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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "I wouldn't fuck you either | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone." Me either.  | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "Of course it's ok as to what you like or dislike..but i know you can put it in a nicer or more tactful way.  | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "No good me sending the FWB's ex round then I suppose, she's about 30 stone and he's sporting a squashed look XXX | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "Don't think anyone gives a fuck  , such a tactful manner you have.  | |||
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"I used to say I would never fuck a guy with a beard. Then I got involved with 2 men with beard. I still intensely dislike beards, but I liked those men. I've realised now I'm wrong to have hard and fast rules about what think I'm sexually attracted to, because I couldn't possibly know who I will fancy in the future. Mrs" I agree - blondes. I could never fuck a blonde haired woman. It's a hard rule I had until I figured I actually fancied the ass off one.
Op, how you can rule anyone out just as simple as you have is beyond me and I don't get it. | |||
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"Age limits are my only preferences " That's all well and good, but do you fancy a fuck though? | |||
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"Age limits are my only preferences That's all well and good, but do you fancy a fuck though? "Do you have peanut butter | |||
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"I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone." Great news for me. I like women over thirty stone | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. " I think so, I think it's also meant in a light-hearted way. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok?
No good me sending the FWB's ex round then I suppose, she's about 30 stone and he's sporting a squashed look XXX"Did she sit on his face?  | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. " No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not. | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not. "Your list could be more tactfully put but it is ok because it is a personal preference who we fuck. Most of what you have on your list would be on ours but we will just say no thanks if we are ever approached. | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not. "Anyone can have any preference they like in my book. My profile is quite fussy. | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not. "It's clear why some think some prefereances are not okay. Some will think not wanting to fuck any black men is racist/predudiced. You know that. And it brings up a strong argument, with strong views. | |||
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"The profile is not unavailable. I don't know. Maybe it's gone. Maybe I'm blocked. Not my loss, though" Whachootalkinbout? | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "Yes of course it's ok. Most of us have preferences. I certainly have preferences. I'm often called racist because of one of my preferences but if i don't find a group of people attractive and i don't fancy them then I'm not going to have sex with them | |||
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My name is Harvey and i probably wont fuck anyone ever again
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not. "who says it's not ok,randoms off the internet.why let strangers question your choices,morals and preferences.not a good look op . | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "For me sounds perfect, especially first "I won't" | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok?
For me sounds perfect, especially first "I won't" "How come? | |||
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"Yes, of course it is OP. It's also ok that others might see it as racist however much that might cause you to create other threads." | |||
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My name is Harvey and i probably wont fuck anyone ever again
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not.
It's clear why some think some prefereances are not okay. Some will think not wanting to fuck any black men is racist/predudiced. You know that.
And it brings up a strong argument, with strong views.
"I won't fuck black men either but in the interests of fairness... I'm also not going to be doing any white guys. Is it just me or, did anyone else notice that classy swingers, a few posts up seem to have found two men that share the same beard, like...two men joined at the beard! They didn't originally like the idea of men with beards but keeping an open mind has begun a new journey of unlimited possibilities. It's good to keep an open mind and challenge your own perceptions but, equally ok to have preferences. Just don't set them in stone! | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not.
It's clear why some think some prefereances are not okay. Some will think not wanting to fuck any black men is racist/predudiced. You know that.
And it brings up a strong argument, with strong views.
I won't fuck black men either but in the interests of fairness... I'm also not going to be doing any white guys.
Is it just me or, did anyone else notice that classy swingers, a few posts up seem to have found two men that share the same beard, like...two men joined at the beard! They didn't originally like the idea of men with beards but keeping an open mind has begun a new journey of unlimited possibilities.
It's good to keep an open mind and challenge your own perceptions but, equally ok to have preferences. Just don't set them in stone!
"Ha, I still would think they would have looked hotter if they'd shaved it off. And now I remember they have been a few others. Current fashions dictate I either look beyond the beard or seriously limit my choice. | |||
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"a few posts up seem to have found two men that share the same beard, like...two men joined at the beard! " Isn't that a Dr Seuss story? "The profile is not unavailable. I don't know. Maybe it's gone. Maybe I'm blocked. Not my loss, though Whachootalkinbout?" I went to check out OPs profile and just got a "profile not available" page instead. I think that has changed now | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not.
It's clear why some think some prefereances are not okay. Some will think not wanting to fuck any black men is racist/predudiced. You know that.
And it brings up a strong argument, with strong views.
I won't fuck black men either but in the interests of fairness... I'm also not going to be doing any white guys.
Is it just me or, did anyone else notice that classy swingers, a few posts up seem to have found two men that share the same beard, like...two men joined at the beard! They didn't originally like the idea of men with beards but keeping an open mind has begun a new journey of unlimited possibilities.
It's good to keep an open mind and challenge your own perceptions but, equally ok to have preferences. Just don't set them in stone!
Ha, I still would think they would have looked hotter if they'd shaved it off. And now I remember they have been a few others. Current fashions dictate I either look beyond the beard or seriously limit my choice. "It can be a very small world with limitations or, a great big fucking massive one with endless possibilities. I prefer the looking beyond the beyond and, the beyond the beard approach to life my self but, we makes our choices. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "why not just say it on your profile lol. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? why not just say it on your profile lol. "She might do but apparently it's hidden, probably a munter anyway! | |||
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"a few posts up seem to have found two men that share the same beard, like...two men joined at the beard! Isn't that a Dr Seuss story? The profile is not unavailable. I don't know. Maybe it's gone. Maybe I'm blocked. Not my loss, though Whachootalkinbout? I went to check out OPs profile and just got a "profile not available" page instead. I think that has changed now" That just means the person has hidden everything, because they aren't looking at the moment. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not. "All preferences are Ok. Its not for others to judge who a person has sex with. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? why not just say it on your profile lol.
