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How do you ensure safe sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems a little rude to ask for your recent clinic test, so how do you make sure your safe? Other than condom for everything ??

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Don't do it and just wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t do it or do it with your clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't do it and just wank. "

Even that's not fully safe. I got wankers whiplash in the wrist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have unprotected sex with your partner only

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self suck and swallow.......its called recycling.?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

As far as the most recent clinic test goes, I go to the hospital for mine, they don't give you any results there and then. You have to wait 2 weeks and if you've heard nothing then it's a case of no news is good news. I don't have anything other than my word to say I'm all clear.

Also, if someone has a clear test, you'd still need to make sure that they hadn't come into contact with anyone else sexually after those results, plus, some things don't show for a while, so they could have them when tested but it wouldn't give a positive result.

Food for thought.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

There are few options apart from not touching anyone else ever

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It seems a little rude to ask for your recent clinic test, so how do you make sure your safe? Other than condom for everything ??"

It's not rude to ask for recent test results but we never would, in our opinion it's pointless. Test results only show that you were clear of certain things on the day the test was done, they won't show something with a longer incubation period that was contracted the day before or anything that was contracted in the period since.

There isn't a way to ensure you're 100% safe just take the precautions you're happy and comfortable with or stick to one trusted partner.

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By *rrol.BMan
over a year ago

Wrexham

A carefully worded memo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have a nice mug of cocoa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lock the front door and keep medics on standby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do wonder if by the time fingers and tongues have been inside and all over each other and yourself, the added benefit of a condom, besides pregnancy obvs.

I guess there's no way to be completely safe.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I just use a pointy stick and keep my distance on meets.... OK so the pointy stick isn't long and its not real and just in my head but still its the thought.... Right?

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP the only safe sex is no sex.

You can make it safer by using condoms but this doesn't remove all risk.

Would you really trust a stranger to tell you the truth about their sexual history and test results?

Many gum clinics don't contact you after tests unless they find something so not everyone gets the all clear text.

All a clear test proves is they didn't have an infection on the day they were tested. How for you know they haven't picked something up since the test?

You need to weigh up the risks and take responsibility for your own sexual health. Don't rely on what other people tell you.

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By *wFunGuy4YouMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Swinging is all about trust with others if you want safe sex with or without a condom. But there is no real safe way other than no sex or stay with the same or reg person(s)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex is when you put the rear legs of the sheep inside of your wellington boots. And it stops them from running away.

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