FabSwingers.com forum: General dirty chat help.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can you believe I struggle with dirty chat and texts?

Been speaking to a guy I know he's genuine, video chatted, sent lots of love pictures etc. I am going to meet him and was trying to help him along this morning so I can receive a video of him blowing his beans but I dried up! Asked how I could help him along and he said just general dirty chat.

I froze. I can't do it. Can only do it once I've met the person and I know what they're gonna feel like and what they fuck like.

What's some general things that you can say when you haven't yet met a person but want to chat filth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell him what you enjoy seeing, what you personally get off on. Why do you want him to show you himself blowing his beans. (Love that phrase).

Try that.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

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Describe to him what your wearing and mostly what you want him to do rather than what you will do but it does need to be a bit of both.

Just try and paint him a picture with words and add a few pictures as you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we’re apart for work purposes we find it only really works well if we’re both self pleasuring together.

The filth chat just seems to flow then and 9 times out of ten we reach orgasm together!

Basically try wanking with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure your in the mood, then simply describe what you enjoy, pick a moment, and write it down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it because you’re unsure what they like or respond to and don’t want to misjudge?

I tend to assume in that scenario that everyone enjoys anticipation and getting naked and the initial interlinking of bodies and exploration and I just imagine a scene of first undressing and describe in details and sensations. But I guess I like wordsmithing. I can’t really do the “ugh, todger, harder, yeah, glaze me like a Krispy Kreme” stuff as I wouldn’t mean it so I’m disengaged and wetting myself laughing!

Send him a pic or masturbate and audio record your breathing/noises and send that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell him what you enjoy seeing, what you personally get off on. Why do you want him to show you himself blowing his beans. (Love that phrase).

Try that. "

Simply, instead of trying to get into his head, let him into yours, if that easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would describe what you'd like to do to him, and what you'd like him to do to you. How you'd like to feel, and the result of him doing certain things to you. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh and I meant live pics not love pics!!

I struggle when it someone new and we haven't done bits yet.

Ahh bollocks. I just went to have a sip of my cuppa tea but I've already drank it, do you hate it when that happens!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and I meant live pics not love pics!!

I struggle when it someone new and we haven't done bits yet.

Ahh bollocks. I just went to have a sip of my cuppa tea but I've already drank it, do you hate it when that happens!! "

I liked the idea of love pics

(And yes, it sucks when that happens)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just set your phone on selfie vid mode n lie back n wank. That's what I do

ptu xxx

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