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"I don't like hearing my own voice when I hear it on a recording, it makes me cringe!" I don’t like hearing my voice either, I sound nasally | |||
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"I don't like hearing my own voice when I hear it on a recording, it makes me cringe! I don’t like hearing my voice either, I sound nasally " I realised that I don't pronounce my I's properly. I say uh. Uh fink you're well sexy. | |||
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"I've been told I sound like Tracey from Birds of a Feather. I should sound like Ma Larkin. " I always imagined you to have quite a refined voice | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound?" Preconceptions are such a great way of judging anyone...but well they are the norm on fab.. How can you ever second guess how someone's voice matches their pictures... Still if an over dependence on the block button is triggered by such a rational approach to the world it's no wonder that there are so many whiny thread on here mainly from guys who wonder why they get blocked deleted refused meets etc. Let's not let rational get in the way of irrational preconceptions based on imaginary delusions with no real world connection. Or maybe I just accept people as I find them...rather than as I imagine them ... Or maybe I'm just doing it wrong | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Preconceptions are such a great way of judging anyone...but well they are the norm on fab.. How can you ever second guess how someone's voice matches their pictures... Still if an over dependence on the block button is triggered by such a rational approach to the world it's no wonder that there are so many whiny thread on here mainly from guys who wonder why they get blocked deleted refused meets etc. Let's not let rational get in the way of irrational preconceptions based on imaginary delusions with no real world connection. Or maybe I just accept people as I find them...rather than as I imagine them ... Or maybe I'm just doing it wrong " This wasn’t someone on Fab. A man that good looking wouldn’t be interested in me in the first place. Voices change the older we get. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/qSzSmkvgSwQ I found my voice clip from the voice threads. Someone from the Brum Social may be able to say if it sounds how I look To me it sounds confused, I’m a Brummy, but have lived in Berkshire for 20+ years so I’ve no idea what going on " I think you sound very similar to how I sound. Must be the Berkshire connection | |||
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"I've been told I sound like Tracey from Birds of a Feather. I should sound like Ma Larkin. I always imagined you to have quite a refined voice " Nah, I'm a Londoner | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Preconceptions are such a great way of judging anyone...but well they are the norm on fab.. How can you ever second guess how someone's voice matches their pictures... Still if an over dependence on the block button is triggered by such a rational approach to the world it's no wonder that there are so many whiny thread on here mainly from guys who wonder why they get blocked deleted refused meets etc. Let's not let rational get in the way of irrational preconceptions based on imaginary delusions with no real world connection. Or maybe I just accept people as I find them...rather than as I imagine them ... Or maybe I'm just doing it wrong This wasn’t someone on Fab. A man that good looking wouldn’t be interested in me in the first place. Voices change the older we get." I think you may have missed the fundemantal point. It matters not where the guy was from ...or how good looking you may perceive them to be... Making judgments on linking voices and pictures does smack of an interesting approach to determining someone a value of otherwise... Perhaps the voice of a former Man Utd player and his pictures may be a relevant case study... | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Preconceptions are such a great way of judging anyone...but well they are the norm on fab.. How can you ever second guess how someone's voice matches their pictures... Still if an over dependence on the block button is triggered by such a rational approach to the world it's no wonder that there are so many whiny thread on here mainly from guys who wonder why they get blocked deleted refused meets etc. Let's not let rational get in the way of irrational preconceptions based on imaginary delusions with no real world connection. Or maybe I just accept people as I find them...rather than as I imagine them ... Or maybe I'm just doing it wrong This wasn’t someone on Fab. A man that good looking wouldn’t be interested in me in the first place. Voices change the older we get. I think you may have missed the fundemantal point. It matters not where the guy was from ...or how good looking you may perceive them to be... Making judgments on linking voices and pictures does smack of an interesting approach to determining someone a value of otherwise... Perhaps the voice of a former Man Utd player and his pictures may be a relevant case study..." True, but I go with my gut instinct too. The fact that when I asked him to show me how he looked right now on video chat and he didn’t want to makes me think I was right to disbelieve that he was the man in the pics. | |||
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"I don't like hearing my own voice when I hear it on a recording, it makes me cringe! I don’t like hearing my voice either, I sound nasally " I'm sure it's just me. It's not something any one has ever pulled me up on or teased me about. I think lots of people don't like the sound of their own voice when they hear it so I don't think we're alone. | |||
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"I'm originally from London so people are surprised by my accent, and I'm constantly told I sound posh " I always picture you sounding posh in my head when I read any of your posts on the forums | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound?" Well, I have been told I sound like Elvis, and it just so happens that I don't think I sound anything like him. So you can just never tell... loook at David Beckham... | |||
