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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi people so il a single guy and looking for fun with the ladies and been here for like 2 weeks and haven't met anyone yet , isit because I haven't been verified by anyone ?

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Probably not, I’m afraid to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

No it's because you are in a majority which means the ladies can have the pick of the bunch. Lack of veri might mean they aren't looking twice.

My advice would be try to get to a social & mingle. Try a club if you so fancy it. From both of these you have the chance to show people you are a stand up bloke & you may get some action....

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 weeks?....ffs...what are you expecting.

also you state you cannot accom-this in laymans terms means you might have a partner

your pics arent great

all constructive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

adding to the fact there is a few great manchester clubs(I've visited)..you might want to check out such venues

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"Hi people so il a single guy and looking for fun with the ladies and been here for like 2 weeks and haven't met anyone yet , isit because I haven't been verified by anyone ?"

A whole two weeks?!

Blokes often join expecting to be at it like a demented rabbit, But it often takes months and months. Patience is the key. Time to revise expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key. There's like a 10-1 ratio of guys to women on here (if not more). So unfortunately for them they get inundated with messages and it makes things harder. All I can say is keep at it, your time will surely come. Happy FABbing!

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I'd suggest looking at your pfofile, OP, and then examine your motives for joining a swingers site. Just wanting an easy shag won't work here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 weeks?....ffs...what are you expecting.

also you state you cannot accom-this in laymans terms means you might have a partner

your pics arent great

all constructive"

Cannot accommodate doesn't read that you have a partner, I don't accommodate and I am definitely single.

OP 2 weeks is a very short time to have been on Fab, you could try putting a bit more in your profile and a few hot pictures. Keep cracking on and sooner or later you will be successful XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people so il a single guy and looking for fun with the ladies and been here for like 2 weeks and haven't met anyone yet , isit because I haven't been verified by anyone ?

A whole two weeks?!

Blokes often join expecting to be at it like a demented rabbit, But it often takes months and months. Patience is the key. Time to revise expectations "

I always await the guys that comes on and says "I get loads on pof or facebook"...for some reason...this sticks...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice people I will just keep going and look to improve the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi people so il a single guy and looking for fun with the ladies and been here for like 2 weeks and haven't met anyone yet , isit because I haven't been verified by anyone ?"

2 weeks That's no time at all ... be a little patient and it will happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 weeks?....ffs...what are you expecting.

also you state you cannot accom-this in laymans terms means you might have a partner

your pics arent great

all constructive

Cannot accommodate doesn't read that you have a partner, I don't accommodate and I am definitely single.

OP 2 weeks is a very short time to have been on Fab, you could try putting a bit more in your profile and a few hot pictures. Keep cracking on and sooner or later you will be successful XXX"

I understand that...I couldnty accom for a while...but to be honest...a high percentage of single males end up never having meets when they state they cannot accom. they might get lucky finding a gb or dogging meet..

but thats the facts

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't "

Zip it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would really also encourage you OP to really not focus on 'squirting'...it just sounds too much like you watch too much porn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't

Zip it "

Zippy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stay and spray it if your a big brave man"

OOer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't "

Nobody is interested pal

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Welcome to fab.

I've been hear over a year with no meets...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't

Nobody is interested pal"

That's the replies I normally get from my pm's.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

2 weeks, limited pics and sub par profile. Rectify those, go to a few clubs and you'll be fine

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By *ak777Man
over a year ago

shaw

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

You haven't been on here long enough to be complaining about not having a meet. Your profile needs reworking with more pics. Having a decent body will never guarantee a meet.

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By *ak777Man
over a year ago

shaw

only 2 weeks i.v been on for 200 years not had any lady message me ,but still hoping,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You haven't been on here long enough to be complaining about not having a meet. Your profile needs reworking with more pics. Having a decent body will never guarantee a meet. "

Is that you saying I have a decent body haha ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't

Zip it "

Strangely for once I did...

Maybe I should unzip it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't

Nobody is interested pal

That's the replies I normally get from my pm's. "

You get replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's time for me to walk away before I say anything that I shouldn't

Zip it

Zippy "

Hello Bungo

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

May I ask what you were expecting from this site?

Please bear in mind that men outnumber the women on here, perhaps 10-to-1 or even more. As a single guy, you need to stand out and you need to remember that most men wait many months before their first meet unless they are already making efforts to attend clubs and socials.

Fab, and swinging in general, takes a lot of effort. This is not a "fuck site", you're not guaranteed action within weeks of joining.

May I suggest you look at profiles of successful men, write to ladies who closely match yourself in terms of what they are looking for...and write polite messages specifically to them. No cut and paste, the ladies can often spot them a mile off. No one liners. And remember most women will read your profile before even opening your message.

You need to give the ladies reasons to reply to your message rather than the other twenty they received from hopeful men that day.

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