FabSwingers.com forum: Mind the Gap....

By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

For those of us ladies that have a social before meeting up for sex do you find yourself over thinking in the meantime?

Is it worth it?

Is he on the same page?

Is he as bothered about my pleasure as he is his own?

Will he keep me safe?

The gap will be just over a week.

The longer I'm on here I find I'm thinking so much more about these things, especially the safety aspect. I'm not the only one am I?

Go with my women's intuition, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was going to be a thread about the gap between Norwich and Ipswich in the championship table

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By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I thought this was going to be a thread about the gap between Norwich and Ipswich in the championship table

There's not *that* much separating them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The safety thing is actually always in the back of my mind.

"I hope she trusts me, and doesn't feel she has to have a knife hidden in her knickers"

It's difficult knowing If someone (a stranger in reality) trusts you, I suppose that comes in time, and not after only talking for a couple of days.

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By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"The safety thing is actually always in the back of my mind.

"I hope she trusts me, and doesn't feel she has to have a knife hidden in her knickers"

It's difficult knowing If someone (a stranger in reality) trusts you, I suppose that comes in time, and not after only talking for a couple of days. "

Thanks MisterBee, it's nice to hear from a guys perspective.

Makes me nervous as hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought this was going to be a thread about the gap between Norwich and Ipswich in the championship table

I thought it was going to be about the tube trains

In all seriousness tho, it’s very sensible to be concerned about your safety. Men and women. Tell a friend where you’re going (not necessarily why you’re going there lol), and tell them to raise the alarm if they’ve not had an ‘I’m safe’ text from you by a certain time

Thanks to the media misreporting the frequency of certain crimes, we’re not half as likely to be caught by a serial killer as the papers would have you believe though. Don’t let your worries put you off what could potentially be a great experience, and equally, if something feels wrong, walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean the gap after the social before the sex meet?

If I'm at all unsure I won't meet them. At any point from first mail to eventual meet.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I will inform someone if there is something I'm not certain about and would shift a meet to a club if not confident enough about them - or cancel.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Just take a baseball bat. Judge within the first three seconds. If he looks like a vapist ......... kill him.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I thought you meant the thigh gap ....

Don't think i've ever had one of those

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By *ady Lick OP Woman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Just take a baseball bat. Judge within the first three seconds. If he looks like a vapist ......... kill him. "

Good plan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder sometimes if it's all a terrible idea. Would just have to hope I can trust myself to choose wisely and definitely trust the gut instinct

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