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"I'm originally from London so people are surprised by my accent, and I'm constantly told I sound posh I always picture you sounding posh in my head when I read any of your posts on the forums " I'm flattered | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Preconceptions are such a great way of judging anyone...but well they are the norm on fab.. How can you ever second guess how someone's voice matches their pictures... Still if an over dependence on the block button is triggered by such a rational approach to the world it's no wonder that there are so many whiny thread on here mainly from guys who wonder why they get blocked deleted refused meets etc. Let's not let rational get in the way of irrational preconceptions based on imaginary delusions with no real world connection. Or maybe I just accept people as I find them...rather than as I imagine them ... Or maybe I'm just doing it wrong This wasn’t someone on Fab. A man that good looking wouldn’t be interested in me in the first place. Voices change the older we get. I think you may have missed the fundemantal point. It matters not where the guy was from ...or how good looking you may perceive them to be... Making judgments on linking voices and pictures does smack of an interesting approach to determining someone a value of otherwise... Perhaps the voice of a former Man Utd player and his pictures may be a relevant case study... True, but I go with my gut instinct too. The fact that when I asked him to show me how he looked right now on video chat and he didn’t want to makes me think I was right to disbelieve that he was the man in the pics. " Trust me Iv come across this if he refused to show face on video chat it was not him garenteed !!! when that happened to me long story short it was a married guy using his best friends pics admittedly his best mate was fit as.... | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound?" Ive got a deep as hell voice | |||
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"I’m easily put off someone by how they sound. Sometimes even more than by how they look " I am totally the same. When I was on a dating site, the phone call and hearing the voice determined if it was going to progress. For me, sounds are a major part of my stimulation, so if I don't enjoy listening to the person speaking for a quick phone call, I can't take it beyond that. I know you mentioned that it is about matching pics and voice but I am more interested in them saying hello to gauge if I can continue. For me, Most voices fall in to the ok range, some into the no way range and a few into oh my sweet lord I want to crawl down the phone to them range Madame Boo | |||
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"I'm originally from London so people are surprised by my accent, and I'm constantly told I sound posh " I'm always being told " you are really posh, aren't you?" I was brought up in a council house, in abject poverty. About as far away from posh, as its possible to be Most people get me completely wrong Usually because of their preconceived ideas. | |||
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"I don't like hearing my own voice when I hear it on a recording, it makes me cringe!" I don't like my voice I think I sound like a chip munk lol but as when people hear me they say I sound American but I'm London bread lol | |||
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"I’m easily put off someone by how they sound. Sometimes even more than by how they look I am totally the same. When I was on a dating site, the phone call and hearing the voice determined if it was going to progress. For me, sounds are a major part of my stimulation, so if I don't enjoy listening to the person speaking for a quick phone call, I can't take it beyond that. I know you mentioned that it is about matching pics and voice but I am more interested in them saying hello to gauge if I can continue. For me, Most voices fall in to the ok range, some into the no way range and a few into oh my sweet lord I want to crawl down the phone to them range Madame Boo" Me too if he's voice is a turn on hell Yer it helps big time X | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Preconceptions are such a great way of judging anyone...but well they are the norm on fab.. How can you ever second guess how someone's voice matches their pictures... Still if an over dependence on the block button is triggered by such a rational approach to the world it's no wonder that there are so many whiny thread on here mainly from guys who wonder why they get blocked deleted refused meets etc. Let's not let rational get in the way of irrational preconceptions based on imaginary delusions with no real world connection. Or maybe I just accept people as I find them...rather than as I imagine them ... Or maybe I'm just doing it wrong This wasn’t someone on Fab. A man that good looking wouldn’t be interested in me in the first place. Voices change the older we get. I think you may have missed the fundemantal point. It matters not where the guy was from ...or how good looking you may perceive them to be... Making judgments on linking voices and pictures does smack of an interesting approach to determining someone a value of otherwise... Perhaps the voice of a former Man Utd player and his pictures may be a relevant case study... True, but I go with my gut instinct too. The fact that when I asked him to show me how he looked right now on video chat and he didn’t want to makes me think I was right to disbelieve that he was the man in the pics. " So it wasn't just the voice then? Thread squeaked to a close perhaps | |||
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"Mistress Dominatrix sounds like Joe Pasquale " With a Geordie accent lol | |||
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"Mistress Dominatrix sounds like Joe Pasquale With a Geordie accent lol" Actually no..... MD is a smoggie they sound more like they are under a dentists anaesthetic | |||
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"I don’t think mine does and I love that " Do I need to pack the gag?? | |||
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"I don’t think mine does and I love that Do I need to pack the gag?? " I’d be disappointed if you didn’t | |||