She might do but apparently it's hidden, probably a munter anyway! "I can see her profile.Absolutely nothing at all to say what/who she likes lol. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "Fancy meeting a 75 year old fat black dwarf? | |||
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"I think perhaps the OP is having a lil dig at those who are ignoring her profile. No my profile was hidden before.
I'm wondering why some sex preferences are ok but some are not.
It's clear why some think some prefereances are not okay. Some will think not wanting to fuck any black men is racist/predudiced. You know that.
And it brings up a strong argument, with strong views.
"Exactly. It is a racist, fatist, shortist, ageist list. If someone is happy to be identified as those things they have every legal right to declare then because this is just sex. But tactfully they might choose to say they want a tall, fit, white man of a certain age range. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people?"why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't | |||
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"I won't fuck black men I won't fuck Asian men I won't fuck white men I won't fuck men under 46 I won't fuck men over 47 I won't fuck pre OP male to female transexuals As for Women, I won't fuck women over 20 stone I won't fuck women under 9 stone I won't fuck women under 30 I won't fuck women over 65 I won't fuck women that don't smile I won't fuck Russian women who email me to meet Obviously all the above could possibly change in exceptional cases in the real world. "You're a serial "ist" aren't you? | |||
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"But how do people know that it is impossible to fancy someone from a particular racial group? An example, I don't on the whole find East Asians sexually attractive. But, once I formed a friendship with a Philopino man who I used work with. He was taller and stockier than most from his race, which helped, and me and him had a connection. As a result of this connection I found I started to fancy a man from a race than I never fancy. This is the only time I have ever fancied a man from this racial group. Would I give a East Asian man a chance on Fab? Probably unlikely, because it makes more sense to pursue those who I am more likely to fancy, and I don't have time to get to know people just in case I might fancy them. But would I announce on my profile 'no East Asians, no beards, no men shorter than me in heals, no skinny men? No I wouldn't. I would rather judge an individual than rule someone out based on a generalised charactistics. What I do say on the profile is the type of man I usually do like - tall, urbane, well-dressed. But if I get to know someone and there is a connection, preconceived ideas about what I think is attractive often gonout the window. So I get preferences, but I don't get hard and fast rules. Mrs" Classy | |||
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"I won't fuck black men I won't fuck Asian men I won't fuck white men I won't fuck men under 46 I won't fuck men over 47 I won't fuck pre OP male to female transexuals As for Women, I won't fuck women over 20 stone I won't fuck women under 9 stone I won't fuck women under 30 I won't fuck women over 65 I won't fuck women that don't smile I won't fuck Russian women who email me to meet Obviously all the above could possibly change in exceptional cases in the real world. "Do you get those emails too haha. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't "I think the difference is that weight and height are a defined physical characteristic. Race is not really a physical characteristic, although people of a certain race usually have certain physical characteristics in common. I suppose if someone finds a particular physical trait, commonly displayed by people of a certain race sexually unattractive, then I get where they are coming from. So to compare with saying they dont like fat people, it would be more accurate to say they don't like whatever physical trait it is in black people that they don't like, as opposed to black people as a whole race. Maybe it's the darker skin they find unattractive, but that's a feature of a number of races and some black people have lighter skin. Maybe it's the fuller lips that they find a turn-off, but not all black people have fuller lips, and plenty of people from other race also have full lips. What I'm trying to say is, unlike with height and weight, a whole race of people cannot be defined by physical characteristics. Mrs | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't
I think the difference is that weight and height are a defined physical characteristic. Race is not really a physical characteristic, although people of a certain race usually have certain physical characteristics in common. I suppose if someone finds a particular physical trait, commonly displayed by people of a certain race sexually unattractive, then I get where they are coming from. So to compare with saying they dont like fat people, it would be more accurate to say they don't like whatever physical trait it is in black people that they don't like, as opposed to black people as a whole race. Maybe it's the darker skin they find unattractive, but that's a feature of a number of races and some black people have lighter skin. Maybe it's the fuller lips that they find a turn-off, but not all black people have fuller lips, and plenty of people from other race also have full lips. What I'm trying to say is, unlike with height and weight, a whole race of people cannot be defined by physical characteristics.
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "Looks like I'm in for a chance then. | |||
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" I think the difference is that weight and height are a defined physical characteristic. Race is not really a physical characteristic, although people of a certain race usually have certain physical characteristics in common. I suppose if someone finds a particular physical trait, commonly displayed by people of a certain race sexually unattractive, then I get where they are coming from. So to compare with saying they dont like fat people, it would be more accurate to say they don't like whatever physical trait it is in black people that they don't like, as opposed to black people as a whole race. Maybe it's the darker skin they find unattractive, but that's a feature of a number of races and some black people have lighter skin. Maybe it's the fuller lips that they find a turn-off, but not all black people have fuller lips, and plenty of people from other race also have full lips. What I'm trying to say is, unlike with height and weight, a whole race of people cannot be defined by physical characteristics. Mrs" Will you stop complicating it for people by talking sense! Ignorance is bliss, please respect that. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. " So because I like fucking black men I’m attractive ? I knew you’d say something nice one day  | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. " Why are you allowing yourself to be wound up? The Op has simply pointed out her sexual preferences. Calling for people to be banned for exercising free speech is worse than stating ones sexual preferences. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't "i didnt say i acept it i said by saying she dont like someonw 30 stone i understand she dosent like overweight but a whole race ia diffrent theres fat ,slim old young short tall in every race what about the race she dosent like? | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't i didnt say i acept it i said by saying she dont like someonw 30 stone i understand she dosent like overweight but a whole race ia diffrent theres fat ,slim old young short tall in every race what about the race she dosent like?"But that is a physical trait. Anyway less completion for me | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. " What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? | |||
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"I won't fuck black men I won't fuck Asian men I won't fuck white men I won't fuck men under 46 I won't fuck men over 47 I won't fuck pre OP male to female transexuals "The 46 year old mixed race guy is in with a chance then ? | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't "That's exactly the point I was trying to make, thank you. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men I won't fuck Asian men I won't fuck white men I won't fuck men under 46 I won't fuck men over 47 I won't fuck pre OP male to female transexuals As for Women, I won't fuck women over 20 stone I won't fuck women under 9 stone I won't fuck women under 30 I won't fuck women over 65 I won't fuck women that don't smile I won't fuck Russian women who email me to meet Obviously all the above could possibly change in exceptional cases in the real world.
