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Thoughts on how to make FAB better ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them. "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them. "

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think it's particularly expensive to be a member so without doing so people shouldn't be able to view profiles or post to threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

"

How would that make it better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Skype style option to chat with others would be good

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By *asterPSubslutCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Being able to post video

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!! "

Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could mute people on the forums with the press of a button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could terminate people on the forums with the press of a button "

FTFY

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them. "

Ha! I like the sound of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!

Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!"

That would be inconvenient, I've got other stuff to do in my life.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!

Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!"

Boo!! Not fair!! Mind you if I had one and used it, knowing my luck there'd have been a fly caught in the teleporter pod at the other end!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could terminate people on the forums with the press of a button

FTFY "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!

Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!

That would be inconvenient, I've got other stuff to do in my life. "

I have tea, poetry, and I like hanging out without constant chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You couldn't make it better. It's perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could terminate people on the forums with the press of a button

FTFY "

Harsh but why not

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Scratch and sniff photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!

Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!

That would be inconvenient, I've got other stuff to do in my life.

I have tea, poetry, and I like hanging out without constant chatting. "

In that case, forget the other stuff in my life. How do we make this teleportation thing happen?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

"

I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified

As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms

Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought

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By *.gerri.xTV/TS
over a year ago

North west

Scratch n sniff - though must be used wisely . Cake threads and perfumed ladies a goer - water sports threads not so good .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man who can't get a meet within 6 months is deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I posted the other day about swipe left, right function for compatible people, couples could be an app in there somewhere x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified

As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms

Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought "

I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted the other day about swipe left, right function for compatible people, couples could be an app in there somewhere x"

That would mean faces showing. I'd opt out of that. I feel that is more for hook up and dating sites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simulation trial. You identify your prey...sorry potential meet...you can have a practice simulation of snippets of their performance.

Lie back and feel a snippet of their fuck, switch positions etc and decide if you’d like to continue the meet.

It’d be a slight refund for a no show too.

I’m debating whether you should both consent to the simulation trial or not. But then I realise there’s plenty of people I’d like to trial who may not allow me if I had to get their consent.

Oh dear, this goes against all my ethics but I still want it.

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By *anieldoltMan
over a year ago

bham

Maybe some meet planning tools? Like sending a map and pin point to a group? Or individual? Videos is a good one? More ways to pay secretly for premium? Lots of people don't want friends etc finding them? Profile masking to keep yourself hidden to friends? Sections where people want to meet today live chat for when you just want to itch that urge and see who's local without offending anyone?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified

As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms

Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought

I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in. "

It would only flag up if mutual hotlisting ...not informing you of everyone thats hotlisted you

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport


"Being able to post video "

Sounds good, although I'd imagine they'd have bandwidth issues possibly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified

As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms

Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought

I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in.

It would only flag up if mutual hotlisting ...not informing you of everyone thats hotlisted you "

That could work. Depending on why I've hotlisted them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A whole bunch of women all wanting to have sex with me. And a helicopter service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A whole bunch of women all wanting to have sex with me. And a helicopter service "

I think plenty of women would want to watch you helicopter!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified

As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms

Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought "

We'd all be bankrupt if we paid everytime we posted on a forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A whole bunch of women all wanting to have sex with me. And a helicopter service "

A fab helicopter is a good idea. Shared loads up and down the country

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Simulation trial. You identify your prey...sorry potential meet...you can have a practice simulation of snippets of their performance.

Lie back and feel a snippet of their fuck, switch positions etc and decide if you’d like to continue the meet.

It’d be a slight refund for a no show too.

I’m debating whether you should both consent to the simulation trial or not. But then I realise there’s plenty of people I’d like to trial who may not allow me if I had to get their consent.

Oh dear, this goes against all my ethics but I still want it. "

Ah this sounds bloody epic. It will stop me from getting my hopes up and going for a /get more excited for the actual event.

