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By *zami OP   Woman
over a year ago

LONDON

Im just interested to hear what would be the last straw?

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

My block list is empty and will probably stay that way.

Mabey I'm just to nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block easily. We forget thisvm isnt fb where blocking someone usually means they have pissed you off or done you harm. Here in fabland it just means they arent for you and a block stops them trying further and everyones time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block them if they repeatedly mail despite getting no reply or if theyre rude.

Most other things I let go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just browsing through the pics section..I saw a picture of an attractive lady, clicked the profile..It was of a couple, wanting to meet a couple..It was of 100 pics of her showing it all and one pic of just his face!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East

My block list is empty. I would block if someone was harrassing me. I don't block people on the basis of none compatibilty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I forgot lol,,yeah not a reason block really, just annoying.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea


"My block list is empty. I would block if someone was harrassing me. I don't block people on the basis of none compatibilty."

Same hear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for lots of different reasons.

They might seem petty to others but I don’t care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people because I don't like them.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

I've blocked all women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My block list is full of those who have either sent disgusting messages (I'm no prude but even so....), those who have messed me about with meets, and just generally people I don't like. I've got about 20 on there I think"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is fricken huge

And that’s mainly down to messages that have been deleted (just so I don’t message again), abuse (yes us guys get it too), reference to drugs (just don’t want to be around people that do that).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simply because I want to and because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list includes:

People who have blocked me.

People who are 420 friendly.

People who I am not compatible with.

People with shouty ranty profiles.

People who say something racist /sexist/plain ignorant on the forums.

I will also block people as a reminder to not message them for some reason.

That leaves 40 of you left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people I don't want to meet or if they have been rude, pushy or sent a message that offends me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block people who look at all our friends photos and don’t get in touch: if they have no photos themselves

They aren’t looking at our photos again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I don't want to communicate with someone. It's what the block button's for after all

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By *layful Couple For YouCouple
over a year ago

Lust

Mostly single guys who don’t take no as an answers first time. There’s also couples and single women on there that have indicated in some way that they play bareback. Oh, and quite a selection that tend to pop up constantly in our ‘local updates’ that aren’t quite what we’re looking for. Think that about covers it......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people if they are rude or pushy, or if they don't take "no thanks" for an answer. Also block people who have seen the known barebackers locally so that I don't end up meeting them / catching stuff. I also block guys that live within a mile of me on the "who's nearby" function as I don't like to play on my doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ours is a small list, but consists of people who forget it's a couple's profile not a single woman's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block man and tv if they like my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is massive. I block guys and couples that bareback. People that are nasty and alot of guys who wont put pix on their profiles. I'm surprised theres anyone left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is massive. I block people who are racist or sexist in their profiles. People that call me a slut. People who pop up within 1/4

Mile. Those I know in my real life. Oh (this sounds way more judgy than it is meant) but i blocked a load that popped up as veris when a well known gang bang bareback was local.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

My block list is epic and constantly grows. Usually block liars no shows timewasters people who ignore my criteria. There other reasons too depends on how moody I am that day

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"My block list includes:

People who have blocked me.

People who are 420 friendly.

People who I am not compatible with.

People with shouty ranty profiles.

People who say something racist /sexist/plain ignorant on the forums.

I will also block people as a reminder to not message them for some reason.

That leaves 40 of you left "

It's nice to be in your 40, but your straight so now it's only 39. We block all straights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever block. They can easily just make a new profile anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sometimes block if iv no chance of meeting them, saves hassle me messaging them again

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Have only ever blocked four people (three of them since UNLOS) - two women who were blatantly and vilely homophobic on bi male threads and two men who persistently sent me unsolicited messages of the "u wanna BJ now?" variety!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block people as I am not thin skinned, and you never know even nasty people have something nice about them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mainly just for total non compatibility such as couples looking for gangbangs bareback.

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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

I don't block often but if a guy starts to pester, even though I've politely said no thanks, then I might

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Pushiness/rudeness is talking to only 1 of us.

