loose leaf tea, Tetley is available too though "

Good to know

If I can't get a decent brew I'm out lol

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Deleted/unread or worse...they read it.

Only ever reply with just a smiley.

Never ever reply to a post on the forum.

They say things like NO or GO AWAY.

I can't view their page.

To be fair, at least you know where you stand with

GO AWAY!

Probably. But I think the NO is still not clear enough. "
Doesn't that really mean yes then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When they only get in contact when they clearly have nothing better to do "

Or nobody else to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you reply, thanks but not interested, but now they see it as they have a reply you MUST be interested. Had 12 messages from one guy last week. I ignored the last 6!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They had a wank.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

"When they only get in contact when they clearly have nothing better to do

Or nobody else to do

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"When they only get in contact when they clearly have nothing better to do

Or nobody else to do

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deleted/unread or worse...they read it.

Only ever reply with just a smiley.

Never ever reply to a post on the forum.

They say things like NO or GO AWAY.

I can't view their page.

To be fair, at least you know where you stand with

GO AWAY!

Probably. But I think the NO is still not clear enough. Doesn't that really mean yes then?

I don't know

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