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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no, I deserve to be wined and dined and treated to a nice evening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck no, I deserve to be wined and dined and treated to a nice evening. "

Wouldn't it be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. I'd never considered it, but, I'd be flattered, and hope I could return the compliment in the future. So not a turn off, more of a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance. I'd never allow a woman to pay. At the very most we would go Dutch.

I'm old school.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I did have a woman pay for the hotel, but that was because she had it booked anyway. I also had a couple pay for a hotel, but again it was because they needed to book it.

I'd be a bit uncomfortable if a woman was like "well im booking a hotel for us to have sex and Ill be coming to collect you". I'd assume I was gonna be murdered or something.

I do like a girl buying me something small though, like a cup of tea, or bottle of pepsi, or chocolate bar. It always puts me in a real good mood.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

If she insisted. No way.. probably be uncomfortable as always pay my way.. a 1st for everything though

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?

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Hell no, but I would be suspicious that she is infact a he !

If a woman did turn up I'd simply make an excuse to find the waiter discreetly and pay the bill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That just wouldn’t sit right with me at all, I prefer to pay my own way, don’t mind a small contribution if she insisted but no way paying for everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a chance. I'd never allow a woman to pay. At the very most we would go Dutch.

I'm old school. "

Must confess so am I, wouldn't feel right, not even sure about Dutch for hotel to be honest but would be okay with being picked up.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?

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No.

I wood meet then happily.

Or thow i wood insist to at lest pay my shear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heavens no I'm quite a modern chap dispite my Enid Blyton way of speaking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Heavens no I'm quite a modern chap dispite my Enid Blyton way of speaking "

A beautiful paradox.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I often pay for the hotel room, but if he wants fed the grubs on him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often pay for the hotel room, but if he wants fed the grubs on him "

Would need fed to have the energy for you!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


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I'd be a bit uncomfortable if a woman was like "well im booking a hotel for us to have sex and Ill be coming to collect you". I'd assume I was gonna be murdered or something.

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And that's coming from a bloke, imagine how scary it can be for us women

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By *ylonesqueMan
over a year ago

Near Aberystwyth

If it made her happy or turned her on, then yes, I’d let her.

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By *nne CallanWoman
over a year ago

Nothing to see here. Please move along.

I won't ever let a man pay for everything. I try to be fair in all things and that includes paying my own way

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By *lmostthereMan
over a year ago

Southampton

I am like the Queen. I don't carry anything as base as money. Just swans, and Corgis.

Being silly of course. Sure if she wanted to, and I had already, or would have the opportunity to repay the favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often pay for the hotel room, but if he wants fed the grubs on him "

can you add a free var..me n ma mates are coming

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?

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Would neither turn me off nor would I not agree to a meet. However, it would not feel right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?

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Hey, I am completely in the feminist camp, we are all equal and deserving of fair treatment. Doesn't mean I'm not a gentleman. If I invite a lady, I would expect to pay... But as conventions are that women are the arbiter of their attentions, most women know that they don't need to pay for it...

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By *aelawMan
over a year ago

Paisley

I'd feel a little bit uncomfortable as would prefer to pay for something myself but it depends how big a factor it is to the person.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"it a turn off or even not agree to meet if the woman insisted that she picked you up and paid for the evening, dinner, hotel etc?

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If this was the first meet then I'd feel uncomfortable I wasn't contributing.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Not a chance. I'd never allow a woman to pay. At the very most we would go Dutch.

I'm old school. "

Not many Dutch restaurants round this neck of the woods though I'm afraid. How about a bag of chips on Skeggy beach, I'll pay for the candy floss

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