Constant winking or messaging if we have said no thanks

Miss

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Also block repeat whingers on our updates

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too close, may know me in normal life or I just find them distasteful in their opinions on the forums.

This is my experience and escapism so why let them spoil it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block easily. We forget thisvm isnt fb where blocking someone usually means they have pissed you off or done you harm. Here in fabland it just means they arent for you and a block stops them trying further and everyones time"

This.

If they're not looking single guys I block for same reason.

I wish fab would have a few more filter/folder options lists which would help differentiate between different type of blocking instead of having to read through the notes attached to each. Ie.... temporary/short term block or permanent never unblock block.

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

I block loads. If I'm browsing, I block the profiles I've no interest in, purely so I don't waste time looking again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block easily. We forget thisvm isnt fb where blocking someone usually means they have pissed you off or done you harm. Here in fabland it just means they arent for you and a block stops them trying further and everyones time

This.

If they're not looking single guys I block for same reason.

I wish fab would have a few more filter/folder options lists which would help differentiate between different type of blocking instead of having to read through the notes attached to each. Ie.... temporary/short term block or permanent never unblock block. "

Those who have messed me about with meets... couple strikes and then it's a permanent block.....they can go mess someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people for offensive messages or for being bombarded by messages from someone I'm not interested in.

I've also blocked a couple of people from my local update feed.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I block unverified women and couples that have been on for over a year yet their profiles say they are highly active, cum crazy types. If they are verified, it's by one guy, three times their age living 200 miles from them and they were similarly his only meet too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't, other than one guy who was a tit.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I block people if they ignore my messages telling them i'm not interested or if they offend me.

Haven't done it to many, purely as most I can just ignore.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Blocking is a useful site tool that we use often and for many reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crude, rude or completely obscene first messages.

Persistent messages when I've already said I'm not interested.

Forum posts that tell me they're not going to be someone I'd want to meet.

Being pestered for meets by people on my friends list.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

It really doesn't matter why, it's a useful too on the site for all sorts of reasons and seeing it as a negative action is pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My block list includes:

People who have blocked me.

People who are 420 friendly.

People who I am not compatible with.

People with shouty ranty profiles.

People who say something racist /sexist/plain ignorant on the forums.

I will also block people as a reminder to not message them for some reason.

That leaves 40 of you left

It's nice to be in your 40, but your straight so now it's only 39. We block all straights "

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block them if they repeatedly mail despite getting no reply or if theyre rude.

Most other things I let go.

"

Thought I could smell something

Fuzz

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Constant pestering after I've said no thankyou and just rude people

Im not easily upset on here. I take everything with a pinch of salt

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"I block people because I don't like them."

You can't be any fairer than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I send mail and get no response I block, nothing personal just saves time so they don’t pop up on my searches again. Also when I’m offered money for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few rude people, some men who don't take no for an answer. And a couple who we met and wasn't compatible at all with then we started getting abuse x

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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If they won't stop being a pestering beggy twat

If they block me....you ain't snooping my page biatch

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"If they won't stop being a pestering beggy twat

If they block me....you ain't snooping my page biatch

"

They can't I don't think. Sure the message is something like you can't view this profile as they have blocked you, you have blocked them or admin has suspended the account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block rude people or people who have blocked me .Its funny i think as its women who block me .I take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they won't stop being a pestering beggy twat

If they block me....you ain't snooping my page biatch

They can't I don't think. Sure the message is something like you can't view this profile as they have blocked you, you have blocked them or admin has suspended the account."

