FabSwingers.com forum: Which would you choose?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.

2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.

2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.

I would choose a border collie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 1 without a doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I got married, I chose 1. With 2, what would I do with the other 23 hours and 55 minutes of the day?

I’ll abstain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My guitar

And beer

And pizza

And probably Netflix lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 2 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.

2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.

Neither. Unless they filled all the criteria you mention, they wouldn't be my partner anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this a partner we have to live with too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, had 2 and it didn’t work, we just argued like cat and dog and then grew to hate each other

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Alas 2 would be my choice. I have plenty of friends for 1 :D

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.

2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.

Neither. Unless they filled all the criteria you mention, they wouldn't be my partner anyway."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither as it wouldnt last with either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a bit of a number 1 now, not really her fault though a daughter that hangs about a bit at times!!!!!

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

1 for sure, then ??? Answer on a post card to de1 lol!!!

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By *appysunflowerWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ex was number 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Easier for men just to have a 5 min wank to some sleazy porn or sites like this so we don't usually need much stimulation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heck ... neither to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that would be 2. If I had 1 I would only fuck it up by screwing one of you lot anyway

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

3. Stay single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2. I don't mind tagging along when men do their men things. We can always do something neutral to spend time together and I don't do much that warrants a man's input anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common with- but you're totally incompatible with them sexually as they only want 5 minute sex once a year.

2) A partner that you're totally sexually compatible with and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny- but you have nothing else in common.

I would choose a border collie "

Good answer.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

If my life depended on that decision,then 1.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1. Sex can change and is available in many ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I need passion and compatability within a relationship.

I wouldn't be attracted to someone who couldn't give me both.

It's different if they lose interest temporarily through illness or something, but for me to be happy within a relationship i need hot sex, lots of laughs and a lorra lorra love and affection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd flip a coin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, fortunately it's not that black and white.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Surely we need both of those number to make a relationship work, I personally wouldn’t want it any other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 but after he'd had one 5 minute fuck with me he'd want it all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 but after he'd had one 5 minute fuck with me he'd want it all the time!"

Or I'd stick a bobble on his dick and fuck him in his sleep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 2. Passion and sexual chemistry are important. I want to feel desired by my partner and have that lust for them.

We can compromise on the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had number 1 and if had to pick I would choose 1 again but would prefer to not have either.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

Absolutely 2 !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are definitely no. 2

Been together for 22 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"3. Stay single

The magic number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally neither. But I've experience both and if I had to choose then 1 everytime. 2 is a horrible way to live

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By *ittle earsMan
over a year ago

south oxfordshire

"3. Stay single

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be 1 for me being in a relationship is much more then just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ideally neither. But I've experience both and if I had to choose then 1 everytime. 2 is a horrible way to live"

For you perhaps.

For me it's made life (and my wife) interesting. I'd never have put up with somebody just like me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd choose No. 1.

Then I'd join Fab Swingers

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By *asmataz71Man
over a year ago

Fife

I know the option isn't there but for me it would have to be:

1.5) A partner that you shared music/ life/ general likes in common, totally sexually compatible with - and you both want to fuck each other like mad and make each other crazy horny.

One can only dream

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

2 - I normally pick people who dont have the same interests as me to date anyway. I find its not sharing stuff, but respecting each others different interests that makes people happy.

I'd be bored stiff if my girlfriend shared every vanilla interest I have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd choose No. 1.

Then I'd join Fab Swingers

Me too

That's what a lot of "singles" on here are doing.

They want the best of both worlds.

I had a relationship with a number 1 for many years.

We loved each others company, shared a lot of interests and generally got on like a house on fire.

But our sex life was awful!

I think we tried to make it a sexual relationship because we got on so well.

But it just didn't work in the bedroom.

I miss his company though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't number 1 just your best friend?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ideally neither. But I've experience both and if I had to choose then 1 everytime. 2 is a horrible way to live

For you perhaps.

For me it's made life (and my wife) interesting. I'd never have put up with somebody just like me!"

I think I'm the same. It's a yin yang thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We still have no idea how we ever got together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither, I’d rather be single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

From personal experience I need a mixture of the both to make the relationship work for the long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take 5 minutes of sex per annum. 1

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

1. I seek a cuckold so that'd work perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither.

From personal experience I need a mixture of the both to make the relationship work for the long term."

Agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Neither.

From personal experience I need a mixture of the both to make the relationship work for the long term."

I think most people do. But that's not possible in this situation. It's 1 or 2 or neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't number 1 just your best friend?"

Who you fucked once.

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I would pick 2 at a push, as I have friends to give me the rest.

...but I am really lucky to already have the best of both, and I say that as a testament to my partner, not to show off in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. But only if they allow it to be an open relationship. I've come close to the second option and it did not stay great for most of the relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. I need passion and compatability within a relationship.

I wouldn't be attracted to someone who couldn't give me both.

It's different if they lose interest temporarily through illness or something, but for me to be happy within a relationship i need hot sex, lots of laughs and a lorra lorra love and affection."

This.

My ex was 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2. Simple. I have friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No 2. Ive got enough hobbies, interests and friends to feel fulfilled In other ways X

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Neither

What if you found someone who is both? The company is really awesome, you get on so well and the sex is just mind blowing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on experience neither. Hindsight is a great thing.

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