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!

Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!"

And then my cock will be in Glasgow and my magical fingers, the west end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

Wait, have you thought this through? Imagine the mayhem, not to mention mess (!!), when all the single guys press the button of a lady at the same time!!

Let me qualify then, a teleporter button for the ladies!

And then my cock will be in Glasgow and my magical fingers, the west end.

"

Or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo verified and couples profiles has to have both of them in pics .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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The ability to delete evidence of your deleted posts would be good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A build your own meet. Like a sexy Mr potatoe head. His bottom, his cock. That torso ...etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Photo verified and couples profiles has to have both of them in pics . "

Definitely agree about couples profiles having to have both of them in pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By * and BCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

How would that make it better?"

If it wasn't free to join you wouldn't get all the idiots coming in from the pub on a Friday night, joining up and leaving before their partners realised, oh yea and sending numerous offensive messages and arranging meets before profile left site. Just one suggestion why fab would be a little better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A build your own meet. Like a sexy Mr potatoe head. His bottom, his cock. That torso ...etc etc"

My favourite so far !!

Admin make it happen !!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

An automatic reply to messages that you can opt to send, complete with your own text as well as option to block the user. 'Thanks but no thanks, to improve morale of users who get few replies now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick multi choice respond option for emails...

- thanks but no thanks

- you’re not my type

- I am not desperate

A filter option for email inbox, sort by distance, age, verification??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I would like to see is some kind of size filter in the search. My preference is ssbbws. I do like skinny women too, but it would be nice to be able to search for whatever size I want to

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By *ork10Man
over a year ago

York


"Being able to post video "

Feel free to Skype me a video

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

We'd definitely appreciate more filters on who can contact / wink / view you, and indeed search filters.

That would make it easier to handle the inbox if people who are too [insert perameter] or not [insert perameter] can be sorted at source.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The filter to stop people without public pics being able to message you to actually work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simulation trial. You identify your prey...sorry potential meet...you can have a practice simulation of snippets of their performance.

Lie back and feel a snippet of their fuck, switch positions etc and decide if you’d like to continue the meet.

It’d be a slight refund for a no show too.

I’m debating whether you should both consent to the simulation trial or not. But then I realise there’s plenty of people I’d like to trial who may not allow me if I had to get their consent.

Oh dear, this goes against all my ethics but I still want it. "

That would be brilliant, definitely save me the disappointment of a few meets x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A build your own meet. Like a sexy Mr potatoe head. His bottom, his cock. That torso ...etc etc"

And a Mrs potato head for us men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get rid of the fuckwits, the fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A build your own meet. Like a sexy Mr potatoe head. His bottom, his cock. That torso ...etc etc

And a Mrs potato head for us men"

Of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People should have to be photo verified to even access the site. Should be able to block sexes from viewing your profile, not after the fact! Should be able to add videos. Should have a rate option with different options such as rating conversation, rating meet and so on so you dont get your time wasted. Should show how many times you have arranged meets and not turned up e.g 10 arranged meets 4 now shows so you know if people are reliable. I could go on all night me ha

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Make it a Swingers site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like an option where if you block someone they can't see your forum posts, as well as everything else.

Other than that, i'm ok with the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like an option where if you block someone they can't see your forum posts, as well as everything else.

Other than that, i'm ok with the site. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should have to be photo verified to even access the site. Should be able to block sexes from viewing your profile, not after the fact! Should be able to add videos. Should have a rate option with different options such as rating conversation, rating meet and so on so you dont get your time wasted. Should show how many times you have arranged meets and not turned up e.g 10 arranged meets 4 now shows so you know if people are reliable. I could go on all night me ha"

Yours doesn't sound so much fun however

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

I can’t really see why the forums should be accessible to non members, I know the photos and first letter of the name are hidden but that’s not exactly much. Maybe something to do with web traffic or something but i may be inclined to post more if it was more private. Especially as we choose not to show up on Google on privacy settings too.