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't i didnt say i acept it i said by saying she dont like someonw 30 stone i understand she dosent like overweight but a whole race ia diffrent theres fat ,slim old young short tall in every race what about the race she dosent like?"I think that's a very reasonable comment. We all have our preferences about physical traits -fat, thin, bald, facial hair, body hair, eye colour, hair colour, skin tone etc etc etc. So when someone finds an entire race, with all its physical variations, sexually unattractive, what is the physical trait within that race that makes the entire race a sexual turn-off? And before someone says 'it's just a preference', yes I know it's a preference, but it would be interesting to explore deeper than that. Mrs | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? " If they go out of their way to state it. No one is entitled to anyone to have sex with them...but then thats the not the point. And everyone knows this. The point is to sit and look to stir up some controversy or make some incendiary statement. But this is my point...everything about OP suggest that she has no desire in meeting and every desire in winding up/bringing attention to oneself and, in general, treating Fab Forums like some kind of naughty facebook. Its funny as it kinda justifies what a shitty reputation many people on the forum have among the users of this site who actually play. | |||
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The OP is just carefully worded examples. Saying I won't fuck someone is just a fact. I deliberately didn't state it as a negative reason but people assume there is.
Anyway they're just examples. If I fancy a 40 stone 4ft black man- and he fancies me- then wayhayyyyy! "Is he bi? | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. Why are you allowing yourself to be wound up? The Op has simply pointed out her sexual preferences. Calling for people to be banned for exercising free speech is worse than stating ones sexual preferences. OP tries to wind up with her posts and this is not the first. People hide behind "freedom of speech" because they're cowardly and dishonest. Lets not pretend as if its any real desire to openly and succinctly state their preference. I was talking to a lady on the weekend who told me that one would be surprised how few of these "annoying" messages people actually get...often times its people hiding behind their "preferences" to make racial statements. No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with not playing with black/asian/white/whatever men...but when you feel the need to state this I do start to wonder what ones motivations are. Winding up people like you
Anyway you were saying about me being attractive. Carry on "An intention to wind up does not mean you're actually winding up. As much as people desperately need to believe they are. But, then again, I did say that people often use this site merely as a means of gaining the attention they dont receive in the real world. | |||
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The OP is just carefully worded examples. Saying I won't fuck someone is just a fact. I deliberately didn't state it as a negative reason but people assume there is.
Anyway they're just examples. If I fancy a 40 stone 4ft black man- and he fancies me- then wayhayyyyy!
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. Why are you allowing yourself to be wound up? The Op has simply pointed out her sexual preferences. Calling for people to be banned for exercising free speech is worse than stating ones sexual preferences. OP tries to wind up with her posts and this is not the first. People hide behind "freedom of speech" because they're cowardly and dishonest. Lets not pretend as if its any real desire to openly and succinctly state their preference. I was talking to a lady on the weekend who told me that one would be surprised how few of these "annoying" messages people actually get...often times its people hiding behind their "preferences" to make racial statements. No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with not playing with black/asian/white/whatever men...but when you feel the need to state this I do start to wonder what ones motivations are. Winding up people like you
Anyway you were saying about me being attractive. Carry on
An intention to wind up does not mean you're actually winding up. As much as people desperately need to believe they are.
But, then again, I did say that people often use this site merely as a means of gaining the attention they dont receive in the real world. "I know and I’m sorry. I’ve let myself down again. Now give me a smile and tell me how attractive I am again | |||
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The OP is just carefully worded examples. Saying I won't fuck someone is just a fact. I deliberately didn't state it as a negative reason but people assume there is.
Anyway they're just examples. If I fancy a 40 stone 4ft black man- and he fancies me- then wayhayyyyy!
Is he bi?
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation "Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case? 
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. Why are you allowing yourself to be wound up? The Op has simply pointed out her sexual preferences. Calling for people to be banned for exercising free speech is worse than stating ones sexual preferences. OP tries to wind up with her posts and this is not the first. People hide behind "freedom of speech" because they're cowardly and dishonest. Lets not pretend as if its any real desire to openly and succinctly state their preference. I was talking to a lady on the weekend who told me that one would be surprised how few of these "annoying" messages people actually get...often times its people hiding behind their "preferences" to make racial statements. No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with not playing with black/asian/white/whatever men...but when you feel the need to state this I do start to wonder what ones motivations are. Winding up people like you
Anyway you were saying about me being attractive. Carry on
An intention to wind up does not mean you're actually winding up. As much as people desperately need to believe they are.
But, then again, I did say that people often use this site merely as a means of gaining the attention they dont receive in the real world. "No my intention isn't to wind up, it's an attempt to make people think. I know it stirs shit up but if you don't shake the bottle nothing will change. I know people have strong opinions on this, which is why I worded it that way. I'm not number 1 on hot pics- I have nothing to lose (as you so beautifully pointed out earlier).
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't i didnt say i acept it i said by saying she dont like someonw 30 stone i understand she dosent like overweight but a whole race ia diffrent theres fat ,slim old young short tall in every race what about the race she dosent like?
I think that's a very reasonable comment. We all have our preferences about physical traits -fat, thin, bald, facial hair, body hair, eye colour, hair colour, skin tone etc etc etc. So when someone finds an entire race, with all its physical variations, sexually unattractive, what is the physical trait within that race that makes the entire race a sexual turn-off? "It is a racist statement, period. The question is not do you want to fuck a black man, it's do you want to make a racists statement on your profile. | |||
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Anyway you were saying about me being attractive. Carry on
An intention to wind up does not mean you're actually winding up. As much as people desperately need to believe they are.
