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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fall in love with?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fall in love with?"

Yes...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Yes. Don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. But think it was an infatuation really. In fact whenever it’s happened it’s been just infatuation really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes - can't say I would recommend it!

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Yes. It doesn't end well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well she has hurt my natural emotions and made me feel like dirt and I am hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. It doesn't end well"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if you start a commotion

You run the risk of losing her

And that's worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and we're still together now

PeachFuzz x

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Yep....think most have! And little side note lol, saw the Buzzcocks live a few years back, great night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and it was a lot of fun until it ended ... life's short ... live it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No...but does thinking you were, and weren't, count? Took far too long to realise.

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By *eviantUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fall in love with?"

More than once

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Yes. It doesn't end well"

Nope

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

No not really. What sing is this though, meatloaf? I just can't place it!

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"No not really. What sing is this though, meatloaf? I just can't place it! "

*Song

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it hurts to both love ewch other but always be in the wrong places of your life to act up on it. But eventually makes you stonger and wiser and now we are best friends and more like brother and sister after coming to realisation we could never be a couple

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

"No not really. What sing is this though, meatloaf? I just can't place it!

*Song"

The Buzzcocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes,yes and yes but the other person is not aware of it. Oh,l love him. I get so attracted to bad boys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But I am so in love with her and whatever she wants to do is all right with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

Yes.

It won't happen again. Ever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes.

It won't happen again. Ever "

Can you be so certain with affairs of the heart?

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

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By *ticky_vikkiWoman
over a year ago

Herts

Yes... not pleasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fall in love with?"

Cant stop thinking of Buzzcocks now...what about track 1 side 1 from their Singles Going Steady album,'Orgasm Addict'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes... not pleasurable

Yes... but workout... 6 years and still together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. Don't do it. "

What she said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All good things come too a end . Best to have happy memories about someone than none at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on."

You're married though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though? "

I am not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

"No not really. What sing is this though, meatloaf? I just can't place it!

*Song

The Buzzcocks.

Yes! Now I can hear it in my head. Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...ever felt like this

When strange things happen

And you’re going round the twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Even though it was possibly the wrong time to fall in love, i fell in love with the right person for me, sadly i was not the right person for them.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No. Even though it was possibly the wrong time to fall in love, i fell in love with the right person for me, sadly i was not the right person for them.

Yeah and this. Or they were the right person but the timing was way off.

Who knows...I've given up on it now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...They stirred my natural emotions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!"

I wasn't talking to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Even though it was possibly the wrong time to fall in love, i fell in love with the right person for me, sadly i was not the right person for them.

Yeah and this. Or they were the right person but the timing was way off.

Who knows...I've given up on it now."

Don’t give up baby, a closed heart will never find love !

We’re sure there’s your perfect prince in your not too distant future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes- biggest mistake of my life. Trying to rectify all the damage now that I did a year ago by falling in love with someone who was bad for me

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"Yes.

It won't happen again. Ever

Can you be so certain with affairs of the heart?"

Yes.

It took me a long time to get over things that happened, to rebuild my life.

Heart closed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes.

It won't happen again. Ever

Can you be so certain with affairs of the heart?

Yes.

It took me a long time to get over things that happened, to rebuild my life.

Heart closed "

This old heart of mine has been broke a thousand times each time she walks away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people fall in love and experience negative emotions with someone in their lifetime.

It's not exclusive to anyone and we have a choice to let it consume us or move on in life and live it.

No it's not easy, but much of life's non superficial things are.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No. Even though it was possibly the wrong time to fall in love, i fell in love with the right person for me, sadly i was not the right person for them.

Yeah and this. Or they were the right person but the timing was way off.

Who knows...I've given up on it now.

Don’t give up baby, a closed heart will never find love !

We’re sure there’s your perfect prince in your not too distant future

He's taking his time. I keep finding his jesters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one should ever give up on love, but no one should ever comprise for anything that isn't love.

Don't stop believing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Even though it was possibly the wrong time to fall in love, i fell in love with the right person for me, sadly i was not the right person for them.

