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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe you may have opened the floodgates OP

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

I block straight after saying no thank you, I don't have to deal with the shit then.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

Here goes !!!

I’m with you OP so god dam annoying

“No thanks not my type “

Should be enough !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself i would of got the hint on the first message hahha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

"

You just say no thanks to someone who says hi?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a crude mail today so didn't reply. I then got another calling me a timewaster for not replying. I was all set to point out his error but he blocked me. It made me a bit annoyed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

You just say no thanks to someone who says hi?"

if its clear they haven't bothered reading my profile, then yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

"

Why rant?

Save yourself the aggro by blocking the sender after you send the first 'no thanks'. By entering into a discussion beyond that, you've opened yourself up for the abusive messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

"

Block all and do your own searches x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And why did this need a forum post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And why did this need a forum post?"

probably about as much as any subject 'needs 'a post...maybe in the vain hope that at least someone might read it and decide to have a bit of respect and handle a rejection with a shred of dignity in future!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

Why rant?

Save yourself the aggro by blocking the sender after you send the first 'no thanks'. By entering into a discussion beyond that, you've opened yourself up for the abusive messages.

"

Yeah the poor chap could have avoided that abusive messaage

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here goes !!!

I’m with you OP so god dam annoying

“No thanks not my type “

Should be enough ! "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And why did this need a forum post?

probably about as much as any subject 'needs 'a post...maybe in the vain hope that at least someone might read it and decide to have a bit of respect and handle a rejection with a shred of dignity in future!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blocks and filters are here for this exact reason op.

I'd take advice from another person on here and block after saying no thank you the first time.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Me .... Hi

Her .............

.............

.............

.............

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"And why did this need a forum post?

probably about as much as any subject 'needs 'a post...maybe in the vain hope that at least someone might read it and decide to have a bit of respect and handle a rejection with a shred of dignity in future!"

Op swore mailer did not. Who kept their dignity. Not the op. No doubt this is not exactly the words used. But what else are you basing this on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man: Hi.

Me: Sorry, not what I'm looking for.

Block.

It's fucking marvellous doing it that way

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've just been 'ordered' to visit someone in their hotel tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear...

Should have stayed in the man cave..

Backs away into the shadows ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So much angst is found where others want to change the behaviour of others when they could simply change their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i jsut delete opening message now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

You just say no thanks to someone who says hi?

if its clear they haven't bothered reading my profile, then yes."

Don't see why people can't just ignore if the sender doesn't say what they want them to, surely it saves any unnecessary messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So much angst is found where others want to change the behaviour of others when they could simply change their own. "

But then there's nothing to whinge about.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"So much angst is found where others want to change the behaviour of others when they could simply change their own.

But then there's nothing to whinge about. "

And then I don't get to do this

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

[Removed by poster at 25/10/17 20:30:07]

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"I've just been 'ordered' to visit someone in their hotel tonight "

Was that on the Just Eat app ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

You just say no thanks to someone who says hi?"

That's what I thought. Plenty like that here. They demand this that and the other and state they must have pics. You look at the profile a d they basically want a good and have no pics of their own and a rubbish profile. It's because there are so many men women get massive egos and think they are the best thing ever... not all women though

There are a few polite decent ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that was the conversation then op you're the rude one. Looks like the guy got a lucky escape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been 'ordered' to visit someone in their hotel tonight "

If orders work then I demand you drive the 100s of miles to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times will you go through that performance before blocking after you say no thanks?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I've just been 'ordered' to visit someone in their hotel tonight

Was that on the Just Eat app ? "

I'm not sure, I didn't get round to asking him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If that was the conversation then op you're the rude one. Looks like the guy got a lucky escape "

I agree.

And I hope he reported her for her abusive response.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

"

Block after hi, as there has been no thought given to the message.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"How many times do u have to tell someone ur not interested before u block

Man - hi

Me - no thanks

Man - what’s up with u?

Me - NO THANKS

Man - fancy meeting for a drink??

Me - NO IM NOT FxxKing INTERESTED

man - don’t get ur knickers in a twist

Me - block

Grrrrrrrr

Rant over

"

Hi

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