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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou " Have you sent any messages? | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou " I am very surprised ! | |||
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"Age range a bit low Don't bite my head off Its just an observation " | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou " Chat and interact on the forums so people get to know you. Get out to group socials etc. | |||
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"Dunno what switch means " Then you’re not allowed to “hit him up” | |||
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"Dunno what switch means Then you’re not allowed to “hit him up” " The hit him up reference I see on a lot of bi and gay profiles so thought it might be in relation to that. | |||
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"Ok looks like I may be needing to change a few things on my profile then haha! First thing is first.. New name... Any ideas people..? " Try including something along the lines of having a Huge Cock or something like I'MGONNARUINYOU, that normally entices the ladies | |||
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"I don't bite Fab suicide! " Unless you want me to.... Always gets me weak at the nuts | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou Chat and interact on the forums so people get to know you. Get out to group socials etc. " Thank you will do this also! | |||
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"Age range a bit low Don't bite my head off Its just an observation " Age range has been changed! | |||
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"Ok looks like I may be needing to change a few things on my profile then haha! First thing is first.. New name... Any ideas people..? " ChrisMeQuick | |||
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"Age range a bit low Don't bite my head off Its just an observation Age range has been changed! " Never make it a round number, if they were hot at 40, they still will be at 41 . . . | |||
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"Ok looks like I may be needing to change a few things on my profile then haha! First thing is first.. New name... Any ideas people..? " Keith Smyas | |||
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"Ok looks like I may be needing to change a few things on my profile then haha! First thing is first.. New name... Any ideas people..? " Zig Steenine | |||
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"Age range a bit low Don't bite my head off Its just an observation Age range has been changed! Never make it a round number, if they were hot at 40, they still will be at 41 . . . " Looks like I may need to up my age range again! Hahaa and yes I can see at 41 you are still hot | |||
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"Ok looks like I may be needing to change a few things on my profile then haha! First thing is first.. New name... Any ideas people..? ChrisMeQuick " I don't want to be sounding like a one minute wonder! haha! | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou " You can start by visiting clubs if you haven't yet .. | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou " You lost 3sums as an interest but profile is clearly aimed at single ladies. Remember some of us couples do meet separately Ohh and being able to accommodate can be a deal breaker for some. Sadly in 3 months I will be out of your age range!! MrsK x | |||
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"I would! " You and me too haha Except we will shortly be out of his range MrsK | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou You lost 3sums as an interest but profile is clearly aimed at single ladies. Remember some of us couples do meet separately Ohh and being able to accommodate can be a deal breaker for some. Sadly in 3 months I will be out of your age range!! MrsK x" Iv lost 3somes as an interest? What it's not ticked? Yeah not much I can do about accommodation at the moment... Haha looks like il have to up my age range again for You. If u want to meet separately ?? | |||
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"I would! " And I'm only 40mins from Colchester too!... Just saying. message me ?????? | |||
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"I would! Me too Shame I’m not currently meeting " Why are you not meeting.. Maybe I could change that for you | |||
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"I would! You and me too haha Except we will shortly be out of his range MrsK " I feel a 3sum coming on here... Haha | |||
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"You have good pics so im guessing its in your conversation...?" This Profile and pix looks so must be You (in the nicest way possible) | |||
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"You have good pics so im guessing its in your conversation...? This Profile and pix looks so must be You (in the nicest way possible)" So what type of messages do you girls not find boring or the same old thing then... An examples ?? | |||
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"You have good pics so im guessing its in your conversation...? This Profile and pix looks so must be You (in the nicest way possible) So what type of messages do you girls not find boring or the same old thing then... An examples ??" Stop asking if people want to be ruined, for one. | |||
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"You have good pics so im guessing its in your conversation...? This Profile and pix looks so must be You (in the nicest way possible) So what type of messages do you girls not find boring or the same old thing then... An examples ?? Stop asking if people want to be ruined, for one. " Haha yh sorry I got a bit carried away .? | |||
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"I would! And I'm only 40mins from Colchester too!... Just saying. message me ??????" Tried too but I'm blocked! | |||
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"Dunno we’ve never talked or chatted, but I’m blocked ?? Hey ho " Yeah iv had that aswell,not off him though | |||
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"Dunno we’ve never talked or chatted, but I’m blocked ?? Hey ho Yeah iv had that aswell,not off him though" Ooops sorry he has blocked me haha | |||
