FabSwingers.com forum: Is there one thing ...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That triggers a definite NO and look no further .....I suppose there are many, I have two, snapchat filters (fake pretty) and poor spelling, (your phone and computer know how to spell, stop being sloppy) how about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-ist attitudes and infantile chat

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Nothing but a load of dick pics on their profile and crude messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pictures of guys with their penises in women.... unless part of a couple in which case its acceptable but on a single guy profile, instant no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those people who first message with a 'can I ask you a question'

And messages that start with a huge paragraph detailing what he wants to do with me.

Txt speak is also off putting

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

"Those people who first message with a 'can I ask you a question'

And messages that start with a huge paragraph detailing what he wants to do with me.

Txt speak is also off putting"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

The B Movie bad guy look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback cocks in chuffs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak...

And I also hate it when younger men (early 20's) call me babe or hun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crude messages. Crude usernames or profiles. Too many cock pics.

Post wank cum pics.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Wuu2 type messages - lazy no effort chat

Minimal real interest in what I need

Failure to answer questions that were obviously important enough for me to ask

Disrespect

Failure to respond to requests for body or other pics instead of dick pics

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Pet names....grrr

"I know im out of your age range but....."

Crude first messages

Just a few there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penis that isn't the size I'm looking for, face that isn't the kind I like looking at, height that isn't the height I want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Presuming that physically I'm attracted to them then poor spelling, grammar or inability to construct a proper sentence.

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Penis that isn't the size I'm looking for, face that isn't the kind I like looking at, height that isn't the height I want!"
but other than that you’re not picky ...

One line messages.

Unattractive close ups (of anything)

Boobs below the knees.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Barebackers are an instant no from me.

"Fill in later" or similar on profiles.

No pics or just cock pics.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Someone who is miles away.

Someone visiting my area.

100% cock pics.

Single man profile who mentions a partner in the blurb.

Shorties.

Oh....sorry....got carried away

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By *ilent.KnightMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"Someone who is miles away.

Someone visiting my area.

100% cock pics.

Single man profile who mentions a partner in the blurb.

Shorties.

Oh....sorry....got carried away

How far is too far ? Not that at it matters... I visit Northampton often anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always makes me chuckle when people say ‘no cock pictures’ on a swinging site

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Porn talk isn't doing it for us and neither is lack of effort in their profile, if you can't be bothered with your sales pitch, why should we be interested?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me chuckle when people say ‘no cock pictures’ on a swinging site

It's not a porn mag and we know what a cock looks like.

I don't mind a cock pic. If the cock puts me off it saves me time talking to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self righteous, angry, thou poo does not stink types... when I read some of the profiles and the person lists millions of negative reasons they will shoot you down... We should give everyone a chance based on their own merits

Rant over!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That triggers a definite NO and look no further .....I suppose there are many, I have two, snapchat filters (fake pretty) and poor spelling, (your phone and computer know how to spell, stop being sloppy) how about you"

My phone doesn't know how to spell, I have switched autocorrect off or it is forever changing I to U and others stuff so I end up sending a message that is completely wrong.

I don't mind bad spelling, I want to exam men's cocks not their literary skills.

For me a turn off is a poking out tongue, instant block

A cock picture with cum coming out of it

And pictures of females on a single man's profile because it makes it look like the female has claims on him and I also fear he may take pictures of us together and put them on his profile.

XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The word ‘ample’ is a no no for me

Very non discript so I avoid

Pussy pics that look like they’ve been kicked by a cow are an instant no no

Less is More on pics for me... bit of intrigue and thought and style

Don’t like bossy either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One, or no word messages combined with poor spelling, grammar or inability to construct a proper sentence

Pictures (profile I otherwise) of women on a single profile or all pics of said "single" having sex with women or of women sucking their cocks

"Wuu2" and other text speak

... to name but a few.

Did someone say I am picky?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Messages where they instantly assume it is the female online and profiles with very graphic photos showing we prefer the more artistic stuff.

Text speak gets an instant block but with bad spelling it depends on how bad it is. We all make mistakes and auto correct can be a pain especially when rushing and not paying attention.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Our tolerance level will depend on our mood to be honest but text speak and those worthless warnings are never a good sign.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A general gut feeling, but I am one of those who reads the profile and will only message if there's likely to be a connection.

Prefer intelligent, confident and a good sense of humour. But I suspect most on here do.