But, then again, I did say that people often use this site merely as a means of gaining the attention they dont receive in the real world.
No my intention isn't to wind up, it's an attempt to make people think. I know it stirs shit up but if you don't shake the bottle nothing will change.
I know people have strong opinions on this, which is why I worded it that way. I'm not number 1 on hot pics- I have nothing to lose (as you so beautifully pointed out earlier).
Read your posts again. "Being number 1 on hot pics actually requires being desirable or actually putting ones money where their mouth is by playing and putting up hot pics of their activities. The forum requires far less effort...simply seek out lazy topics which have been done to death and watch as the usual closet cases pile in to lend credence to questionable arguments. The same can be achieved by interchanging race for BBW/single women/bareback. Most of the time these topics have extensive thread with lots of comments. So, no, you're full of shit. Your intention was not to "make people think", it was merely to draw attention to yourself. There is the search function for "thinkers" who wish to tread this done to death topic. | |||
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I think that's a very reasonable comment. We all have our preferences about physical traits -fat, thin, bald, facial hair, body hair, eye colour, hair colour, skin tone etc etc etc. So when someone finds an entire race, with all its physical variations, sexually unattractive, what is the physical trait within that race that makes the entire race a sexual turn-off?
It is a racist statement, period. The question is not do you want to fuck a black man, it's do you want to make a racists statement on your profile. "TBH I would not even explicitly call it racist. More racebaiting. An accusation which, amusingly enough, you'll see people who make comments like OPs throw around a lot. They complain about "political correctness" whilst constantly needing to spout on about so-and-so racial preferences. | |||
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Anyway you were saying about me being attractive. Carry on
An intention to wind up does not mean you're actually winding up. As much as people desperately need to believe they are.
But, then again, I did say that people often use this site merely as a means of gaining the attention they dont receive in the real world.
No my intention isn't to wind up, it's an attempt to make people think. I know it stirs shit up but if you don't shake the bottle nothing will change.
I know people have strong opinions on this, which is why I worded it that way. I'm not number 1 on hot pics- I have nothing to lose (as you so beautifully pointed out earlier).
Read your posts again.
Being number 1 on hot pics actually requires being desirable or actually putting ones money where their mouth is by playing and putting up hot pics of their activities.
The forum requires far less effort...simply seek out lazy topics which have been done to death and watch as the usual closet cases pile in to lend credence to questionable arguments. The same can be achieved by interchanging race for BBW/single women/bareback. Most of the time these topics have extensive thread with lots of comments.
So, no, you're full of shit. Your intention was not to "make people think", it was merely to draw attention to yourself. There is the search function for "thinkers" who wish to tread this done to death topic."I wouldn't go as far as calling you a closet case. | |||
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The same big fish getting caught over and over. "We went to the seaside the other week and went crabbing. Clearly poor memories. Anything for a bit of bacon | |||
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"Just throw the bait out and wind it in. Bites every time.
The same big fish getting caught over and over.
We went to the seaside the other week and went crabbing. Clearly poor memories. Anything for a bit of bacon "Was this Blakeney? | |||
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"Just throw the bait out and wind it in. Bites every time.
The same big fish getting caught over and over.
We went to the seaside the other week and went crabbing. Clearly poor memories. Anything for a bit of bacon
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. Why are you allowing yourself to be wound up? The Op has simply pointed out her sexual preferences. Calling for people to be banned for exercising free speech is worse than stating ones sexual preferences. OP tries to wind up with her posts and this is not the first. People hide behind "freedom of speech" because they're cowardly and dishonest. Lets not pretend as if its any real desire to openly and succinctly state their preference. I was talking to a lady on the weekend who told me that one would be surprised how few of these "annoying" messages people actually get...often times its people hiding behind their "preferences" to make racial statements. No, there is absolutely nothing wrong with not playing with black/asian/white/whatever men...but when you feel the need to state this I do start to wonder what ones motivations are. Exercising or standing behind 'freedom of speech' is rarely cowardly or dishonest. (I accept that doing it 'anonymously' over a keyboard could be a cowardly act). Some people are racist, that's a fact and that's completely alright! It's their choice what they believe and do in their personal and private life. It doesn't get more personal than who you let enter your body! Their personal preferences should not be policed or managed by some warped version of political correctness. I believe in someones free choice to be racist as long as their racism doesnt effect the lives of others. No one is entitled to sex with them, their life their rules. If you choose to be wound up by that, its your choice." First of all, take a civics class and learn the concept of freedom of speech. It has nothing to do with people criticizing your choice in play partner. I could tell people that I dont like playing with tall women...others have a right to cast their own aspersions about my preference. It seems people want to be patted on the back for telling others about the races they can and wont fuck. Just as one has a right to not play with black/asian men, another has the right to call someone racist for it. You do know freedom of speech cuts both ways right? So no, they're not exercising any kind of freedom of speech. They're merely cowards looking for a "polite" way of exercising their prejudice in an open forum. Bigots always find a way. And the same goes for plenty of others as well...like the sizeist types who always seem to occasionally make their way to the forum to tell people how they're being "persecuted" for not being attracted to "fat women". Despite their apparent preference, they always seem to find their way to spaces where the people they're not attracted to seem to congregate. And I guess thats the ultimate irony of the "preference" types. Its rare said choices dont come with a laundry list of emotional/ideological baggage with them. It is rare I met someone who went out of their way to state some kind of preference who was not using it to deal with a bad/humiliating experience in the past or to hide some strange Freudian level suppression of a latent desire. Like the homophobes who seem to always show up on studies as being stimulated by same sex pornography. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. "They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it. | |||
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The same big fish getting caught over and over.
We went to the seaside the other week and went crabbing. Clearly poor memories. Anything for a bit of bacon
Was this Blakeney?
Morston, just down the road. "Oooooh spent lots of time sailing out on a Siffkey Cockle moored at Morston. I love a good salt marsh and out to sea | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it."As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too. But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. "lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off. | |||
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"Just throw the bait out and wind it in. Bites every time.
