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"I like people, the person inside. Skin colour, race or religion (apart from JWs they're on my shit list) wouldn't even come into it, if I liked someone. " And 'charismatic' Christians. But I'm guessing not many of either on here..  | |||
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"I like people, the person inside. Skin colour, race or religion (apart from JWs they're on my shit list) wouldn't even come into it, if I liked someone. And 'charismatic' Christians. But I'm guessing not many of either on here.. "I've spotted someone I know is a very regular church goer & a moral crusader on the local Facebook pages on here! Blocked him soon as I did well after reading his profile & veris , but I do now have a good old rib aching laugh when his posts pop up on FB! | |||
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"I like people, the person inside. Skin colour, race or religion (apart from JWs they're on my shit list) wouldn't even come into it, if I liked someone. And 'charismatic' Christians. But I'm guessing not many of either on here..
I've spotted someone I know is a very regular church goer & a moral crusader on the local Facebook pages on here!
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well after reading his profile & veris , but I do now have a good old rib aching laugh when his posts pop up on FB! "Oh wow! Hypocrisy at a new level. | |||
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"At bloody last! Well said OP! I get hacked off with all this suodo "our/my Prefferance" bull shit! (Note to those who genuinely just happen to fancy a type fair enough your view is not my issue). So much of this is based on ill informed or uninformed crap. To those of you who advertise as BBC and the like if you want to be an object and not a person that to is your choice. To the poster who said i fancy the person inside. Well said! I genuinly find people attractive and like having sex with people not things. I have had all sorts and the only good thing about the excluders is that it makes finding and enjoying the includers soooo mu h easier. And guess what excluders? We includers are having much much more Fun than you are!" So if people aren't doing it your way they can't be having as much fun?... | |||
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"There are loads of threads on here about preferences for black, white, Asian etc. I'm an equal opps fucker. I like male, female, black, white, Asian of all descriptions and I've even had a couple of blue guys. At the moment I am lucky enough to have a broad mix of friends. Who else enjoys a bit of diversity in their sex life? Let's celebrate some racial tolerance on fab!" I am agree with you within reason... but i would also say "your body, your rules".... and since it isn't a service people are giving here..... diversity is cool, but preferences take precedent! | |||
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"There are loads of threads on here about preferences for black, white, Asian etc. I'm an equal opps fucker. I like male, female, black, white, Asian of all descriptions and I've even had a couple of blue guys. At the moment I am lucky enough to have a broad mix of friends. Who else enjoys a bit of diversity in their sex life? Let's celebrate some racial tolerance on fab! I am agree with you within reason... but i would also say "your body, your rules".... and since it isn't a service people are giving here..... diversity is cool, but preferences take precedent!" Exactly! | |||
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" I've even had a couple of blue guys. ! Smurfs' "Even the smurfs are getting more sex than me !!! | |||
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"At bloody last! Well said OP! I get hacked off with all this suodo "our/my Prefferance" bull shit! (Note to those who genuinely just happen to fancy a type fair enough your view is not my issue). So much of this is based on ill informed or uninformed crap. To those of you who advertise as BBC and the like if you want to be an object and not a person that to is your choice. To the poster who said i fancy the person inside. Well said! I genuinly find people attractive and like having sex with people not things. I have had all sorts and the only good thing about the excluders is that it makes finding and enjoying the includers soooo mu h easier. And guess what excluders? We includers are having much much more Fun than you are!" Thank you! Love this post. Let's celebrate the includers. | |||
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" I am agree with you within reason... but i would also say "your body, your rules".... and since it isn't a service people are giving here..... diversity is cool, but preferences take precedent!" Of course! But let's celebrate some diversity and tolerance instead of having the repetitive discussions of limiting preferences and racial stereotypes. There's so much negativity on the forums. Let's have some positivity! | |||
