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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's just a fb then that suggests she's free to sleep with whoever she chooses No?

I can understand the dishonesty hurts somewhat but I'm not sure revenge is the best course of action...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She’s a FB however I’d say more of a partner, we are exclusive and it’s not all about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you're on here looking for meets?

I'm confused....

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"She’s a FB however I’d say more of a partner, we are exclusive and it’s not all about sex"

And you are on here for?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

My advice is to grow up a bit and act like and adult, talk it over with her face to face instead of doing it from the phone in your car that’s what adults do

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Personally id think you be a bit of a dick doing that to someone ..if your not happy cancel the night away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that leaving her stranded miles from home makes you a Dick no matter what she's done.

If you don't want to talk with her and work it out then don't take her away and don't use her for sex.

Just finish with her now. Be the better person and have some pride in yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is anyone else not in the slightest bit intrested?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m on here, she knows about this, and no, not looking for meets

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

So you're gonna leave her stranded 50 miles from home?

I'd suggest taking someone else to the hotel, I appreciate you're angry but hearing you have the potential to leave another person stranded may make finding someone else to go with pretty difficult.

It's made me weary of ya, that's for certain.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"My advice is to grow up a bit and act like and adult, talk it over with her face to face instead of doing it from the phone in your car that’s what adults do "

Plus this has to be a wind up as I notice you are in your 40’s

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Sounds childish to me. If you have an issue with your relationship or your agreed boundaries discuss it in an adult manner with your friend.

Don't play childish games.

Just my 2p

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I checked the OP's age and thought he would be about 20. He's 42.

Grow up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s more the fact she lied, I have given her the opportunity to be honest plenty of times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously..?

Why do such a horrible thing?

If you're hurt by what she has do e talk to her...and if she's just a "fb" where's the issue?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Let’s not feed this anymore eh folks

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"It’s more the fact she lied, I have given her the opportunity to be honest plenty of times"

So dump her. Your plan would be an immature one if you were 15.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"It’s more the fact she lied, I have given her the opportunity to be honest plenty of times"

My advice is still the same and grow up

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

I have a great idea.

Tell her you know and discuss it with her or end your relationship.

Don't do this revenge this, this is real life not the mafia.

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

Your situation sounds very compicatated to me, my understanding of a FB is that you have fun & sex together without the hassle of feelings & emotions getting in the way,

But are also free to meet other folk as well? Correct me if I'm wrong????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be a real shitty thing to do to anyone, and I’m talking about leaving her miles away from home after you’ve had your way with her.

Have a long hard look at yourself and do the right thing, cancel the hotel and tell her you know then break all ties.

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By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Well your a grown up then! Plan on leaving a woman 50 miles from home with no way home. You sir are what they call a horrible person (there are worse words but I'm not getting I'm in trouble for it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Would you be happy if someone left u stranded ??

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

Nice !! Sounds like she's better off without you tbh. Go and give your head a wobble and grow up

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford


"If she's just a fb then that suggests she's free to sleep with whoever she chooses No?

I can understand the dishonesty hurts somewhat but I'm not sure revenge is the best course of action...

"

This

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

That's a disgusting attitude to have OP. I hope to God she's reading this and dumps you before! Do remember that people do use the forums as a filter for who they do/don't want to meet, I'm sure lots of ladies reading this would certainly not meet you now with that spiteful attitude. Be a man and talk to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She’s just your fuck buddy, she can shag who she wants,

Sounds like one of you has more feelings than the other, get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume she would have a mobile and be able to call someone to pick her up and then she has every right to a) get a male relative to kick your head in b) donit herself if she's anything like me, would be worth a guy doing that to me cos I would headbutt him the next time I saw him c) she could key your car, slash tyres, put windows through with a brick.

All kinds of stuff.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

It's interesting how people can spectacularly misjudge their audience. Any fool could have told the OP he would be slated on here for his suggestion. Presumably he knocks around with similar "lads" who would think his behavior acceptable, so he was unaware of that.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

If it'll make you feel like you're the big man you are, justified and bring balance back to your little universe then go ahead. Or if you'd prefer to be a decent human being then just tell her what you know, see what she says and move on one way or the other. Save the hotel for someone you really want to spend time with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you do that then you will be seen as a prick and she will think less of you and will believe she is better then you.

If you want revenge and to hurt her back then I would suggest you keep up the plan for the hotel meet, butphone her 10 minutes before you are due to pick her up and tell her that it's now off and give the evidence to justify why.

She will not be the one to feel stupid and will know what she has lost, without it leaving you looking likes total wanker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do that then you will be seen as a prick and she will think less of you and will believe she is better then you.