Think she basically means Iif they block her she blocks them.... prevents them unblocking...snooping and re blocking again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people block me for disagreeing with them in the forum,how very rude haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did block if I messaged them and they deleted straight away as not to hassle them again but then I unblocked everyone and just don’t message anyone, lurk on the forums and perv and that’s it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block quite frequently not just if the person has been abusive/hasn't turned up etc. As was said above, useful to stop them wasting any further time if clearly not for me and are not taking hints (do men ever take hints, by the way)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block list is massive lol,

.No profile pics

.Constantly sending same message

. constantly looking at profile without messaging

. people we think we're not compatible with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block quite frequently not just if the person has been abusive/hasn't turned up etc. As was said above, useful to stop them wasting any further time if clearly not for me and are not taking hints (do men ever take hints, by the way)? "

This there should be a period every month (no sniggering) where males can’t message females until the lady had messaged first so as to stop your inbox getting smashed (good Lord) and to encourage some gentleman like behaviour

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"If they won't stop being a pestering beggy twat

If they block me....you ain't snooping my page biatch

They can't I don't think. Sure the message is something like you can't view this profile as they have blocked you, you have blocked them or admin has suspended the account.

Think she basically means Iif they block her she blocks them.... prevents them unblocking...snooping and re blocking again. "

Ah right yeah. People do that?

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"My block list is empty. I would block if someone was harrassing me. I don't block people on the basis of none compatibilty."

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Some people block me for disagreeing with them in the forum,how very rude haha"

If memory serves me correctly. I simply put bollox to one of your posts once lol. You came back with a funny comeback. Good times

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By *easingtessWoman
over a year ago

waterford

I've blocked a few. Mostly the ones who keep messaging even after you've said no.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"If they won't stop being a pestering beggy twat

If they block me....you ain't snooping my page biatch

They can't I don't think. Sure the message is something like you can't view this profile as they have blocked you, you have blocked them or admin has suspended the account.

Think she basically means Iif they block her she blocks them.... prevents them unblocking...snooping and re blocking again. "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is empty so far...

No one bugs me ???? haha

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"If they won't stop being a pestering beggy twat

If they block me....you ain't snooping my page biatch

They can't I don't think. Sure the message is something like you can't view this profile as they have blocked you, you have blocked them or admin has suspended the account.

Think she basically means Iif they block her she blocks them.... prevents them unblocking...snooping and re blocking again.

Exactly. "

Get it now. I don't get why people do that.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Im just interested to hear what would be the last straw? "

Only ever blocked two: one was rude the other persistent. Other than that my filters take care of the rest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone i don't like.

I only wish blocking also meant you couldn't see their forum posts.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Camden

My block list is huge, I block any profile which either doesn't match what I am looking for, or I don't meet their requirements. There's no point in having my profile searches clogged up with people I'm never going to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone i don't like.

I only wish blocking also meant you couldn't see their forum posts. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually with me, i sent a nice message then get abuse back, some women on here are full of themselves and just plain mean. Thats usually the point when i block. Oh and when guys send me dirty messages, im straight and its not appreciated so usually results in a block.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I block people who are nasty or ignorant, to others, in the forums.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Anyone i don't like.

I only wish blocking also meant you couldn't see their forum posts.

"

You’d lose the context of the thread, surely that wouldn’t be a good thing.

We block for a variety of reasons but in the main it’s for those who pester for meets or criticise us for deleteting without replying.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

If someone has been very rude to me, or if we have chatted and either their profile or photos are not attractive to me then I blick them.

If they live in the same village as me and they have looked at me then I block.

It just saves them viewing me or messaging me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone i don't like.

I only wish blocking also meant you couldn't see their forum posts.

You’d lose the context of the thread, surely that wouldn’t be a good thing.

"

It seems to work on other forums.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I block people who hassle me after I have said no, or hassle me on the forums, and very occasionally just because I find them particularly loathesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just interested to hear what would be the last straw? "

Its not necessarily the last straw,but if I send a well constructed message and I just get 'Hi' as a reply,i tend to block straight away.Maybe I'm being unkind as some people may just be shy?

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Im just interested to hear what would be the last straw? "

I have over 2000 and that does not include the 300 who I have asked to block me x

I block local ladies who I have no interest or have no interest in me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just interested to hear what would be the last straw?

Its not necessarily the last straw,but if I send a well constructed message and I just get 'Hi' as a reply,i tend to block straight away.Maybe I'm being unkind as some people may just be shy?