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"Dunno we’ve never talked or chatted, but I’m blocked ?? Hey ho Yeah iv had that aswell,not off him though Ooops sorry he has blocked me haha" Me too lol | |||
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"Dunno we’ve never talked or chatted, but I’m blocked ?? Hey ho Yeah iv had that aswell,not off him though Ooops sorry he has blocked me haha Me too lol" We must be the weirdos he's trying to avoid! | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. " | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha" Ouchy | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. " No I don't. | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou You lost 3sums as an interest but profile is clearly aimed at single ladies. Remember some of us couples do meet separately Ohh and being able to accommodate can be a deal breaker for some. Sadly in 3 months I will be out of your age range!! MrsK x Iv lost 3somes as an interest? What it's not ticked? Yeah not much I can do about accommodation at the moment... Haha looks like il have to up my age range again for You. If u want to meet separately ??" You have 3sums listed as an interest is all I ment but you clear preference is singles that’s all I ment. Accommodate isn’t a bother on my part but I do see a lot of posts by single ladies that would skip you by. | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha" What do you have to do to get that? | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. " No it isn't. You make your own luck on here... Posts like that don't raise your stock in any way | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. " It just got tougher for someone. | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. It just got tougher for someone. " | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha What do you have to do to get that? " Something naughty I guess In a serious note I don't actually have a clue but can't see why all these random people would be blocked and only other thing that came up was the account could be suspended by admin | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. It just got tougher for someone. " All day today I've been defending men (single men) and how they're viewed, and it's horrid comments like this that aren't helping. Were starting a game 1 mill down before we kick off. It gets me really frustrated. I don't know when men stopped being gentlemen. | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. It just got tougher for someone. " Yep...I do like these threads they help Me find the ones that deserve a block | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. It just got tougher for someone. " I think I'm back? | |||
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"Dunno we’ve never talked or chatted, but I’m blocked ?? Hey ho Yeah iv had that aswell,not off him though Ooops sorry he has blocked me haha Me too lol We must be the weirdos he's trying to avoid! " Oh I'm not avoiding you! I'm back ?? | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha What do you have to do to get that? Something naughty I guess In a serious note I don't actually have a clue but can't see why all these random people would be blocked and only other thing that came up was the account could be suspended by admin " guess who's back ?? | |||
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"The trouble with most dating/sex sites is that the ugliest and most horrible women will still get far far far more responses than the most handsome and polite men. Its tough out there for us guys. It just got tougher for someone. " I can't message you as I'm outside your age range your looking for | |||
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"Seems for single men, having a cute face won't cut it round these parts. Fabs is a game. Some work out the rules and win, many can't make it past go. I'd suggest looking at thousands of advice posts on here for a detailed answer " Some think acute face Will shine. Errrr no | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha What do you have to do to get that? Something naughty I guess In a serious note I don't actually have a clue but can't see why all these random people would be blocked and only other thing that came up was the account could be suspended by admin guess who's back ??" Shady? Should I tell my friends? | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird " Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! | |||
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"I know exactly why you haven't had a meet. Ignorance ain't attractive " I'm not ignoring you... I just can't reply to your message as fab isn't letting me.. I can only use forums at the moment. And yes if you were closer! I would meet you in a heartbeat too! Sexy sexy! | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha What do you have to do to get that? Something naughty I guess In a serious note I don't actually have a clue but can't see why all these random people would be blocked and only other thing that came up was the account could be suspended by admin guess who's back ?? Shady? Should I tell my friends?" You can tell your friends if you would like.. Group gathering at yours is it. ?? | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! " Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha What do you have to do to get that? Something naughty I guess In a serious note I don't actually have a clue but can't see why all these random people would be blocked and only other thing that came up was the account could be suspended by admin guess who's back ?? Shady? Should I tell my friends? You can tell your friends if you would like.. Group gathering at yours is it. ??" Sorry, I was channelling Eminem for a minute there | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird " You've said something bad in a message or sent too many . You're on time out probaby | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird You've said something bad in a message or sent too many . You're on time out probaby " Dam it... Iv been a naughty naughty man! Now what happens... | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha What do you have to do to get that? Something naughty I guess In a serious note I don't actually have a clue but can't see why all these random people would be blocked and only other thing that came up was the account could be suspended by admin guess who's back ?? Shady? Should I tell my friends? You can tell your friends if you would like.. Group gathering at yours is it. ?? Sorry, I was channelling Eminem for a minute there " Don't worry about Eminem. Il be much more fun that him. | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either " Well they say I'm cute until they meet me looks can be deceiving | |||
