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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Me and my partner are looking to meet other couples in the oxford area. We're both 30 and look after ourselves and my partner is a very naughty girl that likes girls and guys so we are looking to see who would be interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll have much more success with a couples profile.

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Yes i know that but she isnt on here, we can provide pics and talk but until i change my whole profile its like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In that case, I can pretty much guarantee that you'll get zero interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes i know that but she isnt on here, we can provide pics and talk but until i change my whole profile its like this"

Create a new one ?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Yes i know that but she isnt on here, we can provide pics and talk but until i change my whole profile its like this

Create a new one ? "

You can lead a horse to water ....

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

See you're probably right in couples terms and i will update it eventually but personally i get quite alot of attention and i wouldnt be picking dates through the quality of anyones profile anyway im much more into chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See you're probably right in couples terms and i will update it eventually but personally i get quite alot of attention and i wouldnt be picking dates through the quality of anyones profile anyway im much more into chemistry "

You'd get a lot of people suspicious that there wasn't an actual lady with you though so will be hard to arrange a meet even if you provided a photo.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"See you're probably right in couples terms and i will update it eventually but personally i get quite alot of attention and i wouldnt be picking dates through the quality of anyones profile anyway im much more into chemistry

You'd get a lot of people suspicious that there wasn't an actual lady with you though so will be hard to arrange a meet even if you provided a photo. "

Is that because of the switching from we to I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re local (ish) to Oxford but wouldn’t consider a single male profile who claims to have a lady in tow.

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Why would i post here pretending to have a female friend an not !! Ive been on this site months as a single guy hence why its a pain making co account like what if we stop seeing each other in the next few months ? We're not keyboard warrior's like you guys but anyways i wouldnt be posting here just to end up embarrassing myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why would i post here pretending to have a female friend an not !! Ive been on this site months as a single guy hence why its a pain making co account like what if we stop seeing each other in the next few months ? We're not keyboard warrior's like you guys but anyways i wouldnt be posting here just to end up embarrassing myself "

You’ve just had people giving their opinions on your post, it’s a forum, therefore you should include yourself as a keyboard warrior, no need to throw your teddies just because you don’t like what you’re being told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not us you have to convince

Just start a separate couples account can link to your own popular one in the profile.

Easy enough to press delete if it all goes tits up then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See you're probably right in couples terms and i will update it eventually but personally i get quite alot of attention and i wouldnt be picking dates through the quality of anyones profile anyway im much more into chemistry "

Great a new one and keep your single one to. That's what I've done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some folk won't climb down an offered ladder even when the building is on fire..

Just saying

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We both had verified singles profiles before this one. Wasn't difficult, even for a keyboard nympho...oops warrior.

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"See you're probably right in couples terms and i will update it eventually but personally i get quite alot of attention and i wouldnt be picking dates through the quality of anyones profile anyway im much more into chemistry

Great a new one and keep your single one to. That's what I've done

Not a bad shout !! An there was me thinking it wouldnt be a problem :D"

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Who's thrown the teddies :D its the lounge forum, it was a general question, you're right though i wasnt expecting people to get so hostile over the prfile i use and wanted to use to meet couples with the girl im seeing

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Who's thrown the teddies :D its the lounge forum, it was a general question, you're right though i wasnt expecting people to get so hostile over the prfile i use and wanted to use to meet couples with the girl im seeing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's thrown the teddies :D its the lounge forum, it was a general question, you're right though i wasnt expecting people to get so hostile over the prfile i use and wanted to use to meet couples with the girl im seeing

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We've been rather lovely. All the hostile ones are still out chewing glass.

You go for it OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's thrown the teddies :D its the lounge forum, it was a general question, you're right though i wasnt expecting people to get so hostile over the prfile i use and wanted to use to meet couples with the girl im seeing

We've been rather lovely. All the hostile ones are still out chewing glass.