"

This.

I'm amazed at how many ladies reply with just curt ...hi after requesting a well constructed first introductory message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're just like most people and block for a variety of reasons x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really block that many people. I've been here a couple of years and my list is small.

I have blocked people who are mean to me, a few bitchy Forumites and a few people who pester me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have a choice to do so.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I'll just add; on the thankfully rare profiles that message without any previous contact, with an abusive message. These people must have some real anger issues to vent out at total strangers unprovoked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given up blocking..but always counter block when I find out I've been blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I need a reason

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Those that are twuntish tend to get blocked, whether that's through messages or the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never blocked anyone.

But then I don't believe in closing doors on anyone and I have no clue what the future may bring.

If people block me it's their choice, most of the time I probably wouldn't even notice...

And if I do...well it's there issue their choice...

And life's to short to worry about those who make snap judgements based on whatever their own preconceptions are.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Anyone i don't like.

I only wish blocking also meant you couldn't see their forum posts.

You’d lose the context of the thread, surely that wouldn’t be a good thing.

It seems to work on other forums."

Seen it not work also, matter of opinion I suppose, may well be worth a trial here though, who knows.

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By *imonP23Man
over a year ago

Shepton Mallet

I've only ever blocked one person, a woman who suddenly announced on her profile that she'd been caught cheating and was now going to "expose the cheaters".

Probably not directed at me personally, but unacceptable nevertheless. Blocked, reported, now gone.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

I block if they're not my type so i don't waste time coming across their profile again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my reasons (over and above rude or compatibility issues)

If profile says can accom but then can't.

If I ask for face pic and they reply "you first"

Face pics that are so dark you can't see much.

It may sound petty but there's plenty of fish and I can't be bothered wasting time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of my reasons (over and above rude or compatibility issues)

If profile says can accom but then can't.

If I ask for face pic and they reply "you first"

Face pics that are so dark you can't see much.

Yes the face pic thing is pretty annoying,especially when all they have is a silhouette!

It may sound petty but there's plenty of fish and I can't be bothered wasting time.

"

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I block them if they repeatedly mail despite getting no reply or if theyre rude.

Most other things I let go. "
same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just interested to hear what would be the last straw? "

Generally we only block if they are persistent pests who won’t take no for an answer or and this is the most common reason...because we aren’t what they are looking for, example all those that say the hate tattoos...blocked simple

Reason being is it removes those profiles from the search when your looking.

MrsK x

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By *inakiss64Woman
over a year ago

Near St Albans

Too many reasons to block, If I think they deserve to be blocked they will be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block blokes that have been rude ,disrespectful or racist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been sufficiently annoyed by anyone to block them yet. *touches wood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block guys if they are being dicks ....and also counterblock because I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever blocked one person - they just wouldn't take no for an answer.

Generally people are quite nice, even if they're not to my taste, I'll still chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block at the drop of a hat...if your status says something crude like "who wants to empty my balls" then you're not for us.

If we check your profile and your grammar is terrible and I mean infantile we block.

Not looking for the next Dickens but come on double check your spelling...bugger hope I've spelt everything correctly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone i don't like.

I only wish blocking also meant you couldn't see their forum posts.

You’d lose the context of the thread, surely that wouldn’t be a good thing.

It seems to work on other forums.

Seen it not work also, matter of opinion I suppose, may well be worth a trial here though, who knows. "

It depends how many people you block. I can imagine it being extremely dull for some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simply because I want to and because I can"

I do the same

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I've given up blocking..but always counter block when I find out I've been blocked "

Don't you block me just because I like a special program, in my sparkly shoes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?"

That would be handy wouldn't it, just press a button and no more contact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

That would be handy wouldn't it, just press a button and no more contact! "

It would be cool if it made a *splat* noise too.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

That would be handy wouldn't it, just press a button and no more contact!

It would be cool if it made a *splat* noise too. "

Hahaha Love it!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?"

