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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!"

I wish I could help change that for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so bad.

I'm used to not relying on anyone....

Just need reliable playmates. I never planned being single, life just let me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it goes in fits and starts - sometimes the freedom is intoxicating, other times the sheer effort of doing everything on your own is exhausting. If you feel like cocooning yourself away and watching films, do it, please yourself with no-one else to tell you what to do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not so bad.

I'm used to not relying on anyone....

Just need reliable playmates. I never planned being single, life just let me down.

"

I don't mind being on my own, I'm a strong woman,I was last Single 20 yrs ago and boy have times changed since then.xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pros and cons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not so bad.

I'm used to not relying on anyone....

Just need reliable playmates. I never planned being single, life just let me down.

well you was only 14

I don't mind being on my own, I'm a strong woman,I was last Single 20 yrs ago and boy have times changed since then.xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it goes in fits and starts - sometimes the freedom is intoxicating, other times the sheer effort of doing everything on your own is exhausting. If you feel like cocooning yourself away and watching films, do it, please yourself with no-one else to tell you what to do"

Now being told what to do I don't miss lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it goes in fits and starts - sometimes the freedom is intoxicating, other times the sheer effort of doing everything on your own is exhausting. If you feel like cocooning yourself away and watching films, do it, please yourself with no-one else to tell you what to do

Now being told what to do I don't miss lol."

Exactly! Lots of positives

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By *arkcoMan
over a year ago

Lichfield


"I

Exactly! Lots of positives"

And limitless possibilities. Greater levels of spontaneity to revel in. A whole set of choices to be had.

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By *DONToBEoNOSEYoMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Embrace it!

You don’t have to be single and lonely.... have someone you can see nkw and then without the stress of being with someone.

That’s my intention xx

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!"

I’m right there with you hunni xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just at the start of where your at having been married for over 20 years and now find myself alone it’s a struggle big time sometimes.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's not so bad.

I'm used to not relying on anyone....

Just need reliable playmates. I never planned being single, life just let me down.

I don't mind being on my own, I'm a strong woman,I was last Single 20 yrs ago and boy have times changed since then.xxx"

Oh my yes not all for the better either.

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By *rishman75Man
over a year ago

Chessington/epsom

I'm enjoying single life and can do what I want and when I want .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!

I’m right there with you hunni xxx"

Lets all cwtch up together!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I didn't like it last week when my bedroom ceiling started leaking

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!"

Dunno what to say really other than the grass is never greener on the other side . Life is never perfect, there are people out there that have every thing but still not content and there are some lucky people out there that are content when they appear to have nothing.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Been single a number years due to shit relationships etc..

Not something I planned on and not that I enjoy.

Only good thing is not having to answer to anyone and being able to go and please when and with who I like.

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!

I’m right there with you hunni xxx

Lets all cwtch up together! "

Drink, moan about men and giggle? Sound like a good plan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not good at being single to be honest. Even when I have been, I have had men within my life either as friends with benefits or just friends who I could watch films with, go out for meals with etc. I’m still friendly with a couple of my ex’s too- and enjoy spending time with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single for 8 years now. After the first valentines, Christmas and birthday is out of the way as a singleton you just get used to it!

Buy some fluffy pyjamas and fart in bed.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Been single for 8 years now. After the first valentines, Christmas and birthday is out of the way as a singleton you just get used to it!

Buy some fluffy pyjamas and fart in bed. "

Oh my days... you are a tonic lol!

I was feeling a bit low, but you have perked me right up with that.

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

What you got to analyse, why are you single! And improve on it. You create your destiny. Or be happy alone. Either way have fun, if you can't laugh, it's not fun. Good luck x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Been single for 8 years now. After the first valentines, Christmas and birthday is out of the way as a singleton you just get used to it!

Buy some fluffy pyjamas and fart in bed. "

Haha, love it

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!

I’m right there with you hunni xxx

Lets all cwtch up together!

Drink, moan about men and giggle? Sound like a good plan? "

I am there!

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By *loveyourassMan
over a year ago

Newport

I have to agree, being single sucks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been single for so long forgot how to be in a couple totally self reliant have change light bulbs and bled radiators today x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and enjoy it while you're single, because the grass is always greener on the other side. We've been together 14 years and I can assure you we have both envied our single friends at one point or another.

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!

I’m right there with you hunni xxx

Lets all cwtch up together!

Drink, moan about men and giggle? Sound like a good plan?

I am there! "

I’ll get the first round in, what do you fancy

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

5 years single now and it's been quite possibly the best 5 of my adult life. All I do to put me off a relationship is go a visit friends that are a couple

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral


"Really isn't living up to what I thought it would..... in fact it's pretty bloody boring,I just can't be arsed with making an effort to get all dressed up and start from scratch all over again and possibly waste another 20+yrs.... maybe I'll feel differently when summer comes but now all I want to do is cwtch up in bed and watch a good film.....single life sucks!!!!"
You will get a new life and enjoy it,I do,just takes a bit of time.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I'm having a lot of fun but world far prefer to be with someone 24/7, that suits me best.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I love it , been single almost 7 years , I can live my life the way I want without compromise .

And weirdly being single has boosted my sex life loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put on a soft jumper, casual trousers and winter boots. Do your hair and makeup in Autumn colours and have a wander around House of Frazer or Selfridges.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing I don't like about being single is waking up in the night, feeling frightened, and having no one to go downstairs to.

I pray I don't wake up during a bad thunderstorm.

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By *ikerdude2017Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Being single sucks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only thing I don't like about being single is waking up in the night, feeling frightened, and having no one to go downstairs to.

I pray I don't wake up during a bad thunderstorm.

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I know that feeling lol...I just hyperventilate under the covers now .xxx

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"The only thing I don't like about being single is waking up in the night, feeling frightened, and having no one to go downstairs to.

I pray I don't wake up during a bad thunderstorm.

"

Yeah that's not a nice feeling at all,I don't tend to get like that now though it get's easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The worst thing about being single is the lack of sex on tap, the lack of snogs and the lack of manly cuddles/groping.

I also miss playing with a cock. When you're just laying in bed watching Cagney & Lacey, cuddled up and you're just playing with his soft cock and his balls. Until he gets hard and then its game on!

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

I no how you fill op.

I hate being single to. For me single life fils mor like a curse....

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By *ammyharrogateWoman
over a year ago

Harrogate

Being single and working nights can be a bigger drag through the day all your friends are working then they are too tired at night not good but then again starfishing in a double bed when you get home is a big plus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing I don't like about being single is waking up in the night, feeling frightened, and having no one to go downstairs to.

I pray I don't wake up during a bad thunderstorm.

Yeah that's not a nice feeling at all,I don't tend to get like that now though it get's easier."

I take my dogs to bed with me if there's a storm warning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"pros and cons"

Sums it up nicely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rather enjoy the single life, lots more space in my bed, no one talking to me unnecessarily and I can watch what I want.

The effort of trying to find someone for a relationship is just not something I am prepared for at the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one serious monogamous relationship in my life, and I actively enjoy being single... my time, space and money is all mine, I have no one to answer to and I'm free.

I plan to stay single until I find the exact right person instead of getting into a relationship where I end up only having lukewarm feelings for the first person who comes into my life, or feeling that I need a relationship to complete me.

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