You go for it OP. "

Well that's that glass pasty finished, what the fuck is going on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's thrown the teddies :D its the lounge forum, it was a general question, you're right though i wasnt expecting people to get so hostile over the prfile i use and wanted to use to meet couples with the girl im seeing

"

So why does your profile text read like you are a single guy looking for ladies?

It says nowt about couples

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

this has made my day

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Because until about 10 am this morning i was just a single guy on here i didnt know em was going to be asking if i was up for a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who's thrown the teddies :D its the lounge forum, it was a general question, you're right though i wasnt expecting people to get so hostile over the prfile i use and wanted to use to meet couples with the girl im seeing

We've been rather lovely. All the hostile ones are still out chewing glass.

You go for it OP.

Well that's that glass pasty finished, what the fuck is going on here. "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Why would i post here pretending to have a female friend an not !! Ive been on this site months as a single guy hence why its a pain making co account like what if we stop seeing each other in the next few months ? We're not keyboard warrior's like you guys but anyways i wouldnt be posting here just to end up embarrassing myself "

Unfortunately OP a lot of single guys have profiles like yours so unless it's a couple's profile most will assume it's just you and avoid unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because until about 10 am this morning i was just a single guy on here i didnt know em was going to be asking if i was up for a few things "

You must see that a single guys profile. With no mention of a lady

Or any pics of said lady

Is going to arouse suspicions?

Surely?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Because until about 10 am this morning i was just a single guy on here i didnt know em was going to be asking if i was up for a few things

You must see that a single guys profile. With no mention of a lady

Or any pics of said lady

Is going to arouse suspicions?

Surely?"
evidently not...

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Just to get this clear it only says OP because it hasnt updated yet but i take it thats another assumption ye ? Starting to think the vanilla alternative is probably a better option

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Just to get this clear it only says OP because it hasnt updated yet but i take it thats another assumption ye ? Starting to think the vanilla alternative is probably a better option"
what hasn't updated??

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Because until about 10 am this morning i was just a single guy on here i didnt know em was going to be asking if i was up for a few things

You must see that a single guys profile. With no mention of a lady

Or any pics of said lady

Is going to arouse suspicions?

Surely? evidently not..."

I dont finish work till 5.30pm and im on my phone give me a break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We need more emojis for this thread,the tone is impossible to fathom or or

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because until about 10 am this morning i was just a single guy on here i didnt know em was going to be asking if i was up for a few things

You must see that a single guys profile. With no mention of a lady

Or any pics of said lady

Is going to arouse suspicions?

Surely? evidently not...

I dont finish work till 5.30pm and im on my phone give me a break "

So you HAVE got a couples profile? Why didnt you say so?

It just hasnt updated yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We need more emojis for this thread,the tone is impossible to fathom or or "

Love it! Hahaha.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Struggling to comprehend this thread at times, surely, OP, you must realise what people will think on here?! I think we've all been clear with our replies to your OP.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just to get this clear it only says OP because it hasnt updated yet but i take it thats another assumption ye ? Starting to think the vanilla alternative is probably a better option"

OP means original poster, it will always say that whether your profile is a single or a couple's one.

I strongly recommend you start a couples profile with your friend and wish you both luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hostile? Keyboard warriors?

You're given very helpful advice, explaining how others will view your request with suspicions. How you interpret that as hostility I've no idea.

Think about what you're suggesting. You offer a couple to meet them with you and your patter/gf/whatever, how does the couple know she really exists? How do they know she has given permission for you to share photos of her? How do they know the person on the end of the phone is your partner/gf/whatever, and not just some random woman?

All those suspicions disappear to some extent if you start a couples profile and get verified via a cam or meet.

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford

Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties "
nobody has trolled you OP, you've been given plenty of good advice mainly consisting of starting a couple's profile as this will help you both.

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Hostile? Keyboard warriors?

You're given very helpful advice, explaining how others will view your request with suspicions. How you interpret that as hostility I've no idea.

