FabSwingers.com forum: How hard is it? On a scale of 1 to ten

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How difficult is it to get a meet in Fab lately?

Take into account -

Finding someone you like, they like you, your both in reachable distance, your diaries match etc.

So thinking of your past meets or if you've never met anyone yet, how hard are you finding it on Fab.

And then if you use clubs or swing in other ways, give a scale of 1 to ten for that please.

Have a fab day.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Syncing diaries seems to be our biggest problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should all just quit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 this time round (second time here) down to my diary and loss of old veris.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fab 7/10. Diaries and distance is a massive obsiticle to meet someone I like.

Clubs - 9/10. I've only met someone I knew anyway in a club, attraction in such a short time after meeting is near impossible for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t join in with this, there’s no tick boxes of multiple choice questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am assuming 10

To me though, 200+ miles is a reachable distance, and I am willing to travel that for the right person

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I can’t join in with this, there’s no tick boxes of multiple choice questions

You seem to tick all the right boxes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Syncing diaries is our biggest obstacle, we have limited time to meet so getting someone to be available when we are can be difficult.

Then distance can be frustrating as well, because sometimes we're both available but because they're so far it would take most of our time to travel.

As for clubs we've never been to one so can't comment. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a man near enough is my main issue. XXX

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Meeting a lady on here - difficulty level 10. Still looking though.

We don't do clubs - not what we are into so no comment on that part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t join in with this, there’s no tick boxes of multiple choice questions

You seem to tick all the right boxes,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t message that often but not met anyone new since March, I get people have lives outside Fab and I’m not for everyone so getting together can be difficult, I’ll probably be more proactive in the new year though, and will definitely make sure I can attend the next social that’s organised in the area.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that makes it hard for me to meet is my lack of free time. Not the shortage of offers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A solid 10. After a year, fairly recently found ladies I like to chat to just because they are interesting people, given up on meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the time of year I find, single women seem to be a lot more willing during summer for some reason!? As already mentioned, diary syncing seems to be the hardest aspect, although I do wonder if that's sometimes just an excuse

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

As a couple v hard

So i would say a 9

You factor in a 4 way attraction,4 peoples shifts etc and getting past the initial no pics of mr on a profile often.

Miss

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I find it very hard to find the kind of people I want to meet. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How difficult is it to get a meet in Fab lately?

Take into account -

Finding someone you like, they like you, your both in reachable distance, your diaries match etc.

So thinking of your past meets or if you've never met anyone yet, how hard are you finding it on Fab.

And then if you use clubs or swing in other ways, give a scale of 1 to ten for that please.

Have a fab day.

What sort of nonsense is this idea of finding a compatible partner

I fay fuck who you can suck who you can wank who you can and if you can be arsed maybe remember to ask their name once your spunked your load all over them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How difficult is it to get a meet in Fab lately?

Take into account -

Finding someone you like, they like you, your both in reachable distance, your diaries match etc.

So thinking of your past meets or if you've never met anyone yet, how hard are you finding it on Fab.

And then if you use clubs or swing in other ways, give a scale of 1 to ten for that please.

Have a fab day.

What sort of nonsense is this idea of finding a compatible partner

I fay fuck who you can suck who you can wank who you can and if you can be arsed maybe remember to ask their name once your spunked your load all over them

You've just made it sound more difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How difficult is it to get a meet in Fab lately?

Take into account -

Finding someone you like, they like you, your both in reachable distance, your diaries match etc.

So thinking of your past meets or if you've never met anyone yet, how hard are you finding it on Fab.

And then if you use clubs or swing in other ways, give a scale of 1 to ten for that please.

Have a fab day.

What sort of nonsense is this idea of finding a compatible partner

I fay fuck who you can suck who you can wank who you can and if you can be arsed maybe remember to ask their name once your spunked your load all over them

nearly needed a new keyboard then Soxy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 7/8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finding a man near enough is my main issue. XXX"

Mine too

I'm on a mission today though - I've got a free day - so I'm going to do some serious perving .... I mean research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Finding a man near enough is my main issue. XXX

Mine too

I'm on a mission today though - I've got a free day - so I'm going to do some serious perving .... I mean research

Hope it's productive x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Finding a man near enough is my main issue. XXX

Mine too

I'm on a mission today though - I've got a free day - so I'm going to do some serious perving .... I mean research

Men !!!! Stand tall and polish your shoes!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a vagina so finding meets isn't hard. Finding meets who I fancy, who I genuinely feel fancies me and there is a bit of a connection about 5/10

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

On here it seems a 10 lately for us.

In a club about a 7 x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding people to have sex with is easy.

But,finding people I'm attracted to who also seem decent and honest and live near me 4/10.

Meeting at a club has a difficulty rating of 10 for me as they are miles from me and last time I went I didn't find anybody physically attractive enough to want to have them touch me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to turn three people down this month so I'd have say 1.

Although the woman I did meet was a 9 and a half

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To answer the original question by the OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11.... to even get a conversation started! Let's be honest here, most of the guys appearing to get meets are either hung like a donkey or spend 3 hours in the gym each day. I tick neither box!

As for a lot of people claiming to not have time to meet.... hmm...I see the same names on here for hours a day so not sure that always washes as an excuse!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As for a lot of people claiming to not have time to meet.... hmm...I see the same names on here for hours a day so not sure that always washes as an excuse!

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

As for a lot of people claiming to not have time to meet.... hmm...I see the same names on here for hours a day so not sure that always washes as an excuse!

Some forget to log out

x storm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Syncing diaries seems to be our biggest problem. "

Thats my issue too

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Finding the right man in the right place is challenging but then I like a challenge

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

I am a little lost...is 1 difficult to get a meet or is it 10? lol

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Finding people to have sex with is easy.

But,finding people I'm attracted to who also seem decent and honest and live near me 4/10.

Meeting at a club has a difficulty rating of 10 for me as they are miles from me and last time I went I didn't find anybody physically attractive enough to want to have them touch me. "

Absolutely this Dana

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Finding the right man in the right place is challenging but then I like a challenge

However....its as near or far as you want it to be...trying to be positive here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How difficult is it to get a meet in Fab lately?

Take into account -

Finding someone you like, they like you, your both in reachable distance, your diaries match etc.

So thinking of your past meets or if you've never met anyone yet, how hard are you finding it on Fab.

And then if you use clubs or swing in other ways, give a scale of 1 to ten for that please.

Have a fab day.

Around 8 out of 10

I'd travel a fair distance if I really liked the guy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Is 1 the least hard and 10 the most difficult? Eg, the question asked how hard it is to get a meet.

3/10 meet - availability issues

1/10 clubs - most reliable for non-prearranged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for a lot of people claiming to not have time to meet.... hmm...I see the same names on here for hours a day so not sure that always washes as an excuse!

In our case I might be on here a lot but mr works shifts so isn't available the same time as me. Lots of couples have this problem x

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By *arnsleycouple7683Couple
over a year ago

Barnsley

It's really bloody difficult

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided I'm a virgin again

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