If you want revenge and to hurt her back then I would suggest you keep up the plan for the hotel meet, butphone her 10 minutes before you are due to pick her up and tell her that it's now off and give the evidence to justify why.

She will not be the one to feel stupid and will know what she has lost, without it leaving you looking likes total wanker"

I'm not sure that's any less wankerish to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think your over thinking the work fuck buddy!

Ptu xxx

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Is it just me, but isn't the whole idea of revenge childish? Don't adults discuss problems and try to resolve them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you do that then you will be seen as a prick and she will think less of you and will believe she is better then you.

If you want revenge and to hurt her back then I would suggest you keep up the plan for the hotel meet, butphone her 10 minutes before you are due to pick her up and tell her that it's now off and give the evidence to justify why.

She will not be the one to feel stupid and will know what she has lost, without it leaving you looking likes total wanker

I'm not sure that's any less wankerish to be honest... "

That's more tit for tat though. She has hurt him by shagging someone else so letting her get all ready and think this special night is going ahead only to be told 10 minutes before going that he knows what's she done and she can get to fuck. That is an acceptable punishment worthy of what she did to him.

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Is it just me, but isn't the whole idea of revenge childish? Don't adults discuss problems and try to resolve them? "

The word adult is quite loose in some case

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

This is definitely a wind up ..looking for reaction ..however i dont think op thought this through, can only damage his chances of meeting now

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks

The number for The Psychology (help needed on so many levels) Helpline is: 0800 8008** (better not just in case someone thinks its real & rings up)

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"She’s a FB however I’d say more of a partner, we are exclusive and it’s not all about sex"

Rules should've been talked about from day one. I never expected any of my friends to be exclusive, especially when I wasn't. This certainly sounds like a relationship that didn't want to be labelled.

You never know what you've got till its gone. "If you liked it then you should've put a ring on it"

+ you're still on here learn from it & move on, be the bigger person. You don't want a rep on here as nasty & vindictive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow... You are clearly misunderstanding the point of a FB, you are on here, profile clearly states looking for meets, all be it fussy about who you meet, but meets all the same. Are you in a committed relationship?

Be the bigger person, tell her you know and it's over, cancel the trip and be done with it (sell the hotel night to someone on Gumtree or whatever to recoup your costs) and grow up and stop thinking about playground revenge plots...

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"If you do that then you will be seen as a prick and she will think less of you and will believe she is better then you.

If you want revenge and to hurt her back then I would suggest you keep up the plan for the hotel meet, butphone her 10 minutes before you are due to pick her up and tell her that it's now off and give the evidence to justify why.

She will not be the one to feel stupid and will know what she has lost, without it leaving you looking likes total wanker

I'm not sure that's any less wankerish to be honest...

That's more tit for tat though. She has hurt him by shagging someone else so letting her get all ready and think this special night is going ahead only to be told 10 minutes before going that he knows what's she done and she can get to fuck. That is an acceptable punishment worthy of what she did to him. "

Every cloud and all that .... at least she will be ready to go and fuck the other guy

But still any kind of revenge is childish imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"

You don't want a rep on here as nasty & vindictive "

Think it might be a bit late for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought. Man up, face the fact it’s happened. Be a gent about it and allow her to do as she wishes to which you wont be a part of it considering you seem so disappointed in her (despite her still being good enough to sleep with again in your eyes) a fb is not exclusive unless specified but even so, if you have the notion to do this and see it as appropriate how is it any different to her seeing it as appropriate to play away if it were exclusive? And if it weren’t then you should not participate in a relationship where you know full well you can’t stay within the confines or boundaries of.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

You appear to have the bigger issues behaving in this manner. Pure school ground behaviour.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

And the OP now tries to row back.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

Pathetic

Infact imature and pathetic

Infact pathetic and cruel

Revenge is a dark dark dark dark avenue to go down

Revenge is reason we have so many wars

Revenge solves nothing and is always pathetic

Revenge is not justice

Without revenge you can hold your head high and be proud to be right

Did I mention pathetic and immature ?

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village


"And the OP now tries to row back.

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He's well and truly snapped his oars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a cunty thing to do. Playground antics as a adult is just stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts exactly.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB..."

Humour?! Eeek.

See, I can't lie, I'm now wondering if you're backtracking coz you've seen the responses

If I knew you, and knew your "humour" I could have judged it, but I don't, so my weariness continues I'm afraid.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon


"Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB..."

Is that the best attempt at back peddling you could come up with?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"And the OP now tries to row back.