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"For the avoidance of daubt i did say that those who just happen to have a Genuine Type that was cool. People like that have thought through their desires. Also," my body my choice" could not possibly disagree with that absolutly support that. The real point i am getting at here folks is that too many people seam to live in a cultural bubble that enslaves them to choices not based on experience or knowledge but on the axact opposite. For those who have had a bad experience in the past, thats awful and I feel for you, however as the old song goes, one bad apple does not spoil the whole bunch! If we worked on the theory that one bad what ever makes all those what evers bad we would all just sit in our bedrooms wanking!" Your point about a cultural bubble goes for wider society too. I personally don't think it's a good idea to even suggest that anyone is wrong for not considering sex with certain people. There's enough entitlement as it is. Leave the people who play in a way you don't agree with to their way of doing things and continue the way you want to. | |||
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" I am agree with you within reason... but i would also say "your body, your rules".... and since it isn't a service people are giving here..... diversity is cool, but preferences take precedent! Of course! But let's celebrate some diversity and tolerance instead of having the repetitive discussions of limiting preferences and racial stereotypes. There's so much negativity on the forums. Let's have some positivity!" but if you don't fancy people, then you don't fancy people..... unless you are advocating taking one for the team! the only people that are ever negative are those who for some reason think they are "owed" for being here..... those that are out there having a blast are having a blast but doing it within their own parameters... | |||
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"I will fuck anyone that I'm attracted to. They could be Asian, Caucasian, Black, thin, fat, muscular, tall, short, atheist, Christian, Muslim, Sikh, man or woman. I just have to feel attracted to them. Some would say I'll fuck anything."  I'm with you | |||
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"I will fuck anyone that I'm attracted to. They could be Asian, Caucasian, Black, thin, fat, muscular, tall, short, atheist, Christian, Muslim, Sikh, man or woman. I just have to feel attracted to them. Some would say I'll fuck anything." Me too but I will also defend other people's right not to. | |||
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"Yes of course people have a right not to. And political corectness is a bull shit term. Its about valuing people for who they are as a full package and not one or two aspects of it. I have enjoyed all types and rejected all types not based on the aspect but on the person." Great, many of us do the same but when it comes to sex nobody should be telling other people their criteria for choice is wrong. | |||
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"I'm on a crusade to establish equal oppurtunity shagging for all us short, fat, bald , hairy chested, hairy backed, ugly married men ." Are you in sales or marketing ? | |||
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"There are loads of threads on here about preferences for black, white, Asian etc. I'm an equal opps fucker. I like male, female, black, white, Asian of all descriptions and I've even had a couple of blue guys. At the moment I am lucky enough to have a broad mix of friends. Who else enjoys a bit of diversity in their sex life? Let's celebrate some racial tolerance on fab! I am agree with you within reason... but i would also say "your body, your rules".... and since it isn't a service people are giving here..... diversity is cool, but preferences take precedent!" Exactly and people shouldn't be bullied or made to feel bad because they have a preference that includes race | |||
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"I will fuck anyone that I'm attracted to. They could be Asian, Caucasian, Black, thin, fat, muscular, tall, short, atheist, Christian, Muslim, Sikh, man or woman. I just have to feel attracted to them. Some would say I'll fuck anything." As long as they're under 45 right? Ageist | |||
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"Oh and by the way. I have been a Christian by personal conviction since the age of 6. What YOU think i believe is your oppinion and the bull shit of false TV style fuckwit preachers who give christians a bad name. Christians fart shit belch and fuck! And some of this we are very good at!" hmmm not sure your fellow cristians would want you in their club  . To be nit picky you have chosen your own form of Christianity which you apply what rules you follow and i can't think of any main religion where you get to make the rules yourself lol. | |||
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"I will fuck anyone that I'm attracted to. They could be Asian, Caucasian, Black, thin, fat, muscular, tall, short, atheist, Christian, Muslim, Sikh, man or woman. I just have to feel attracted to them. Some would say I'll fuck anything. Me too but I will also defend other people's right not to." I'm not interested in who other people want to fuck. I leave them to it. | |||
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"Oh and by the way. I have been a Christian by personal conviction since the age of 6. What YOU think i believe is your oppinion and the bull shit of false TV style fuckwit preachers who give christians a bad name. Christians fart shit belch and fuck! And some of this we are very good at!hmmm not sure your fellow cristians would want you in their club . To be nit picky you have chosen your own form of Christianity which you apply what rules you follow and i can't think of any main religion where you get to make the rules yourself lol."The people who run religions and make the decisions change their minds, by interpreting the rules to suit them. That's why there are different branches of religions and we get cults. | |||
