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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many of the ladies are happy to message a guy first and who believes it's up to the gent?

Asking for a friend...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm more than happy to initiate contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I message first. I've no problem putting myself out there.

Sometimes I get a reply, sometimes not....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem in messaging first

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There are a few out there who will happily initiate contact ..i can vouch for that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find if a lady sends a wink I'll feel better about messaging.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I prefer browsing and making first contact with men. (With Mr B's blessing of course)

Far better than sitting back and waiting to see who might drop by.

I'd say that around half respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I almost always message first, but usually the men in my inbox don't really catch my eye

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

I’ll happily send a first message if something about the profile catches my eye, I’ll send winks on occasion too

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

No one can message me first so I have to be proactive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'll message a guy first, sometimes I'll chuck them a wink.

I don't often message people first, as I'm pretty crap at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do occasionally XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many of the ladies are happy to message a guy first and who believes it's up to the gent?

Asking for a friend... "

Almost always as fellas are usually blocked x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'll send a message if I'm on the prowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I browse and chat to men but i do block if no chat back or I'm ignored .I think some men are quite rude and can't talk nice conversation on here .Some think it should be naughty chat .this puts me off .Some are too full on and some get messages mixed up with others they chat too.i make notes as too remind myself dont bother .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moi!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I'll message, or wink. Or sometimes mr will get talking to them and I'll carry on the conversation. It's about 50-50 for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find if a lady sends a wink I'll feel better about messaging. "

I tend to wink rather than message because I sent a few messages early doors of my membership and they were ignored so put me off a bit

I've had a couple of replies to winks tho strangely

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