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"I don't like hearing my own voice when I hear it on a recording, it makes me cringe!" I relate to this. Each time I see, hear a recording I dislike my voice/accent hey, I blame the parents. | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Preconceptions are such a great way of judging anyone...but well they are the norm on fab.. How can you ever second guess how someone's voice matches their pictures... Still if an over dependence on the block button is triggered by such a rational approach to the world it's no wonder that there are so many whiny thread on here mainly from guys who wonder why they get blocked deleted refused meets etc. Let's not let rational get in the way of irrational preconceptions based on imaginary delusions with no real world connection. Or maybe I just accept people as I find them...rather than as I imagine them ... Or maybe I'm just doing it wrong This wasn’t someone on Fab. A man that good looking wouldn’t be interested in me in the first place. Voices change the older we get. I think you may have missed the fundemantal point. It matters not where the guy was from ...or how good looking you may perceive them to be... Making judgments on linking voices and pictures does smack of an interesting approach to determining someone a value of otherwise... Perhaps the voice of a former Man Utd player and his pictures may be a relevant case study... True, but I go with my gut instinct too. The fact that when I asked him to show me how he looked right now on video chat and he didn’t want to makes me think I was right to disbelieve that he was the man in the pics. So it wasn't just the voice then? Thread squeaked to a close perhaps " The voice was definitely of someone older than he said he was. He could have proved I was wrong but chose not to. I wonder why | |||
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"I don't like hearing my own voice when I hear it on a recording, it makes me cringe! I don’t like hearing my voice either, I sound nasally I realised that I don't pronounce my I's properly. I say uh. Uh fink you're well sexy. " I grew up in chadwell heath, my accent is all mashed up now after being in the black country 12 years | |||
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"I have a brummie accent and thus have a ridiculous voice/accent. So yes my voice and face match. " Your face isn't ridiculous. And it's far easier to understand it. | |||
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"I find it interesting it's like a human jigsaw, first you get the body, then a face, then a voice and if you're lucky the whole person " Haha Never discussed this as a topic before. Does my voice match my look!? I think it does, but I look younger than my age and I change my look often with hair style and facial hair... will need to get others opinion on this. Interesting topic OP. | |||
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"I have a brummie accent and thus have a ridiculous voice/accent. So yes my voice and face match. Your face isn't ridiculous. And it's far easier to understand it. " You can understand at least half of what I say. | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound?" Yes people are often surprised by how I sound. When I chat for the first time on the phone I think they must be expecting a Sally Webster soundalike - as they tell me I sound far ‘less northern ‘ than they expected and my phone voice is slightly posher than my ‘normal’ voice (years of working in marketing). I also don’t like my voice when I hear it - though others seem to like it! Most guys spend far longer looking at my arse than my face anyway - maybe they’re waiting to see if that can talk too? | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Yes people are often surprised by how I sound. When I chat for the first time on the phone I think they must be expecting a Sally Webster soundalike - as they tell me I sound far ‘less northern ‘ than they expected and my phone voice is slightly posher than my ‘normal’ voice (years of working in marketing). I also don’t like my voice when I hear it - though others seem to like it! Most guys spend far longer looking at my arse than my face anyway - maybe they’re waiting to see if that can talk too? " Or maybe they just think you're talking out of your arse? To a Southerner's ears, you've got a strong northern accent and speech pattern - but you're right, not a bit like Sally Webster. | |||
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"https://youtu.be/qSzSmkvgSwQ I found my voice clip from the voice threads. Someone from the Brum Social may be able to say if it sounds how I look To me it sounds confused, I’m a Brummy, but have lived in Berkshire for 20+ years so I’ve no idea what going on " Just had a listen. You are welcome to come and read me a bed time story anytime! Yes thats a euphanism for what I really think but wanted to keep it polite lol | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Yes people are often surprised by how I sound. When I chat for the first time on the phone I think they must be expecting a Sally Webster soundalike - as they tell me I sound far ‘less northern ‘ than they expected and my phone voice is slightly posher than my ‘normal’ voice (years of working in marketing). I also don’t like my voice when I hear it - though others seem to like it! Most guys spend far longer looking at my arse than my face anyway - maybe they’re waiting to see if that can talk too? Or maybe they just think you're talking out of your arse? To a Southerner's ears, you've got a strong northern accent and speech pattern - but you're right, not a bit like Sally Webster." Like I said - worked in marketing - I was paid to talk out of my arse! Didn’t realise you and I had met/chatted though? | |||
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"Does your voice fit how you look? I was chatting on POF to a very good looking guy. I was dubious that he was the man in the pics and then when I spoke to him on the phone I thought his voice didn’t fit how he looked in his pics. I think he sounded older so I’ve now blocked him. Are people surprised by how you sound? Yes people are often surprised by how I sound. When I chat for the first time on the phone I think they must be expecting a Sally Webster soundalike - as they tell me I sound far ‘less northern ‘ than they expected and my phone voice is slightly posher than my ‘normal’ voice (years of working in marketing). I also don’t like my voice when I hear it - though others seem to like it! Most guys spend far longer looking at my arse than my face anyway - maybe they’re waiting to see if that can talk too? Or maybe they just think you're talking out of your arse? To a Southerner's ears, you've got a strong northern accent and speech pattern - but you're right, not a bit like Sally Webster. Like I said - worked in marketing - I was paid to talk out of my arse! Didn’t realise you and I had met/chatted though? " You're very out there and recognisable. I'm not | |||
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"I was chatting a while ago to a guy who did voiceovers for a job. He sent me a link to some of the jobs he’d done. He had a deep, very nice voice, just right for doing adverts on tv " Tena lady pants | |||
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