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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So after a "marry me?" message I got to thinking of the TV programme married at first sight.

They analysised people and matched them based on a number of factors like science, morals, ambitions. On paper they were perfect matches. They didn't meet until their wedding day and had to agree to live together for at least 6 months.

So if youre single would you gibe it a go? Would you trust the experts to find your perfect match?

If you have a partner do you think the experts would have matched you and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to try this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I’d rather trust my own instincts than rely on ‘experts’. I know what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It could be interesting to see what they come up with

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd definitely do this, it would be a great experiment. Hide my valuable teddy bears etc beforehand

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Not a chance. Lust is difficult enough to pin down with an algorithm, love is impossible

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Rubidoux, if this is your subtle way of asking, the answer is yes

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Not a chance. Lust is difficult enough to pin down with an algorithm, love is impossible "

Yup this. I'd love someone to scour the country looking for someone who matched my full list of wants and needs, but I wouldn't promise to even like them lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck no

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Id give it a go.

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Every relationship I’ve had has been fucked up so if complete strangers want to give it a go finding me someone they are welcome to. They can’t make a worse job of it than I’ve already done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U would never find a prefect match

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Every relationship I’ve had has been fucked up so if complete strangers want to give it a go finding me someone they are welcome to. They can’t make a worse job of it than I’ve already done! "

I hear ya!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very interesting concept. I think of arranged marriages which must have a much less evidence based approach to matching and yet I think many of these marriages ultimately become fulfilling loving marriages.

However, many don't I guess.

Ultimately I think that the human psyche is so complicated and behaviour can be situationally based, all the compatability in the world may not prove successful where love is concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always wondered what life would be like if I came from a culture of arranged marriage (arranged not forced: there's a difference). I would definitely try it for 6 months. Perhaps the fact that experts have chosen for you will have a placebo effect. Not many truly trust their own decision. We always want what others have or what others choose and tell us is good, to some degree. Maybe our trouble with marriage is our individuo-centric culture of independence and plenty.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It couldn't possibly be worse than my first marriage lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While I find the idea interesting and it would be interesting to see who they think I would match with, just the thought of getting married fills me with anxiety, so I probably wouldn't

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"While I find the idea interesting and it would be interesting to see who they think I would match with, just the thought of getting married fills me with anxiety, so I probably wouldn't "

We all know you’re marrying Princess Peach so jobs done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While I find the idea interesting and it would be interesting to see who they think I would match with, just the thought of getting married fills me with anxiety, so I probably wouldn't

We all know you’re marrying Princess Peach so jobs done "

Yeah but that's Lord of the Rings themed, I could never turn that down.

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I had the opportunity to have an arranged marriage when I was in India - the idea of a mid-thirties single guy confused the hell out of my Indian friends.

I opted not to - despite how harx they tried. Generally they are very good at match-making and is usually successful. I am a bit too traditional I think.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Rubidoux, if this is your subtle way of asking, the answer is yes "

Well that worked out well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the opportunity to have an arranged marriage when I was in India - the idea of a mid-thirties single guy confused the hell out of my Indian friends.

I opted not to - despite how harx they tried. Generally they are very good at match-making and is usually successful. I am a bit too traditional I think."

There was a programme a couple of years ago where a woman asked her friends to find her a man. Her intention was a similar kind of thing- that they know her and could find someone they thought she'd like. It was interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't do the marry thing but I'd love to try First Dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this would be amazing just to see if they could find my perfect women! I’m not sure she’s out there but I’m always looking for her!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"While I find the idea interesting and it would be interesting to see who they think I would match with, just the thought of getting married fills me with anxiety, so I probably wouldn't

We all know you’re marrying Princess Peach so jobs done

Yeah but that's Lord of the Rings themed, I could never turn that down. "

Whoop whoop

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"Every relationship I’ve had has been fucked up so if complete strangers want to give it a go finding me someone they are welcome to. They can’t make a worse job of it than I’ve already done! "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every relationship I’ve had has been fucked up so if complete strangers want to give it a go finding me someone they are welcome to. They can’t make a worse job of it than I’ve already done!

This "

This is a brilliant answer can I go with this one?

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By *he Devils Daughter!Woman
over a year ago

some where in yorkshire


"I think this would be amazing just to see if they could find my perfect women! I’m not sure she’s out there but I’m always looking for her! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this would be amazing just to see if they could find my perfect women! I’m not sure she’s out there but I’m always looking for her!

"

I don’t think I need a show I think I’ve found you

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