FabSwingers.com forum: Body shaming/name calling

By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel no shame about my flabby body. Bring it on!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Yeah you mean this -

Guy - hi fancy a meet

Lady - no thanks not my type

Guy - I didn’t want to meet you anyway you double bagging fat arsed walrus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have been seeing more and more people.. Mainly women, talking about how guys are body shaming them or calling them names.. Seriously stop it. There is no need to be nasty to people.. And guys if you tried to talk to a woman and she don't respond or responds with thanks but you're not my type.. Quit taking it personal.. You're an adult start acting that way.. "

My hero

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you mean this -

Guy - hi fancy a meet

Lady - no thanks not my type

Guy - I didn’t want to meet you anyway you double bagging fat arsed walrus

Yep, I've had something similar on numerous occasions!

But I've also had some lovely messages also after I've expressed no interest, some really good guys on here too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah you mean this -

Guy - hi fancy a meet

Lady - no thanks not my type

Guy - I didn’t want to meet you anyway you double bagging fat arsed walrus

There’s my next username right there

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Anybody who feels the need to shame/ insult another person whether on here or in the vanilla world, whether or not they feel rejected, says a lot more about themselves than about the person they have just tried to shame.

Only insecure people feel the need to shame other people, need to make themselves feel better by trying to make others feel bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not been on here long but have also been very lucky. No one turning nasty if they’ve had a knock back. Imagine there xan be some right nasty buggers though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m afraid this type of thread has been

White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m afraid this type of thread has been

White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence. "

Would you like me to praise or ridicule you?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm always told 'I'm up my own arse'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block them straight after telling them I don't want to meet them for whatever reason, often distance. I started doing that after a bloke miles away got snotty and said I was expecting too much from the site, after I told him sorry too far.

I am a fat walrus though xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not really experienced it (being a single guy previously) until we created this couples profile. We've had a few people totally flip-reverse what they've been saying, and it's just... odd, I think is the best word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always told 'I'm up my own arse'

You should reply that they'll never know how good that feels!

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"I'm always told 'I'm up my own arse'

You should reply that they'll never know how good that feels!"

Or "rather me than you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow ?? to some of this if I message someone and they do get back to me and say sorry no thanks I just thank them for their honesty and wish them well on here I don’t see the point of being nasty ! You’re never gonna be everyone’s cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a polite, not looking to meet right now... Reply came in...Youre on a fuck site, you should take what u get.

I declined, apparently I'm a fussy cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m afraid this type of thread has been

White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence.

Would you like me to praise or ridicule you?

Ooo. A good ridiculing please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been lucky and not had any nasty messages when ive said no, but have had a few persistent messages though asking if I'd change my mind. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a polite, not looking to meet right now... Reply came in...Youre on a fuck site, you should take what u get.

I declined, apparently I'm a fussy cunt

I'd get that put on a t-shirt and where it to your next meet.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After a polite, not looking to meet right now... Reply came in...Youre on a fuck site, you should take what u get.

I declined, apparently I'm a fussy cunt

I'd get that put on a t-shirt and where it to your next meet."

Rarely meet off here.. Real world yields better quality.

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By *ire_thorn OP Man
over a year ago

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The replies have been great... A fussy cunt... Lol I like that one

And I wasn't trying to white knight anything.. Just got a little pissed about it.. Most of the time I get ignored.. Sometimes blocked but when I get a response I generally say okay well have a good day... Or something polite.. And some of those ended up being a friend on here or we chat outside of fab. Hell there times I really like what's person's profile says.. And I won't be what they are looking for but I say something nice about the profile and I get a response that is nice and that's the end of the conversation... Oh well though. Haha Inga a random message from a parson I never looked at or anything send me nasty little message my only response was " I will sleep better tonight knowing how you feel about me, a person you never met" lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Shouldn't let the opinion of people you don't respect get you down. Understand they are just strangers being assholes, and they showed their true colours and you got to avoid them.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm always told 'I'm up my own arse'

You should reply that they'll never know how good that feels!

Or "rather me than you" "

I like this one

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

To be fair it’s not just guys who do this, I had this from a couple just yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I state this on my profile OP. I will not go crying and bleating if I get a no or a non answer. Applause for you sir.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Middle Aged -check-

No meets -check-

Claims he's a nice guy -check-

Fairly average -check-

Makes sycophantic "look at me" threads in hope of positive affirmation -check-

You guys are starting to get a little predictable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have been doing it for years, it's a pretty inevitable reaction from people wired in a certain way. Some people hate rejection amd deal with it by projecting it on to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Middle Aged -check-

No meets -check-

Claims he's a nice guy -check-

Fairly average -check-

Makes sycophantic "look at me" threads in hope of positive affirmation -check-

You guys are starting to get a little predictable. "

I started a thread the other day about the UK's friendliest places. I nominated Birmingham...you must have been out the day I visited!

Top marks to the OP for trying to spread a little love. And whatever the motivation... he's right!

Have you been in touch with that gorgeous lady you called a cunt yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had similar replies from guys hence why I do not respond anymore to messages I’m not interested in.

Also I have reported every single one of these men and not one of them was removed from the site. Makes me wonder what the point in reporting people is sometimes.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I've never had a guy body shame me but have been subjected to bitchy comments from other women.

I smile and wave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shouldn't let the opinion of people you don't respect get you down. Understand they are just strangers being assholes, and they showed their true colours and you got to avoid them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm always told 'I'm up my own arse'

I'm that far up my own arse I'm coming out my mouth apparently haha

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

"We've not been on here long but have also been very lucky. No one turning nasty if they’ve had a knock back. Imagine there xan be some right nasty buggers though.

We tend not to say 'no thanks, we just don't respond if not interested (prob get someone say we 'should') but so far - no issues and very sweet interactions x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

After sending my face pic to a woman last week, I received "I'm not instantly attracted to you, sorry", which was a new one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never had a guy body shame me but have been subjected to bitchy comments from other women.

I smile and wave.

That's the only reaction they deserve

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I should point out that I did warn her I look like 'a hungover Shrek chewing a wasp covered in Marmite'. Felt it was only fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say we have had any nasty reaction as yet either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m afraid this type of thread has been

White Knighted to death in the past several times. People will never learn. You just need to understand that if you put yourself out there, prepare to be praised and ridiculed in the same sentence.

Would you like me to praise or ridicule you?

I’m sure a woman of your calibre could do both without ruffling a feather.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Middle Aged -check-

No meets -check-

Claims he's a nice guy -check-

Fairly average -check-

Makes sycophantic "look at me" threads in hope of positive affirmation -check-

You guys are starting to get a little predictable. "

To be fair, so are you.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

OP must be dripping in pussy from all the damsels in distress after this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anybody who feels the need to shame/ insult another person whether on here or in the vanilla world, whether or not they feel rejected, says a lot more about themselves than about the person they have just tried to shame.

Only insecure people feel the need to shame other people, need to make themselves feel better by trying to make others feel bad."

That's about 90% of the men on here

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Thou hast suitably chastened the rude and unjust, now mount thine steed, brave knight, for there wilst be more fair maidens in needest of yourn divinity and justfulness ness

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