And it gets a bit confusing on the forums too when someone quotes something but you can’t see who it was without scrolling back to find the original message. Not sure how you could sort that one?

TB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A build your own meet. Like a sexy Mr potatoe head. His bottom, his cock. That torso ...etc etc

And a Mrs potato head for us men

Of course "

I read a few forum posts where people claim they have reported someone for being abusive. Either nothing has been done or the abuser has rejoined with a new profile. Claims of abuse should be taken seriously and the site should be able to block IP addresses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!"

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People should have to be photo verified to even access the site. Should be able to block sexes from viewing your profile, not after the fact! Should be able to add videos. Should have a rate option with different options such as rating conversation, rating meet and so on so you dont get your time wasted. Should show how many times you have arranged meets and not turned up e.g 10 arranged meets 4 now shows so you know if people are reliable. I could go on all night me ha"

Someone cops the hump with you and says you were a no show, then gets her friends to no show you too. You're gone.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you? "

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!"

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!"

There are too many men on dating sites that think they are instashag x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

"

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate."

Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

admin to buy a map so they can see that east midlands is not fifty squillion square miles in size

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Messages from friends are always seen first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"admin to buy a map so they can see that east midlands is not fifty squillion square miles in size"

East Midlands aka Moscow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Messages from friends are always seen first "

Ooooh I like this!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership "

Oi cheeky, don't you start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps set up 50000 seperate sites so each can pander to their own prejudices and pretend others aren't here if they don't meet your personal criteria :

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them. "

Agree!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate."

The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!"

Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Allow us to post photos in the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You couldn't make it better. It's perfect. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!"

Swinging is shagging around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Modify the geographical search areas. For instance, North East includez anywhete from the Scottish borders to Hull. Far too large. Needs to be split into smaller zones so searches can be more defined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!

Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo! "

Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!

Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!

Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?

"

No it's a different audience.

It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geographically speaking FAB should sort out East Midlands because as a "region" is far too big.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples have to have public pics of both of them on show.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

1. Ability to search our hotlist according to area.

2. Ability to see the verifications that we have written for someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scratch and sniff photos "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!

Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!

Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?

No it's a different audience.

It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff. "

I don't think you'll find much of the wheat you seek here, no matter what you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we get rid of the politics section so those threads return to the lounge..?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!

Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!

Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?

No it's a different audience.

It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff.

I don't think you'll find much of the wheat you seek here, no matter what you do."

Hence the reason for our initial comment.

This is just a window into the lifestyle but it’s being smeared by the small minded people on here who seem to have an axe to grind.

Their loss (they can’t class themselves as swingers as they are small minded).

Prefer the clubs anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership

Oi cheeky, don't you start"

Let me know when I can start then.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

Sounds like I'm aying for a golf membership

Oi cheeky, don't you start

Let me know when I can start then. "

I,d putva nice warm coat on first as going out like that you might get frost bite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Make it a Swingers site!

It already is. You're swingers aren't you?

We are but the site isn’t for just swingers.

There are too many on here who think it’s a dating site or Instashag!

They can be easily dealt with. Let them do their thing, you do yours. You can't police how people use the site.

It’s easy to,police it.

Make everyone be photo verified, monthly fee of around £20 and single guys only allowed to join when proposed by an existing member.

Simple.

Minimum requirement should be 3 months membership,even at the current rate.

The site you're seeking already exists. Just not here!

Been there done that and its dead as a Dodo!

Do you not think Fab would go the same way if the same caveats were introduced?

No it's a different audience.

It would just sort the wheat from the Chaff.

I don't think you'll find much of the wheat you seek here, no matter what you do.

Hence the reason for our initial comment.

This is just a window into the lifestyle but it’s being smeared by the small minded people on here who seem to have an axe to grind.

Their loss (they can’t class themselves as swingers as they are small minded).

Prefer the clubs anyway "

I can understand that.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

How would that make it better?"