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"I'm on a crusade to establish equal oppurtunity shagging for all us short, fat, bald , hairy chested, hairy backed, ugly married men . Are you in sales or marketing ?" Both. Not doing too well at it though, maybe I'm having a Ratners moment! | |||
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"I'm on a crusade to establish equal oppurtunity shagging for all us short, fat, bald , hairy chested, hairy backed, ugly married men . Are you in sales or marketing ? Both. Not doing too well at it though, maybe I'm having a Ratners moment!" | |||
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"I will fuck anyone that I'm attracted to. They could be Asian, Caucasian, Black, thin, fat, muscular, tall, short, atheist, Christian, Muslim, Sikh, man or woman. I just have to feel attracted to them. Some would say I'll fuck anything. Me too but I will also defend other people's right not to. I'm not interested in who other people want to fuck. I leave them to it. " Exactly! | |||
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"Oh and by the way. I have been a Christian by personal conviction since the age of 6. What YOU think i believe is your oppinion and the bull shit of false TV style fuckwit preachers who give christians a bad name. Christians fart shit belch and fuck! And some of this we are very good at!hmmm not sure your fellow cristians would want you in their club . To be nit picky you have chosen your own form of Christianity which you apply what rules you follow and i can't think of any main religion where you get to make the rules yourself lol.
The people who run religions and make the decisions change their minds, by interpreting the rules to suit them. That's why there are different branches of religions and we get cults.
"Spot on. As ever each to their own of course. I respect others have their beliefs. My opinion is religion is bull. All flavours of it. Back on track. I have a preference to lighter skin tone. Won't stop me checking out and potentially meeting darker ladies. | |||
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"There are loads of threads on here about preferences for black, white, Asian etc. I'm an equal opps fucker. I like male, female, black, white, Asian of all descriptions and I've even had a couple of blue guys. At the moment I am lucky enough to have a broad mix of friends. Who else enjoys a bit of diversity in their sex life? Let's celebrate some racial tolerance on fab!" 100% equal opportunities here , regarding race , creed , colour , and even sexuality . As long as there’s an attraction and a connection it’s all good | |||
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"Oh and by the way. I have been a Christian by personal conviction since the age of 6. What YOU think i believe is your oppinion and the bull shit of false TV style fuckwit preachers who give christians a bad name. Christians fart shit belch and fuck! And some of this we are very good at!hmmm not sure your fellow cristians would want you in their club . To be nit picky you have chosen your own form of Christianity which you apply what rules you follow and i can't think of any main religion where you get to make the rules yourself lol."Good thing they dont make the decisions then is it not. As for making up my own rules, well in swinging they are interpritation and in faith well you would have to have one to understand. | |||
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"Oh and by the way. I have been a Christian by personal conviction since the age of 6. What YOU think i believe is your oppinion and the bull shit of false TV style fuckwit preachers who give christians a bad name. Christians fart shit belch and fuck! And some of this we are very good at!hmmm not sure your fellow cristians would want you in their club . To be nit picky you have chosen your own form of Christianity which you apply what rules you follow and i can't think of any main religion where you get to make the rules yourself lol.
Good thing they dont make the decisions then is it not.
As for making up my own rules, well in swinging they are interpritation and in faith well you would have to have one to understand."sorry don't do blind faith,only deal in facts and reason over here.not one for religeon as that Jesus/god dude was a right evil bastard if I was to believe that shit.stole a bible from a hotel years ago and read it while in the bath.actually a good read, read like a very good sci-fi book . | |||
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"Oh and by the way. I have been a Christian by personal conviction since the age of 6. What YOU think i believe is your oppinion and the bull shit of false TV style fuckwit preachers who give christians a bad name. Christians fart shit belch and fuck! And some of this we are very good at!hmmm not sure your fellow cristians would want you in their club . To be nit picky you have chosen your own form of Christianity which you apply what rules you follow and i can't think of any main religion where you get to make the rules yourself lol.
