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Do you ever get emotional days?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm talking days where you can't put your finger on what's wrong, but they just seem to be.

And no matter what you do, nothing can't pull you out of your funk and you just want the day to end?

Well that for some reason is today.

How are you anyway?

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By *ooby birdWoman
over a year ago

North West

I'm having a bit of a day too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a long bubblebath helps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm having a bit of a day too "

Awwww *hugs*

It's the first time for me in months.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find a long bubblebath helps x "

Thanks, I will try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bipolar disorder and days where tearing myself out of bed is a major effort. But im on medication and therapy to help manage it. Everyone can be hit with mental illness. But be open about it and theres lots of support out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like that every day and I know what is wrong

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm talking days where you can't put your finger on what's wrong, but they just seem to be.

And no matter what you do, nothing can't pull you out of your funk and you just want the day to end?

Well that for some reason is today.

How are you anyway?"

I'm sure everyone does sometimes....I'm amusing myself with a new diet!! So many vegetables, so little time......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call it my woe is me days, don’t know why but I just wake up anxious for no reason. Gets me all sad... come the next morning I’m right as rain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that a lot too - at least twice a week. Staying busy and, as much as I hate to say it, work seems to help me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have bipolar disorder and days where tearing myself out of bed is a major effort. But im on medication and therapy to help manage it. Everyone can be hit with mental illness. But be open about it and theres lots of support out there."

Cheers, I know mines nowhere as severe as your condition. But I think people need to be more aware of how things like these can affect us. I wish you all the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male form of PMT - Irritable Male Syndrome

Just plug away and you’ll get there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm like that every day and I know what is wrong "

What is wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have good days and bad days !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have bipolar disorder and days where tearing myself out of bed is a major effort. But im on medication and therapy to help manage it. Everyone can be hit with mental illness. But be open about it and theres lots of support out there.

Cheers, I know mines nowhere as severe as your condition. But I think people need to be more aware of how things like these can affect us. I wish you all the best "

I raise awareness for mental illness and have taken part in lobbying mps to do more. My high point was i did a sponsored parachute jump a couple of years ago. Was such a thrill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and they can hit at any time. I take my tablet and wait for it to subside. I've taught myself to mostly ignore it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is also a seasons disorder called

Sad.

When seasons change can make you feel sad and sometimes depressed.

Lack of vitamin d.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is also a seasons disorder called

Sad.

When seasons change can make you feel sad and sometimes depressed.

Lack of vitamin d. "

I use a light box that helps a lot as well as vitamin D. SAD can be a crippler. Especially january and february.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you've can't find you funk today. I've finally decided my financial future so a bit of the stress and worry has gone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is also a seasons disorder called

Sad.

When seasons change can make you feel sad and sometimes depressed.

Lack of vitamin d.

I use a light box that helps a lot as well as vitamin D. SAD can be a crippler. Especially january and february."

Can you recommend a good reasonably priced one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is also a seasons disorder called

Sad.

When seasons change can make you feel sad and sometimes depressed.

Lack of vitamin d. "

I was told I may suffer from that, I think a lot of people can relate to it also.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

A Jonah day? When you're all fractious and crotchety before even leaving the house and everything about the day just exacerbates it? I get them on occasion then the next day is fine. Nothing to solve them other than take some care of yourself and not inflict the grumpiness on those around you (I speak from the experience of someone who has been known to pick a fight with someone for an non-existent infraction just to justify having a good ranty fishwife moment ).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm talking days where you can't put your finger on what's wrong, but they just seem to be.

And no matter what you do, nothing can't pull you out of your funk and you just want the day to end?

Well that for some reason is today.

How are you anyway?"

I’m not being funny, you could be on your “man period” for want of a better phrase.

There’s a deep science to it but the generalisation is men also go through hormone imbalances, just obviously not as strong as what women do (or as regular for that matter) which can lead to a short period of being somewhat “down in the dumps”, eventually you’ll pick up again, but thats probably what it is, just a good old lack of chemicals in your body

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By *heeky_subCouple
over a year ago

northampton


"I'm talking days where you can't put your finger on what's wrong, but they just seem to be.

And no matter what you do, nothing can't pull you out of your funk and you just want the day to end?

Well that for some reason is today.

How are you anyway?"

Hope you feel happier soon. It's horrible feeling that way.

I suffer from depression, was on anti depressants for two years. When I'm on a low now, i really try and figure out what the trigger is, otherwise I feel even worse.

Just remember, there is only one you, and you are amazing.

X

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Some of the last few days have been a bit tiresome- living away from home, lacking energy and feeling generally a bit 'bleurrgh'

The best release I've found is to allow myself the occasional private little cry.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I'm talking days where you can't put your finger on what's wrong, but they just seem to be.

And no matter what you do, nothing can't pull you out of your funk and you just want the day to end?

Well that for some reason is today.

How are you anyway?"

Frequently at the moment.

I normally know my triggers and when I'm going to be down.

Op hope your OK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is also a seasons disorder called

Sad.

When seasons change can make you feel sad and sometimes depressed.

Lack of vitamin d.

I use a light box that helps a lot as well as vitamin D. SAD can be a crippler. Especially january and february.

Can you recommend a good reasonably priced one?"

Certainly. If you go on SAD.co.uk they sell them on there for 50pound. Its the one i have and it helps me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good to see so many men discussing this and their own experiences. I used to think i was alone with my mental illness but i find the more i talk about it with other men they reveal their own experiences. Remember its ok not to be ok and you have someone in your corner.

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