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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can you miss something that you never had?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Is that not longing to have something as opposed to missing it?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Is that not longing to have something as opposed to missing it? "

I think it's this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can you miss something that you never had? "

yeah wishing u had it

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Can you miss something that you never had? "

Yes. Verry.

And it drives you nuts cos you've never had it and your emajanashoun takes over cos you've never experienced it.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Of course. I missed when trying to shoot a duck. So I never had duck for dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I think it is possible. I think it's a bit of an illusion because you're missing more of the idea of it rather than the actuality of it (because the idea of it has in a way taken the place of the real thing). So it becomes more than longing, in this regard. But it's also a bit more troublesome than missing something you've actually had because the idea of something is more idealized than the reality.

But yes, I do think it's possible.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I think it is possible. I think it's a bit of an illusion because you're missing more of the idea of it rather than the actuality of it (because the idea of it has in a way taken the place of the real thing). So it becomes more than longing, in this regard. But it's also a bit more troublesome than missing something you've actually had because the idea of something is more idealized than the reality.

But yes, I do think it's possible. "

Yes I think this too. Like Seeside says it's probably more the imagination of what may have been.

So maybe not troublesome as such, as it could've been crap and not what was dreamed of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah definitely. Estella posted something recently about that feeling. I can't remember the word.

That grieving for what might have been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indubitably.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah definitely. Estella posted something recently about that feeling. I can't remember the word.

That grieving for what might have been. "

Estella always has the answers.

Estellaaaaaa where are youuuuuuuu??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I think it is possible. I think it's a bit of an illusion because you're missing more of the idea of it rather than the actuality of it (because the idea of it has in a way taken the place of the real thing). So it becomes more than longing, in this regard. But it's also a bit more troublesome than missing something you've actually had because the idea of something is more idealized than the reality.

But yes, I do think it's possible.

Yes I think this too. Like Seeside says it's probably more the imagination of what may have been.

So maybe not troublesome as such, as it could've been crap and not what was dreamed of. "

It can bring about complications in life if you're not careful. Imagine you had an abusive mother who dies, not only have you missed out on what is perceived as a stable loving childhood, your grief is complicated by missing what you should have had let alone the estranged relationship you did have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah definitely. Estella posted something recently about that feeling. I can't remember the word.

That grieving for what might have been.

Estella always has the answers.

Estellaaaaaa where are youuuuuuuu??!"

Saudade was the word Estella used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of.

I felt there was a huge hole in my life, because of the lack of intimacy with my husband.

I met him when I was very young and didn't know anything about relationships, other than my role as a gf/wife/mother; which was skewed from lack of knowledge.

I wanted to feel intense love and wanting from a man and had an idea of what it might feel like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah definitely. Estella posted something recently about that feeling. I can't remember the word.

That grieving for what might have been.

Estella always has the answers.

Estellaaaaaa where are youuuuuuuu??!

Saudade was the word Estella used."

Thanks I remember that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss living outside of the UK. I’ve always lived here

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Of course. I missed when trying to shoot a duck. So I never had duck for dinner "

No no no no no no no no ! That's not having something you missed.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yeah definitely. Estella posted something recently about that feeling. I can't remember the word.

That grieving for what might have been.

Estella always has the answers.

Estellaaaaaa where are youuuuuuuu??!

Saudade was the word Estella used.

Thanks I remember that one. "
Saudade isn't the right word for this. Saudade is the feelings you have on recollecting something or someone that you had.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that not longing to have something as opposed to missing it? "

That's what I would have thought.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"Yes, I think it is possible. I think it's a bit of an illusion because you're missing more of the idea of it rather than the actuality of it (because the idea of it has in a way taken the place of the real thing). So it becomes more than longing, in this regard. But it's also a bit more troublesome than missing something you've actually had because the idea of something is more idealized than the reality.

But yes, I do think it's possible.

Yes I think this too. Like Seeside says it's probably more the imagination of what may have been.

So maybe not troublesome as such, as it could've been crap and not what was dreamed of. "

But till you do it...it will always be a dream with your imagination making it Mabey seem better than it is and that's the troublesome bit.....

At lest if you've dun it you no wot your missing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think so but if you've never had it you wouldn't know what you was missing!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

No but you can become consumed by wanting it

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Can you miss something that you never had? "

No. You can wish for something you have never had. You can long for sonething you have had or not had. Have to had something to miss it.

I think

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