The same big fish getting caught over and over.
We went to the seaside the other week and went crabbing. Clearly poor memories. Anything for a bit of bacon
Was this Blakeney?
Morston, just down the road.
Oooooh spent lots of time sailing out on a Siffkey Cockle moored at Morston. I love a good salt marsh and out to sea "Small world ! I’m hoping to get our trailer sailer back down there next year. The tranquility on the point if you stay out till low tide is just amazing. Bit morbid I know, but I actually had the blue house scene printed on my late husbands coffin. Now there’s a random fact! Now back to black men or bi men or both. The answer is yes and please
And whoever above said we all have lots of preferences. I’ve checked our profile and we don’t really. So now I feel a freak. Not a super one though. Clearly we will fuck anyone | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off. "But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile.... Get back to me when you actually read my posts. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? "I'm not fucking anyone at the minute... i need to change something. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off.
But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile....
Get back to me when you actually read my posts. "I don’t read them either I just look at your profile pic | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off.
But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile....
Get back to me when you actually read my posts. "cos I don't need to. It's either a yes or no from me. I don't have to explain why I say no. Tbh I don't like to offend so I say no thank you. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off.
But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile....
Get back to me when you actually read my posts. cos I don't need to. It's either a yes or no from me. I don't have to explain why I say no. Tbh I don't like to offend so I say no thank you. "??? What are u talking about? My observations about people who state their preferences openly. Your choice in who you play with or dont is entirely down to you. I dont care, quite frankly. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off.
But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile....
Get back to me when you actually read my posts. cos I don't need to. It's either a yes or no from me. I don't have to explain why I say no. Tbh I don't like to offend so I say no thank you. "just for the record I don't like body builders either. Black or white. Lol. | |||
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I'm not fucking anyone at the minute... i need to change something. "Fuckist!!!! | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off.
But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile....
Get back to me when you actually read my posts. cos I don't need to. It's either a yes or no from me. I don't have to explain why I say no. Tbh I don't like to offend so I say no thank you.
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What are u talking about? My observations about people who state their preferences openly. Your choice in who you play with or dont is entirely down to you. I dont care, quite frankly."It's getting very confusing now. I'll leave it there. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off.
But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile....
Get back to me when you actually read my posts. cos I don't need to. It's either a yes or no from me. I don't have to explain why I say no. Tbh I don't like to offend so I say no thank you. just for the record I don't like body builders either. Black or white. Lol. "
This is what I mean about Fab attracting people with poor body image and low self esteem. What does your preference for bodybuilders have to do with this discussion? Why even state it?
What amusing is that you're not even arguing from the same wavelength. You've spun your own interpretation of my comments (likely from your own lack of self worth) and deduced that this is some kind attack against you. I have no idea where your last statement came from. My arguments are about people using platforms to race bait...not what people choose to have sex with. | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? not fucking people under 4ft its clear you dont like short people or no liking people over 30 stone then thats clear you dont like overweight but what is it you dont like about a whole race of people? why do you accept the weight & height issue but you question her on the colour issue? It's her preference like the rest of her likes/don't i didnt say i acept it i said by saying she dont like someonw 30 stone i understand she dosent like overweight but a whole race ia diffrent theres fat ,slim old young short tall in every race what about the race she dosent like?
I think that's a very reasonable comment. We all have our preferences about physical traits -fat, thin, bald, facial hair, body hair, eye colour, hair colour, skin tone etc etc etc. So when someone finds an entire race, with all its physical variations, sexually unattractive, what is the physical trait within that race that makes the entire race a sexual turn-off?
It is a racist statement, period. The question is not do you want to fuck a black man, it's do you want to make a racists statement on your profile.
TBH I would not even explicitly call it racist. More racebaiting.
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. "you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist . | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. lol ok let's agree to disagree then. I don't consider myself ugly nor do anyone I know but maybe cos I won't meet black men makes me ugly. So it's ok to insult the likes of me then . End off.
But then, you dont actually state your racial preferences in your profile....
Get back to me when you actually read my posts. cos I don't need to. It's either a yes or no from me. I don't have to explain why I say no. Tbh I don't like to offend so I say no thank you.
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What are u talking about? My observations about people who state their preferences openly. Your choice in who you play with or dont is entirely down to you. I dont care, quite frankly. It's getting very confusing now. I'll leave it there." maybe I can get some answers now | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist ."Oi you can pipe down. Rarely does a compliment leave those lips / keyboard / whatever he’s using. But as a black man lover (literally - I really do love him ) I have been cast as attractive. I’m hsppy with that so butt out | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist ."LOL. No. I have met racists of all shades and looks. Trust me. But, I do state that ugly people tend to make the lions share of sexual racebaiters I would say that there is a good chance you're using it to seek attention to oneself.
And that point has been made abudantly clear numerous times. I do find it interesting the amount of people who jump on the "well I dont think you're attractive either so bleugh!!! ". I swear people here have internalized feeling unattractive so deeply that they see it in just about every an any argument presented. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist .
LOL. No. I have met racists of all shades and looks. Trust me. But, I do state that ugly people tend to make the lions share of sexual racebaiters I would say that there is a good chance you're using it to seek attention to oneself.
And that point has been made abudantly clear numerous times. I do find it interesting the amount of people who jump on the "well I dont think you're attractive either so bleugh!!! ". I swear people here have internalized feeling unattractive so deeply that they see it in just about every an any argument presented. "Would it be attention seeking to ask you to Fab your favourite pic of me | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist .
LOL. No. I have met racists of all shades and looks. Trust me. But, I do state that ugly people tend to make the lions share of sexual racebaiters I would say that there is a good chance you're using it to seek attention to oneself.
And that point has been made abudantly clear numerous times. I do find it interesting the amount of people who jump on the "well I dont think you're attractive either so bleugh!!! ". I swear people here have internalized feeling unattractive so deeply that they see it in just about every an any argument presented. "Do you think you see them as ugly because of what they have written? | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok?
