FabSwingers.com forum: How hard to get a meet?

By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I find getting a meet on fab takes a lot of hard work.

Tons of sent and unread messages. One word reply’s. Spontaneous combustion, catfish and fakes.

I’d estimate its about 50hrs of effort per meet.

Tinder on the other hand is bloody miles easier.

Anyone else find it easy or difficult to set up meets on fab?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Wots a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I don't do all that bullshit. If I like someone I arrange a meet ... simples.

Just pisses you off when you get ghosted - which thankfully had not happened too many times

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Wots a meet

A mythical experience so close but yet so far!

Think I’m going to call it quits and concentrate energy elsewhere.

I only want one or two regular nymphos without any drama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find it quite easy.

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there."

I’m banned from Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"We find it quite easy. "

Haha! I bet you do! With boobies that impressive I’m not at all surprised! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it difficult aswell altho it is hard for a woman to get through there mail as i can amagin they get alot of it does annoy u tho when u know ure a good guy but still get classed as the bad guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It must be Sunday

Wouldn't it be easier if all those who want to complain about fab veing harder than tinder or thry didn't get a fuck last night to just set up one group whine and all sign it...

A bit like a petition...

Then we could all avoid having to repeat ourselved... even to those banned from tinder...

In fact I'm intrigued...thst was the only interesting bit...

How does someone get banned from tinder ffs

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"It must be Sunday

Wouldn't it be easier if all those who want to complain about fab veing harder than tinder or thry didn't get a fuck last night to just set up one group whine and all sign it...

A bit like a petition...

Then we could all avoid having to repeat ourselved... even to those banned from tinder...

In fact I'm intrigued...thst was the only interesting bit...

How does someone get banned from tinder ffs

You need to stop complaining about people complaining pal. Must be exhausting.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"I find getting a meet on fab takes a lot of hard work.

Tons of sent and unread messages. One word reply’s. Spontaneous combustion, catfish and fakes.

I’d estimate its about 50hrs of effort per meet.

Tinder on the other hand is bloody miles easier.

Anyone else find it easy or difficult to set up meets on fab?"

That's why we let people know when we'll be at a club - we can always nab ourselves a meet there.

As for tinder, it's not really set up for couples profiles and group sex like fab is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?"

Come on ... you have to answer the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

You only get banned from those sites for bullying , harassment, threatening behaviour and overly swearing. Just like on here.

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

You only get banned from those sites for bullying , harassment, threatening behaviour and overly swearing. Just like on here. "

Not true.

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don’t get banned for nothing! But to answer your first question....it’s not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you "

trying that approach for meets

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

If it's such hard work on here then delete your account and go on a different site. There are plenty to choose from apart from tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you "

I asked 1st, Can you not pm Me?

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you

I asked 1st, Can you not pm Me?"

Haha! You did! I’ll pm you bud.

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"If it's such hard work on here then delete your account and go on a different site. There are plenty to choose from apart from tinder"

I’m all about bumble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't really have a problem setting up meets. Well apart from with a couple but I'm still figuring that one out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wots a meet

A mythical experience so close but yet so far!

Think I’m going to call it quits and concentrate energy elsewhere.

I only want one or two regular nymphos without any drama! "

You’d think it would be so easy wouldnt you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you

I asked 1st, Can you not pm Me?"

Will you then pm me so I know the answer too please?

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you

I asked 1st, Can you not pm Me?

Will you then pm me so I know the answer too please?

Tried to but can’t pm as your settings won’t let me message you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just spill on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *pforfun1234562016Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Incredibly hard anybody got any other sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to know too, someone PM me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to know too, someone PM me please

this could be a major let down lol

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By *pforfun1234562016Couple
over a year ago

leamington spa

Imeant to say pm me please else they will take it off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is not a swingers app!!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Very hard as a couple.Rare we find attraction on a 4 way basis .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I need to know too, someone PM me please

this could be a major let down lol "

Haha I have faith, it's going to be entertaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you're looking for. Tinder will probably be easier for a one-to-one hookup given that it's a site focused on singles. Fab is probably a bit more difficult for that type of meet. But if you are into threesomes, foursomes, moresomes etc, then you'd be hard pressed to find that on a site like Tinder. There are overlaps but really the two sites aren't comparable. There are no options (to the best of my knowledge) for couples to have a profile on Tinder, therefore it would be pretty useless for us.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only want one or two regular nymphos without any drama! "

I'll lend you a couple of mine if you like, just return them in the same condition I gave them to you please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only want one or two regular nymphos without any drama!

