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By *unguya2z OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry..ish

Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I have had the same. Clearly it’s a single guy having a tug sadly

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself. "

I’m confused by your first paragraph, are you asking if people string along others they think are time wasters, or are you asking if people deliberately time waste?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself.

I’m confused by your first paragraph, are you asking if people string along others they think are time wasters, or are you asking if people deliberately time waste? "
thanks you got there first lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do. Then they post whining about other people wasting their time even though they gleefully admit to doing it to other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest. I've got many better things to do than waste my time on a time waster/fake/whatever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they do. Then they post whining about other people wasting their time even though they gleefully admit to doing it to other people. "

But if the person is pretending to be someone they’re not, I have no sympathy if someone wastes their time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they do. Then they post whining about other people wasting their time even though they gleefully admit to doing it to other people.

But if the person is pretending to be someone they’re not, I have no sympathy if someone wastes their time."

It's still a person though. Depends on if they just want wank chat or if they send someone to a non-existent address I suppose. I don't think someone just wanting wank chat is a time waster and I wouldn't be an arse to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely wasting somebody’s time encourages the same thing, it’s not a game so don’t play it

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

For me, a time waster is someone who arranges a meet and not turn up.

Everything else is just Fab being Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes they do. Then they post whining about other people wasting their time even though they gleefully admit to doing it to other people.

But if the person is pretending to be someone they’re not, I have no sympathy if someone wastes their time.

It's still a person though. Depends on if they just want wank chat or if they send someone to a non-existent address I suppose. I don't think someone just wanting wank chat is a time waster and I wouldn't be an arse to them. "

Wanting wank chat is fine but leading someone to believe you’re someone completely different, ie a single male pretending to be a female, is a timewaster.

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By *unguya2z OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself.

I’m confused by your first paragraph, are you asking if people string along others they think are time wasters, or are you asking if people deliberately time waste? thanks you got there first lol"
I'm asking if you were to get a message from someone who you think is a timewaster would you want there time and string them along letting them think you don't know,I don't mean spend half the day messaging them just one or two messages,I did go on to say I had a message from a guy pretending to be a couple.

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By *unguya2z OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry..ish

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself.

I’m confused by your first paragraph, are you asking if people string along others they think are time wasters, or are you asking if people deliberately time waste? thanks you got there first lolI'm asking if you were to get a message from someone who you think is a timewaster would you want there time and string them along letting them think you don't know,I don't mean spend half the day messaging them just one or two messages,I did go on to say I had a message from a guy pretending to be a couple. "

No, I wouldn't bother with it, I would just block them.

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By *unguya2z OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Yes they do. Then they post whining about other people wasting their time even though they gleefully admit to doing it to other people. "

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By *unguya2z OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Yes they do. Then they post whining about other people wasting their time even though they gleefully admit to doing it to other people.

But if the person is pretending to be someone they’re not, I have no sympathy if someone wastes their time.

It's still a person though. Depends on if they just want wank chat or if they send someone to a non-existent address I suppose. I don't think someone just wanting wank chat is a time waster and I wouldn't be an arse to them.

Wanting wank chat is fine but leading someone to believe you’re someone completely different, ie a single male pretending to be a female, is a timewaster."

Yes that's fair enough

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By *unguya2z OP   Man
over a year ago

coventry..ish


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself.

I’m confused by your first paragraph, are you asking if people string along others they think are time wasters, or are you asking if people deliberately time waste? "
ok

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself.

I’m confused by your first paragraph, are you asking if people string along others they think are time wasters, or are you asking if people deliberately time waste? thanks you got there first lolI'm asking if you were to get a message from someone who you think is a timewaster would you want there time and string them along letting them think you don't know,I don't mean spend half the day messaging them just one or two messages,I did go on to say I had a message from a guy pretending to be a couple. "

No I wouldn’t string them along, i’d just tell them what I really thought they were doing and block them, i’m a grown up i’m not here to catfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a big problem with this, so much so that my boyfriend literally never uses our account to message anyone new in case they think he's a time waster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely wasting somebody’s time encourages the same thing, it’s not a game so don’t play it"

Exactly.