Is this guy for real?

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

"

You read my thread didn't you? Lol

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

To be able to comment photos, to have the chance to start a video with someone... most inportant.. compulsory profile verrified by admin.. no more fakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like the ability to see if the people on my friends / hot list had posted in the forums or where currently in chat room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like the ability to see if the people on my friends / hot list had posted in the forums or where currently in chat room.

"

Yeah it would be good to be able to click someone’s green arrow direct from their profile page, rather than having to locate an old post of theirs on the forum to track latest postings (there are some people who make me laugh so I like to see when they posted last etc).

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By *itmanAndHerrCouple
over a year ago

st helens


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

I dont take any notice of whether someone is photo verified ..more importantly for me is whether they are meet verified

As for paying to join ..i do kinda agree ..only thing it may cut down on tho is people joining ..being dicks then leaving and coming straight back with new profile ...would also make it that you had to pay to message/post on forums or enter chat rooms

Another thing that could be good is if site informed you if someone added you to hotlist if they are on yours ...sort of mutual hotlisting ..just a thought

I'd stop using my hotlist and block people who put me on there's who I wasn't interested in.

It would only flag up if mutual hotlisting ...not informing you of everyone thats hotlisted you

That could work. Depending on why I've hotlisted them "

Mutual hotlist indicator. I like it. Isn't that a tinder feature?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd like the ability to see if the people on my friends / hot list had posted in the forums or where currently in chat room.

Yeah it would be good to be able to click someone’s green arrow direct from their profile page, rather than having to locate an old post of theirs on the forum to track latest postings (there are some people who make me laugh so I like to see when they posted last etc). "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also on forum posts to be able to Like / emoji it as opposed to requoting and sticking a at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rearrange photos in an order I like as opposed to date they were uploaded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 'thanks but no thanks, have a nice day!' Auto response button, which also blocks a following response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To add a spanish post code, so you could search who is here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any man who can't get a meet within 6 months is deleted. "

Is that who hasn't had a meet or can't get one?

*shuffling nervously around the 5 month mark*

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By *ouplekinkCouple
over a year ago

kink town


"Couples have to have public pics of both of them on show."

You're complaining about what others show in their profile but hide your own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couples have to have public pics of both of them on show.

You're complaining about what others show in their profile but hide your own "

In the words of Alanis - Ironic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does paying to join make it better. Are you suggesting the idiots don't have the cash? Or perhaps those lacking sufficient funds to pay should be excluded

And just how does photoverified prove anything other than some one held up a pic with a site name on it.

Surely the way to make it better is in your personal gift. Use it the way that works for you...

And don't try to impose your prejudices on other users?

There is of course anothef option. If you don't like it as it is.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles have more specifications similar t the way dating sites work.

So you can block people your not looking for and they can block you.

a time water tick box so people can tick a box on people profiles and the people with the most ticks go on a list. The more ticks they have the higher on the list so the moderators can find the time wasters and delete them.

A better messaging system so friend and people on hotlist go into a different inbox from the regular mail.

A site calendar so it's easier to see dates of socials.

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By *lackitncoCouple
over a year ago

brownhills


"Being able to post video "

Agreed and also couples only rooms in chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about if it was compulsory to be photo verified?

Maybe it wasn't free to join ??

How would that make it better?

Is this guy for real? "

Why wouldn't I be for real? It's a fair question. The money to join a swinger's site is no barometer of integrity and would do nothibg to eliminate time wasters and fakes. Similarly photo verifications achieves little, holding up a piece of paper doesn't make people more genuine.

It may deter a handful of time wasters but would also see a lot of genuine members wave goodbye to the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A teleporter button so you could immediately send for someone when you wanted them.

This "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps set up 50000 seperate sites so each can pander to their own prejudices and pretend others aren't here if they don't meet your personal criteria : "

Hey other sites do that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Scratch and sniff photos "

Not with some people on this site

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