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Positive things you've learnt or found on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, a little positive post. I think sometimes it's easy to see negatives and moan on here (I can't get a meet, no shows etc)

Tell me something positive about fab that you've found?

For me, I've had a real reeducation regarding sex. It sounds silly but to me prior to fab, sex all about the guy. I've been very well proven wrong, and I'm very glad

How about everyone else? Is it about who you are attracted to? That you aren't really straight as you thought? Interested to hear everyone's thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Contrary to my preconceived ideas and reservations there is genuine decerning people on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There really must be someone for everyone in this world. The variation in likes and dislikes is truly wondrous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How lucky I am to be married to Beauty and to be able to share her sometimes and knowing she still comes home with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....its all about pleasing the lady in any way possible-which im only too pleased to do solo or with fwb's!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Contrary to my preconceived ideas and reservations there is genuine decerning people on Fab. "

Yes, I can see that. There are some not so nice, but it appears lots of genuine people too xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" There really must be someone for everyone in this world. The variation in likes and dislikes is truly wondrous. "

Isn't it just crazy how diverse everyone's tastes are? I don't think you'd get such openness about it anywhere else (I don't use dating sites, but I suspect not even there?)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How lucky I am to be married to Beauty and to be able to share her sometimes and knowing she still comes home with me"

That is such a wonderful thing to read, and I'm so glad you can be sharing this together x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my absolute best friend in the world. Our friendship is deeper than any I've ever had, and I couldn't be without her.

All thanks to some creep on here too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"....its all about pleasing the lady in any way possible-which im only too pleased to do solo or with fwb's!"

Well you are a very thoughtful partner and I hope your lady realises this, there's plenty out there that aren't like this x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met my absolute best friend in the world. Our friendship is deeper than any I've ever had, and I couldn't be without her.

All thanks to some creep on here too "

I'm sorry about the creep, but that's wonderful. Isn't it strange how things throw people together? Fate maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found good things from here. Maybe I am more sexually attractive than I thought before Fab, away from

Fab the flirts never go any further and you start to think that's all it is. So, on Fab it has given me thought that I might not actual be repulsive.

Also, if I compared this site to other social media, with all the negatives, it's still more possitive and humorous than Facebook etc. And my friends list here is massively sexier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How lucky I am to be married to Beauty and to be able to share her sometimes and knowing she still comes home with me

That is such a wonderful thing to read, and I'm so glad you can be sharing this together x"

Few bumps in the road but finding our feet and our comfort zones and our sex life gets better all the time even when we don’t mix it up on FAB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I met my absolute best friend in the world. Our friendship is deeper than any I've ever had, and I couldn't be without her.

All thanks to some creep on here too

I'm sorry about the creep, but that's wonderful. Isn't it strange how things throw people together? Fate maybe?"

The universe needed us to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've found good things from here. Maybe I am more sexually attractive than I thought before Fab, away from

Fab the flirts never go any further and you start to think that's all it is. So, on Fab it has given me thought that I might not actual be repulsive.

Also, if I compared this site to other social media, with all the negatives, it's still more possitive and humorous than Facebook etc. And my friends list here is massively sexier. "

I love the fact you have so many positives, you're clearly in a good place here currently.

And you are absolutely not repulsive misterbee, far from it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How lucky I am to be married to Beauty and to be able to share her sometimes and knowing she still comes home with me

That is such a wonderful thing to read, and I'm so glad you can be sharing this together x

Few bumps in the road but finding our feet and our comfort zones and our sex life gets better all the time even when we don’t mix it up on FAB"

That's a really great place to be. It's when things go stale that relationships get rocky. If you can keep exploring together that's got to be a good thing, right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I met my absolute best friend in the world. Our friendship is deeper than any I've ever had, and I couldn't be without her.

All thanks to some creep on here too

I'm sorry about the creep, but that's wonderful. Isn't it strange how things throw people together? Fate maybe?

The universe needed us to meet "

That's made me smile lots xxxx

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Without a doubt the friendships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I’d be genuinely chuffed that someone else’s period came a week early

And although I may not fully understand other people’s reasons for being on here, ours as a couple are working out well.

And it’s actually a right laugh sometimes

And I get to talk to lots of people about all sorts of things.

And there’s one or two I’d love to meet socially because their minds have intrigued me and I feel I need to talk with them.

And there’s willies

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Made some great friends on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That some men do find me attractive, and not just for my vag. Have also made lots of friends, and that I'm ok at flirting x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"That I’d be genuinely chuffed that someone else’s period came a week early

And although I may not fully understand other people’s reasons for being on here, ours as a couple are working out well.

And it’s actually a right laugh sometimes

And I get to talk to lots of people about all sorts of things.

And there’s one or two I’d love to meet socially because their minds have intrigued me and I feel I need to talk with them.

And there’s willies "

Yaaaaaaaaaaay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for continuing my post, I'm knee deep in a report. I'm glad I'm not the only one to find some positives xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am now 50yrs old but it’s been the last 3 yrs that’s been one of the biggest learning about myself and my needs sexually and what it means to me a woman !!! .

Fab as been without doubt a huge part of my life and has brought me nothing but new experiences but most importantly the love of my life , who without doubt loves me for who I am and and only wants the best sexually for me

So lts a positive from me and the forums so thankyou xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made some great friends that truly helped me through a really tough time and my confidence has grown so much its unreal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made some great new friends, discovered some vanilla friends are pervs too and then the cherry on the cake is to have the opportunity to gaze admiringly at perfect peaches like the one of the poster above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Made some great new friends, discovered some vanilla friends are pervs too and then the cherry on the cake is to have the opportunity to gaze admiringly at perfect peaches like the one of the poster above "

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's far more difficult to stand out as a single guy as opposed to when I was in a couple,

But it's actually a lot more fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met some lovely guys and a few have become good friends. Being in my fifties I thought I was no longer attractive to guys but it would seem I am which is a great feeling

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I joined Fabs, as there were things I needed to find out about myself.

I've done that, and more.

I'm slowly getting my confidence back, after years of being unhappy & put down.

I've met some amazing people from all walks of life, people I'd never have met in 'the real world' and a few I'd truly consider to be a friend for life.

I've also had some pretty amazing sex!

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