He's well and truly snapped his oars "

Or down the proverbial Creek without his paddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please clarify something for me because clearly I am slow on the uptake...

You intend to:

Take your fuck buddy to a hotel pretending everything is groovy.

Fuck her, even though you are angry and hurt over her lying to you.

Then still pretend everything is groovy up until you leave the hotel, abandoning her after fulfilling your own selfish needs.

So the irony of you lying to her over the entire weekend is balanced against her lying to you about another fuck buddy she may have?

If it is exclusivity you are after, you are on the wrong site.

The fact it is premeditated is almost as bad as what you have planned. What were you expecting? A chorus of "serve the bitch right"?

The forum never forgets. You may have suffered more reputational damage than you could imagine.

Do the right thing and lick your "wounds" and move on.

What would your advice had been if your FB had posted the same thing?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB..."

Humour? Not sure what your idea of humour is, but certainly haven't seen anything funny about your original post? Or are you just trying to dig yourself out of a hole now the error of your ways has been pointed out by so many?

Or maybe just attention seeking?

Either way you've provided an excellent filter for any forumites you may have contacted about meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just every level of WOW.

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By *hips n FursMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Up the shite creek without a paddle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds like your into playing games. It sounds childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if after you left her stranded she was attacked, rap@d or worse. Would a casual shag still be a justifiable reason in your mind?

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB...

Humour? Not sure what your idea of humour is, but certainly haven't seen anything funny about your original post? Or are you just trying to dig yourself out of a hole now the error of your ways has been pointed out by so many?

Or maybe just attention seeking?

Either way you've provided an excellent filter for any forumites you may have contacted about meeting "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB..."

Think the only laugh is on you op.

You ruined any ounce of credibility on here .Ruined any chances of further meets as any decent self respecting person won't go near you now . You've made yourself look like a complete cockwomble.

That's certainly made me chuckle

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It's becoming depressingly predictable just how many posters lately claim they were only 'joking' after they're called out for being an arse ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget to stamp your foot and shake your fist as you squeak 'slut' down the phone to her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's becoming depressingly predictable just how many posters lately claim they were only 'joking' after they're called out for being an arse ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's not been honest with you then why go to the trouble of this OP. Just tell her you know and if she can't be truthful walk away. If your both exclusive maybe come off fab. Just a thought...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

Why? I mean what would it actually achieve?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having now read the whole thread OMG!

Didn't think grown ups played games anymore!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"It's becoming depressingly predictable just how many posters lately claim they were only 'joking' after they're called out for being an arse ...."
Yeh that's some joke, shame not one person on here can see the humour though...

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By *amie4funTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Story is very much one sided but facts like you're on here and the pair of you are "just" FBs, I'd say you're behaving like a spoilt child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

That's a pretty shitty thing to do. If you don't trust her and feel betrayed, then just call the whole thing off. Don't be a cunt and do things like that. In fact don't even tell people you're going to do things like that. Now you've painted yourself as someone who is vengeful and cruel, and also you're going to land yourself unpopular when she tells her mates what you did, even if she comes out and says she was sleeping with someone else, even though you two aren't strictly monogamous. All you're doing is making yourself look a twat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you let her and her new guy she's fucking use the hotel? She obviously prefers him

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Face it OP you must be a duff ride or she has seen your true pedantic nature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why don't you let her and her new guy she's fucking use the hotel? She obviously prefers him "

Best reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The forum never forgets.

"

Funniest statement of the day

You must be gutted you've ruined your chances with 1% of the site mate

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By *awhide69Man
over a year ago

catrine

If this guy's female friend knows he is on here surely she will read this and think fuck that for a game of soldiers and not go away in the first place

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By *ewBurtonMan
over a year ago

Derby

I think it's like the pot calling the kettle black

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By *ozy couple d lCouple
over a year ago

DROMORE


"If she's just a fb then that suggests she's free to sleep with whoever she chooses No?

I can understand the dishonesty hurts somewhat but I'm not sure revenge is the best course of action...

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true if shes a fb shes a free agent or is it a case of you can play around and not her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really OP??? Cunt of a thing to do, grow some balls and just tell her.

Don’t do that though, it’s just fucking nasty and spiteful

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By *ozy couple d lCouple
over a year ago

DROMORE


"Story is very much one sided but facts like you're on here and the pair of you are "just" FBs, I'd say you're behaving like a spoilt child."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing is that if it is a really nice hotel, they'll need a card to book the hotel with. This is done so if there is a no show, or someone skips without paying, or if something gets damaged, there is a card to charge for the money lost/not paid. So if OP goes ahead with it, all this girl needs to do is tell the staff what has happened and that the person who booked the room is the one responsible for the payment, and they'll just take the money off the card that was used to book the room with

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It's becoming depressingly predictable just how many posters lately claim they were only 'joking' after they're called out for being an arse ....