Same as when people are rude or abusive when they turn down someone they don't fancy. It just starts a cycle of abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself.

I’m confused by your first paragraph, are you asking if people string along others they think are time wasters, or are you asking if people deliberately time waste? thanks you got there first lolI'm asking if you were to get a message from someone who you think is a timewaster would you want there time and string them along letting them think you don't know,I don't mean spend half the day messaging them just one or two messages,I did go on to say I had a message from a guy pretending to be a couple. "

I once had a 'woman' mail me on a different site and we chatted often. I realised very early on that it was a man but it didn't bother me at all. I liked the person a lot.

Unfortunately when I told him that I knew he was really a man he didn't mail me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest. I've got many better things to do than waste my time on a time waster/fake/whatever. "

this

U got the pink knickers yet

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By *ldhillhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Old Hill

The second they start messaging in a way that suggests they are just wanking we block them.

You will never meet these people.

Not worth a second of your time.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I speak to a guy who says he wants to meet but has let me down a few times.

I like talking to him though. I think he's maybe just too scared to actually meet.

I go along with his suggestions to try again but I know it won't happen.

Am I leading him on? I don't think so. We get on really well and both get something out of our interaction.

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"I speak to a guy who says he wants to meet but has let me down a few times.

I like talking to him though. I think he's maybe just too scared to actually meet.

I go along with his suggestions to try again but I know it won't happen.

Am I leading him on? I don't think so. We get on really well and both get something out of our interaction. "

I can’t see why you wouldn’t meet as that’s what most are here for.

Myself I couldn’t let anyone down you sort a day and time and you turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The second they start messaging in a way that suggests they are just wanking we block them.

You will never meet these people.

Not worth a second of your time.

C"

Is it a bit like:

Hi, love your profile

fap

Tell me what you are wearing

fap-fap

fancy a fuck

fap-fap-fap

wanna meet now?

fap-fap-fap-fap

I'll cover you in honey and lick you clean

fapity-fapity-fap-fap-fap

ahhhhhhh

catch you later?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Heavens no - it's tough enough just being chatty with the good folk

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself. "

No.

What would be the point?

We've got far better things to do with our time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone deliberately"string along"people who they think are timewasters?

Only asking as had a message from a "couple's who is obviously a guy playing with himself. "

I block and screen print the messages. Useful later when their names come up in innocent conversations.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I admit to playing games when I'm on my period. I don't string them along, however I do reply to messages I wouldn't normally open.

Shooting fish in a barrel.

I confuse the shit outta them.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"For me, a time waster is someone who arranges a meet and not turn up.

Everything else is just Fab being Fab"

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit to playing games when I'm on my period. I don't string them along, however I do reply to messages I wouldn't normally open.

Shooting fish in a barrel.

I confuse the shit outta them."

Swimming around in my wee bowl I keep forgetting every 3 seconds and come back for more

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Why would someone deliberately string someone along just because they thought they were a fake or something?

What a waste of time and energy!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would someone deliberately string someone along just because they thought they were a fake or something?

What a waste of time and energy!!!"

Because it happened to them... and they get some form of personal satisfaction and appeasement from it. It's human nature and we see this approach a lot across the forums on many issues not just for time wasters.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I admit to playing games when I'm on my period. I don't string them along, however I do reply to messages I wouldn't normally open.

Shooting fish in a barrel.

I confuse the shit outta them.

Swimming around in my wee bowl I keep forgetting every 3 seconds and come back for more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I admit to playing games when I'm on my period. I don't string them along, however I do reply to messages I wouldn't normally open.

Shooting fish in a barrel.

I confuse the shit outta them.

Swimming around in my wee bowl I keep forgetting every 3 seconds and come back for more

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Why would someone deliberately string someone along just because they thought they were a fake or something?

What a waste of time and energy!!!

Because it happened to them... and they get some form of personal satisfaction and appeasement from it. It's human nature and we see this approach a lot across the forums on many issues not just for time wasters. "

Do we? Can't say I've noticed I do try and stay away from negativity though, maybe that's why.

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