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Why won't you do it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If there's something you won't do with a meet - why not?

For example:

'no blindfolds because I'd need to really trust the person I was with'

or

'no social because I just want to fuck not chat'.

I'm interested how people set their boundaries.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

For me ,its things we like to keep for ourselves ie facials .

Also if the idea of something didnt sit well with me for any reason.

Miss

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I will not entertain watersports at all . Dunno how that's sexy to anyone ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No restraints of blindfold, safety first.

No anal, husband only unless he gives the ok.

No cum on me from the neck up, it takes a long time to do my makeup, I'd be pissed if I had to wipe it off because of a bad aim

No 3 p's, for obvious reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's anal, fisting and tying me up. All require a level of trust that we don't have with a meet yet x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are a couple of things I won't do and receive oral sex is the one that causes the most surprise. The reason is simple...I don't like it .

Other boundaries are in place as a result of discussion, negotiation and mutual agreement. The reasons are varied and range from a desire to keep our relationship apart from swinging to just not being interested in certain things.

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington


"If there's something you won't do with a meet - why not?

For example:

'no blindfolds because I'd need to really trust the person I was with'

or

'no social because I just want to fuck not chat'.

I'm interested how people set their boundaries.

"
how to set boundaries? Like yourself. Enjoy the power of saying I know what I like. Enjoy the thought that if someone else wants something I don't have to be the one to give it.

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

Be tied up. It's not something that interests me with a long term partner but I wouldnt rule it out neccessarily. With a fab meet though It's a definate no.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I think boundaries for single people need to take safety in to account in different ways to couples and their boundaries will be influenced by that.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Definitely no anal, that has always been for people I trust implicitly or being tied up or incapacitated in any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With us, nothing is ruled out however we go by the maxim that it takes both of us to say yes, but only one to say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything with the 3 p's..

Especially as I have a low pain threshold!!! I hate needles when I go away.

Tied up thing is not good, not because it's a control thing but more a safety net type thing, you never know. Always like to chat first as well, like to know who I'm getting to have fun with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the three p's ?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"What are the three p's ?

"

I am assuming Pain, Poo and Pee..... unless there is a P i am missing... bob!!!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"What are the three p's ?

"

Poo pee and pain i have always took it to mean.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"I think boundaries for single people need to take safety in to account in different ways to couples and their boundaries will be influenced by that. "

I agree, I enjoy using blindfolds amd restraints etc. but we play as a couple and I have Ed to look out for me, a single person needs to stay in control of their own safety.

For me, I wouldn’t swallow another man’s cum. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the three p's ?

Poo pee and pain i have always took it to mean."

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the three p's ?

I am assuming Pain, Poo and Pee..... unless there is a P i am missing... bob!!! "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won’t go up ladders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tied up would take a bit of trust in whoever I was doing it with then. The three p's, one and a half of them I wouldn't be interested in

Meeting alone in a car somewhere remote. Just obvious safety ones really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No anal,watersports it just isn't going to happen

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By *ophieLouiseTV/TS
over a year ago

yorks

The 3 p's... I also hate the social side of things - I hate small talk on a meet x

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"If there's something you won't do with a meet - why not?

For example:

'no blindfolds because I'd need to really trust the person I was with'

or

'no social because I just want to fuck not chat'.

I'm interested how people set their boundaries.

"

Won't meet unless we've spoken quite a bit beforehand. Unless it's very local and easy place to get to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won’t go up ladders "

Do people ask for that a lot?

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