No good me sending the FWB's ex round then I suppose, she's about 30 stone and he's sporting a squashed look XXX
Did she sit on his face? "I reckon if you are a 3ft 8 .31 stone 70 year old black man . he won't be sharing your bed anytime soon | |||
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"I won't fuck black men. I won't fuck people under 4ft tall. I won't fuck men over 70 years old. I won't fuck women that weigh over 30 stone. I am not sexually attracted to the groups listed above. Is that ok? why not just say it on your profile lol.
She might do but apparently it's hidden, probably a munter anyway! "no need for personal insults. | |||
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She might do but apparently it's hidden, probably a munter anyway! no need for personal insults."Oh I don’t know. If there were no personal insults how would you know you were in Fab forums you daft moo | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist .
LOL. No. I have met racists of all shades and looks. Trust me. But, I do state that ugly people tend to make the lions share of sexual racebaiters I would say that there is a good chance you're using it to seek attention to oneself.
And that point has been made abudantly clear numerous times. I do find it interesting the amount of people who jump on the "well I dont think you're attractive either so bleugh!!! ". I swear people here have internalized feeling unattractive so deeply that they see it in just about every an any argument presented. "what are you on about haha.I simply fired back what you said about looks to show how ridiculas it is and you come back at me as if I genuinly think that and that I originally said it when it was you .I agree that the op is racebaiting and to be honast should be putting on her profile what she is looking for instead of what she isint but that dosent mean what you are saying is not nonsense.remember you implied racists are ugly not me I simply fired it back at you to show you how stupid an idea it is. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. "Is that in your eyes or every ones? It's obviously bothered you if anything was to be read into the sniping generalisations you have retaliated with! Why let it bother you so much? I would have to disagree with your earlier thoughts about banning them! Dictators ban freedom of speech and choice! They weren't preaching hatred just stating preferences, whether they're ones we agree with or not. A lot of which seem slightly tongue in cheek. How many people on here are are over 30 stone or under 4ft? Hands up! Out of those that are, how many do you think approach her? I do agree that there isn't a lot of tact. May be the OP should consider not voicing her preferences so openly, may be keep them to her own profile or learn to ignore messages (fab rule, not responding isn't rude) or politely respond with a "no thank you, you're not my type" kind of message When approached by people not in her preference, then block to avoid the some times inevitable backlash. She didn't say she wouldn't sit down and have a cup of tea with a black man or refuse to discuss the weather with any one under 4ft. So until proven otherwise I will just accept that she doesn't want to have sex with a black man. It is her loss. Don't let it spoil your day. Personally...I wish there were a lot more black women (and women from other cultural back grounds) on the site. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it." | |||
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"remember you implied racists are ugly not me I simply fired it back at you to show you how stupid an idea it is." Well I know it’s not the point you’re making, and pulled out of context but again anyone can read a comment in here and reinterpret it for their stance, and I think everyone has been guilty of this, so it’s not wrong for me to do so... ...but in simple response to your termed statement above: I think racists are ugly. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist .
LOL. No. I have met racists of all shades and looks. Trust me. But, I do state that ugly people tend to make the lions share of sexual racebaiters I would say that there is a good chance you're using it to seek attention to oneself.
And that point has been made abudantly clear numerous times. I do find it interesting the amount of people who jump on the "well I dont think you're attractive either so bleugh!!! ". I swear people here have internalized feeling unattractive so deeply that they see it in just about every an any argument presented. what are you on about haha.I simply fired back what you said about looks to show how ridiculas it is and you come back at me as if I genuinly think that and that I originally said it when it was you .I agree that the op is racebaiting and to be honast should be putting on her profile what she is looking for instead of what she isint but that dosent mean what you are saying is not nonsense.remember you implied racists are ugly not me I simply fired it back at you to show you how stupid an idea it is."I did not say racists are ugly. I said people who use racebaiting like OP are probably doing so because they cannot garner attention through their looks or sexual appeal. I am unsure how many times I have to state this...its not a particularly complex argument. | |||
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking. you always start your posts with a reasonable point but then decend into nonsense.you just bacicly said that only ugly people can be racist wtf .i get that you like to throw in some sly digs at people you dissagree with but come on man you need to up your game.I personally don't find you attractive does that mean you are more likely to be a racist .
LOL. No. I have met racists of all shades and looks. Trust me. But, I do state that ugly people tend to make the lions share of sexual racebaiters I would say that there is a good chance you're using it to seek attention to oneself.
And that point has been made abudantly clear numerous times. I do find it interesting the amount of people who jump on the "well I dont think you're attractive either so bleugh!!! ". I swear people here have internalized feeling unattractive so deeply that they see it in just about every an any argument presented. what are you on about haha.I simply fired back what you said about looks to show how ridiculas it is and you come back at me as if I genuinly think that and that I originally said it when it was you .I agree that the op is racebaiting and to be honast should be putting on her profile what she is looking for instead of what she isint but that dosent mean what you are saying is not nonsense.remember you implied racists are ugly not me I simply fired it back at you to show you how stupid an idea it is.
I did not say racists are ugly. I said people who use racebaiting like OP are probably doing so because they cannot garner attention through their looks or sexual appeal. I am unsure how many times I have to state this...its not a particularly complex argument. "and again it's still ridiculas to compare any any way of thought with attractiveness....it's not a particular complex argument. | |||
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Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking.
Is that in your eyes or every ones?
It's obviously bothered you if anything was to be read into the sniping generalisations you have retaliated with! Why let it bother you so much?
I would have to disagree with your earlier thoughts about banning them! Dictators ban freedom of speech and choice! They weren't preaching hatred just stating preferences, whether they're ones we agree with or not. A lot of which seem slightly tongue in cheek. How many people on here are are over 30 stone or under 4ft? Hands up! Out of those that are, how many do you think approach her?