Think about what you're suggesting. You offer a couple to meet them with you and your patter/gf/whatever, how does the couple know she really exists? How do they know she has given permission for you to share photos of her? How do they know the person on the end of the phone is your partner/gf/whatever, and not just some random woman?

All those suspicions disappear to some extent if you start a couples profile and get verified via a cam or meet. "
because if you read ive said we can talk and share pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, it seems you're intent on ignoring the useful advice that's been offered so I think I'll step away from this one now, and wish you well.

Good luck.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Hostile? Keyboard warriors?

You're given very helpful advice, explaining how others will view your request with suspicions. How you interpret that as hostility I've no idea.

Think about what you're suggesting. You offer a couple to meet them with you and your patter/gf/whatever, how does the couple know she really exists? How do they know she has given permission for you to share photos of her? How do they know the person on the end of the phone is your partner/gf/whatever, and not just some random woman?

All those suspicions disappear to some extent if you start a couples profile and get verified via a cam or meet. because if you read ive said we can talk and share pics "
I'm sure we all read that, however it does not in anyway prove you are a couple, the only thing that will is a verified couples profile.

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties nobody has trolled you OP, you've been given plenty of good advice mainly consisting of starting a couple's profile as this will help you both."

So i finally know what op means but that was definitely trolling rather than giving advise so no point trying to swing it back round now

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties nobody has trolled you OP, you've been given plenty of good advice mainly consisting of starting a couple's profile as this will help you both.

So i finally know what op means but that was definitely trolling rather than giving advise so no point trying to swing it back round now "
ok I give up evidently you are one of the many that start threads like this, don't like the advice given and do nothing to help yourself, bye and good luck, you'll need it!

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Hostile? Keyboard warriors?

You're given very helpful advice, explaining how others will view your request with suspicions. How you interpret that as hostility I've no idea.

Think about what you're suggesting. You offer a couple to meet them with you and your patter/gf/whatever, how does the couple know she really exists? How do they know she has given permission for you to share photos of her? How do they know the person on the end of the phone is your partner/gf/whatever, and not just some random woman?

All those suspicions disappear to some extent if you start a couples profile and get verified via a cam or meet. because if you read ive said we can talk and share pics I'm sure we all read that, however it does not in anyway prove you are a couple, the only thing that will is a verified couples profile.

"

I am already verified an thoes that do know me know im not a lying kind of guy, you all must know some right strange ones if you assume everyones lying all the time

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties nobody has trolled you OP, you've been given plenty of good advice mainly consisting of starting a couple's profile as this will help you both.

So i finally know what op means but that was definitely trolling rather than giving advise so no point trying to swing it back round now ok I give up evidently you are one of the many that start threads like this, don't like the advice given and do nothing to help yourself, bye and good luck, you'll need it! "

I dont need luck this will be sorted by the end of the week trust me an sorry to say looking at me and you its you that needs the luck hunni

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, it's been an entertaining couple of hours, but can't see this one improving. Have fun OP, and good luck. If you do set up a Cpl's profile then feel free to drop us a line.

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By *icebutnaughty86 OP   Man
over a year ago

oxford


"Well, it's been an entertaining couple of hours, but can't see this one improving. Have fun OP, and good luck. If you do set up a Cpl's profile then feel free to drop us a line. "

Well that is without a doubt the nicest an helpful post anyones done on here today thanks when i get home i will see

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties nobody has trolled you OP, you've been given plenty of good advice mainly consisting of starting a couple's profile as this will help you both.

So i finally know what op means but that was definitely trolling rather than giving advise so no point trying to swing it back round now ok I give up evidently you are one of the many that start threads like this, don't like the advice given and do nothing to help yourself, bye and good luck, you'll need it!

I dont need luck this will be sorted by the end of the week trust me an sorry to say looking at me and you its you that needs the luck hunni "
PM'd you my verification summary I don't need luck..hunni....

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties nobody has trolled you OP, you've been given plenty of good advice mainly consisting of starting a couple's profile as this will help you both.