I don't like being called Honey/Hun but that's a personal irritation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just one thing

Something saying that they don't like but I have; beard, baldness (though I shave my head, I don't risk rejection because I expect it anyway)

Terrible one sentence replies. If you like someone, god damn make an effort in your conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" snapchat filters (fake pretty) "

This is MEGA weird on a male profile ... and there are lots

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"The word ‘ample’ is a no no for me

Very non discript so I avoid

Pussy pics that look like they’ve been kicked by a cow are an instant no no

Less is More on pics for me... bit of intrigue and thought and style

Don’t like bossy either

I hate the word ample! Please fab give me a better way to describe myself as a fatty than this politically correct, try not to offend bullshit word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak

'One liners' as a first message

Too many very graphic photos on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face pic

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

First messages asking to meet,with no pics

Cock pics or pics of other women attached to messages

Entitlement

Miss

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Profile full of cock pics. Especially if they are all purple and red looking. They make me think he has an angry cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Profile full of cock pics. Especially if they are all purple and red looking. They make me think he has an angry cock."

Angry cock

My big no is I’m a financial dom or looking for a sugar daddy. So basically you’re a whore? You want to fuck me or my bank balance?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Those who specify that only one particular race is attractive. And lots of shouty demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak

People who use the term lol

Untidy rooms

People that look like they need a wash

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

People that mone about spelling is 1 of mine.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Crude username, text speak or local dialect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My big no is I’m a financial dom or looking for a sugar daddy. So basically you’re a whore? You want to fuck me or my bank balance?"

It's unbelievable that women do this sort of thing. Maybe they prostitute themselves off here too? Shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PEOPLE THAT SHOUT A LOT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My big no is I’m a financial dom or looking for a sugar daddy. So basically you’re a whore? You want to fuck me or my bank balance?

It's unbelievable that women do this sort of thing. Maybe they prostitute themselves off here too? Shocking

Come across this before, sometimes it’s simply the social circle that they find themselves in and rightly or wrongly both sexes believe they are getting a good deal out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My big no is I’m a financial dom or looking for a sugar daddy. So basically you’re a whore? You want to fuck me or my bank balance?

It's unbelievable that women do this sort of thing. Maybe they prostitute themselves off here too? Shocking

Come across this before, sometimes it’s simply the social circle that they find themselves in and rightly or wrongly both sexes believe they are getting a good deal out of it"

I don't struggle to get my head around many things but this ... sheesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snapchat filters are an instant no for me too - we are all adults, not school kids

There are many things that can put me off bit I can't be arsed to list them

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By *razysexysingleWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Hard to narrow it down to just one!

Endless cock photos

Bad photos

Poor spelling and grammar

Attached men playing behind their partners back

Over familiarity calling me babe or hun

But ultimately people that haven’t bothered to read my profile

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Flabbiness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People from overseas I.e USA

It's not likely to happen and it makes me wonder if it's some kind of money making scheme

All over the UK is find as that what roads were put in place for

And anywhere can be got to in a few hours

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By *cesHighMan
over a year ago

Weymouth

Profiles prohibiting any type of communication expecting to arrive, ####, and leave, ???

Not the type of people or encounter we are looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Timewasters/leading on that kinda shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who say they’re working in the area and could they lodge with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of dick pics and dicks in lady bits especially bareback (couples excluded). Text talk and poor spelling. Crude messages and I'm passing through messages. One liners and blokes that say I'll lick you for hours ... have you erectile issues ?? I'm sure I can come up with more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self righteousness

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Dick pic avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone referring to me as nice for a young guy. I'll be nice when I'm older to hopefully .

Racism or a small minded outlook on life. I just don't have the time or patience to entertain someone like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Always makes me chuckle when people say ‘no cock pictures’ on a swinging site

It's not a porn mag and we know what a cock looks like.

I don't mind a cock pic. If the cock puts me off it saves me time talking to them. "

The thing that makes me laugh is usually the women who say that have pictures of their pussy on show.. Just makes me chuckle a little inside

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Pictures of guys with their penises in women.... unless part of a couple in which case its acceptable but on a single guy profile, instant no

Add crude opening messages to this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood. Sometimes its an angry looking cock that is 50 shades of purple other times it's being called babe. I much prefer being called sugartits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on my mood. Sometimes its an angry looking cock that is 50 shades of purple other times it's being called babe. I much prefer being called sugartits."

Alright sugartits

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