Good thing they dont make the decisions then is it not.
As for making up my own rules, well in swinging they are interpritation and in faith well you would have to have one to understand.sorry don't do blind faith,only deal in facts and reason over here.not one for religeon as that Jesus/god dude was a right evil bastard if I was to believe that shit.stole a bible from a hotel years ago and read it while in the bath.actually a good read, read like a very good sci-fi book ."Like no one said you must have sex with people you dont fancy no one said you had to believe in God. | |||
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"Oh and by the way. I have been a Christian by personal conviction since the age of 6. What YOU think i believe is your oppinion and the bull shit of false TV style fuckwit preachers who give christians a bad name. Christians fart shit belch and fuck! And some of this we are very good at!hmmm not sure your fellow cristians would want you in their club . To be nit picky you have chosen your own form of Christianity which you apply what rules you follow and i can't think of any main religion where you get to make the rules yourself lol.
Good thing they dont make the decisions then is it not.
As for making up my own rules, well in swinging they are interpritation and in faith well you would have to have one to understand.sorry don't do blind faith,only deal in facts and reason over here.not one for religeon as that Jesus/god dude was a right evil bastard if I was to believe that shit.stole a bible from a hotel years ago and read it while in the bath.actually a good read, read like a very good sci-fi book .
Like no one said you must have sex with people you dont fancy no one said you had to believe in God."I know nobody said I have to beleve in god what's your point lol.I simply stated you can't be a Christian as they have belefs you say yourself you don't follow therefore you have your own version of god which without even having to ask I bet is very much different than Christianity.granted I was being nit picky but I olso stated in my original comment I was being nit picky.not sure if your panties are in a twist or not so not sure if you are into answering but like I said iv read a bible.do you actully genuinely beleve it all?like the whole Noah being hundreds of years old and the earth only being 6000 years old.thought the whole nukeing of Sodom was pretty cool with that one stupid woman who was told not to look back but she did and was turned to salt lol. | |||
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"I look forward to the point where anyone - typically men - who have dared to express their friendship or interest in trans or the same gender, aren't relegated to the sin bin for their honesty. Equal opps for all, though it would mean some shifting in mindsets to alter preferences " With you Sister! | |||
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"On Christianity i am going Commando so no twists. The Bible is full of aligory and Artistic Licence. The question you should ask is not is this an exact discription but what and why is it saying here. Dueteronemy is widely believed to have been written some 2000 years after the time it is set and is a political peice attacking Roman Rule. My Faith and understanding does not come from a literalist standpoint so you cant say I have made up my own version, you can say and I am delighted if you did that I am NOT a fundementalist Science Denieing Nutwobble!" interesting.think I will start a thread on it.I find the whole concept of religeon fascinating.to me it's crazy that regular people can believe and have faith in something that was writtin by a bunch of people over a space of time and edited hundreads of times by people with there own agendas etc.I just can't understand that intelegent folk can even contemplate the idea of it. Thing is its in no way belevible and if someone wrote the bible these days they would be quite rightly labbled insane.is it a comfort thing?does it make you and a us as species feel more important? I suppose there could be a being in this universe so advanced that it may seem like a god but we just couldint comprehend it and anything I have read in a bible or anything to do with any religion just seems so ludicrous and is just a bunch of people trying to justify existence with the mindset of life 2000 years ago. | |||
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"There are loads of threads on here about preferences for black, white, Asian etc. I'm an equal opps fucker. I like male, female, black, white, Asian of all descriptions and I've even had a couple of blue guys. At the moment I am lucky enough to have a broad mix of friends. Who else enjoys a bit of diversity in their sex life? Let's celebrate some racial tolerance on fab!" It's not tolerance. It's preference . Sound the same though | |||