So i finally know what op means but that was definitely trolling rather than giving advise so no point trying to swing it back round now ok I give up evidently you are one of the many that start threads like this, don't like the advice given and do nothing to help yourself, bye and good luck, you'll need it!

I dont need luck this will be sorted by the end of the week trust me an sorry to say looking at me and you its you that needs the luck hunni "

I don’t think there’s any need to be rude to this lady. She has just offered advice which you don’t seem to want to take.

It’s not rocket science. If you contact a male profile you expect to communicate with a male. If you want to play as a couple then you’re going to have a hard job doing that from a single guy profile. You’ve been advised by some knowledgable people with many years experience. If you want to play the “I know better” card then don’t be daft enough to post threads inviting replies. Hurling abuse now is just making this worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it's been an entertaining couple of hours, but can't see this one improving. Have fun OP, and good luck. If you do set up a Cpl's profile then feel free to drop us a line.

Well that is without a doubt the nicest an helpful post anyones done on here today thanks when i get home i will see"

Just conveniently forget all the others of us who said exactly the same

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Well no considering ive got a friend on here from bicester that has a single profile that organises meets i didnt think it would be problem. But trolling people for their english tells alot about your personalities you woulnd pick on someone for being black because its racist but you'll poke fun at someone who could possibly have learning difficulties nobody has trolled you OP, you've been given plenty of good advice mainly consisting of starting a couple's profile as this will help you both.

So i finally know what op means but that was definitely trolling rather than giving advise so no point trying to swing it back round now ok I give up evidently you are one of the many that start threads like this, don't like the advice given and do nothing to help yourself, bye and good luck, you'll need it!

I dont need luck this will be sorted by the end of the week trust me an sorry to say looking at me and you its you that needs the luck hunni

I don’t think there’s any need to be rude to this lady. She has just offered advice which you don’t seem to want to take.

It’s not rocket science. If you contact a male profile you expect to communicate with a male. If you want to play as a couple then you’re going to have a hard job doing that from a single guy profile. You’ve been advised by some knowledgable people with many years experience. If you want to play the “I know better” card then don’t be daft enough to post threads inviting replies. Hurling abuse now is just making this worse. "
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it's been an entertaining couple of hours, but can't see this one improving. Have fun OP, and good luck. If you do set up a Cpl's profile then feel free to drop us a line.

Well that is without a doubt the nicest an helpful post anyones done on here today thanks when i get home i will see

Just conveniently forget all the others of us who said exactly the same "

And also lost the irony of our previous posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a thread after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it's been an entertaining couple of hours, but can't see this one improving. Have fun OP, and good luck. If you do set up a Cpl's profile then feel free to drop us a line.

Well that is without a doubt the nicest an helpful post anyones done on here today thanks when i get home i will see

Just conveniently forget all the others of us who said exactly the same

And also lost the irony of our previous posts "

That too,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it's been an entertaining couple of hours, but can't see this one improving. Have fun OP, and good luck. If you do set up a Cpl's profile then feel free to drop us a line.

Well that is without a doubt the nicest an helpful post anyones done on here today thanks when i get home i will see

Just conveniently forget all the others of us who said exactly the same

And also lost the irony of our previous posts

That too, "

Non imaginary girlfriend sex coming right your way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, it's been an entertaining couple of hours, but can't see this one improving. Have fun OP, and good luck. If you do set up a Cpl's profile then feel free to drop us a line.

Well that is without a doubt the nicest an helpful post anyones done on here today thanks when i get home i will see

Just conveniently forget all the others of us who said exactly the same

And also lost the irony of our previous posts

That too,

Non imaginary girlfriend sex coming right your way "

We're soooooo blessed

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The thread is a meet thread, the man didn't ask for advice in his post.

To the OP , if you start another thread in the meet section I will make sure it stays a meet thread.

To the many people who keep doing this on meet threads when asked not to, don't be surprised if you end up with a ban. If the meet request doesn't interest you, leave the thread alone

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