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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Long post here. I have an ex of 5 years and I have just found out she is seeing one of my friends of 17years.

It's pissed me off because im thinking of all people why him. How would u feel about it?

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Quite a short post to be fair.

Understandable you would be pissed off initially. But given time you will remember she is an ex for a reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite a short post to be fair.

Understandable you would be pissed off initially. But given time you will remember she is an ex for a reason."

Thoughtit was going to be longer then it was. But of all the ppl in the world she goes and pick my friend. Now he's unfriended me from Facebook lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite a short post to be fair.

Understandable you would be pissed off initially. But given time you will remember she is an ex for a reason.

Thoughtit was going to be longer then it was. But of all the ppl in the world she goes and pick my friend. Now he's unfriended me from Facebook lol"

Thought it*

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Move on from both mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Move on from both mate."

I'll be ok as long as they both dont rub it in my face

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By *hispers-40Woman
over a year ago

up the garden path


"Move on from both mate."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Move on from both mate.

I'll be ok as long as they both dont rub it in my face"

Is he your friend if he can do something like that?! Like you said why him?! Maybe she's just being bitter and decided to crack on with him to hurt you and he was weak enough to fall for it and they're now seeing each other! Ours better off without them pal

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I would go and shag his mum

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

Move on block them both out of your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would go and shag his mum "

Good thinking batman

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Move on from both mate.

I'll be ok as long as they both dont rub it in my face

Is he your friend if he can do something like that?! Like you said why him?! Maybe she's just being bitter and decided to crack on with him to hurt you and he was weak enough to fall for it and they're now seeing each other! Ours better off without them pal "

I needed somewhere to rant and vent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be upset if you had kids together or were tied in some way like owning a house.

Otherwise I would just send him a message and say good luck just wish you could have talked to me about it rather than just defending me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being funny but friends of 17 years don't delete you from Facebook for no reason. I would question your friendship in the first place. As for the ex let her crack on. She's not your problem anymore. Onwards n upwards n all that bollocks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long post here. I have an ex of 5 years and I have just found out she is seeing one of my friends of 17years.

It's pissed me off because im thinking of all people why him. How would u feel about it?"

I get why some people would be upset in this situation. Me personally, after five years I'd be over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would go and shag his mum "

I like the way you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you speak to him on FB, seems odd behaviour to delete you unless something was said.

How close are you to said ‘friend’?

But really as others have said, move on and if you’re upset about your mates involvement, is he a mate?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Just move on. X

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I would go and shag his mum

I like the way you think."

OutKast - The Way You Move ft. Sleepy Brown

www.youtube.com/watch?v=xI5NQ-0Ubfs

or

I like The Way You Move

www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIxDb0zQeIE

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Oooh excellent choice

I like The Way You Move

www.youtube.com/watch?v=AIxDb0zQeIE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long post here. I have an ex of 5 years and I have just found out she is seeing one of my friends of 17years.

It's pissed me off because im thinking of all people why him. How would u feel about it?"

Nothing really, I don't know any of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can only rub it in your face if you let them. Cut them out of your life and find new friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ex girlfriend. Ex friend. Where’s the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had something very similar happen to me, long long story, everybody sees/feels differently but didn't take long to work out I was well rid of both.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah that's not great. Look on the bright side it probably won't last nothing ever does!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex is an ex. I'd be more upset about the friend, but meh, leave them to it and just do you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he deleted you off Facebook to save your feelings because he didn't want you seeing pics of ten and relationship status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he deleted you off Facebook to save your feelings because he didn't want you seeing pics of then and relationship status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he deleted you off Facebook to save your feelings because he didn't want you seeing pics of them and their relationship status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum used to say letting poorer less fortunate children have your old toys was the best thing you could do. If he’s unfriended you on Facebook, so what, it’s like the trash to itself to the bin. Move on.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Maybe he deleted you off Facebook to save your feelings because he didn't want you seeing pics of them and their relationship status."

Got there in the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens pal, put it behind you and find a new best friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he deleted you off Facebook to save your feelings because he didn't want you seeing pics of them and their relationship status.

Got there in the end "

Haha I do have a habit of repeat f myself, forget what I said. So will say it again lol

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

In all honesty m8 its been 5 yrs ..let it go i really do not see what the problem is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long post here. I have an ex of 5 years and I have just found out she is seeing one of my friends of 17years.

It's pissed me off because im thinking of all people why him. How would u feel about it?"
I live this every day and the best thing to do is ignore it. He's no friend and she's no good . Karma will see to them . Be happy and life goes on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people put sex before friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long post here. I have an ex of 5 years and I have just found out she is seeing one of my friends of 17years.

It's pissed me off because im thinking of all people why him. How would u feel about it?"

Frankly

shit happens. if he was a real friend and he had feelings for your ex he would at least contact you to talk about your views ( we all cant help who u fall for)

but just pick yourself up and dust yourself off and start again

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would go and shag his mum "

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Maybe they have fallen head over heals for each other ..so are they suppose to bin their feelings because you went out with her 5 years ago are they being selfish or are you btw not taking sides here but there are always 2 sides to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont rise to it. No point in contacting either of them, just need to get over it, takes time but you will get over it. Worst thing you can do is react, will just make you look bad. An he's not a very good friend anyway so forget him. This is just a chapter of your life finished, time to start a new chapter. Blank page, make it a good one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be happy for them both, someone you cared about and a close friend have found love — can’t this be a good thing? You’ve choices in how to respond to everything in life, it could be a wonderful positive if you choose it to be and who knows they may introduce you to someone wonderful for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be happy for them both, someone you cared about and a close friend have found love — can’t this be a good thing? You’ve choices in how to respond to everything in life, it could be a wonderful positive if you choose it to be and who knows they may introduce you to someone wonderful for you.

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That sounds like such a better idea than fucking his mum!

I'd listen to this lady if I were you

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By *anxfrankMan
over a year ago

isle of man

Let them get on with it, if she shit on you then she will shit on him. And if he is a true friend he will be back

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By *heonixWoman
over a year ago

Greater Manchester

But why are you on here if you had a partner?????? Can't have one rule for one.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Is she had left you for him then his would be a totally different sort of thread but honestly after 5 years of her being your ex should you really care either way?

Your friends has either unfriended you to spare your feelings or he has put her before you, either way just get on with your own life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"But why are you on here if you had a partner?????? Can't have one rule for one. "

I wasnt on here bk then

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By *wisted2000Woman
over a year ago

under my rock cleethorpes

If it makes you feel better, I gave my now ex a girlfriend, we became a three way relationship and he ran off with her after she made me out to be crackers, my daughter and I were thrown to the streets (luckily a friend stepped in and gave up a place to stay) and he refused to see my daughter (who he’s raised since she was two and she sees him as her dad) until I had to beg him because she couldn’t eat or sleep, yet I’m apparently the bad guy in it all, go figure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is she had left you for him then his would be a totally different sort of thread but honestly after 5 years of her being your ex should you really care either way?

Your friends has either unfriended you to spare your feelings or he has put her before you, either way just get on with your own life "

Since finding out i've calmed down a lot since I made this

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