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"If Faith did not evolve you would be right. Superiority? No chance. comfort? Hardly. Ludicrious and crazy well they said that of the Wright Brothers as well. Love they Neighbour, unbelivable? Think you might be on the wrong site. ( that was a swinger theology gage by the way.) Religion and Faith are very different things and while i talk about faith you speak of religion. When we stop compairing apples to buffelos we might find a shared langauge to discuss. " the wright brothers used science and logic and applied it to things that actully exist and not nonsense that as you said is not supposed to be litterel and something to do with finding you own answears so can't see your point on that one.as for the love thy neighbours thing.I don't need anyone or any organisation to teach me between right and wrong as I had a mother for this and common sense in general so I would be doing her a disservice If I claimed an imaginary friend taught me to behave appropriately to others. You said you where a Christian,hense why I mentioned religeon but now you seem to be more into faith. Blind faith in what though? | |||
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"What Ever. I never said I was religious I said I was a Christian to me and Millions of others that is a faith. Oh and I will not pay you the discurtesy of blocking you as frankly thats petty, particularly as we dont PM so not sure what purpose it serves. " This could be its own thread. | |||
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"I like people, the person inside. Skin colour, race or religion (apart from JWs they're on my shit list) wouldn't even come into it, if I liked someone. " I don't know what a JW is i thought it was a rough bar/club in Bury. But your right, a person, I like the person, I've said before how blind people must have on less thing to worry about when finding atttraction, the eyes interfere for some people sometimes. | |||
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"I like people, the person inside. Skin colour, race or religion (apart from JWs they're on my shit list) wouldn't even come into it, if I liked someone. I don't know what a JW is i thought it was a rough bar/club in Bury. But your right, a person, I like the person, I've said before how blind people must have on less thing to worry about when finding atttraction, the eyes interfere for some people sometimes. " I’m going to guess Jehovas  | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. " It matters to me. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. " Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian." It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone." | |||
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"Black white red or yellow if you find someone attractive and your attracted to them then skin colour doesn't come into it ,it's the person not their race or creed your engaging with" Exactly and those attractve people cum in all colours shapes and sizes! Viva la veriety! | |||
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"There are loads of threads on here about preferences for black, white, Asian etc. I'm an equal opps fucker. I like male, female, black, white, Asian of all descriptions and I've even had a couple of blue guys. At the moment I am lucky enough to have a broad mix of friends. Who else enjoys a bit of diversity in their sex life? Let's celebrate some racial tolerance on fab! I am agree with you within reason... but i would also say "your body, your rules".... and since it isn't a service people are giving here..... diversity is cool, but preferences take precedent!" Spot on! | |||
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"There are loads of threads on here about preferences for black, white, Asian etc. I'm an equal opps fucker. I like male, female, black, white, Asian of all descriptions and I've even had a couple of blue guys. At the moment I am lucky enough to have a broad mix of friends. Who else enjoys a bit of diversity in their sex life? Let's celebrate some racial tolerance on fab! I am agree with you within reason... but i would also say "your body, your rules".... and since it isn't a service people are giving here..... diversity is cool, but preferences take precedent! Spot on! " | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone." No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian." How is having a preference racist? | |||
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"At bloody last! Well said OP! I get hacked off with all this suodo "our/my Prefferance" bull shit! (Note to those who genuinely just happen to fancy a type fair enough your view is not my issue). So much of this is based on ill informed or uninformed crap. To those of you who advertise as BBC and the like if you want to be an object and not a person that to is your choice. To the poster who said i fancy the person inside. Well said! I genuinly find people attractive and like having sex with people not things. I have had all sorts and the only good thing about the excluders is that it makes finding and enjoying the includers soooo mu h easier. And guess what excluders? We includers are having much much more Fun than you are!" Im an excluder (theres no way im going to meet guys i dont find attractive just so i can be called an includer) but im having plenty of fun thanks. | |||