I do agree that there isn't a lot of tact. May be the OP should consider not voicing her preferences so openly, may be keep them to her own profile or learn to ignore messages (fab rule, not responding isn't rude) or politely respond with a "no thank you, you're not my type" kind of message When approached by people not in her preference, then block to avoid the some times inevitable backlash.
She didn't say she wouldn't sit down and have a cup of tea with a black man or refuse to discuss the weather with any one under 4ft. So until proven otherwise I will just accept that she doesn't want to have sex with a black man. It is her loss. Don't let it spoil your day.
Personally...I wish there were a lot more black women (and women from other cultural back grounds) on the site. "What bothers me is that OP seems to have a knack for making these types of threads. And no, for the 6th time, I have no problem with OP having a preference. What I do have an issue is the very lack of tact and desire to be controversial. Your paragraph made it clear, OP can merely state that she is not interested and then block and then move on. This is the thing though, people like OP tend to not have any interest in doing so. You also tend to find that, judging by the location, may not be getting many solicitations from non-white men anyway. This is purely about attention seeking, nothing more. I simply believe people use "trolling" to attention seek because they're powerless and dont have the tools most people on the site use to attract play partners (looks/compatibility/charm). | |||
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Normally I’d say this has to be a “look at me” post, but there’s nothing to look at , or read, so not sure what it’s about."My assumption was that is was a hypothetical stance to stimulate debate/discussion - many forum posts are that, lots of us out here use them as a mental distraction/entertainment. Of course even stimulating discussion could be said to be seeking attention, but that applies to everyone who posts on the forums equally. | |||
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I’ve added a new pic in a pathetic attention seeking attempt. "You are look particularly beautiful in your new picture and we have noticed you! | |||
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I’ve added a new pic in a pathetic attention seeking attempt.
You are look particularly beautiful in your new picture and we have noticed you! " thank you. But I’d still like mr grumpy to Fab one. I know he can do it, I’m sure the last time he smiled simply can’t have been when his mum last winded him | |||
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I saw you. Forget it. You’re wasting your time. They’re having none of it.
So Superfreak are you saying that black guys have better taste in women. It’s a notion id be happy to go along with "I’ve have sex with lots of black guys
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking.
Is that in your eyes or every ones?
It's obviously bothered you if anything was to be read into the sniping generalisations you have retaliated with! Why let it bother you so much?
I would have to disagree with your earlier thoughts about banning them! Dictators ban freedom of speech and choice! They weren't preaching hatred just stating preferences, whether they're ones we agree with or not. A lot of which seem slightly tongue in cheek. How many people on here are are over 30 stone or under 4ft? Hands up! Out of those that are, how many do you think approach her?
I do agree that there isn't a lot of tact. May be the OP should consider not voicing her preferences so openly, may be keep them to her own profile or learn to ignore messages (fab rule, not responding isn't rude) or politely respond with a "no thank you, you're not my type" kind of message When approached by people not in her preference, then block to avoid the some times inevitable backlash.
She didn't say she wouldn't sit down and have a cup of tea with a black man or refuse to discuss the weather with any one under 4ft. So until proven otherwise I will just accept that she doesn't want to have sex with a black man. It is her loss. Don't let it spoil your day.
Personally...I wish there were a lot more black women (and women from other cultural back grounds) on the site.
What bothers me is that OP seems to have a knack for making these types of threads. And no, for the 6th time, I have no problem with OP having a preference. What I do have an issue is the very lack of tact and desire to be controversial.
Your paragraph made it clear, OP can merely state that she is not interested and then block and then move on. This is the thing though, people like OP tend to not have any interest in doing so. You also tend to find that, judging by the location, may not be getting many solicitations from non-white men anyway. This is purely about attention seeking, nothing more. I simply believe people use "trolling" to attention seek because they're powerless and dont have the tools most people on the site use to attract play partners (looks/compatibility/charm)."That's cool and I get that! So, surely the way to stop OP from posting such controversial threads would be to refuse to give her the attention that you think she so clearly desires and not respond. If no one responded, like a naughty child, she would soon get bored. | |||
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Could you define a black man please ? "Oh that’s easy. Guys with stupidly long Willy’s and have great rhythm. | |||
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"Mr Grumpy A.K.A. Mr Superfreak, could you please get your arse over to https://www.fabswingers.com/profile/_lkdomwhtsubbicple and pay her some attention. I think she likes you. She's very sexy "I think there’s chemistry. He once said I wasn’t a cunt | |||
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Could you define a black man please ?
Oh that’s easy. Guys with stupidly long Willy’s and have great rhythm. "If they have average cocks and no rhythm are they fakes? | |||
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Could you define a black man please ?
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking.
Is that in your eyes or every ones?
It's obviously bothered you if anything was to be read into the sniping generalisations you have retaliated with! Why let it bother you so much?
I would have to disagree with your earlier thoughts about banning them! Dictators ban freedom of speech and choice! They weren't preaching hatred just stating preferences, whether they're ones we agree with or not. A lot of which seem slightly tongue in cheek. How many people on here are are over 30 stone or under 4ft? Hands up! Out of those that are, how many do you think approach her?
I do agree that there isn't a lot of tact. May be the OP should consider not voicing her preferences so openly, may be keep them to her own profile or learn to ignore messages (fab rule, not responding isn't rude) or politely respond with a "no thank you, you're not my type" kind of message When approached by people not in her preference, then block to avoid the some times inevitable backlash.
She didn't say she wouldn't sit down and have a cup of tea with a black man or refuse to discuss the weather with any one under 4ft. So until proven otherwise I will just accept that she doesn't want to have sex with a black man. It is her loss. Don't let it spoil your day.
Personally...I wish there were a lot more black women (and women from other cultural back grounds) on the site.
What bothers me is that OP seems to have a knack for making these types of threads. And no, for the 6th time, I have no problem with OP having a preference. What I do have an issue is the very lack of tact and desire to be controversial.
