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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?

From first point of contact to actually meeting .

I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.

I know which I prefer , over to you ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i prefer meets with people i like, whether it takes me weeks (or years ) to arrange it or a few hours has no relevance really

its about the person - not the timescale

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

i d go along with Eveshamgirl. Sometimes it can take a long time, rarely less than a couple of weeks' notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?

From first point of contact to actually meeting .

I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.

I know which I prefer , over to you ?"

Most my meets are arranged quite quickly. Often the same day. If they are arranged too far in advance, or arrangements drag on, they rarely end up taking place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And something that puts me off bigtime is being bloody pushy..

go on, you knows you want to....oh go on...go on...go on... ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And something that puts me off bigtime is being bloody pushy..

go on, you knows you want to....oh go on...go on...go on... ffs "

Is that after the first message lol

I usaully give it at least 3 messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmao,.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

I like to take my time and get to know the person, and let them know what their in for if they still want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lmao,.

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Go on you know you want to , go on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i recently met a lovely couple id known for years chatwise but it just wasnt as easy to get things organised...

I dont rush anything...dont chase wildly either. I assure myself of my fun when i want it, or are able to have it and thats regardless of how long ive been talking to someone.

Im not here to wait for the right girl or couple...FUCK that, i wanna play when i can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lmao,.

Go on you know you want to , go on "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a meet "

Tart xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a meet "

dunno ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"whats a meet

Tart xx"

wrong page

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

How long is a piece of string....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of messages is enough for me if I like what I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple of messages is enough for me if I like what I see "

can u get here in an 1hr...i think yer HOT!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been known to meet and play with someone within hours of initial PM/e-mail.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's encouraging , good signs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been known to meet and play with someone within hours of initial PM/e-mail.

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well i think we have waited long enough then Pearl Necklace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends how much i like them and want to meet them

if i have seen them on cam and really like them i meet as soon as possible, next day usually, but if they only send pics that arnt that clear or they are nice but nothing great it can drag out as i feel no rush to meet them, and even if we have been chatting and in the mean time i see someone else on cam that stands out i will jump them the queue

If im going to be honest you more likely to get a quick meet out of me if i have seen you on cam, pics dont really interest me that much as you never know how alike they still look to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a year to a few messages.

It depends on so many things.

Timing, situation, distance, hornyness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, I can get a good idea about someone after a few minutes chatting on MSN.

If the conversation is not free flowing and resembles pulling teeth, then I am unlikely to meet them.

And if the other person says he thinks we would be great together as playmates before I have a warm and fuzzy feeling about him, then I would switch off and loose interest immediately!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all depends hv meet within a couple of hrs others hv taken wks. if i can arrange a meet fairly quick i do but depends on circumstances at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it really does depend

distance, work (both sides) life,

my weekend plans, I have done same day meets, however have been chatting with someone a while and am patiently waiting to 'meet' him.

For me this site isn't so much about getting to know someone, more over finding the non pushy good 'lover' and I have been lucky to yet :P

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Just depends on how busy we are with work & family.

Some within a few weeks, others a few months and some has taken a year or more.

On a couple of rare occasions we have met within a couple of days....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot imagine waiting years to arrange an nsa meet, that seems incredible to me!

For me it happens relatively quickly or not at all.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

can be anything from hours to months depending on circumstances

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?

From first point of contact to actually meeting .

I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.

I know which I prefer , over to you ?"

So far less than a fortnight although some people have to make arrangements for an evenings travel or to sort out accommodating.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

It takes as long as it take to get a feel for the person's attitude.

I have known after 1 message and yet with others it will take much longer.... some may chat for weeks and I never get the urge.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"How long does it take to arrange a meet for you ?

From first point of contact to actually meeting .

I find it can drag on for ages with some people and yet some meet after a few messages.

I know which I prefer , over to you ?"

Depends

6 hours quickest, 9 months slowest(they lived in wales, but it was a fab week )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cannot imagine waiting years to arrange an nsa meet, that seems incredible to me!

For me it happens relatively quickly or not at all.

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yeah im a bit like that

If i talk to someone for a couple of weeks and we still havnt met i loose interest

I mean lets be honest if you both really want to meet your going to meet before that time

If after weeks you still havnt met or set a deff. date it usually means one of you isnt that interested

So may as well move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH works in Germany a lot so sometimes our meets are last minute but they tend to be off our friends list, some of those friends have been chatting for months.

That's not always the case, sometimes if the time is right and all parties in agreement, it can happen quickly.

Otherwise, and this sounds really bad, but I have a lot of guys who I want to meet with on my friends list, but time is against us and so I have a waiting list in effect (sorry I know that sounds so pretentious) so I'd like to meet those guys that I've been wanting to meet for ages

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

for me it takes as long as it takes.... simple as!

I want to feel 110% sure and comfortable to do this, and I want the other person/people to feel 110% sure they want to do this... so for me it doesn't matter that process happens over hours/days/weeks/months/years....

sometimes real life gets in the way, be that children, schedules, emergencies, or a million other things.... and sometimes some of the best things are worth waiting for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it takes as long as it takes.... simple as!

I want to feel 110% sure and comfortable to do this, and I want the other person/people to feel 110% sure they want to do this... so for me it doesn't matter that process happens over hours/days/weeks/months/years....

sometimes real life gets in the way, be that children, schedules, emergencies, or a million other things.... and sometimes some of the best things are worth waiting for....

"

i thought you were just a slow reader and indecisive like me Fabio

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I cannot imagine waiting years to arrange an nsa meet, that seems incredible to me!

For me it happens relatively quickly or not at all.

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Exactly my thought

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