You mean you don't have one?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one? "

I don't need one. They block me first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough people look at me as it is for to intentionally stop others.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

so many reasons. my block list is ridiculously long.

Usually cheaters or really bad sluts I will block.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first. "

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport "

That definitely sounds a good idea

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea "

If only eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea

If only eh! "

Try a taser?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea

If only eh! "

Yes especially on public transport. Going on London underground tomorrow., hate it!

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts

20 times per day (give or take!) for a whole verity of reasons ultimately there is no chance that we would ever meet.

Our block list is our shortlisting tool x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea

If only eh!

Try a taser? "

Haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea

If only eh!

Try a taser? "

That's a bit extreme for Miss my handbag gets a seat but you don't or Mr swing round and bash you with my backpack. I'd consider it for Mr can't keep my hands to myself though

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We used to block guys who looked at our profile, as it was a way of avoiding the messages and inevitable abuse when we turned (most of them) down. However our block list was huge, and apparently you can only really block about 500 before the block list for your profile is full, so we had an amnesty and so far we only have about 30 people on there, those being people who just wont take no for an answer, or those we know we don't get on with.

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By *imandHerNottsCouple
over a year ago

North Notts


"We used to block guys who looked at our profile, as it was a way of avoiding the messages and inevitable abuse when we turned (most of them) down. However our block list was huge, and apparently you can only really block about 500 before the block list for your profile is full, so we had an amnesty and so far we only have about 30 people on there, those being people who just wont take no for an answer, or those we know we don't get on with."

We can assure you that 500 isn’t true maybe 5000 we aren’t quite there yet!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is extensive I'm sure there's over 500 on it.

I block for many and varied reasons from serial messengers who won't take no for a answer to simply not liking something someone wrote,or a picture.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one? "

I don't stay in contact with people I don't want to.

On here:

Rude

Overly persistent

Bigoted/narrow minded

Ignorant

All get blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely block people. Really only block if they send an offensive message which is rare, or more often if someone keeps bugging us and doesn't seem to get the message. Don't really see the point in blocking people just because they're not for us - it won't improve our experience of Fab, means we won't be able to respond to them in the forum, means they can't Fab our pics and we can't nosey at their pics, might be extremely embarrassing if our paths cross at a party or a club, and in general closes doors.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people that I am not interested in and people that unbelievably, given my good looks, charm and charisma, aren’t interested in me. I know, I can’t believe it either, my only fault is my modesty!

Saves time and saves me from bothering those that aren’t interested in me... poor misguided fools.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"We used to block guys who looked at our profile, as it was a way of avoiding the messages and inevitable abuse when we turned (most of them) down. However our block list was huge, and apparently you can only really block about 500 before the block list for your profile is full, so we had an amnesty and so far we only have about 30 people on there, those being people who just wont take no for an answer, or those we know we don't get on with.

We can assure you that 500 isn’t true maybe 5000 we aren’t quite there yet!!"

I didn't accurately count them, but I did scroll through and do a page by page count, and there were over 800 at one point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never blocked anyone, though there are a couple of guys who keep messaging me even though I'm straight.

But since I'm a guy I don't get many messages at all so it kinda makes me feel good lol.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I block when I am blocked.

When I get the all to common well thought out 'Hi'

When someone won't take no for an answer

Lastly someone I don't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea "

I wonder if she has a spare handbag

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea

I wonder if she has a spare handbag "

You are obsessed with handbags!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"How on earth do people cope with no block button for real life?

You mean you don't have one?

I don't need one. They block me first.

I keep one in my handbag, so useful on public public transport

That definitely sounds a good idea

I wonder if she has a spare handbag "

Get back in your own thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a bloke I don’t get many messages. So even an irritating repulsive knobhead would create an interesting evening

If I ever became so popular that blocking people became an option - I’d probs be having such a good time that it wouldn’t even bother me.

Erm..... cue a collective torrent of abuse off you lot. Ha

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