Your paragraph made it clear, OP can merely state that she is not interested and then block and then move on. This is the thing though, people like OP tend to not have any interest in doing so. You also tend to find that, judging by the location, may not be getting many solicitations from non-white men anyway. This is purely about attention seeking, nothing more. I simply believe people use "trolling" to attention seek because they're powerless and dont have the tools most people on the site use to attract play partners (looks/compatibility/charm).
That's cool and I get that! So, surely the way to stop OP from posting such controversial threads would be to refuse to give her the attention that you think she so clearly desires and not respond. If no one responded, like a naughty child, she would soon get bored.
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"Is OP banned? Quite clear she comes off as a loser with no interest in playing and merely exists to wind up on the forums. Also, FYI, no one fucking cares if you dont play with black men. 95% of the time the people who say this always look terrible anyway and, through stating it, seem to be more about making racist statements than about stating any legitimate preference. What about black people who don't fuck white people? Or fat people who don't fuck thin people? Do you perceive them in the same way? exactly. If a black man/woman won't meet a white person do we call that racist? Personally i think it's each to their own and no one owes anyone an explanation
Yes. We do. Why would the opposite not also be the case?
Another thing I have to ask white people is why do so many of you feel so desperate to state your "preferences"?? 95% of the time no one cares. Even worse still most of the people who state these preferences are always the ugliest among you.
I had someone start bleating on the middle of a conversation about how preferences against "african men and asian men"...whilst we're talking BDSM. Right out of left field.
I have always had a theory that it actually tends to be desperate and low self esteemed people who do this. Which Fab attracts like moth to flame sadly. Most black men will live if they find out you wont fuck them...of course I have had people claim when saying no thanks they're met with "abuse". I notice statements like that tend to act as introduction to a whole host of dubious racial beliefs. They state their preferences so people know whether to contact them or not. As for Women not meeting black men means they must be ugly is such a silly childish comment. Another thing you say is no one cares. If that's correct then why does it bother you so much. You sound pretty peeved at people's choices and insult them for it.
As said. Like moth to flame. A lot of people need to think that their choice in race of play partner makes people desperately angry. Thats what someone with low self esteem needs to believe. I am simply making an observation. It could be wrong, again its my observation. Since we're talking about freedom of speech, I have every right to state that I believe (due to my experience) that those who openly state these preferences in many cases tend to not have much going in their looks or appeal department. You're perfectly entitled to disagree with that too.
But as stated, a lot of people really need to believe that it bothers black men that they dont play. And I think this ties into the fact that many of them arent particularly good looking.
Is that in your eyes or every ones?
It's obviously bothered you if anything was to be read into the sniping generalisations you have retaliated with! Why let it bother you so much?
I would have to disagree with your earlier thoughts about banning them! Dictators ban freedom of speech and choice! They weren't preaching hatred just stating preferences, whether they're ones we agree with or not. A lot of which seem slightly tongue in cheek. How many people on here are are over 30 stone or under 4ft? Hands up! Out of those that are, how many do you think approach her?
I do agree that there isn't a lot of tact. May be the OP should consider not voicing her preferences so openly, may be keep them to her own profile or learn to ignore messages (fab rule, not responding isn't rude) or politely respond with a "no thank you, you're not my type" kind of message When approached by people not in her preference, then block to avoid the some times inevitable backlash.
She didn't say she wouldn't sit down and have a cup of tea with a black man or refuse to discuss the weather with any one under 4ft. So until proven otherwise I will just accept that she doesn't want to have sex with a black man. It is her loss. Don't let it spoil your day.
Personally...I wish there were a lot more black women (and women from other cultural back grounds) on the site.
What bothers me is that OP seems to have a knack for making these types of threads. And no, for the 6th time, I have no problem with OP having a preference. What I do have an issue is the very lack of tact and desire to be controversial.
Your paragraph made it clear, OP can merely state that she is not interested and then block and then move on. This is the thing though, people like OP tend to not have any interest in doing so. You also tend to find that, judging by the location, may not be getting many solicitations from non-white men anyway. This is purely about attention seeking, nothing more. I simply believe people use "trolling" to attention seek because they're powerless and dont have the tools most people on the site use to attract play partners (looks/compatibility/charm).
That's cool and I get that! So, surely the way to stop OP from posting such controversial threads would be to refuse to give her the attention that you think she so clearly desires and not respond. If no one responded, like a naughty child, she would soon get bored.
Her thread had about 70 replies before I started posting in it. You should tell that to the other users. "I posted it at the bottom of your statement but it's for every one to read. Come on lets all fuck off to the pub. Hopefully when we get back OP will have decided to explain herself better or will have fucked off herself. | |||
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"Am I the only one that took the OP as being sarcastic and was merely referring to what other have listed as preferences. Hence the "is that ok??" I thought it was said in jest too if im honest | |||
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"Am I the only one that took the OP as being sarcastic and was merely referring to what other have listed as preferences. Hence the "is that ok?? She has been back and posted her motives. Others interprete it how they wish of course "Phew thank you for having saved me reading through all that x | |||
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"Am I the only one that took the OP as being sarcastic and was merely referring to what other have listed as preferences. Hence the "is that ok?? She has been back and posted her motives. Others interprete it how they wish of course
Phew thank you for having saved me reading through all that x"I spotted and mentioned there might be an element of tongue in cheek but have to confess hadn't noticed she'd been back to explain herself. Going to have a look now. | |||
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Phew thank you for having saved me reading through all that x"But I wrote lots of very witty replies so you should read! Anyway better go check my fabs to see if it’s artived YET | |||
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"Am I the only one that took the OP as being sarcastic and was merely referring to what other have listed as preferences. Hence the "is that ok?? She has been back and posted her motives. Others interprete it how they wish of course
Phew thank you for having saved me reading through all that x
I spotted and mentioned there might be an element of tongue in cheek but have to confess hadn't noticed she'd been back to explain herself. Going to have a look now."Well there you go. A heated and interesting debate is what happened and she wasn't being racist mrsuperfreak so not so ugly after all! | |||
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