Yeah and this. Or they were the right person but the timing was way off.

Who knows...I've given up on it now.

Don’t give up baby, a closed heart will never find love !

We’re sure there’s your perfect prince in your not too distant future

He's taking his time. I keep finding his jesters

Yeeeehaaaawwww

Jesters dead

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"No one should ever give up on love, but no one should ever comprise for anything that isn't love.

Don't stop believing "

Hold on to this feeling.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!

I wasn't talking to you."

Elpis was talking to me and of course she's right. But, whilst she's practically my neighbour she doesn't know anything about my life nor do I know anything about here, other than she's on Fab and likes to judge others - which of course she is free to do - enjoy. Sorry being grumpy.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

have some pretty hefty walls up now though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!

I wasn't talking to you.

I wasn't judging you, I didn't understand your initial post.

Being neighbours and knowing you or not is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fallen in love with someone you shouldn't have fall in love with?"

Yes

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!

I wasn't talking to you.

I wasn't judging you, I didn't understand your initial post.

Being neighbours and knowing you or not is irrelevant "

In that case Ms Elpis, I apologise. My initial post refers to feels that I had for someone that I'd known when I was even younger and had never been with a woman HE was very special to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes every god damn day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!

I wasn't talking to you.

I wasn't judging you, I didn't understand your initial post.

Being neighbours and knowing you or not is irrelevant

In that case Ms Elpis, I apologise. My initial post refers to feels that I had for someone that I'd known when I was even younger and had never been with a woman HE was very special to me."

I'm even more confused about being married if you decided it would be sex only from then on. But hey. And anyone's sex is irrelevant.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!

I wasn't talking to you.

I wasn't judging you, I didn't understand your initial post.

Being neighbours and knowing you or not is irrelevant

In that case Ms Elpis, I apologise. My initial post refers to feels that I had for someone that I'd known when I was even younger and had never been with a woman HE was very special to me.

I'm even more confused about being married if you decided it would be sex only from then on. But hey. And anyone's sex is irrelevant."

"Sex only: means that I'm no longer going to get emotionally attached to people; I get lonely and sex with swingers takes away some of that loneliness. Yes I'm married and the fact that I'm on here makes me a cheat so if that's what was confusing you Ms E, I hope that this cleared things up a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!

I wasn't talking to you.

I wasn't judging you, I didn't understand your initial post.

Being neighbours and knowing you or not is irrelevant

In that case Ms Elpis, I apologise. My initial post refers to feels that I had for someone that I'd known when I was even younger and had never been with a woman HE was very special to me.

I'm even more confused about being married if you decided it would be sex only from then on. But hey. And anyone's sex is irrelevant.

No no, you've totally read into what I'm saying what you want.

I don't understand why someone would get married if they had already decided they wouldnt risk falling in love again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No one should ever give up on love, but no one should ever comprise for anything that isn't love.

Don't stop believing "

Deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely! And that's why I am the person I am today.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Yes it was 15 years ago; broke my heart and it's why I'm on here - just sex from now on.

You're married though?

I am not!

I wasn't talking to you.

I wasn't judging you, I didn't understand your initial post.

Being neighbours and knowing you or not is irrelevant

In that case Ms Elpis, I apologise. My initial post refers to feels that I had for someone that I'd known when I was even younger and had never been with a woman HE was very special to me.

I'm even more confused about being married if you decided it would be sex only from then on. But hey. And anyone's sex is irrelevant.

No no, you've totally read into what I'm saying what you want.

I don't understand why someone would get married if they had already decided they wouldnt risk falling in love again."

Oh I see, I'm being really dense today. Well I didn't think that there was any risk at all; I was very firmly a hetro-sexual (and still am) so it didn't occur to me I would feel anything for people from my past. But it's amazing how bonds made when you're younger can be re-ignited many years later. I never did anything with this person and I'm not even sure they knew how I felt about them - i had moved on so had to deal with my feels and thats what hurt.

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