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"Can I ask why have you upped your age range by 10 years? If your natural cut off is 35 then you should stick to that and not change things just because others on the forum 'have told you to' " Because I don't mind the older woman... But someone made a good point earlier about cut of being 40... But In 2 months time they would be 41... But they are still hot in my eyes.. | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either With only an hours drive.!... I look forward to that day VERY much! Well they say I'm cute until they meet me looks can be deceiving " | |||
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"You really need to cross over. Shave. Buy yourself some lovely clothes and watch the messages flood in. " | |||
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"Can I ask why have you upped your age range by 10 years? If your natural cut off is 35 then you should stick to that and not change things just because others on the forum 'have told you to' Because I don't mind the older woman... But someone made a good point earlier about cut of being 40... But In 2 months time they would be 41... But they are still hot in my eyes.. " But your original cut off was 35 now it is 45, that is quite a big difference from when you first set your profile, would it still be 35 if you hadn't started this thread? | |||
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"Can I ask why have you upped your age range by 10 years? If your natural cut off is 35 then you should stick to that and not change things just because others on the forum 'have told you to' Because I don't mind the older woman... But someone made a good point earlier about cut of being 40... But In 2 months time they would be 41... But they are still hot in my eyes.. But your original cut off was 35 now it is 45, that is quite a big difference from when you first set your profile, would it still be 35 if you hadn't started this thread? " I don't know maybe? Maybe not.. Who knows... | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either Well they say I'm cute until they meet me looks can be deceiving " hey hey to you tooo! Thankyou for the private message. I'm not ignoring you I just can't reply via messages at the moment. Iv been a naughty Man and been banned from messages! | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either Well they say I'm cute until they meet me looks can be deceiving hey hey to you tooo! Thankyou for the private message. I'm not ignoring you I just can't reply via messages at the moment. Iv been a naughty Man and been banned from messages! " Well now you know where I am when you get released form you ban, may have to give you a little punishment for that | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either Well they say I'm cute until they meet me looks can be deceiving hey hey to you tooo! Thankyou for the private message. I'm not ignoring you I just can't reply via messages at the moment. Iv been a naughty Man and been banned from messages! Well now you know where I am when you get released form you ban, may have to give you a little punishment for that " If you want to add me on Kik or sc you can give me your punishment early Just check my status update | |||
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"Account must be suspended as I tried to look and couldn't haha What do you have to do to get that? Something naughty I guess In a serious note I don't actually have a clue but can't see why all these random people would be blocked and only other thing that came up was the account could be suspended by admin guess who's back ?? Shady? Should I tell my friends? You can tell your friends if you would like.. Group gathering at yours is it. ?? Sorry, I was channelling Eminem for a minute there " Add me on Kik or sc if u have it... I'm very limited to messaging anyone on here... Add essexbigboi on either of them | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either " I'm back.... Message me hottie xx | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou You can start by visiting clubs if you haven't yet .." What about people that don't have any interest in clubs and aren't here for more traditional swinger type activities? I personally have no interest in them and am simply using this site in the hope I get to meet 1 or 2 decent ladies to have some regular mutual fun with. I'm more than happy to mix this with friendship and socials but more on a 1 on 1 basis not as part of the club scene. Besides, from what I've read on a load of posts single guys aren't particularly welcome at some clubs or am I reading that wrong? | |||
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"been on here for half a year and still no meets... can anyone tell me where im going wrong? ADVISE WELCOME! thankyou You can start by visiting clubs if you haven't yet .. What about people that don't have any interest in clubs and aren't here for more traditional swinger type activities? I personally have no interest in them and am simply using this site in the hope I get to meet 1 or 2 decent ladies to have some regular mutual fun with. I'm more than happy to mix this with friendship and socials but more on a 1 on 1 basis not as part of the club scene. Besides, from what I've read on a load of posts single guys aren't particularly welcome at some clubs or am I reading that wrong?" Most clubs do welcome single men, be friendly and courteous, mingle with people and don't follow people around or lurk in corners x | |||
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"I am indeed! I don't know what happened!? But I can't send a private message to anyone... Can only use the forums... Weird Well you can pop up in my inbox any day not just cute... Cute and hot!!! Why thankyou!! I'm not the only one who is cute and hot either I'm back.... Message me hottie xx" We all thought we had been blocked! | |||
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