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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like to treat women with dining,designer gifts,expensive hotels all that as well as obviously amazing passion some find that hard to accept i get everybody is different but i wouldnt do it any other way.Women can you enlighten me on whats going on.I collect debts for a living so i'm not new to different kind of approach but this i dont get it

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Sounds like you need a Sugar Baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t expect men to spend money on me! I’m not that type of gal!

But I do expect respect and to be treated right, I have have been treated badly in past, it sticks and you start to thick your not worth it, when really you are!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like you need a Sugar Baby "
something like that lol

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you’d be doing it so you had something to hold over the other person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy! "
there is no woman that's my point lol she maybe felt i was too much

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Meh - women are different and like different things. It's not something I'd personally feel comfortable with unless I really knew and liked the person doing it. Besides, I get the nice hotels and food for free - why would I want someone paying for it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if you’d be doing it so you had something to hold over the other person "
never be so mean

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

everyone likes to be treated good and with respect, designer gifts and expensive shit does not necessarily do this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy! there is no woman that's my point lol she maybe felt i was too much "

Who was the woman from the risky sex thread then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things that seem to good to be true usually are ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's important, as I do, to treat a women like a lady but not sure expensive gifts is right, dinner and maybe for the hotel though, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if you’d be doing it so you had something to hold over the other person never be so mean "

Are you doing it because you hope it may result in sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh - women are different and like different things. It's not something I'd personally feel comfortable with unless I really knew and liked the person doing it."

Basically this. And if a man on fab was offering to treat me so much I'd wonder what on earth he was after.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Meh - women are different and like different things. It's not something I'd personally feel comfortable with unless I really knew and liked the person doing it.

Basically this. And if a man on fab was offering to treat me so much I'd wonder what on earth he was after."

Nail and head!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if you’d be doing it so you had something to hold over the other person never be so mean

Are you doing it because you hope it may result in sex?"
definately no way i get that anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy! "

how hot is she... ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy!

how hot is she... ridiculous "

Off topic but you've got a nice looking willy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meh - women are different and like different things. It's not something I'd personally feel comfortable with unless I really knew and liked the person doing it.

Basically this. And if a man on fab was offering to treat me so much I'd wonder what on earth he was after."

Phone sex...apparently

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy!

how hot is she... ridiculous

Off topic but you've got a nice looking willy. "
i bet you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t expect men to spend money on me! I’m not that type of gal!

But I do expect respect and to be treated right, I have have been treated badly in past, it sticks and you start to thick your not worth it, when really you are!

"

Agree

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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago

The North / Party Hard Everywhere

Treating me so good is about respect, taking time to satisfy me and making sure I'm safe and comfortable during a meet. If you think it involves designer gifts you're probably on the wrong site

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm personally very sceptical by nature, if I got to know someone who treated others like this by nature and doesn't expect anything in return, ie holding it over them for some future gain, then I would love this, as it would be a complete turn of the books, I wouldn't expect gift etc, but being treated, respectfully and sexually desired, now that would be a desired outcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy!

how hot is she... ridiculous

Off topic but you've got a nice looking willy.

"

Every time I scroll up and see nice willy I know exactly who’s said it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Treating me so good is about respect, taking time to satisfy me and making sure I'm safe and comfortable during a meet. If you think it involves designer gifts you're probably on the wrong site "
satisfiied always and would you feel safe with me really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would feel indebted to you so contributing equally with ‘a stranger’ would be the order of the day. Being treated by Mr N is nice though but that is very different. If this is what you like to do op and the lady in question is also happy with this then I see no harm done, enjoy!

how hot is she... ridiculous

Off topic but you've got a nice looking willy.

i bet you have "

You think I've got a willy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For casual meeting it seems a bit excessive. That's more hoping to bag a wife type of dating. Unless the girl in question enjoys it then so be it.

I'm happy enough to accept a door being opened for me, I don't want gifts .

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think designer and expensive gifts is inappropriate on a site like this. It would feel like prostitution.