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"At bloody last! Well said OP! I get hacked off with all this suodo "our/my Prefferance" bull shit! (Note to those who genuinely just happen to fancy a type fair enough your view is not my issue). So much of this is based on ill informed or uninformed crap. To those of you who advertise as BBC and the like if you want to be an object and not a person that to is your choice. To the poster who said i fancy the person inside. Well said! I genuinly find people attractive and like having sex with people not things. I have had all sorts and the only good thing about the excluders is that it makes finding and enjoying the includers soooo mu h easier. And guess what excluders? We includers are having much much more Fun than you are! Im an excluder (theres no way im going to meet guys i dont find attractive just so i can be called an includer) but im having plenty of fun thanks. " Honestly. I'd rather have no meets than meet guys I don't find attractive | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. How is having a preference racist?" Nope. It definitely isn't. If you never see a person of a different colour you find attractive, then you're under no obligation to sleep with them. But, if the only thing that's puts you off someone is the colour of their skin, then maybe there's a hint of racism to consider. This is true for all races btw, not just whites saying no to blacks. To say, "she's hot, but I wouldn't sleep with her because I'm not into Chinese girls" is different from saying "she's not my type, I've never seen a Chinese girl I like actually." | |||
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"At bloody last! Well said OP! I get hacked off with all this suodo "our/my Prefferance" bull shit! (Note to those who genuinely just happen to fancy a type fair enough your view is not my issue). So much of this is based on ill informed or uninformed crap. To those of you who advertise as BBC and the like if you want to be an object and not a person that to is your choice. To the poster who said i fancy the person inside. Well said! I genuinly find people attractive and like having sex with people not things. I have had all sorts and the only good thing about the excluders is that it makes finding and enjoying the includers soooo mu h easier. And guess what excluders? We includers are having much much more Fun than you are! Im an excluder (theres no way im going to meet guys i dont find attractive just so i can be called an includer) but im having plenty of fun thanks. Honestly. I'd rather have no meets than meet guys I don't find attractive " | |||
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"At bloody last! Well said OP! I get hacked off with all this suodo "our/my Prefferance" bull shit! (Note to those who genuinely just happen to fancy a type fair enough your view is not my issue). So much of this is based on ill informed or uninformed crap. To those of you who advertise as BBC and the like if you want to be an object and not a person that to is your choice. To the poster who said i fancy the person inside. Well said! I genuinly find people attractive and like having sex with people not things. I have had all sorts and the only good thing about the excluders is that it makes finding and enjoying the includers soooo mu h easier. And guess what excluders? We includers are having much much more Fun than you are! Im an excluder (theres no way im going to meet guys i dont find attractive just so i can be called an includer) but im having plenty of fun thanks. Honestly. I'd rather have no meets than meet guys I don't find attractive " No one asked you to. Its the reason behind why a person is considered attractive to you that is being questioned not your right to like what you like. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. How is having a preference racist? Nope. It definitely isn't. If you never see a person of a different colour you find attractive, then you're under no obligation to sleep with them. But, if the only thing that's puts you off someone is the colour of their skin, then maybe there's a hint of racism to consider. This is true for all races btw, not just whites saying no to blacks. To say, "she's hot, but I wouldn't sleep with her because I'm not into Chinese girls" is different from saying "she's not my type, I've never seen a Chinese girl I like actually."" Gold star award bang on the money. Exactly. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. " And that's that. Well said!!!! | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different." Ok then apparently I'm racist. I'm ok with that in this context. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different." I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me? | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone." No it's not. But you're basing it on their skin colour yeah?. Or features or What? | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me?" Someone who wants to try something else lol. You eat steak for a ling time,soon or later you'll get bored and want chicken. It's not that deep at all lol | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me?" Well you are compartmentalised it would seam. If a white or chinease guy fell in love with you and your children and you with him, would you really not ever consider marrying (life partnering) him? | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me? Someone who wants to try something else lol. You eat steak for a ling time,soon or later you'll get bored and want chicken. It's not that deep at all lol "100% highland Beef here, no added flavorings or colourings my brother. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me? Someone who wants to try something else lol. You eat steak for a ling time,soon or later you'll get bored and want chicken. It's not that deep at all lol "I have friends with very limited diets. My youngest is a vegan. Eating out with them is a chore, but I don't mind it occasionally. It wouldn't cross my mind to tell my daughter to try some meat because I think her choice is boring. Conversely, where do some people get off dictating how others choose their sexual partners?  | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it's not. But you're basing it on their skin colour yeah?. Or features or What?" All of those or just one. Depends on the person. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me? Well you are compartmentalised it would seam. If a white or chinease guy fell in love with you and your children and you with him, would you really not ever consider marrying (life partnering) him?" You've almost got it. For friendship, partners etc there is no colour etc. For fantasy, which this is my choices are limited. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me? Well you are compartmentalised it would seam. If a white or chinease guy fell in love with you and your children and you with him, would you really not ever consider marrying (life partnering) him? You've almost got it. For friendship, partners etc there is no colour etc. For fantasy, which this is my choices are limited." Ok thats cool and the motivation behind it clear. | |||
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"I heard it said best like this "My dick does not discriminate against race" I have features and characteristics I like and dislike, and they exist across all races. Sometimes a feature that looks great on one person might not look the same to me on a person of another race. But when a guy tells me they don't like black women, I simply say "so you'd say no to Beyoncè?" It's always met with a quick "of course not". What they're often saying is that they like predominantly white features, which aren't exclusively white. If you're hot, you're hot. It doesn't matter about the colour of your skin. It matters to me. Soooo, you're racist????? Care to explain, or are you just being contrarian. It's not racist to not want to fuck someone. No it isn't, but if the colour of someone's skin matters to you, that can be considered racist. What I'm saying is, I would sleep with anyone I found attractive, and if that person happens to be a different colour than me, then that's not a problem. What your saying in your statement sounds different. I'm black. I was married to the father of my children who is black. I may marry another black man, but for play purposes I only meet white men. How would you define me?" I'm not defining anyone, merely asking for clarification on the reasons why people may be put off by people of a particular race. However, your case is clearly different. I would never dream of saying I know why you're choosing to only play with white men, as that's something only you can really know, but it's an interesting viewpoint and if you'd like to discuss your reasonings I'd be more than happy to listen. | |||
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" first part removed due to length. I have friends with very limited diets. My youngest is a vegan. Eating out with them is a chore, but I don't mind it occasionally. It wouldn't cross my mind to tell my daughter to try some meat because I think her choice is boring. Conversely, where do some people get off dictating how others choose their sexual partners? "No one is dictating, it's more a fact finding expedition if anything. What I'm saying is, I leave everything that tickles my fancy on the table, and that makes sense for me. All I've asked is why anyone that has pre emotively struck someone off because of their race, why exactly that is? Its often met with contention and aggression though. | |||
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"I find it silly that people would set aside a whole group of people due to the colour of their skin. Why not treat every person individually!? You might be surprised who you find you're attracted to." My point, made much more elegantly. | |||
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"I find it silly that people would set aside a whole group of people due to the colour of their skin. Why not treat every person individually!? You might be surprised who you find you're attracted to." Hi5 Attraction isn't just physical there also has to be a mental attraction too, you need that chemistry and spark. As they say never judge a book by its cover x | |||
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"I find it silly that people would set aside a whole group of people due to the colour of their skin. Why not treat every person individually!? You might be surprised who you find you're attracted to." No because I know I don't find them attractive. At all. | |||
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"I like people, the person inside. Skin colour, race or religion (apart from JWs they're on my shit list) wouldn't even come into it, if I liked someone. And 'charismatic' Christians. But I'm guessing not many of either on here.. "Dont know about charismatic. But i think i do count as a very perverted catholic! Does that tick off a minority box? | |||
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"Yeah I'm an equal opportunities perv. If a person is hot and sexy, they are hot and sexy, nothing to do with the colour of their skin. " Yup same as above!!! | |||
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