I'll lend you a couple of mine if you like, just return them in the same condition I gave them to you please."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You show your face straight away on Tinder.

You don’t on here.

I met quite a few men from Tinder before I joined here.

But I wouldn’t say Tinder was any better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a tinsy winsy bit hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you

I asked 1st, Can you not pm Me?

Will you then pm me so I know the answer too please?

We are all curious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's impossible for me to get a meet on Tinder. My phone doesn't support the app.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's impossible for me to get a meet on Tinder. My phone doesn't support the app. "

What even is tinder lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You show your face straight away on Tinder.

You don’t on here.

I met quite a few men from Tinder before I joined here.

But I wouldn’t say Tinder was any better."

I don't show my face on tinder.... although they do keep removing my pics so I have to add them again, pesky fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder is linked to your pics on Facebook isn’t it?

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By *andom2chatMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy Far, Far Away & Spain

"If tinder is so easy, why bother here? Just carry on there.

I’m banned from Tinder.

Why? What for?

Come on ... you have to answer the question

I’ll pm you

I asked 1st, Can you not pm Me?

Will you then pm me so I know the answer too please?

See now the thread is changing to a “How Do You Get Banned From Tinder”? I wanna know too!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I find it hard so I stick with the people I know to be reliable. I'm not currently meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's impossible for me to get a meet on Tinder. My phone doesn't support the app.

What even is tinder lol "

I'm not entirely sure how it operates but it's a phone app where you swipe yes or no to peoples' photos. I think.

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By *hotographer 30Man
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder is linked to your pics on Facebook isn’t it?"

Badoo is linked to Facebook but you have to upload pics. How can they have access to all your Facebook pics? Most of mine are of other people.

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By *eepSatisfactionMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

Depends where you live really

Where I work in Buckinghamshire is awful but when I go back home to Birmingham it comes in abundance.

Plus pictures is key for attraction

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By *arkcoMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

Likewise.

Enjoyed a meet at a club. That was easier to set up.

Irregular work pattern and frequent time away doesn't help. Tinder definitely filled that hole more than adequately.

Also prefer to 'play' a little distance from home....but may look for someone closer.

Offers? F MF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks more for under 35s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tinder is linked to your pics on Facebook isn’t it?"

No you can just sign up with an email address now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks more for under 35s. "

Every man I met on Tinder was in their 20’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find getting a meet on fab takes a lot of hard work.

Tons of sent and unread messages. One word reply’s. Spontaneous combustion, catfish and fakes.

I’d estimate its about 50hrs of effort per meet.

Tinder on the other hand is bloody miles easier.

Anyone else find it easy or difficult to set up meets on fab?"

I echo everything you have said here

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By *arkcoMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

"It looks more for under 35s. "

There's a real mix of ages.

Only ever matched and met with people between 40 abd 55.

But all definitely only interested in 1 on 1 liaisons.

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By *arkcoMan
over a year ago

Lichfield

"It looks more for under 35s.

Every man I met on Tinder was in their 20’s

That's got to be a good thing!

Never stop learning

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I need to know too, someone PM me please

Done

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By *hinypants77 OP Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I only want one or two regular nymphos without any drama!

I'll lend you a couple of mine if you like, just return them in the same condition I gave them to you please."

Thank you! Although I can make no promises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have fuck all luck on either so I must be a right munter!

FWIW the ratio of men to women on Tinder is obscene as well so the ladies generally call the shots as they do on here. I'm staggered I haven't matched with any of the 250,000 Eastern European models on Tinder by now tho...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It looks more for under 35s.

Every man I met on Tinder was in their 20’s

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pervert lol

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