In a normal relationship / dating situation, I'd prefer a well thought out gift. I have no interest in brands as a rule.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to treat women with dining,designer gifts,expensive hotels all that as well as obviously amazing passion some find that hard to accept i get everybody is different but i wouldnt do it any other way.Women can you enlighten me on whats going on.I collect debts for a living so i'm not new to different kind of approach but this i dont get it "

I don't understand what your occupation has to do with how you treat women on Fab?? Are we supposed to be impressed?

Personally I do not want a man to wine and dine me and buy me gifts, I'm quite capable of paying for things myself. It sounds as if you need to show off and have control over the women you meet

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"I like to treat women with dining,designer gifts,expensive hotels all that as well as obviously amazing passion some find that hard to accept i get everybody is different but i wouldnt do it any other way.Women can you enlighten me on whats going on.I collect debts for a living so i'm not new to different kind of approach but this i dont get it "

Weird x

I like an equal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer my meets to be more...meet me, fuck me, fuck off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if you’d be doing it so you had something to hold over the other person never be so mean

Are you doing it because you hope it may result in sex?definately no way i get that anyway "

Maybe you should treat the next unfortunate women you collect debt from to a nice surprise afterwards to soften the blow.

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland

Why???

Do you feel you have nothing better to offer than to entice women with money?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why???

Do you feel you have nothing better to offer than to entice women with money?"
lol one of the many things i have to offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends if you’d be doing it so you had something to hold over the other person never be so mean

Are you doing it because you hope it may result in sex?definately no way i get that anyway

Maybe you should treat the next unfortunate women you collect debt from to a nice surprise afterwards to soften the blow."
love it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to treat women with dining,designer gifts,expensive hotels all that as well as obviously amazing passion some find that hard to accept i get everybody is different but i wouldnt do it any other way.Women can you enlighten me on whats going on.I collect debts for a living so i'm not new to different kind of approach but this i dont get it

I don't understand what your occupation has to do with how you treat women on Fab?? Are we supposed to be impressed?

Personally I do not want a man to wine and dine me and buy me gifts, I'm quite capable of paying for things myself. It sounds as if you need to show off and have control over the women you meet "
you could not be more wrong lol sorry to disappoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man to impress me with gifts of smiles and orgasms.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I like to treat women with dining,designer gifts,expensive hotels all that as well as obviously amazing passion some find that hard to accept i get everybody is different but i wouldnt do it any other way.Women can you enlighten me on whats going on.I collect debts for a living so i'm not new to different kind of approach but this i dont get it "

That sort of waste of money leaves me cold, I can think of far better ways to spend money with greater effects.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't want or need to be wined and dined or bought expensive gifts.

I am independent and will always pay my own way in life. My time and affection cannot be bought. If anyone was to get me any kind of gift I would rather it was something inexpensive but thoughtful. I don't like designer brands and material possessions mean little to me unless there is some meaning or sentiment attached to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last thing I want from guys on here is gifts, wining and dining. And that's not just me saying that as the female half of a couple, that's because cynically I would expect strings attached, or certain expectations as a result. That is also more like a relationship than NSA sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it unfomfortable. It almost sounds like you are buying them. I have a regular friend who I also consider a actual friend rather than just fab friend and I still gsr a bit uncomfortable when he won't let me go half's on dinner etc

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Nar that's not for me and would make me feel uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to go against the tide here and say I love to be wined and dined by someone who loves to do it. For me it's an holistic, shared experience.

If I want a guaranteed orgasm, I'll use my toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so dating them, and treating them by paying for everything? Sound like dating when I was younger.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not something I would enjoy although I know some women would.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I am going to go against the tide here and say I love to be wined and dined by someone who loves to do it. For me it's an holistic, shared experience.

If I want a guaranteed orgasm, I'll use my toys."

I agree, but only with certain people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to treat women with dining,designer gifts,expensive hotels all that as well as obviously amazing passion some find that hard to accept i get everybody is different but i wouldnt do it any other way.Women can you enlighten me on whats going on.I collect debts for a living so i'm not new to different kind of approach but this i dont get it "
even when I was on as a single I would have said no thanks to a guy offering this. Not my thing at all. But some on here are asking for gifts... so its avout finding those your compatible with

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