42"

...and describes himself as a ‘lad’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revenge?

Abandon someone you are supposed to care about according to your post...

Leave a lady alone with possibly no means to get home..

And post it on here...does she read the forums?

Real classy OP

I hope your just trolling otherwise there are some far more descriptive adjectives I could use...

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"I think that leaving her stranded miles from home makes you a Dick no matter what she's done.

If you don't want to talk with her and work it out then don't take her away and don't use her for sex.

Just finish with her now. Be the better person and have some pride in yourself. "

This!!!

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By *octor DeleriumMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough


"Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

Yes, grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That sounds eerily like what jack the rippers dad did to his mum when she cheated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB..."

Why on earth would you do this OP?

And why would you think that was 'humour'?

Do you see anyone laughing?

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By *oubyLoverWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Lmao, you people are all correct and funny too.....

Just bringing a bit of humour to a boring Thursday.

Ps.

I liked the questions regarding FB...

Why on earth would you do this OP?

And why would you think that was 'humour'?

Do you see anyone laughing?"

More likely people are blocking him. Probably not the outcome he wanted from this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the whole point of this website is to offer some form of sexual freedom. Seems to me that you have relationship feelings for your fb. Your fb has the right to see who she’s wants to see.

Maybe try a dating website.?? Do you have the reputation as the type of guy that whispers into the ear of a one night stand “ I think I’m falling in love with you “ .?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No need to be nasty plenty more fish in the sea plus if anything happened to that woman ud never forgive ureself be nice tell her its off give her your reason then move on can feel ure frustration but life is here to test us all be the better person mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

Thanks for the great filter

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"My advice is to grow up a bit and act like and adult, talk it over with her face to face instead of doing it from the phone in your car that’s what adults do

Plus this has to be a wind up as I notice you are in your 40’s "

Yeah I just checked to see how old he was!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My FB has been caught sleeping with someone else, I have asked her but she denies everything, i have said the truth is always best and if I found out then I’d not be happy. it’s 100% right as i witnessed it, she is unaware that I know.

We have a lovely hotel booked this Saturday 50 miles from home, I’m picking her up and taking her there, I’m thinking of using her for my pleasure Saturday night, then after breakfast say I will bring the car around to the hotel door to pick her up, however, I intend on phoning her from my car, telling her the evidence, and she’s a slut, then driving off myself leaving her stranded.

Is that too cruel or does someone else have a good idea? "

A good idea would be not to do anything of the sort!How about just telling her you felt a bit miffed at not being told about her meet especially as you allege you are both 'exclusive'.(Except it seems you are on here to look for meets yourself).I always feel the best form of revenge is to be happy and just get on with your life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Game over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP the fact you start a threat titled “revenge” says it all!

If you are just FBs then what is the issue? You say in a later comment you are both exclusive to each other.... therefore surely more than just FB.

Don’t want to call you out on Pot & Kettle references, but you meet people here it seems so really what is the big deal?

On a serious point, if you have issue with her enjoying herself and having intimate fun with others (or as you so eloquently put it “slut”) then I think now it the time to part ways....

maybe you could both discuss this first, let her know you know, let her know you also meet others, and let her know you were devising a plan to leave her stranded miles from home and see what remains afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought the whole point of this website is to offer some form of sexual freedom. Seems to me that you have relationship feelings for your fb. Your fb has the right to see who she’s wants to see.

Maybe try a dating website.?? Do you have the reputation as the type of guy that whispers into the ear of a one night stand “ I think I’m falling in love with you “ .?"

Oooo yes! I bet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u clearly stated she's just ur fuck buddy n u want do that Cose she had sex with others ain't u fucking others too If so why the hell would u wabt do that

that's not cruel that just stupid on my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and with posts like this, no wonder some women wont meet at hotels

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

https://www.fabswingers.com/content/forum-rules

No nit-picking please

Unless someone specifically asks for their profile to be critiqued or if it's relevant to the thread e.g. someone is wondering why they're not having success, please don't critique their profile or be mean about it. We want the forum to be open and friendly to newbies and everyone starts somewhere.

Don't be nasty

Abuse against other site users, mods or admin isn't tolerated.

Above are two rules that were broken a lot on this thread. There is also a name and shame rule, if you think someone is using another persons pic or using a second account to get round bans etc, report the pic or profile rather than "out" them on a forum as it is against rules.

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